Adab Kepada Teman

Summary

This video discusses essential manners towards friends in Islam, emphasizing the importance of respect, kindness, and good communication. It highlights key practices such as greeting friends with a sincere 'salam,' smiling when meeting, using kind words, asking permission before borrowing items, and being quick to apologize and forgive. The video also stresses avoiding disputes and fostering harmonious relationships. By following these etiquettes, one can strengthen bonds with friends, as well as reflect positive values of humility, kindness, and mutual respect in everyday interactions.

Takeaways

• 😀 Greet friends with Salam when meeting or parting as a sign of love and respect.
• 😀 Always smile when meeting friends to create a positive and welcoming atmosphere.
• 😀 Call your friends by good and respectful names to maintain harmony in relationships.
• 😀 Speak kindly and politely to friends; good words can protect you from negative consequences.
• 😀 Ask for permission before borrowing items from friends and ensure to return them promptly.
• 😀 Always express gratitude when returning borrowed items and thank your friends for their kindness.
• 😀 Apologize when you have wronged someone, and be ready to forgive others to maintain healthy relationships.
• 😀 Avoid disputes with friends to preserve peace and strengthen your bond.
• 😀 Islam emphasizes the importance of good character and treatment of others in friendships.
• 😀 Cultivate a positive environment by practicing these etiquettes daily to foster stronger friendships.

Q & A

What is the first etiquette to follow when meeting or parting with a friend?

The first etiquette is to greet your friend with 'salam' (peace) when meeting and parting. This greeting shows affection and respect towards one another.

Why is it important to smile or maintain a cheerful expression when meeting a friend?

Smiling or maintaining a cheerful expression when meeting a friend helps to create a happy and welcoming atmosphere, making the encounter more pleasant for both individuals.

What does the Quran say about arrogance or pride in human interactions?

The Quran warns against arrogance and pride, stating that one should not turn their face away from others in pride or walk on earth with arrogance, as Allah does not like the arrogant. This is mentioned in Surah Luqman, Ayah 18.

What should we call our friends when referring to them?

We should call our friends using good and respectful terms, avoiding any offensive or negative words, as this maintains positive and harmonious relationships.

What does the Quran say about speaking kindly to others?

The Quran emphasizes the importance of speaking kindly and using good words towards others. Kind words are a form of charity that can protect one from the punishment of Hell, as indicated by a hadith from Prophet Muhammad.

How important is it to ask permission before borrowing something from a friend?

It is essential to ask for permission before borrowing something from a friend, as this shows respect for their belongings. If permission is granted, one should take good care of the borrowed item and return it promptly.

What should we do when borrowing something and after returning it?

When borrowing an item, always seek permission first and ensure the item is returned promptly and in good condition. After returning it, it is courteous to thank the friend by saying 'jazakumullah khairan' (may Allah reward you).

Why is it important to apologize when we make a mistake with a friend?

Apologizing when we make a mistake is important as it helps to mend the relationship and prevent animosity. Not apologizing can lead to unresolved conflicts and distance between friends.

What is the Islamic perspective on forgiving others?

Islam encourages forgiveness, reminding us that forgiving others leads to personal elevation and Allah's blessings. As stated in a hadith, when one forgives, Allah will increase their honor and status.

How can we avoid conflicts or disagreements with friends?

To avoid conflicts, it is important to foster a spirit of mutual affection and understanding. Always approach disagreements with kindness and strive to resolve them peacefully, maintaining the friendship.