How to turn off work thoughts during your free time | Guy Winch

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21 Jan 202012:29

Summary

TLDRThe speaker, a psychologist, shares their journey of burnout despite achieving career success. They explain that work stress often occurs outside the office due to ruminating—obsessively dwelling on unfinished tasks, tensions, or worries. This disrupts recovery time, negatively impacts mental health, and damages personal relationships. The speaker outlines strategies to combat rumination: setting strict boundaries for work hours, creating physical and psychological work-life divisions, and converting ruminative thoughts into problem-solving ones. By adopting these practices, individuals can reclaim their personal time and find greater joy and satisfaction in their work.

Takeaways

  • 🧠 Pursuing a dream career can still lead to burnout if personal boundaries aren't managed.
  • 🚪 The biggest issue wasn't the work itself but failing to mentally shut the door after hours.
  • ⏰ Stress is often felt outside of work, during personal time when one should be recharging.
  • 🐄 Ruminating is like cows chewing cud—it’s repetitive and unproductive for humans, unlike cows.
  • ⚠️ Ruminating disrupts sleep, mood, eating habits, and even increases the risk of health problems.
  • 💡 Thinking creatively or solving problems about work after hours doesn't harm emotional well-being, but ruminations do.
  • 📵 Set clear boundaries for when work stops, such as no emails or phone notifications after a set time.
  • 🏠 Create physical and psychological boundaries between work and home to avoid triggering work-related stress during downtime.
  • 🎭 Small habits like changing clothes or adjusting lighting can help signal to the brain that it's time to switch from work to home mode.
  • 🔄 Convert ruminative thoughts into problem-solving exercises to make them productive and under your control.

Q & A

  • What led the speaker to initially feel burned out despite achieving their dream job?

    -The speaker felt burned out not because of the work itself but because they were unable to mentally disconnect from work after hours. They spent too much time ruminating about work, which left them feeling depleted and confused.

  • What realization did the speaker have after questioning their career choice?

    -The speaker realized that they still loved psychology and their work, but it was the habit of ruminating about work outside of office hours that was causing their burnout and unhappiness.

  • What does 'rumination' mean, according to the speaker, and why is it harmful?

    -Rumination refers to continuously obsessing over upsetting or distressing thoughts, often related to unfinished tasks or worries. It is harmful because it activates the stress response and prevents people from relaxing and recovering during their free time.

  • What are some of the negative effects of ruminating about work outside of work hours?

    -Ruminating about work can lead to sleep disturbances, unhealthy eating habits, bad moods, impaired executive functioning, and increased risk of cardiovascular disease. It also negatively impacts personal relationships because people can sense when someone is mentally preoccupied.

  • What distinction does the speaker make between ruminating and thinking about work in productive ways?

    -The speaker distinguishes ruminating, which is involuntary and emotionally distressing, from productive thinking about work, such as creative problem-solving, which is under control and does not cause stress.

  • How did the speaker become aware of the extent of their ruminating, and what did they find out?

    -The speaker kept a journal for a week to document how much time they spent ruminating and discovered that they were losing almost 14 hours of their downtime each week to rumination, which increased their stress.

  • What strategy did the speaker use to combat ruminating, and how did it help?

    -The speaker set clear boundaries by defining when to switch off from work, specifically stopping all work-related activities after 8 p.m. This strategy helped them regain control over their free time and reduced their work-related stress.

  • How does modern technology, particularly smartphones, contribute to the problem of rumination?

    -Smartphones act as a 'Trojan horse' for ruminations by constantly delivering work-related reminders through emails and notifications. This makes it harder to disconnect mentally from work, even during off-hours.

  • What advice does the speaker offer for creating a psychological boundary between work and home for telecommuters?

    -The speaker advises telecommuters to create a defined work zone in their home, wear specific clothes for work, and change their environment using music and lighting to signal the end of the workday. This helps the mind differentiate between work and personal time.

  • How can ruminations be transformed into more productive forms of thinking, according to the speaker?

    -To convert ruminations into productive thinking, the speaker suggests reframing them as solvable problems. For example, instead of ruminating about having too much work, one can think about how to adjust their schedule to accommodate the tasks.

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