Paul Tripp, part 2
Summary
TLDREl video aborda la importancia de la educación cristiana como un proceso continuo que moldea el carácter a través de pequeños momentos cotidianos. Se destaca que no se trata solo de impartir conocimientos, sino de transformar el corazón de los niños. Con ejemplos personales, el orador subraya cómo los padres y maestros deben aprovechar cada oportunidad, incluso en situaciones mundanas, para guiar a los niños hacia una vida con valores cristianos. El mensaje central es que la verdadera transformación se da en los detalles y en la perseverancia, tanto en los niños como en los adultos.
Takeaways
- 😀 El cambio es un proceso gradual, no un evento repentino. Se trata de guiar al niño en la dirección correcta en pequeños momentos.
- 🤔 No se espera que una sola conversación transforme radicalmente a un niño, pero el impacto acumulativo de muchas conversaciones a lo largo de los años sí lo hará.
- 🏀 Un ejemplo personal: el hijo del orador preguntó a su padre sobre cómo identificar si algo que ama se ha convertido en una idolatría en su vida.
- 🙏 El enfoque de la educación cristiana es transformar el corazón y no solo ofrecer información. Es inútil formar personas hábiles que carezcan de valores morales.
- 🕰️ Los pequeños momentos son cruciales en la educación, ya que ahí es donde se vive la vida. No son los grandes momentos los que forman el carácter, sino los muchos pequeños.
- 👨👩👦 El orador comparte una experiencia familiar en la que su hijo lo corrigió sobre cómo trataba a su esposa, lo que demuestra la importancia de los momentos cotidianos.
- 💡 La transformación del corazón en la educación cristiana no se logra suspendiendo la vida cotidiana, sino integrándola en cada momento, como indica Deuteronomio 6.
- 🔨 La educación es como construir una casa: no se logra con un solo clavo grande, sino con muchos pequeños esfuerzos de varias personas en distintos momentos.
- 💔 Los problemas del corazón son lo que impide que el aprendizaje florezca. El éxito educativo no se alcanza solo con información, sino con la transformación del corazón.
- ❤️ Los educadores y padres deben primero trabajar en sus propios corazones antes de poder influir efectivamente en el corazón de un niño. La gracia y la paciencia son esenciales.
Q & A
¿Cuál es el punto principal que el orador quiere transmitir sobre la educación cristiana?
-El orador enfatiza que la educación cristiana no debe ser solo informativa, sino transformacional. Su objetivo es formar el carácter y el corazón de los estudiantes a través de pequeños momentos, en lugar de solo enfocarse en el conocimiento académico.
¿Por qué el orador dice que los 'pequeños momentos' son importantes en la educación?
-Los 'pequeños momentos' son importantes porque forman la base del carácter de una persona. El orador cree que la transformación del corazón y el carácter ocurre en muchos momentos pequeños y cotidianos, en lugar de en eventos grandes o extraordinarios.
¿Qué le pregunta el hijo del orador sobre el baloncesto, y por qué es importante esta pregunta?
-El hijo del orador le pregunta: '¿Cómo sabes cuándo algo en lo que eres bueno y que amas se convierte en una idolatría en tu vida?' Esta pregunta es importante porque refleja una introspección profunda sobre las prioridades y el equilibrio en la vida, mostrando cómo los principios cristianos están influyendo en la reflexión del niño.
¿Qué quiere decir el orador con que somos 'herramientas en la caja de herramientas de Dios'?
-El orador usa esta metáfora para explicar que los educadores son solo un instrumento de muchos que Dios usa para influir en la vida de los niños. No se espera que un solo maestro cambie radicalmente a un niño de una sola vez, sino que cada pequeño acto forma parte de un proceso más grande.
¿Cómo se relaciona la anécdota sobre la mañana de Pascua con el tema de los 'pequeños momentos'?
