Perls con Gloria, subtítulos en castellano
Summary
TLDRLa transcripción presenta una terapia en la que el terapeuta busca ayudar a la paciente a recuperar su potencial perdido y afrontar sus conflictos internos. El enfoque es enfocarse en el presente y no en el pasado o el futuro, con el objetivo de que la paciente desarrolle su auto-soporte en lugar de manipular el entorno. La paciente muestra resistencia, utilizando tácticas como sonreír a pesar de su miedo o fantasear con esconderse en una esquina, lo que el terapeuta interpreta como un mecanismo de defensa. A lo largo de la sesión, la paciente oscila entre la necesidad de ser respetada y la de ser rescatada, proyectando sus propias inseguridades sobre el terapeuta. El terapeuta busca fomentar una mayor autenticidad y conexión, poniendo de manifiesto la incongruencia entre la conducta verbal y no verbal de la paciente y ayudando a que asimile sus proyecciones. La sesión termina con una reflexión sobre los avances y los desafíos que presenta el proceso terapéutico.
Takeaways
- 🧘 La terapia de cristal se basa en la ecuación: conciencia = tiempo agradable = realidad, en contraste con la psicología profunda que busca entender lo obvio en la superficie de la situación.
- 🚫 La terapia busca evitar la fuga hacia el futuro o el pasado, enfocándose en el encuentro continuo en el presente.
- 🧩 El objetivo de la terapia es ayudar al paciente a recuperar su potencial perdido y a integrar polaridades conflictivas, comprendiendo la diferencia entre el juego y el comportamiento genuino.
- 💪 La terapia busca fortalecer la eficiencia y el bienestar del paciente al transformar energías de manipulación del entorno en autoapoyo y desarrollo de recursos internos.
- 🛡 La situación terapéutica segura proporciona un espacio para que el paciente tome riesgos y se transforme, lo que se denomina madurez.
- 📚 La técnica básica de la terapia es explicar al paciente y proporcionar oportunidades para que él mismo comprenda y descubra su potencial.
- 🚫 Se considera un error terapéutico realizar interpretaciones, ya que implica que el terapeuta entiende mejor al paciente que él mismo, quitándole la oportunidad de descubrirse a sí mismo.
- 🤔 Se desestima la mayoría del contenido verbal del paciente, concentrándose en el nivel no verbal, que es menos propenso a la autoengaño y donde emerge la gestalt relevante.
- 😕 El paciente muestra miedo y resistencia a enfrentarse a sus propias inseguridades y debilidades, utilizando la sonrisa y la falsa indiferencia como mecanismos de defensa.
- 🤝 El deseo del paciente de ser reconocido y respetado como un ser humano con emociones genuinas, más allá de su máscara de control y superioridad, indica un progreso en la terapia.
- 🔄 La dinámica de la sesión muestra la lucha interna del paciente entre la necesidad de apoyo y la lucha por la independencia, oscilando entre la vulnerabilidad y la fuerza.
Q & A
¿Qué terapia se describe en el transcrito?
-Se describe una terapia que se enfoca en la conciencia y el desarrollo de la situación actual, en lugar de profundizar en el pasado o el futuro. La terapia busca ayudar al paciente a recuperar su potencial perdido y a integrar polaridades contradictorias.
¿Cuál es el objetivo principal de la terapia según el transcrito?
-El objetivo principal es que el paciente recupere su potencial perdido, integre las polaridades contradictorias y comprenda la diferencia entre el juego superficial y el comportamiento genuinamente auténtico y seguro.
¿Por qué la terapia considera que cualquier interpretación es un error terapéutico?
-La interpretación se considera un error porque implica que el terapeuta entiende mejor al paciente que él mismo, privando al paciente de la oportunidad de descubrir y entenderse a sí mismo y de encontrar sus propios valores.
¿Cómo se enfoca la atención del terapeuta durante la terapia?
