She Wants a High Value Man, But HATES Being Accountable - Can You Ever Please a Woman?
Summary
TLDRDans cette vidéo, l'animateur aborde la thématique de la responsabilité des femmes et leur préférence pour les hommes à haute valeur. Il partage un témoignage d'une femme dénonçant les difficultés de la vie en couple avec un homme de cette catégorie. Il explique que les femmes souhaitent souvent être avec des hommes à haute valeur, mais rencontrent des problèmes lorsqu'ils doivent répondre à des attentes élevées et des normes rigoureuses. L'animateur insiste sur le fait que les hommes à haute valeur ne supportent pas les comportements irresponsables et ont des exigences élevées envers leurs partenaires, ce qui peut être décevant pour certaines femmes. Il conclut en soulignant que les femmes doivent être prêtes à assumer des responsabilités et à respecter des normes élevées pour être en couple avec un homme à haute valeur.
Takeaways
- 👥 L'auteur discute de la responsabilité des femmes et de leur préférence pour les hommes à haute valeur.
- 🎥 Il présente un clip vidéo où une femme exprime ses difficultés à dater un homme à haute valeur.
- 💡 Les femmes pensent vouloir dater un homme à haute valeur jusqu'à ce qu'il les tienne responsables et qu'il ait des attentes élevées.
- 🔑 L'homme à haute valeur est souvent défini par sa réussite, son apparence, sa compétence et son réseau social influent.
- 💰 Les hommes à haute valeur sont généralement riches, bien regardants, compétents et ont un statut socio-économique élevé.
- 🤔 Les femmes rencontrent des problèmes en essayant de s'adapter aux normes élevées et aux attentes des hommes à haute valeur.
- 📈 L'auteur mentionne que les femmes doivent être prêtes à assumer des responsabilités et à répondre à des attentes élevées pour dater un homme à haute valeur.
- 🚫 Les hommes à haute valeur établissent des limites claires et ne tolèrent pas le comportement inapproprié des femmes.
- 👫 Il est difficile de maintenir des relations avec des hommes à haute valeur sans renoncer à certaines libertés et relations avec d'autres personnes.
- 😅 L'auteur partage son expérience personnelle en essayant d'exiger de la responsabilité des femmes, ce qui a souvent échoué.
- 🔍 Les hommes à haute valeur doivent être habiles à distinguer les femmes de qualité et à évaluer leur compatibilité sur le long terme.
Q & A
Quel est le sujet principal de la vidéo ?
-Le sujet principal de la vidéo est la responsabilité des femmes et leur préférence pour les hommes à haute valeur.
Qu'est-ce qu'un homme à haute valeur selon le script ?
-Selon le script, un homme à haute valeur est quelqu'un qui est généralement riche, bien apparu, compétent, influent, avec un bon réseau social, capable de résoudre des problèmes et souvent gagnant des six, sept chiffres, voire plus.
Pourquoi les femmes rencontrent-elles des difficultés lorsqu'elles datent un homme à haute valeur ?
-Les femmes rencontrent des difficultés parce que ces hommes ont des normes élevées, des préférences et des limites claires qu'elles doivent respecter, ce qui peut être difficile pour certaines femmes qui ne s'y attendent pas.
Quels sont les exemples de limites que les hommes à haute valeur peuvent établir dans une relation ?
-Les exemples de limites incluent ne pas tolérer de photos provocantes sur les réseaux sociaux, interdire les voyages avec des amis du sexe féminin, et ne pas permettre de rester en contact avec des amis masculins ou des ex-petits amis.
Quels sont les défis que les hommes à haute valeur peuvent rencontrer lorsqu'ils cherchent à être en relation avec une femme ?
-Les défis comprennent la nécessité de distinguer les femmes de qualité des femmes qui ne correspondent pas à leurs normes élevées, et de s'assurer que la femme est exclusive et respectueuse des limites qu'ils établissent.
Comment le locuteur décrit-il l'idée que les femmes et la responsabilité ne s'alignent pas ?
-Le locuteur utilise une référence humoristique à un film pour montrer que les femmes et la responsabilité ne s'alignent pas, suggérant que les femmes sont moins enclines à se conformer à des normes de responsabilité.
Quelle est la citation du film 'As Good As It Gets' utilisée dans le script et à quoi sert-elle ?