-La anécdota sobre la mañana de Pascua muestra cómo un pequeño momento cotidiano, aunque frustrante, puede ser una oportunidad para enseñar y reflexionar sobre el comportamiento cristiano. Aunque el orador estaba impaciente, su hijo lo corrigió con base en principios bíblicos, destacando cómo incluso los pequeños momentos pueden ser significativos en la transformación del corazón.
¿Qué papel juega el corazón en la educación, según el orador?
-El corazón es el elemento clave en la educación. El orador sostiene que el aprendizaje de un niño no será interrumpido por su ignorancia, sino por los problemas de su corazón. Si no se aborda el corazón, la educación no prosperará.
¿Cómo ve el orador el equilibrio entre la información y la transformación en la educación?
-El orador cree que la educación debe ir más allá de la simple transmisión de información. Debe enfocarse en la transformación personal y espiritual del estudiante, ya que el conocimiento sin transformación puede resultar en individuos inmorales o egoístas.
¿Qué significa 'la educación cristiana verdaderamente cristiana', según el orador?
-La 'educación cristiana verdaderamente cristiana' implica educar a la persona en su totalidad, no solo en el conocimiento académico, sino también en la formación de su carácter, corazón y comportamiento de acuerdo con los principios cristianos.
¿Por qué el orador menciona la importancia de comenzar con el propio corazón del maestro?
-El orador menciona que para abordar los problemas del corazón de los niños, los maestros primero deben lidiar con los problemas de su propio corazón. Esto implica reconocer sus propias luchas y estar dispuestos a sacrificarse para ser instrumentos de la gracia de Dios en la vida de los niños.
¿Qué reflexión hace el orador sobre las expectativas de los padres durante las vacaciones familiares?
-El orador reflexiona sobre cómo, durante las vacaciones familiares, los padres a menudo desean un descanso de la responsabilidad de educar y corregir a sus hijos. Sin embargo, él señala que incluso en esas situaciones, los padres deben estar dispuestos a ser instrumentos de la gracia de Dios y aprovechar los momentos de conflicto para enseñar y guiar a sus hijos.
Outlines
🛠️ Proceso de cambio y la importancia de las pequeñas conversaciones
El narrador aborda la preocupación de los padres y maestros sobre la falta de tiempo para tratar temas profundos con los niños. Subraya que el cambio es un proceso y no un evento, y que pequeñas conversaciones pueden dirigir al niño en la dirección correcta. Utiliza el ejemplo de su hijo, Darnay, que hizo una pregunta profunda sobre el equilibrio entre sus habilidades y la idolatría, lo que muestra cómo las enseñanzas diarias pueden generar introspección profunda en los niños. Enfatiza la importancia de la educación cristiana en la formación de personas completas, no solo hábiles en ciertos campos académicos.
⏳ La lucha con el tiempo y momentos de reflexión en la vida cotidiana
El narrador reflexiona sobre su matrimonio y cómo él y su esposa, Louella, manejan el tiempo de manera diferente debido a sus antecedentes culturales. Cuenta una anécdota sobre una mañana de Pascua caótica, donde su hijo lo confronta por la forma en que hablaba con su esposa. Este momento lo lleva a una profunda reflexión sobre el amor de Dios y cómo incluso en pequeños momentos, como en esa discusión, Dios está presente. Resalta la importancia de los momentos cotidianos en la formación del carácter y en cómo esos momentos mundanos son fundamentales en la vida cristiana y en la enseñanza.
💡 La transformación del carácter en pequeños momentos
El narrador explica que los grandes momentos no son los que definen el carácter de una persona, sino los miles de pequeños momentos cotidianos. Cree que la verdadera educación cristiana es transformadora, no solo informativa. Cita Deuteronomio 6, que enseña que la educación debe ocurrir en movimiento, en momentos del día a día, y que estos pequeños momentos, acumulados a lo largo de los años, generan un cambio significativo en los niños.