-El terapeuta se enfoca en el nivel no verbal, ya que es menos propenso a la autoengañarse en la autoexpresión verbal y es donde el gestalt relevante emerge para ser abordado en el aquí y ahora.
¿Qué táctica utiliza el terapeuta para ayudar al paciente a enfrentarse a sí mismo?
-El terapeuta manipula y frustra al paciente de tal manera que éste se enfrenta a sí mismo, lo que permite al paciente identificarse con su potencial perdido y actuar de forma más auténtica.
¿Cómo se describe la dinámica de la entrevista en el transcrito?
-La entrevista muestra una dinámica compleja donde el paciente oscila entre sentirse vulnerable y tratar de mantener el control, mientras que el terapeuta intenta desafiar y confrontar al paciente para promover un mayor entendimiento de sí mismo.
¿Qué tipo de resistencia emocional se identifica en el paciente?
-Se identifica una resistencia emocional que se manifiesta en la forma de una máscara de sonrisa y sofisticación, y en la retirada al fantasear con esconderse en una esquina, lo que refleja una lucha interna entre la necesidad de apoyo y la independencia.
¿Qué papel juegan las emociones en la dinámica terapéutica descrita?
-Las emociones juegan un papel central en la terapia, ya que el terapeuta busca que el paciente experimente y exprese sus emociones genuinas, en lugar de ocultarlas o actuar de forma superficial.
¿Cómo se describe el concepto de 'madurez' en el marco de la terapia?
-La madurez se refiere al proceso por el cual el paciente aprende a depender de sus propios recursos y a estar emocional, intelectual y económicamente independiente, lo que lleva a la disminución de su necesidad de terapia.
¿Cuál es el papel de la proyección en la terapia?
-La proyección es un mecanismo psicológico que el paciente utiliza para externalizar aspectos de su personalidad que no está dispuesto a aceptar, proyectándolos sobre el terapeuta. El terapeuta busca ayudar al paciente a asimilar estas proyecciones y a reconocer su propia potencialidad.
¿Cómo se relaciona el concepto de 'juego' con la terapia?
-El 'juego' se refiere a las formas en que el paciente interactúa con el mundo y los demás, y cómo estas interacciones a menudo reflejan comportamientos superficiales o inauténticos. La terapia busca ayudar al paciente a distinguir entre el juego superficial y el comportamiento auténtico.
Outlines
🧘 Terapia de Cristales y Autoconocimiento
Se describe la terapia de cristales, donde se busca la conciencia y el desarrollo de la situación actual. Se enfatiza la importancia de recuperar el potencial perdido y la integración de polaridades en conflicto. La terapia busca transformar la energía de manipulación del entorno en autoapoyo, lo que se denomina madurez. La técnica básica es explicar al paciente y proporcionar oportunidades para que se entienda y descubra a sí mismo, manipulando y frustrando al paciente para que se enfrente a sí mismo y recupere su potencial.
🤔 Interacción y Defensa en la Terapia
Este párrafo muestra una dinámica de terapia donde el paciente expresa su miedo y defensa hacia el terapeuta. Se discute la actitud del paciente de querer sentirse más relajado y menos defensivo. Se exploran las emociones de miedo, defensa e incomodidad, y cómo el paciente busca que el terapeuta sea más explícito y no lo juzgue. La interacción incluye un intercambio sobre la autenticidad y la percepción de ser un "show-off" o alguien que finge.
😕 Expectativas y Demandas en la Relación Terapéutica
El paciente expresa su deseo de que el terapeuta sea más humano y no lo juzgue por sus acciones cuando está nervioso. Se discute la diferencia entre la imaginación y la realidad de las acciones del paciente. El paciente busca que el terapeuta acepte sus acciones y no la ponga en defensa. Se refleja la dinámica de poder y la percepción de superioridad en la relación terapéutica, y cómo el paciente siente que debe ser fuerte para ser respetado.
