Muslim Revert Asks Important Questions | Hashim | Sh. Ibn Hazm

Summary

This heartfelt conversation touches on a new Muslim's personal struggles with faith, grief, and lifestyle choices in the Western context. The individual shares concerns about the afterlife of a loved one who passed away under tragic circumstances, questions the permissibility of participating in non-Islamic traditions like Christmas, and seeks advice on balancing a career in the arts with Islamic values. The dialogue emphasizes Allah's mercy, guidance, and the importance of continuous learning, with suggestions for spiritual growth and practical steps, such as memorizing Quranic surahs and learning to pray. Support resources for new Muslims are also provided, reinforcing the journey of faith.

Takeaways

• 😀 Trust in Allah's mercy: No matter the hardships or personal struggles, one should never despair in Allah's mercy, as only Allah knows the extent of a person's trials and challenges.
• 😀 Islamic view on suicide: Islam acknowledges depression and mental illness, and emphasizes that Allah is the ultimate judge on the fate of those who die by suicide, based on their circumstances and knowledge.
• 😀 Participating in non-Islamic holidays: It's permissible to visit family during non-Islamic holidays, like Christmas, as long as the religious aspects are not celebrated or endorsed.
• 😀 Transitioning from arts to more Islamically aligned work: While it’s advised to find a more suitable job over time, one should not leave their current work until a suitable alternative is found. Allah will replace it with something better.
• 😀 Age of accountability in Islam: Children are taught Islamic practices like Salah and Qur'an recitation starting from around the age of 7, though some begin earlier. Full religious responsibility begins at puberty.
• 😀 The importance of trusting Allah in all aspects of life: If you trust Allah and make sincere efforts, Allah will provide opportunities and blessings that are beyond your expectations.
• 😀 The value of small surahs in Islam: Memorizing shorter surahs, especially the last ten surahs of the Qur'an, is an important first step in one’s Islamic journey and brings great reward.
• 😀 Islam's approach to work and lifestyle: The pursuit of work and lifestyle should align with one’s faith. Avoid environments that could negatively influence one’s connection to Allah and faith.
• 😀 Islamic mentorship for new Muslims: New Muslims are encouraged to seek guidance through mentorship, private sessions with knowledgeable individuals, and online resources to better understand Islam and integrate it into their lives.
• 😀 Learning through community resources: There are many free online resources available for new Muslims, such as Qur'an downloads, prayer tutorials, and mentors to guide them in their faith journey.

Q & A

Is it okay to not participate in Christmas celebrations even though you're living in a predominantly Christian or liberal society?

Yes, it's okay to not celebrate Christmas if you don't believe in its religious significance. While it's fine to visit family and share meals, participating in religious aspects of Christmas, like celebrating the birth of Jesus as the Savior, is not compatible with Islamic teachings.

How does Islam view individuals who struggle with mental health issues, such as depression or self-harm?

Islam acknowledges that mental health struggles, including depression and self-harm, are real issues. Allah's mercy is vast, and Muslims are not to despair over these challenges. Judgment is left to Allah, who alone knows the full extent of a person's circumstances, including those who may not have received the message of Islam.

What should someone do if they are in a job that conflicts with their Islamic beliefs?

It is advised not to leave your job immediately but to search for another job that aligns better with your Islamic values. Trust in Allah's provision, as He will replace what you leave for His sake with something better.

How can a new Muslim start integrating Islamic practices into their daily life?

New Muslims should begin by focusing on essential practices like learning Salah (prayer) and reciting the Qur'an. Starting with the last 10 Surahs of the Qur'an is a good approach, as these Surahs are short and offer significant reward when recited regularly.

At what age should children begin learning and practicing Islam?

Children can begin learning about Islam from the age of 5 to 7. At this age, they can start learning about Salah and Qur'anic recitation. While they are not accountable for their actions until puberty, early training helps develop good habits.

Can a new Muslim intercede for others, and if so, for whom?

A new Muslim can intercede for other believers. However, intercession is only valid for those who are followers of Islam. It does not apply to non-Muslims or those who are not part of the faith.

What should someone do if they feel unsatisfied with their current lifestyle after embracing Islam?

It's important to seek work or activities that align with your faith and values. If your current lifestyle feels unfulfilling, try to focus on learning about Islam, dedicating your time to studying the religion, and finding a new job or career path that supports your spiritual journey.

How can a new Muslim deepen their understanding of the Qur'an?

Start with the smaller Surahs, like the last 10 Surahs, which have great reward. Regular listening to the Qur'an, focusing on understanding its meanings, and using apps with tafsirs (commentaries) can help deepen your understanding over time.

What is the significance of the last 10 Surahs of the Qur'an for a new Muslim?

The last 10 Surahs are short but hold great significance, offering the reward of reciting an entire Qur'an when recited three times. These Surahs also encapsulate a third of the Qur'an's message, emphasizing the themes of the faith and its core beliefs.

What should a new Muslim do if they feel lost or unsure about where to begin their journey in Islam?

New Muslims can benefit from reaching out to mentorship programs and resources specifically designed for their needs. Many organizations offer one-on-one sessions with mentors, free Quranic materials, prayer guidance, and educational resources that can help guide them on their journey.