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Summary

The vlogger shares about hosting an international festival at her children's school, where each country had informative displays. She also opens up about her health struggles after having four kids, her disappointment in some people's cruel comments, and her changing views on being an open YouTube creator. Despite fatigue and illness, she remains devoted to her kids and hopeful to regain energy and inspiration to make videos from the heart again someday.

Takeaways

• 😞 She is facing health issues and needs to have surgery in a few months
• 👪 She feels overwhelmed trying to take care of 4 young kids while her husband works away
• 🤕 Her health deteriorated after her third pregnancy
• 👎 She has faced a lot of online hate comments that have accumulated over time
• 😔 She feels some disappointment with people and burnt out from putting her heart into videos
• 😊 Her videos used to provide a warm respite for people amidst difficulties
• 🔙 She needs some time to restore her health and energy before making more videos
• 🤱 Having a new baby combined with health issues makes it very difficult to maintain her previous pace
• 😠 She was shocked by a cruel comment telling her she should have aborted her baby
• 💖 She has a loving relationship with her husband and they make efforts to maintain warmth and affection

Q & A

What health issues is Alyssa dealing with?

Alyssa mentions having several serious illnesses that she needs to get treatment for, likely requiring surgery in the coming months.

How many children does Alyssa have?

Alyssa has 4 children - 3 older children who are close in age, and a 3 month old baby boy named Felix.

Why does Alyssa say she is disappointed in people?

Alyssa says she is disappointed because she used to be very open and sincere in her videos, but that was used against her. She feels that openness and sincerity are not valued in the modern world.

What negative comments do bloggers often receive?

Alyssa says bloggers often receive nasty comments about their children, welfare benefits, appearance, clothing choices etc. She says some people have no limits in what they will say.

How does Alyssa say the viewership of a YouTube channel affects the content?

She explains that bloggers film content that gets the most views from the audience. There is no point putting effort into content hardly anyone will watch.

What does Alyssa say about showing the 'real' family dynamic?

Alyssa says that just because arguments or noise don't make it into the videos, it doesn't mean they have a perfect family. She doesn't film that side of family life.

What shocking comment did one woman make about Alyssa's new baby?

One woman essentially said Alyssa should have had an abortion rather than have another baby in her condition. She said it was irresponsible.

How does Alyssa say she is changing over time?

Alyssa describes herself as a flowing stream, always changing. She says parts of her transform over time, with new perspectives and priorities.

What does Alyssa say YouTube and the viewers have changed about her?

YouTube has been part of the process of change for Alyssa. The comments from viewers have also changed her, making her less open and affected her health.

Who does Alyssa say she makes videos for now?

Alyssa says she now mostly makes videos for the loyal, long-term viewers who have supported her through all of life's ups and downs.