😠 Confrontación de Emociones y Jugando al Juego
Este párrafo muestra una conversación donde el paciente siente que el terapeuta está juzgándolo y se siente desconectado de él. Se discute la idea de que el terapeuta no parece afectado por las emociones del paciente y cómo esto lleva al paciente a querer más contacto y reconocimiento. Se refleja la frustración del paciente por la falta de conexión y la preferencia por una interacción más genuina, incluso si involucra conflicto.
😢 Lucha entre la Fortaleza y la Vulnerabilidad
El paciente expresa su lucha interna entre mostrar fuerza y ocultar su vulnerabilidad. Se discute la idea de que el paciente solo se siente respetado cuando es agresivo y fuerte, y cómo esto le impide mostrar su lado débil. Se explora la posibilidad de que el paciente quiera ser consolado pero también teme ser vulnerable. El terapeuta reconoce que el paciente puede ser herido y tocar sus emociones, lo que indica una conexión más profunda.
📚 Análisis Terapéutico y Cierre del Encuentro
El terapeuta proporciona un análisis de la sesión, destacando cómo el paciente evitó el encuentro genuino a través de la máscara de una persona sofisticada y controladora, la fantasía de esconderse en una esquina y el deseo de llorar para expresar emociones auténticas. Se describe cómo el paciente proyectó varias fantasías sobre el terapeuta y cómo la terapia ayudó a识别 (identificar) estas proyecciones. El terapeuta también destaca la importancia de mostrar la inconsistencia entre el comportamiento verbal y no verbal y trabajar en la eliminación de la falsedad en la vida del paciente.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Terapia de Cristales
💡Gestalt
💡Resistencia
💡Autoapoyo
💡Proyección
💡Interpretación
💡Nivel No Verbal
💡Seguridad en la Terapia
💡Maturación
💡Fantasía de Refugio
💡Proyección y Asimilación
Highlights
Crystal therapy operates on the equation awareness equals pleasant time equals reality, focusing on the present moment.
The therapy aims to help patients recover their lost potential and integrate conflicting polarities.
Patients are encouraged to understand the difference between gameplay and genuine, authentic behavior.
The therapeutic process is designed to transform energies from manipulating the environment to developing self-support.
Maturation is the process by which patients learn to stand on their own feet emotionally, intellectually, and economically.
The basic technique involves explaining things to the patient and providing opportunities for self-discovery.
The therapist manipulates and frustrates the patient to confront themselves, avoiding direct interpretation to prevent therapeutic mistakes.
Non-verbal communication is emphasized as it is less subject to self-deception than verbal expression.
The therapist confronts the patient's fear of being vulnerable and the tendency to act defensively.
The patient expresses a desire for the therapist to be more human and less authoritative.
The patient and therapist explore the dynamics of respect, vulnerability, and the need for genuine connection.
The patient's fear of showing weakness and the potential judgment from the therapist are discussed.
The therapist identifies the patient's avoidance of genuine encounter through control, withdrawal, and emotional manipulation.
The session concludes with the therapist summarizing the patient's behavior and the therapeutic factors at play.
The therapist emphasizes the importance of addressing the patient's existential embarrassment and the need to eliminate phoniness.
The patient's oscillation between feeling superior and feeling vulnerable is highlighted as a key area for therapeutic work.
The therapeutic approach focuses on the here and now, avoiding escape into the future or past.