-La citation utilisée est 'I take a man and then I remove reason and accountability, and that's how I write women.' Elle sert à souligner l'idée que les femmes sont souvent considérées comme étant moins rationnelles et responsables.
Quel est le conseil donné par le locuteur pour les hommes qui cherchent à séparer les femmes de qualité des autres ?
-Le conseil donné est d'avoir de bonnes compétences pour évaluer et de distinguer les femmes de qualité des femmes qui ne correspondent pas à leurs normes, en testant leur engagement et leur respect des limites sur le long terme.
Pourquoi les femmes peuvent-elles ne pas apprécier les normes imposées par les hommes à haute valeur ?
-Les femmes peuvent ne pas apprécier ces normes parce qu'elles sont restrictives et qu'elles exigent un certain niveau de dévouement et de changement de comportement qui certaines femmes peuvent ne pas être prêtes à faire.
Quel est le message final du locuteur à la fin de la vidéo ?
-Le message final est que les hommes à haute valeur ne supportent pas le nonsens et ont des options, donc ils ne se contentent pas de femmes qui ne respectent pas leurs normes. Les femmes doivent comprendre et être prêtes à répondre à ces attentes si elles veulent être en relation avec un homme à haute valeur.
Outlines
👤 Responsabilité et préférence pour les hommes à haute valeur
Le premier paragraphe aborde le thème de la responsabilité et des préférences des femmes pour les hommes à haute valeur. Il commence par une vidéo montrant une femme qui exprime ses difficultés à dater un homme à haute valeur. L'homme à haute valeur est caractérisé par des attributs tels que la richesse, l'apparence, la compétence, une bonne réseau social, une influence et la capacité à résoudre les problèmes. Ces hommes ont des options nombreuses et variées en matière de relations, ce qui les mène à établir des normes élevées pour leurs partenaires. Lorsqu'une femme cherche à être exclusive avec un homme à haute valeur, celui-ci peut établir des limites claires, comme ne pas tolérer de photos provocatrices sur les réseaux sociaux ou des voyages avec d'autres hommes. Le texte souligne que les femmes doivent comprendre que dater un homme à haute valeur implique de répondre à des attentes élevées et de s'adapter à des normes plus strictes.
😅 La difficulté de la responsabilité féminine et les attentes des hommes à haute valeur
Le deuxième paragraphe traite de la difficulté de faire preuve de responsabilité chez les femmes et des attentes des hommes à haute valeur. Il est illustré par une citation humoristique d'un film montrant que les femmes sont souvent considérées comme irrationnelles et sans compte à rendre. L'auteur partage son expérience personnelle en essayant d'imposer une responsabilité à une femme, soulignant que cela est souvent inutile. Il mentionne également les difficultés rencontrées par les hommes à haute valeur qui cherchent à appliquer les mêmes normes de responsabilité à leurs relations qu'ils appliquent à leur vie professionnelle. L'auteur insiste sur le fait que les femmes doivent être conscientes des normes élevées et des limites qu'un homme à haute valeur établira dans une relation, et que cela nécessite un engagement et une compréhension des attentes de l'homme à haute valeur.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Responsabilité
💡Homme de grande valeur (High Value Man)
💡Comptes rendus
💡Limites
💡Sélection
💡Hypergamie
💡Compétences sociales
💡Réseaux sociaux
💡Vie exclusive
💡Sélection sociale
Highlights
The video discusses the concept of 'high value men' and the challenges women face when dating them.
Women often desire to date high value men but struggle with the accountability and standards these men have.
High value men are characterized by wealth, good looks, competence, social influence, and problem-solving abilities.
These men often have high standards and set boundaries in relationships that women may find difficult to meet.
The video emphasizes that high value men do not tolerate nonsense and have options when it comes to dating.
Women who want to date high value men must be willing to meet their expectations and standards.
The speaker shares anecdotes about women who struggle with the accountability required in relationships with high value men.
High value men expect exclusivity and commitment, which can be a challenge for women used to more casual dating.
The video mentions the difficulty of holding women accountable in relationships and the resistance they often show.
The speaker humorously references a movie scene to illustrate the perceived lack of accountability in women.
The video suggests that high value men are successful because they hold themselves to high standards and expect the same from others.
Women who are not used to high standards may find it challenging to adjust when dating high value men.
The speaker shares personal experiences trying to hold women accountable and the difficulties encountered.