🔧 La educación centrada en el corazón y el desafío de los padres
El narrador describe cómo el corazón es un obstáculo en el aprendizaje de los niños, más que la ignorancia, y que la educación debe centrarse en la transformación del corazón. Da un ejemplo familiar en el que su frustración con sus hijos no surge de la desobediencia a las leyes de Dios, sino de la violación de sus propias expectativas personales. Explica que muchos padres reaccionan con ira no por justicia, sino por sus propias reglas egoístas, lo que impide el trabajo de Dios en el proceso de redención.
🌪️ La lucha interna de los padres y el trabajo de la redención
El narrador cuenta anécdotas sobre momentos en los que los padres pierden la paciencia con sus hijos, ya sea durante las vacaciones o en momentos de cansancio. Explica cómo, en esos momentos, los padres suelen querer escapar de la responsabilidad de guiar a sus hijos espiritualmente, y cómo esto revela sus propios corazones. Señala que los padres deben enfrentar su propio orgullo y egoísmo si quieren ser instrumentos de cambio en la vida de sus hijos, y que no tienen la capacidad de cambiar los corazones por sí mismos, sino que es obra de la gracia de Dios.
🙏 Reflexión final sobre la necesidad de la gracia
El narrador concluye con una oración, agradeciendo a Dios por la sabiduría y la practicidad de Su palabra, y por el Señor Jesucristo como la única esperanza verdadera. Pide que todos aprendan a abordar los problemas del corazón en sus estudiantes y a enfrentar sus propios obstáculos internos. El mensaje final es sobre la importancia de la gracia en la enseñanza y la crianza de los hijos.
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Keywords
💡Proceso
💡Momentos pequeños
💡Cambio de corazón
💡Instrumento de Dios
💡Educación cristiana
💡Idolatría
💡Transformación personal
💡Ley de Dios
💡Educación holística
💡Rendición a la gracia
Highlights
Change is almost always a process and not an event, especially when dealing with children. Educators are instruments in the process of heart change.
Small, daily conversations contribute to a child’s long-term transformation over years, rather than expecting immediate results from one conversation.
The story of the speaker's son, who questioned whether his love for basketball had become an idol, highlights the importance of fostering self-awareness in children.
Christian education should aim at holistic transformation, not just producing skilled individuals without moral or spiritual grounding.
Parents and teachers must recognize the profound impact of little moments in shaping a child's character, as major life changes often occur in the mundane.
The speaker emphasizes that Christian education is about the heart, not just the mind, and warns against separating information from transformation.
The speaker recalls a moment of correction by his son, who asked if his behavior was reflective of a Christian man, illustrating the importance of humility and openness to correction.
Parents and teachers often struggle with their own hearts and must start by addressing their own weaknesses before guiding their children or students.
Deuteronomy 6 provides comfort for busy parents and educators, showing that heart transformation can happen in the everyday moments of life.
God is present in the small, everyday moments, and this presence is a testament to His love and care, even when life feels mundane.
The speaker encourages parents and teachers to capture little moments to create a culture of transformation over time, acknowledging that change is gradual.
Character is not formed in big moments but in 10,000 little moments, which ultimately shape how individuals handle life's big decisions.
The speaker uses the metaphor of building a house with many small nails and screws to illustrate how children are shaped daily by the environment around them.
Educators have no power to change a child’s heart; only God can do that through acts of grace.
Being an instrument of grace requires personal sacrifice, perseverance, and addressing one’s own heart issues to properly guide children.