Transcripts
foreign
to interview a patient
and I'd like to give you some thumbnail
sketch of what Crystal therapy stands
for
Augusta therapy is working on an
equation
awareness equal Pleasant time equal
reality
in contrast to depth psychology we try
to get hold of the obvious of the
surface of the situation in which we
find ourselves and to develop the
emerging Gestalt strictly on the I and
vowel Here and Now basis any Escape into
the future of the past is to examined as
a likely resistance against the ongoing
encounter
modern man has
eliminated given up so much of his
potential that his ability to cope with
his existence becomes badly impoverished
my aim is this
the patient should recover his lost
potential
he should integrate the conflicting
polarities understand the difference
between gameplay especially the playing
of world games
on the one hand and of genuine authentic
confident behavior on the other
the Civil War of inner conflicts weakens
the efficiency and comfort of the
patient
she will strengthen it
now in the safe emergency of the
therapeutic situation
safe emergency of the therapeutic
to take risks and to transform his
energies from
manipulating the environment for support
into developing greater greater
self-support that is reliance on its own
resources
this process is called maturation
once the patient has learned to stand on
its own feet emotionally intellectually
and economically his need for therapy
will collapse
he will wake up from The Nightmare of
his existence
the basic technique is this
to explain things to the patient but to
provide the patient with opportunities
to understand
and to discover himself
for this purpose I manipulate and
frustrate the patient in such a way that
he's confronting himself
in this process he identifies with his
lost potential for instance through
assimilating his projections by acting
out
by acting out the healing parts of
himself
principally I consider any
interpretation to be a therapeutic
mistake as this would imply that the
therapist understands the patient better
than the patient himself takes away from
the patient a chance of discovering
himself by himself
and prevents him from finding out his
own values each Style on the other hand
I disregard most of the content of what
the patient says and concentrate most on
the non-verbal level as this is the only
which only one which is less subject to
self-deception in his verbal pseudo
self-expression on the non-verbal level
the relevant Gestalt will always emerge
and can dealt with in the Here and Now
you're going through an interview for
half an hour
by the way I'm scared
you see you're scared but you're smiling
I don't understand how one can be scared
and smile at the same time
and I'm also suspicious of you I think
you understand very well I think you
know that
I laugh or I can't to cover up
do we have stage five
um I don't know I'm mostly aware of you
I'm afraid that uh
I'm afraid you're gonna have such a
direct attack that uh you're gonna get
me in the corner and I'm afraid of it I
want you to be more on myself I get you
in your corner keep your head on your
chest
well it's like yeah it's like I'm afraid
you know where would you like to go
yeah uh but it's back in the corner
where where I'm completely protected
for me
well I know I wouldn't really feel safer
yeah it made you win this quota
you're perfectly safe now what would you
do in this club I just said Mr just sit
yes no how long would you sit I don't
know but this is so funny as you're
saying this this reminds me of when I
was a little girl every time I was
afraid I
just well no but it's the same feeling
are you a little girl
this feeling reminds me of it
no no no glass
how old are you 30. and you're not the
little girl yeah okay
so you're 30 years girl who's afraid of
a guy like me well I don't even know if
I'm I I don't know I'll be afraid of you
you I get real defensive with you
now what can I do to you
you can't do anything but I can sure
feel dumb and I can feel stupid for not
having the right answers now what would
it do for you to be feel dumb and stupid
I hate it when I'm stupid what would it
do for you to be dumb and stupid
like this what would it do to me if you
would play dumb and stupid that makes
you all the smarter and all the higher
above me then I really have to look up
to you because you're so smart yeah oh
yeah
you can do that all by yourself
I think the other way around if you play
dumb and stupid you force me to be more
explicit
that's been said to me before but I
don't buy it I don't know what I do with
your feet now
wiggling
it's a joke no I'm afraid you're gonna
notice everything I do gee don't you
want me I want you to help me become
more relaxed yes I don't want to be so
defensive with you I don't like to feel
so defensive
you're acting like you're treating me as
if I'm stronger than I am and I want you
to pick
more and be nicer to me are you aware of
