What Allah Say's In The Quran VS What Science Say's | Bilal Assad
Summary
TLDRThe speaker discusses neuroplasticity, the brain's ability to change and adapt through habits, thoughts, and behaviors. They highlight how this concept applies to personal growth, emphasizing that individuals can rewire their brains by adopting positive habits. The speaker also relates neuroplasticity to Islamic teachings, explaining that we have control over our brain's decision-making areas, like the prefrontal cortex. The speech touches on the development of children's brains, ADHD, and how different childhood experiences shape behavior. The speaker encourages parents and individuals to focus on self-improvement and patience in developing better habits.
Takeaways
- š§ Neuroplasticity, or brain plasticity, refers to the brain's ability to change and rewire itself based on experiences and habits.
- š¶ By age six or seven, many neural pathways in a child's brain are already formed, but the prefrontal cortex, responsible for decision-making, continues to develop until around age 25.
- š Like building with Legos, our brain's neural connections can be built, changed, or dismantled based on the habits we form and break.
- š Habits, whether good or bad, are formed through repetitive actions. Breaking habits follows the same process in reverse.
- š Changing negative habits requires willpower, planning, and consistent action, supported by prayer and self-discipline.
- š” Thoughts lead to ideas, which turn into plans and actions. Repeated actions become habits, and unchecked habits can become addictions.
- šŖ Overcoming bad habits, such as addictions, requires understanding triggers, removing access, and slowly rewiring the brain over time.
- ā³ The speaker mentions a personal example of helping someone develop the habit of waking up for morning prayers by creating a structured plan and following it consistently.
- š Parenting significantly influences childhood brain development, and parents should be mindful of different needs, especially in children with ADHD or other attention disorders.
- ā People should avoid self-diagnosing mental health conditions like anxiety or depression, as occasional feelings of discomfort do not always indicate a clinical issue.
Q & A
What is neuroplasticity?
-Neuroplasticity, also known as brain plasticity, refers to the brain's ability to change and rewire itself. This process allows the brain to form new neural connections, which can help people develop new habits and learn new skills.
How does the speaker explain neuroplasticity to children?
-The speaker explains neuroplasticity to children using the analogy of Legos. Just like Legos can be built, dismantled, and rebuilt in different ways, the brain can also form and reform connections between neurons, allowing people to change their habits and thinking patterns.
At what age does a child's brain become almost fully developed according to modern studies?
-Modern studies suggest that a child's brain is almost fully developed around the age of six or seven, with significant neural pathways already formed based on their upbringing, experiences, and environment.
What part of the brain continues developing until about 25 years old, and what is it responsible for?
-The prefrontal cortex continues developing until around 25 years old. It is responsible for judgment, decision-making, fears, rationality, and controlling impulses.
How does the speaker connect the concept of neuroplasticity to the Quran?
-The speaker connects neuroplasticity to the Quran by referencing a verse where Allah speaks about the 'forelock' or frontal cortex, which is responsible for decisions. The verse emphasizes human responsibility for their actions, and the speaker interprets this as aligning with the idea that we can control and change our brains through conscious effort.
How does the speaker explain the development of habits?
-The speaker explains that habits develop in stages: they begin with a thought, which if entertained, becomes an idea. The idea turns into a plan, which leads to an action. Repeated actions turn into habits, and if not addressed, habits can become addictions. The process can also be reversed by consciously choosing to develop positive thoughts, ideas, and actions.
What strategy does the speaker suggest for breaking bad habits?
-The speaker suggests using willpower and prayer to make the decision to change, identifying when and how bad habits occur, and then creating a plan to avoid or counter them. For example, if a bad habit happens at night, the person could remove access to the source of temptation and create new positive habits.
What example does the speaker give to illustrate the process of habit reversal?
-The speaker gives the example of a young person wanting to pray Fajr at the mosque every day. The person starts with the thought, then makes a plan (e.g., going to sleep early, not eating late), and gradually the new habit becomes easier over time, eventually becoming ingrained.
What challenges do children with ADHD face, and how should parents approach this?
-Children with ADHD may have delayed attention development compared to others their age, which can lead to difficulties in focusing. The speaker encourages parents to be more understanding and informed, rather than treating all children the same, and to avoid self-diagnosing children or dismissing their struggles.
What advice does the speaker give to young people regarding self-diagnosis?
-The speaker advises young people not to self-diagnose when they experience anxiety, depression, or other mental health symptoms. They should not label themselves as sick based on temporary feelings and instead seek proper guidance if needed.