Transcripts
now maybe you're thinking I don't like
where this is going because I just don't
have time to get at these kinds of
issues with my children
I barely have time to go get through my
lesson plan how am I ever going to do
that well I want to say two things for
you in the beginning first change is
almost always a process and not an event
all you're doing is in little bits and
pieces pointing the child in the right
direction
asking salient questions getting at
fundamental issues you are an instrument
one tool in God's tool bat box that's
filled with thousands of tools and so I
don't believe that I'm going to have one
conversation with a kindergartener
that's going to radically change his
heart I don't believe that but I believe
I'm in a culture that has had those
conversations every day for 13 years
this child will be profoundly changed I
believe that
my son Darnay who's our youngest he's
now a sports anchor for a CBS station in
Macon Georgia what's always sports
oriented and was a very good basketball
player he would come home from
basketball practice and go meet Li out
behind our house and shoot follow shots
for hours he come in and I'd say well
how did you he said well 85 out of 100 I
got to do better he came in one
afternoon with his ball under his arm
and he said dad I have a question for
you real serious look on his face I said
okay he said how do you know when
something you're good at and something
you love has become an idolatry in your
life I began to tear up because I
thought at 15 years old I would have not
had that question in in the universe of
my mind anywhere and here is this kid
he's out back it's not because an
authority is watching no one's had a
conversation with him it's the legacy of
thinks he's learned about what goes on
inside of his heart that God uses to
produce a little bit of uncomfortable
uncomfortable in inside of him and he
comes seeking his dad I threw my arms
around him I said you don't know how
protected you are just by asking the
question praise God you're asking the
question praise God you're asking the
question
praise God you're asking the question
because I now know that there are deep
beautiful mysteries of the universe that
are not operating inside of that child
that are protecting him even when nobody
is watching
that's Christian education what good is
it to produce a skilled mathematician
who's self-absorbed and immoral what
good is it do to produce a skilled
writer who will write trash what good is
it do to produce science scientist who
don't bow the knee to the Creator oh I'm
not talking about in their theory of
origins I'm talking about in the way
that we live you cannot have Christian
education that is truly Christian and
not want the whole person
we can't settle for Apple nailing
but just to remember that this is a
process you're busy
you only have little moments
let me give you an illustration of the
importance of little moments I've been
married for 38 years now I know you're
looking at me and thinking this man is
way too young to be married this long so
I say this if you're calculating my age
I was married at 7 lol and I have always
struggled with this issue welcome
probably more my struggle than hers it's
with the issue of time
Louella was raised in Cuba and she has
sort of a combination of a Latin and an
island view of time I can show this to
you she lives on a bit of a vibe you go
to the islands because time slows down I
was raised by a man who thought the sole
litmus test of a value of a human being
was punctuality you're on time you can
live so we've struggled with that and
well it's been my struggle if if we
agree on a time for the wallet rough
estimate for me it's the law of Medes
and Persians that cannot be broken well
it's now Easter morning in the trip
family if if you are a family of
multiple children you know that Sunday
mornings is not the most relaxing
morning of the week you're stuffing
children in van st. shut up we're going
to worship we call that preparing our
hearts for worship
and our church for reasons I don't
really understand had decided to the
best way to celebrate the resurrection
was to have a full breakfast before the
service that means we have to leave an
hour and a half earlier I wake up with
feelings of futility when I walk into
the bathroom near time when we should
leave my nine-year-old son is there then
and my wife Louella and I can tell by
the way she's dressed she's not near
being ready so I start saying helpful
things to her like informing her it's
not an Easter dinner it's an Easter
breakfast she found that helpful telling
her that a couple of our children were
already in the car waiting like usual
reminding her that I'm an elder in the
church my arrival before the ham and
eggs is very important to my ministry
about then my nine-year-old son said
daddy may I say something I should have
said no
I said sure and he looked at me very
sincerely and said daddy do you really
think this is the way a Christian man
should be talking to his wife I'm a
counsellor person I'm pretty good at
these conversation I said what do you
think trying to escape the conviction he
looked at me very seriously and said
daddy it doesn't make any difference
what I think what does God think I walk
out of the bathroom being duly corrected