your smile you don't believe a word I
know you're gonna pick on me for it sure
your bloody a funny
thank you
do you believe you're meaning that
seriously yeah
you see you're afraid and you laugh and
you giggle and
then oh I I recite that very much can
you explicit yes sir I most certainly am
not being phony I I will admit this it's
hard for me to show my embarrassment and
I hate to be embarrassed but boy I
resent you call me a pony
as I smile when I'm embarrassed or I'm
put in the corner doesn't mean I'm being
a phony wonderful thank you if you did
despite for the last minute well I'm mad
at
it that's all right
no you're in that moment in that minute
you were not approached well at that
minute I was mad though I wasn't
embarrassed another can you imagine
I still resent that I'm not the only one
I'm nervous you're good I want to get
mad at you I
I Want You On My Level so I can pick on
you just as much as you're picking on me
have to wait till the you say something
that I can pick on that what does this
mean can you develop this movement it's
uh I can't find words I wanna
develop this as if you've been dancing
I want to start all over again with you
okay I know what corner I'd like to put
you on I'd like to ask you a question
and because I have a feeling you don't
like me right off the bat and I want to
know if you do can you not play Fritz
spells not liking Gloria what would he
say
he'd say that she's a phony for one
you are a phone you're a phony and
you're a flip little girl
and your show-off
Gloria answer to that
I know what I'd answer I'd say I think
you are too
now say tell this to me you tell me what
The Party Guy
what's your phone
well Pony is not quite the right word
but it's more like a
show-off for sure like you know all the
answers yeah and I want you to be more
human and that doesn't seem very human
to me
is not very
you that oh dear I've got eyes I can see
you're kicking your feet I don't need a
scientific computer to see that you're
kicking your feet
speak about that
to be wise to see that you're kicking
your feet I know but it seems like
you're trying to find some reason for it
okay I know what I'd like from you can I
tell you what I'd like for me yeah I'd
like you to be aware that I'm kicking my
feet and to be aware that I'm giggling
when I'm really nervous and accept it
instead of putting me on the defense of
having to explain it
I want to have to explain why I'm doing
these things did I ask you to explain
you said why am I or what am I doing
well what am I doing you said that's
right kicking your feet I didn't ask you
to explain it
it's your imagination
it's not this foot it's the foot of your
imagination
it's a big difference
now do this again
how do you feel now
I don't know
being stupid
I'm not playing stupid I don't know this
is being stupid
you did something with you here there
it's by the chance something in my hair
what you object to no no
no but I your your hair and your
features go along with the the feeling I
had about you earlier I had a feeling
like I'd be afraid of you
and you're the type of person that seems
like you demand so much respect and so
you're
well you know how smart I am I know more
about psychology than you do Gloria so
anything I say of course is right
can you see the same as Gloria or
something similar as Glory
to the same act as Glory
I demand respect because
I don't know
no I don't I identify it with my father
but not me I don't feel I demand respect
I'd like more I'd like you to respect me
more no you see so you're the mentors
all right yes yes it doesn't matter
right if I could demand respect from you
I would but do it foreign
except yourself
because I feel if I get myself out on
the corner you're going to let me just
drown you're not going to help me one
bit and I know that I can't quite come
up to standards with you
what should I do when you're the cook
for me to come out come out oh we don't
have enough
urge to come out by yourself you need
somebody pull a little
distress out of a cup yeah so anytime
you want somebody to
pay attention to you call into a corner
and wait till the rescue a cup yes
that's exactly what I'd like and this is
what I call phone
pardon me this is what I call phone why
is it phony I'm admitting to you what I
am how is that a phony that is a phony
because
gimmick
to be a rescue I'm admitting it I know
what I'm doing I'm not being phony I'm
not pretending I'm so brave
like you're saying unless I come out
openly and stand on my own I'm not a
phony baloney I'm just just as real
sitting in that corner as I am out here
all by myself but you're not sitting
there well not now
and besides that it's like passing
judgment when you call me phony I just
hate that anyway
I call anybody phony who put some heck
and if you like somebody you want to
meet this person
to go to this person tell them I would
like to meet you I would call not for me
but if you courageously go into that
corner