Outlines
š§ Understanding Neuroplasticity
The speaker introduces the concept of neuroplasticity or brain plasticity, explaining that our brains can be reshaped, much like building and dismantling Lego blocks. Neurons in the brain form highways and connections that grow and change based on habits. The brain rewires itself constantly, with significant development happening during childhood and puberty, particularly in the prefrontal cortex, which is responsible for decision-making and judgment. The Quran refers to this part of the brain as the forelock, emphasizing our control over it and its role in moral decisions.
š ļø Changing Habits and Reversing Addictions
The speaker explains how habits, including sinful ones, develop from a simple thought, which turns into an idea, plan, action, and eventually a habit or addiction. They describe how reversing this process works similarly: by introducing a counter-thought, planning, and repeating positive actions, new habits can form. An example of this is given through the struggle to break harmful habits like looking at inappropriate websites, which requires willpower, self-awareness, and practical steps like removing access to the temptation.
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Keywords
š”Neuroplasticity
š”Habits
š”Prefrontal Cortex
š”ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder)
š”Thought
š”Sinful Forelock
š”Addiction
š”Rewiring the Brain
š”Empathy
š”Willpower
Highlights
Neuroplasticity or brain plasticity allows individuals to change their brain structure, similar to building with Legos, by forming and dismantling neuron connections.
Brain development in children is heavily influenced by their upbringing and environment, with significant pathways set by age six or seven.
The prefrontal cortex, responsible for decision-making and rational thinking, continues developing until around age 25.
Allah mentions in the Quran that humans are responsible for their forelock, interpreted as the prefrontal cortex, which governs judgment and actions.
Ibn al-Qaim explains the development of habits: bad habits begin with a thought, then progress to an idea, plan, action, and eventually addiction if not addressed.
Reversing bad habits follows the same process: start with a thought, form an idea, plan, and take action to develop the opposite habit.
A practical example given is overcoming the addiction to inappropriate content online by taking steps like eliminating VPNs and changing device usage patterns.
Building good habits, such as praying Fajr at the mosque, can be achieved by gradually planning and executing small changes, like sleeping earlier and avoiding late meals.
The speaker suggests that it takes around 40 days for a habit to solidify, as demonstrated by the example of a man who successfully made Fajr prayer a habit.
Neuroplasticity also applies to childhood traumas, emphasizing that parents' treatment of their children significantly shapes their brain development.
Children with ADHD experience delays in attention compared to their peers, requiring parents to better understand and adapt to these differences.
Each child in a family grows up with different experiences, even if raised in the same household, due to birth order and varying parental expectations.
The speaker emphasizes the importance of continued learning and reading about modern parenting techniques to improve the way parents handle challenges.
The speaker advises young individuals not to self-diagnose mental health conditions like anxiety or depression without professional help.
Through willpower and consistent actions, people can rewire their brains, undo bad habits, and replace them with positive ones.
Transcripts
Have you heard of a term called neuroplasticity?Ā Or it's also called brain plasticity. Literally,Ā Ā
brothers and sisters, the brain that you andĀ I have, you and I have control over changingĀ Ā
it in the way we want. It's not an easy task, butĀ we can. And you can teach your children that theyĀ Ā
are able to change their brains. Just give themĀ the example of Legos. You can build the Legos,Ā Ā
dismantle the Legos, rebuild them in a differentĀ way, change parts of it. Here. Like Legos,Ā Ā
like blocks of Legos. Our brain is rightĀ inside there are little tiny channels,Ā Ā
all right? Neurons connect to other neurons.Ā Allahu Alam, 30 billion, 300 billion, I don'tĀ Ā
know, many billions of neurons. They connect andĀ they make highways and roads and they grow likeĀ Ā
these little roots. They grow and they make newĀ bridges and connections. When you develop habits,Ā Ā
these channels grow. Develop other habits,Ā these channels grow. You stop certain habits,Ā Ā
the channels get less. Other channels grow. YourĀ brain gets rewired every time. It's a beautifulĀ Ā
study. And Allah, he tells us that in the Quran.Ā He tells us that we are responsible for. For whatĀ Ā
our brains decide. But the ones we're responsibleĀ for is the one right at the front of our brain,Ā Ā