The video highlights the importance of vetting and testing women over time when dating as a high value man.
The speaker laughs at a video clip of a woman complaining about the standards of high value men, recognizing the irony.
The video concludes by emphasizing that high value men have the luxury of choice and do not need to settle for less.
The speaker invites viewers to share their thoughts in the comments and provides links to further resources.
Transcripts
all right what's up my brothers in this
video we're going to have a little
conversation about women accountability
and their preference for high value men
before I get into my ideas around this I
want to play this quick little video
from this gal who's complaining about
the difficulties that she's experiencing
when dating what's called a high value
man girls think that they want to date a
high value man until he starts calling
you out for not taking responsibility
before he starts holding you accountable
before he has higher standards for you
than you have for yourself talk about oh
date a high value man it's so these are
what you do to have to attract a high
value man but I've never heard anyone
talk about like actually dating a high
value man takes a totally different kind
of woman is not for the week I have
other friends who are dating like very
loving very successful perfectionist
ambitious men and L it is not for the
week all righty then high value man eh
well you know you see this phrase tossed
around a lot out there on uh the
internet especially on podcasts you'll
see usually a panel podcast I do a show
called ladies night where uh gals can
call in from all around the world but
you see these ones where they sit down
at a table often with a bunch of gals
and a few hosts and they talk about
dating some of their problems within it
and um how they solve them and the
conversations back and forth are always
interesting but the topic of high value
man always comes up now it's like a
catchphrase hvm it's been turned into an
acronym women all want to be with a top
shelf man they want to be with a guy
that other women want to be with and
other men want to be this is essentially
what a high value man is and they run
into problems when they do it because
they think that they can get away with
the [ __ ] that they do with other guys
when you know that they date I.E keeping
male friends around I.E you know we're
going to Vegas this weekend with the
girls so I'll be back in 4 days high
value men have boundaries they have
preferences they are able to set the
boundaries and have preferences because
the way that they have structured their
life let's define how they've generally
structured their life they're generally
wealthy they're good-looking they're
competent they have a good social
network uh they're influential they're
able to solve problems they often times
uh make well into six figures sometimes
even seven figures they have a net worth
of seven figures sometimes into eight or
nine figures they are spoiled for Choice
when it comes to women generally
speaking the vast majority of women out
there are competing for the attention of
the topshelf men uh that's all hypergamy
is it's dating across and up on a
socioeconomic scale but women prefer to
date up so what ends up happening they
find a high value guy the high value guy
then starts dating this woman he's
probably got options at some point this
woman is going to come to him and be
like hey where do we stand I dig your
Vibe where is this going are you seeing
anybody else can we be exclusive I want
to have a family blah blah blah blah
whatever the narrative happens to be
okay that's generally when the high
value man will look at her and be like
okay that's interesting I like you too
and if he chooses to be in a committed
relationship with her he generally then
at that time has a conversation about
anything that might be potentially
problematic or even looking like a deal
breaker for him for example he's
probably dating a bunch of other women
right now she's coming to him and going
hey I want to be exclusive I want your
undivided attention he may or may not
choose to give that to her let's just
say that he decides to to uh choose her
as she's already chosen him he's
probably at that point going to be like
look dig your Vibe too but I've noticed
on social media you post a lot of
provocative sexy photographs to the
public I don't really take women
seriously that do that okay no problem
I'll stop that or I'll delete my
Instagram or I'll make it private or
I'll stop po okay good then he might say
something like well one of the other
things that I have a boundary around is
I don't let a gal that I've taken
seriously that I've invited into my life
go away for weekends with their
girlfriends no more Vegas trips no more
Cancun no more ABA No More Travel Europe
for 2 months in the summer if you want
to claim me then you're mine and I need
to know that you're going to be
exclusive to me so this is a boundary
that I can't have you crush you
understand okay no problem hi Val man no
problem you know we're good I also
notice you have guy friends you know you
can't be hanging around dudes if you
know I'm going to take you seriously why
do you keep these men from your past
around these ex-boyfriends these uh you
know friends he's just a friend uh
because high value men know that nobody
bangs more girlfriends and wives than
he's just a friend so he'll set that
boundary so as you start stacking you
know a lot of these uh boundaries up
that these high value men will set when
dealing with a attractive women over the
long-term basis that's when you get
these Notions of like oh it's not for
the week I don't know if you gals can