waiting to be rescued this I call
foreign and I still think you're
judgmental you know what I have a
feeling you've never felt this way in
your life you feel so secure that you
don't have to feel anybody that does
something like this you're going to pass
judgment on there being a phony while I
was in it good no place Goods passing
judgment you are you're sitting up there
in your little chair I am but I passed
Jackson
sketchment on me now
I don't feel close to you at all Dr
pearls I feel that's phony I feel like
you're playing one big game right
sure we're playing games but in spite of
the games I think I've touched you now
and then I think I've helped you in a
culture food of course you did and I
think I hit the Bulls all right that's
why you feel it out
I don't know all I know is when somebody
when I feel the way I feel with you
right now no I it's like you don't have
I can't I can't I want to laugh I wanna
I'd like you to be younger than me so I
could really scold you oh it must have
been
my age three but I'm 13 now imagine I
said you know you're good okay don't be
so sure yourself don't think you're
so doggone smart don't act so proud
because you've never been in the corner
I think you can be just as big a phony
parading around like you're so damn
smart you know all the answers as much
as me sitting in my corner oh and I like
the feeling of you being younger I'd
like to really I'd like to embarrass you
yeah
you wouldn't get embarrassed you seem
unaffected
tell me embarrass me you know how old
how ugly I am
looking ugly you look distinguished and
that gives you that's all the more on
your side if you look so distinguished
then see
your side too
no I know no
I don't think you're fighting with me
but I thought you came out quite a bit
well I'm mad at you what
but you seem so detached you don't even
seem to care that I'm mad at you
I feel like you're not recognizing me at
all Dr pearls not a bit this is correct
I couldn't take this much to superficial
to be involved in catering I care for
you as far as let's see you right now my
client I care for you as far as I like
to like an artist bring something out
which is hidden in you is as far as you
care
well I'd like you to
I'd like to feel that there's some it's
frustrating if I were to leave you right
now and not see you again it would
frustrate me to feel like there hadn't
been more contact I feel completely out
of contact with you like I'm talking to
the baby that doesn't understand me or
something like that I don't feel like
we're a bit in contact and that oh that
frustrates me
well there's me more than being
I'd rather we were angry and fight and
than to have no contact
yeah this reminds me of when my husband
and I used to fight he sits there and he
listens to me but he's not even aware of
how much I hate him and how mad I am at
him I'd
yeah I'd rather affect you you'd really
hate me or something
and I feel like you're purposely staying
out of
the fantasy how could I share you my
concern with you
I can't say in words I know the feeling
I'd say on you but I can't say it's just
a feeling like
I don't know
it's like I want you to respect me more
as a human being that I've got feelings
no become to the beginning so you won't
respect yes I do I do
this is a different kind of respect than
I meant the first time but you want you
need respect yes
I just picked you so much as a human
being that I've refused to accept the
fully part of yourself and address
myself to the genuine part right now the
last few minutes you were wonderfully
gently
playing any more
could see you very difficulty
well I don't feel I've got it right when
I don't like somebody or I disagree with
somebody's doing if if I should respect
them if they're above me they're
Superior to me I don't feel I've got a
right to really really tell you how mad
I am
you're getting back into your safe
Corner that's the way it feels that's
what the safe Corner feels like to meet
you
prestigious if quality came out for a
moment you nearly met me you could get a
little bit angry with me
do your safety I feel like you're
telling me the only way you respect me
as a human being if I'm aggressive and
forceful and strong yeah I feel like you
couldn't even accept my I'd be scared of
death to cry in front of you I feel like
you'd laugh at me and call me a phony
I feel like you don't accept my weak
side only when I'm yelling back at you
or hollering at you
okay no
do this again
I try not to I try not to cry in front
of you I show my weak spot for fear you
jump on me again how do you realize that
your eyes are moist
I'm aware that I feel I'm more chokey
yes I feel it
could you choke me
ten but not for real
well because I don't hate you that much
you want to choke my kiss because you
want me to choke you so you wouldn't cry
I'd like to if I'd like to choke you it
would be to make you cry I'd like to see
you weak
I'd like to see you hurt and and
vulnerable
what would this do for you
