Role Play: Teknik Konseling Individu

Summary

This transcript depicts a conversation between Panji, a 30-year-old chef struggling with drug addiction, and a supportive figure who helps him confront his issues. Panji's addiction to methamphetamine has caused him to deteriorate at work, strain relationships, especially with his mother, and face legal trouble. He expresses frustration with his mother's constant nagging, feeling misunderstood and unsupported. The dialogue explores his emotional turmoil and his willingness to improve communication with his mother and seek help. Ultimately, the conversation offers a path toward recovery through better understanding and communication.

Takeaways

• 😀 Panji is a 30-year-old chef who started his career five years ago in a prestigious hotel, gaining recognition for his cooking skills.
• 😀 Despite his success, Panji became addicted to methamphetamine (sabu), using it to stay fit for work, which eventually affected his performance.
• 😀 Panji's work deteriorated as he began arriving late, skipping work, and failing to focus, leading to complaints about his cooking quality.
• 😀 Panji's addiction led to a strained relationship with his family, especially his mother, who disapproved of his behavior and drug use.
• 😀 After being caught buying drugs, Panji was arrested and entered a rehabilitation program as part of the legal process.
• 😀 Panji struggles with anger, frustration, and emotional instability due to his drug addiction and family issues.
• 😀 Panji's mother constantly accuses him of drug use, which exacerbates his frustration and contributes to his feeling of being misunderstood.
• 😀 Panji frequently seeks refuge with friends in cafes to avoid confrontation and the negative atmosphere at home.
• 😀 Panji has a strong desire for his mother to stop criticizing him and to treat him with understanding, even when he makes mistakes.
• 😀 The conversation highlights the importance of open communication with family, especially Panji's need to express his feelings to his mother to improve their relationship and aid in his recovery.

Q & A

What led to Panji's drug addiction?

Panji's drug addiction started as a way for him to stay 'fit' and maintain energy for his work as a chef. He used methamphetamine (sabu) to cope with the physical demands of his job but gradually became dependent on it, which led to further problems.

How did Panji's drug use affect his career?

Panji's drug use negatively impacted his job performance. He began arriving late to work, skipping shifts, and delivering poor-quality dishes, which led to complaints from his colleagues and bosses. His performance deteriorated to the point where he was threatened with termination.

How did Panji's family respond to his drug use?

Panji's family, particularly his mother, was concerned about his drug use. She frequently criticized him and accused him of being on drugs, which led to a strained relationship. Eventually, his parents kicked him out due to his addiction, and this created more emotional distress for Panji.

What was Panji's reaction to his mother's concerns?

Panji felt frustrated and misunderstood by his mother. He resented her constant accusations and felt she was not supportive, which made him more angry and defensive. This frustration led him to use drugs more often as a way to escape his emotions.

How did Panji feel about his situation after his arrest?

After his arrest, Panji felt as though he had hit a wall. He described the feeling as being 'slammed into a wall,' realizing the consequences of his actions but still struggling to break free from his addiction. Despite this, he continued to feel conflicted and blamed external factors, like his mother, for his behavior.

What did the therapist suggest as a solution to Panji's issues?

The therapist suggested improving communication between Panji and his mother. By expressing his feelings calmly and avoiding anger, Panji could begin to repair their relationship, which might help him address his drug addiction. The therapist encouraged Panji to practice better communication techniques.

What was Panji's emotional state throughout the conversation?

Panji's emotional state fluctuated between frustration, anger, and moments of self-awareness. He was clearly struggling with his addiction, feeling trapped by his circumstances, and conflicted about the impact his behavior had on those around him, especially his mother.

How did Panji justify his continued drug use?

Panji justified his continued drug use by saying that it helped him manage the stress and emotional pain he was experiencing. He felt that the drugs allowed him to cope with the pressure of his job and the emotional tension at home, particularly his strained relationship with his mother.

What role did Panji's mother play in his addiction?

Panji's mother played a significant role in his addiction by constantly accusing him of using drugs and nagging him, which made him feel distrusted and misunderstood. While her behavior stemmed from concern, it inadvertently contributed to Panji's emotional turmoil, making him more resistant to change.

What did the therapist believe about Panji's relationship with his mother?

The therapist believed that Panji's mother's behavior, though frustrating, came from a place of care and concern. The therapist suggested that Panji try to understand his mother's worries and communicate better, as this could potentially lead to a more supportive and understanding relationship that would help in his recovery.