Tactics and Mind Games of the Female Covert Narcissist
Summary
TLDRThis video script discusses the tactics female covert narcissists use in relationships, focusing on how they attract and manipulate partners. It outlines the 'FILL' characteristics (Protector, Helper, Integrity, Loving) that narcissists seek, and the stages of luring, reeling, and anchoring victims. The script emphasizes that there's no happy ending with a narcissist and advises recognizing these patterns to protect oneself from such relationships.
Takeaways
- 🚨 Recognize the traps and tactics used by female covert narcissists to ensnare you in a relationship.
- 🔍 Understand that the information is for education and not to blame or shame, but to help identify vulnerabilities.
- 🚫 Remember that there is no happy ending in a relationship with a female covert narcissist.
- 🔑 Identify the two types of partners a female covert narcissist seeks: another narcissist or someone with the 'PHIL' characteristics.
- 🎣 Be aware of the luring stage where she uses charm, vulnerability, and sex to draw you in.
- 🕸️ Realize that she maps out your emotional landscape to find insecurities and fears to exploit later.
- 🤔 Notice the reeling phase where she creates scenarios to make you feel guilty and extract promises.
- 📍 Understand the anchoring process where she uses your integrity against you to ensure you won't leave.
- 🔄 Be cautious of the push-pull cycle that confuses and erodes your sense of self and individuality.
- 🏃♂️ If you manage to break free, do not go back as there are no strings attached with a narcissist.
Q & A
What is the main purpose of the video script?
-The main purpose of the video script is to help individuals recognize the tactics used by female covert narcissists in relationships and to understand why they may not leave even when they see red flags. It aims to educate viewers about narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and provide strategies for protection and self-preservation.
What are the two types of partners that a female covert narcissist is typically attracted to?
-A female covert narcissist is typically attracted to two types of partners: another narcissist, which can occur through a process called assortative mating, and individuals with key characteristics described by the acronym FILL (Protector, Helper, Integrity, Loving).
What does the acronym 'FILL' stand for and why is it significant?
-The acronym 'FILL' stands for Protector, Helper, Integrity, and Loving. It is significant because these are the key characteristics that a female covert narcissist seeks in a partner, as these traits make individuals more susceptible to being manipulated and controlled.
How does a female covert narcissist use sex as a weapon during the luring phase?
-During the luring phase, a female covert narcissist uses sex as a weapon by 'sex bombing' the target, which means bringing out a passionate and sexually exciting side that the target may not have known existed. This tactic is used to emotionally and sexually excite the target, making them more likely to become invested in the relationship.
What is the role of vulnerability in the initial stages of a relationship with a female covert narcissist?
-Vulnerability plays a crucial role in the initial stages of a relationship with a female covert narcissist as it is used to lure the target in by creating a false sense of trust and connection. The narcissist opens up quickly and appears to share deep, personal information, which encourages the target to reciprocate and feel like they are the only one who can save and protect her.
How does a female covert narcissist map out a person emotionally during the luring phase?
-During the luring phase, a female covert narcissist maps out a person emotionally by asking numerous questions and engaging in deep conversations. This process allows her to identify the target's insecurities, fears, and secrets, which she can later use to manipulate and control them.
What is the significance of the 'pulling away' tactic used by a female covert narcissist?
-The 'pulling away' tactic is significant because it is a method used by a female covert narcissist to reinforce the target's commitment and investment in the relationship. By creating a fake scenario or expressing fear of being hurt, she elicits promises and reassurances, which serve to 'anchor' the target to her.
Why is integrity important in the context of a relationship with a female covert narcissist?
-Integrity is important because a female covert narcissist exploits the target's value of keeping promises and commitments. By getting the target to repeat promises, she anchors them further into the relationship, making it difficult for them to leave due to their sense of duty and commitment.
What is the push-pull cycle, and how does it manifest in a relationship with a female covert narcissist?
-The push-pull cycle is a form of emotional manipulation where the female covert narcissist alternates between showing affection and admiration (pulling in) and then criticizing and devaluing the target (pushing away). This creates a confusing and emotionally taxing environment that keeps the target off-balance and dependent on her approval.
How does a female covert narcissist use separation from friends and family as a control tactic?
-A female covert narcissist uses separation from friends and family as a control tactic by fostering jealousy and insecurity in the target. She may threaten to leave or become overly possessive, ensuring that the target focuses solely on her and becomes isolated from their support network, making it harder for them to leave the relationship.
What advice does the video script offer to someone who has recognized they are in a relationship with a female covert narcissist?
-The video script advises that if someone recognizes they are in a relationship with a female covert narcissist, they should not stay for the wrong reasons such as promises or the belief that they can help or save the narcissist. It emphasizes that love in such a relationship is not genuine and that the best course of action is to leave and cut ties completely.
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