take it but you know dealing with a high
valy man is going to mean that he's
going to hold you to higher standards
than you hold yourself yeah what did you
think was going to happen did you like
he set all these standards in his life
he doesn't drive he doesn't have a bus
pass he doesn't drive a cheap [ __ ]
20-year-old car that's a rust bucket he
probably has multiple new cars he
probably travels a lot he probably has
multiple streams of income he probably
has a social network that's influential
and potentially maybe even intimidating
to some women because of some of the
things that he does and some of the
events that he goes to these these gals
that want a high value man need to
understand that he's going to have some
standards and boundaries that she can't
cross so we're talking about
accountability women in accountability
it's like oil and water they just don't
go together there's a funny ass scene
from a movie I think it's called As Good
As It Gets it's with Jack Nicholson and
the female character runs up to him at
the elevator and she says how do you
write women so well or something to that
effect and he says I take a man and then
I remove reason and accountability and
that's how he does it essentially so
it's funny because it's true everything
you know with comedy always has some
truth to it that's why we laugh at
standup Comics so loudly and fall out of
our seats and tears even though it might
come at the expense of somebody at the
joke but it's true women and
accountability don't align I've tried
holding women accountable in the past
I'm going to tell you a quick story
years ago I was dating this professional
very successful in her career thought
she was rational thought she would uh
understand you know uh logic and reason
I've said this before you know women
don't like letting logic and reason get
in the way of their emotional Hissy Fits
when it comes to arguments or
disagreements so it is a reality of what
you're dealing with I mean you know
she's at my office and I'm on the
whiteboard in the boardroom and I'm
breaking down exactly what she's doing
wrong and why she needs to be held
accountable to it and it just doesn't
work I spent way too much time in my
past trying to hold women accountable
you see these gals on these podcasts and
the hosts try to hold them accountable
I've had women on my podcast on ladies
night where they'll say something
completely outrageous or out of line and
you explain it to them step byep St and
there's no accountability holding women
accountable to standards is very very
difficult this is one of the problems
that a lot of high value men run into is
they think look I've done all these
things in my life I've done them because
I'm a weapon I want to put a dent in the
universe I work hard I take ownership if
something doesn't work I look in the
mirror and I hold that mofo accountable
to the standards that I've set and they
want to try to use the same thing when
it comes to women and I think like this
gal said there's a lot of Truth truth to
it you know she's got to have a lot of
gumption to deal with a guy that is a
high value man so there's that notion
it's very very difficult don't think for
a second that as you climb you know the
socioeconomic ladder as a guy Things
become automatic one of the great
misquotes that that people take from the
statements that I make is they're like
oh so rich says that if I just do all
the work the women will just line up at
the front door of my house and I'll have
to install a revolving door because
there'll be so many [ __ ] that want me
and it's like no dude that's not how it
works you're still going to have to
separate the wheat from the chop the
difference is there's going to be a lot
for you to separate you're going to have
to be doing a lot of work to separate
the good from the bad you're just going
to have more to choose from and again
once you've you know had that that you
know that conversation that dialogue the
Where Do We Stand conversation that's
when you can take a look at your options
and entertain what it is that you want
whether you want to pick a girlfriend
mother's stock for kids if that's what
you want if you want to continue to date
multiple women simultaneous in a non-
monogamous fashion sort of thing while
they're exclusive to you there's any
number of things that you can and can't
do when it comes to dating but the key
thing is you've got the options to do
them once you become a high value man
and you have to get good at vetting good
from bad you have to get good at
deciphering uh the actors from the
actual high quality women you have to
test them over time is what it boils
down to I laughed my ass off when I saw
this video because I knew exactly what
was going on in her head she's like oh I
want to lock down a high value guy and
it's like all of a sudden she's got him
and now he's got all these standards and
she doesn't like them she doesn't like
that she can't keep male friends around
she doesn't like that she can't go away
for the weekend with her girlfriends
anymore you know she does she doesn't
like those things because they're what
high value men will set as far as
standards in the relationship when
dealing with a women they don't put up
with nonsense because they don't need to
the only guys that put up with nonsense
and horrible women are the kind of guys
that don't have options and these women
don't really like these guys over the
long term anyway they find them
extremely unattractive and disgusting
over time you guys let me know what you
think in the comments below I thought
that video clip was highly entertaining
and hilarious Pinn in the top comment
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