I hear this little voice behind me
saying daddy may I say something else I
want to say no no please don't he says
daddy what I mean is what does the Bible
say about it
I went into my bedroom and these two
thoughts hit me immediately first was my
pride reared up I want my son to be a
hero I want me to be a hero in my son's
eyes and he had seen through what was
going on there and sort of felt
attention for his mom they didn't last
very long I immediately thought how
could it be that God would love me this
much that he would give one twit of care
for that minor little moment in the trip
bathroom think about this this is
magnificent this is one moment in one
room in one house on one street in one
neighborhood in one city in one state in
one nation in one hemisphere in one
globe in the universe in one moment in
history and God is in that moment that
is love so magnificent I can't wrap my
brain around it you see here's the point
little moments are the moments because
that's where we live hear this you don't
live in big moments you only make three
or four big decisions most of us won't
be written up in history books several
decades after we die the people we leave
behind will struggle to remember the
events of our lives you live in the
utterly mundane and if God doesn't rule
your mundane
doesn't rule you a classroom is about
little moments you don't get very many
big moments we believe in little moments
little moments are profoundly important
precisely because they're little moments
because that's where we live and so what
we're doing is we're working in little
moments to get at the core of the
difficulty we know that this one moment
itself won't be transformational but we
believe in transformation and we believe
as we all contribute to that over the
years
God radically transforms the hearts of
children I have no interest whatsoever
in Krishna education that is only
informational none I would have saved my
money I long to see Christian education
be radically personally transformational
how could we not want that where does it
happen doesn't happen in grand moments
here this the character of a person
isn't formed in five big moments the
character of person is formed in 10,000
little moments if the character formed
in those little moments that you carry
into the few big moments of life and so
we want to shape character we want to
shape hearts and so we capture little
moments we we get our wisdom together so
we know how to be an instrument of heart
change and little moments do you know
that could you write right now five
pages on how to be an instrument of
heart change in little moments could you
be honest could you write two pages
a paragraph a sentence
there's another thing I love Deuteronomy
6 July 6 declares that God is in the
center of his universe and the job is to
connect children to this God that's in
the center of universe and how does
Moses write that that's to be done do it
as the child is rising up do it as
you're walking along the way do it as
you're lying down here this this is
heart transformation for busy people I
love I find great comfort Deuteronomy 6
because Deuteronomy 6 understands that
you can't suspend life
you can't stop your classroom any more
than you can stop a family Moses says
you don't have to do that do it in
motion
learn how you can do this in bits and
pieces in motion and as everybody's
doing that over five years over seven
years over ten years over thirteen years
there is significant personal change
that's happened in the life of this
child
how many nails does it take to build a
house you don't ever build a house by
getting one huge nail carried in on your
shoulders the guy behind you has the
hammer whoa and the house is built you
would never want to live in that house
it's mini craftsman with many different
skills in many different moments the
plumber wants to make sure that that
those water lines are are connected so
they don't move around and couple little
screws makes your life easier
you don't even know it he let me know
what's happened some guy with a
pneumatic nail gun put three extra nails
in the that hardwood floor so it doesn't
creak you don't even know it that's what
happens to children they're in this
environment that's nailing and screwing
and sawing and hammering and nailing and
screwing and sawing and hammering they
don't you know what's happening but it's
happening every day and something is
being formed inside of them that could
be formed in the other way by people who
love them dearly and want more than they
would get an A on the math quiz now know
this I'm an educator I found a Christian
school I ran programs at the doctoral
level I believe in education but I
believe in holistic education I believe
that you can never escape the heart the
heart is the thing that's in the way of
the head again and again the learning of
this child will not be uninterrupted by
his ignorance it we erupted interrupted
by his heart
and if you don't get at that you don't
see education thrive
I think wouldn't you agree that's one of
the reasons why cultural education is in
such a demise but because we've tried
week we try to separate information from
transformation and it doesn't work we
believe something different we believe
something different I'm going to repeat