make me feel like I'm I have more of a
right to be her and you wouldn't jump on
me so quick
if you jump on me if I would cry no but
I would jump on you if you would cry
be sure to this
no I'm not sure of it
what would you like me to do if you were
to cry
you're smiling you smiling something off
well because I got two feelings I was
gonna say I want you to I want you to
love me and hug me but then I thought no
I don't want to what's your objection
I'd be scared to be too close to you
I'll be getting something first you want
to be close to me
now you're afraid to be too close to me
this is what I'm saying but that's right
now we got the two ports of your
existence but they're two different
feelings close I mean emotionally but
not physically
but we've got the two parts of existence
now either far away in a corner
I'll be so close that you can melt into
one without a person
it depends you travel between the two
extremes
I do you know what I'm thinking when I
am really hurt and really upset about
something and I want someone to love me
like my girlfriend will do it a lot and
she'll come up to hug me I don't I don't
want it
foreign
but are you afraid if you went too close
to your girl and if you let her hug you
um the only thing I'm aware of is like
when I perspire It embarrasses me that
should feel how wet I am
I should hold my body up close and I
don't know are you aware of your facial
expression the kind of disgusting yeah
yes I am I do this more because
it's just icky I can just feel what it
is I don't like it can you see this to
me
no no
what's so difficulty because I feel like
if you really believe me that would hurt
your feelings
oh you must not my feelings
wow I thought I was so indifference you
see before that though nothing could
touch me now you suddenly discovered a
way to touch me isn't it
well you know what I believe I believe
you're the type of person sort of like
me that you act like it wouldn't hurt
your feelings but it really would you
act strong but you're you're soft and
vulnerable inside there too
I think your feelings could be heard
sure
but I don't think you'd show it very
easy
look what I do
feel my feelings by turning it back on
me by saying now what did you get from
that Gloria you turned the whole thing
back on me instead of showing how hard
you were oh can you see this difference
how did you what did you get out of this
face
would you get out of what what you just
see just your secrets
sure I know what you get out of it if I
said what did you get out of this fridge
you'd say
you're hurt so you covered it up same
way with me in the corner no if ever
feel Superior to me you'd be more
vulnerable and I could pacify you and
make you feel better yeah
yes
On My Level I wouldn't have to feel so
dumb with you the other way around you
would have to be my baby
cry you would like to play the baby and
be comforted and heart and the poor
thing well I believe that too
but I'll tell you something wrong I
think we came to a nice closure I think
we came to a little bit of understanding
finish this season
right
now the demonstration was in my opinion
quite successful and consistent with my
theoretical Outlook the avoidance of the
genuine encounter manifested itself in
three ways
the patient was first taking control by
putting on a smiling sophisticated phony
mask of oscillating between a pretense
of being frightened and yet at the same
time having me figured out thus being a
believing to be fully in control of the
situation
secondly
she was withdrawing by fantasizing of
hiding in a corner
three
crying which then would have been the
real emotional meaning of this meeting
the patient was capable of identifying
herself with several fantasies she had
projected onto me she was this was
especially evident with regard to her
initial denial for a need to be
respected
they need for environmental support
started to come out besides so need to
get respected
rescued from the corner
and so on I broke off the session in the
first tears begin to appear she began to
play the role of the Lonely child and
apparently wanted to be hugged and
comforted but here too the assimilation
of a projection began to work and she
began to experience holding me like a
baby
um
assisting her assimilating her in some
projections the main therapeutic Factor
was to show her the inconsistency of a
verbal and non-verbal behavior for
instance saying that he was frightened
and smiling at the same time
the frightened person does not smile
fear it was in the direction of her
embarrassment
this embarrassment was protected by her
brazenness and anger to get her
existence existential embarrassment we
would have to work through and
eliminated the phoniness that is the
ease with which we can superficially
assume any role that is required for a
specific situation
Sylvia
way of life this is about what I got out
of this session
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