this again and again because I think
it's so important to repeat and it is a
revelation of my own heart struggle if
you're going to get at heart issues with
your children you have got to start with
your own heart
I don't want to have to deal with
sinners I don't want to have to deal
with that that's a struggle of of all of
us let me give you the family example
it's it's 10:30 at night and the
children you put to bed at nine o'clock
are not fighting in their beds you get
the scene and you start down the hallway
feet heavy on the floorboards you're
probably not saying thank you Jesus for
this wonderful opportunity you're part
of your work of redemption the life of
my children how much I love Grace and
the work of your kingdom and this
opportunity even though it's late to be
part of that work I don't think that's
what you're saying
you're saying they're dead they're dead
and you burst into the room and you say
do you know what my day's been like like
do you have any sense what I do I do and
do for you and this is the things I get
I don't need a mansion or a Rolls Royce
just children who are from Earth why
better you shred a clothes you put on
that back of yours I purchase every
morsel of food you put in that big mouth
of yours
I made your Christmases happy now do you
think as you're going off your children
saying my this is helpful
this is a wise person I'm so thankful
this person is my parent I think I'm
seeing my heart I think not now why are
you angry ready for this you're not
angry at all because those children are
breaking God's law you're not angry at
all because those children breaking
God's law because that that would be
righteous anger and will go in a
complete different direction if the
anger of correction and instruction and
grace and wisdom here's why you're angry
you're angry because those children have
broken your law and in your system of
law there shall be no parenting after 10
o'clock
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oh you know what it's like you you have
planned a vacation for your family and
your your goal for vacation is that you
would have self parenting children and
if God would throw in a fully sanctified
spouse that would be cool because you
don't actually want on vacation to be
part of the messiness of that redemption
stuff it's true scary but true and so
you start down the road it's not seven
tenths of a mile before some of your
children are already fighting oh you've
been in these moments and you're doing
this you don't care who you hit you just
want to get somebody and then you launch
into stunning wisdom you say okay we're
not going to go on vacation I'm not
going to go on vacation with people like
you I have to be with people like you
all the time this is vacation we're
going to drive home I'm going to put
your suitcases on the driveway and you
can have vacation there and fight all
you want none of the children know
that's not going to happen they just
know you're crazy if you're not like you
see your heart and if you're not dealing
with your heart stuff you will be again
and again in the way of what God is
doing rather than part of it and you'll
launch into believing that by raising
the volume of your voice
by changing the look on your face by the
force of your person your authority and
the logic of your argument you can
change what's wrong with that child
let me say it to you teachers you have
no capacity to change the heart of that
child none whatsoever
zip nada none no one in this room has
ever changed anyone ever changes an act
of grace
and so what does it look like to be an
instrument of that grace in the hands of
a redeemer who has a an amazing ability
to change what needs to be changed
you see there it is
you can't we can't talk about this
material we can't talk about the hearts
of our children without talking about
our own hearts
and the struggle that is there for all
of us because we really do not want to
have to deal with the deep perseverance
self-sacrifice that it takes to be a
tool in God's hands
why at 10 o'clock because I don't
actually want to tend to have children
who need grace I don't want early in the
morning to have children who need grace
I don't want on vacation to have
children who need grace
because I don't want to have to give up
what is necessary to be an instrument of
that grace I don't want to have to go
without my breakfast because my child
needed me and I'll say Jesus I'll be
hungry if it means capturing this little
moment I don't want to mess up my the
beginning of my vacation by pulling over
the side of the road and with
graciousness say let's talk about what's
going on here we're all flawed people
it's hard for us to live together this
is an opportunity for us let's just pray
the gather working our hearts I don't
want to have to do that you'll never
ever be an instrument of heart change
unless you begin with your own heart
let's pray
or thank you for the stunning wisdom and
practicality of your word but even more
we would thank you for the Lord Jesus
Christ who is our single focused hope
maybe know what it means to get at heart
issues with our students and may we face
the issues of our own hearts that are in
the way we have hope for that because of
your grace in Jesus name Amen
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