not the rest of our brain. Does anyone knowĀ at what age the child's brain is almost fullyĀ Ā
complete? Close to adulthood. At what age doĀ you think it's almost fully complete? ModernĀ Ā
studies tell us about six, could be seven aroundĀ that age. It's true. That means the way the childĀ Ā
grew up with their parents and their environmentĀ and their experiences. There are those channelsĀ Ā
in the brain have already been set at six or sevenĀ years old. After that, the brain starts to developĀ Ā
in a different way. And when you reach puberty,Ā guess what starts to develop in your brain? TheĀ Ā
front part of your brain, prefrontal cortex, thatĀ keeps growing until about 25 years old. That'sĀ Ā
the place responsible for judgment, decisionĀ making, fears, and so on and so forth. Rationale,Ā Ā
all that, making decisions through it. Allah saysĀ in the Quran, nay, if he does not desist from hisĀ Ā
oppressive and wrong actions, but in general, toĀ all of us, the human who oppresses and does wrong,Ā Ā
we shall take him by his forelock on the day ofĀ judgment. A lying, sinful forelock. Forelock hereĀ Ā
is the frontal cortex, responsible for decisions.Ā Allah called it lying and sinful because we haveĀ Ā
control over that. Now, what affects that, ourĀ brain development. Now, when you understand this,Ā Ā
brothers and sisters, you have a bit moreĀ empathy on yourself. You say to yourself,Ā Ā
Subhanallah, my upbringing was a little bitĀ like this and like that. Can I change it? Yes,Ā Ā
inshallah, you can. Ibn al Qaim RahmatullahĀ Alayhi writes in his book, he mentions howĀ Ā
habits develop. Good and bad habits. So he usesĀ the example of sinse. He says, every bad habit,Ā Ā
every sinful habit begins with a thought. A what?Ā A thought. Whisper comes and goes. If you catchĀ Ā
that thought and hold on to it, it turns intoĀ an idea. If you hold on to the idea and thatĀ Ā
repeller, it turns into a plan. If you hold onĀ to the plan and you don't repel it, it turns intoĀ Ā
an action. If you repeat the action, the less youĀ feel sensitive towards it and the more normalizedĀ Ā
it becomes. Then it turns into a habit. And whatĀ do habits turn into if you don't deal with them?Ā Ā
Addictions. Now, the reversal is the same way.Ā Come up with a thought to counter it. Then get anĀ Ā
idea, plan it. Do an action. Get into the oppositeĀ habit again and again, and, inshallah, it will goĀ Ā
away. Example. A young person reaches puberty andĀ the hormones begin to ignite. Sexual hormones.Ā Ā
A friend at school says, there are websites youĀ can look at to satisfy your desire. He goes andĀ Ā
thinks, my parents watch me everywhere. They'veĀ got this. Then he gets. He goes, how am I goingĀ Ā
to do it? I've got a thought. A thought I want toĀ look. How am I going to do. I'll get an idea. TheĀ Ā
idea is, use some kind of software or some way.Ā Ask my friends. Then a plan. I'll choose the rightĀ Ā
time. This is where I'm going to look. Then theĀ action happens. They didn't get caught, so theyĀ Ā
remember the pleasure next time. Again and againĀ and again and again. Then it becomes a habit.Ā Ā
Then it becomes an addiction. How to reverse that?Ā Number one, you need willpower. You need to makeĀ Ā
that decision. Make Buddha, pray to RaqqazeĀ and say, oh, allah, I have made the decisionĀ Ā
to work on myself. Assist me and help me withĀ your support. So you got to make the decision,Ā Ā
then move forward. Think you got the thought?Ā What's the idea? Reverse it. Well, when does itĀ Ā
normally happen? It happens that night at thisĀ time. Through what? Through my device. Okay.Ā Ā
Get rid of my VPN, whatever it is that I'm using.Ā Put an app that stops these websites from comingĀ Ā
up. And put your phone outside in the loungeĀ when you go to sleep, and sleep the first time,Ā Ā
it's very hard. But as you go forward, inshallah,Ā sometimes you need support. Sometimes you need toĀ Ā
talk to a friend or somebody and you can reverseĀ it. It's not easy, but you can. And the rewiringĀ Ā
in your brain changes, and that's how you find theĀ willpower. Afterwards. One brother, he said to me,Ā Ā
brother, I want to pray at the Masjid everyĀ fajr. I said, it's a big task. He said, howĀ Ā
can I do it? I said, start with the thought, thenĀ get an idea, then plan it, then do it. He said,Ā Ā
my thought is to pray in Namasjid every fajr.Ā What's the idea? He said, I'm going to sleepĀ Ā
a little bit early, because my problem is thatĀ if I don't sleep early, I can't wake up. Next,Ā Ā
I'm not going to drink coffee, I'm not goingĀ to eat late. My last meal will be 08:00 p.m.Ā Ā
for example. Whatever he did, he knew himself, heĀ planned for it. Then he woke up. First time wasĀ Ā
hard. Second time was that. Now I played with hisĀ brain as well, studying neuroplasticity. You gotĀ Ā
to help him a bit. So I said to him, I just gaveĀ him a number. I just gave him any number. I said,Ā Ā
it will take you 40 days. Maybe it's right, maybeĀ it's wrong. I just said 40 days. The brother,Ā Ā
after 40 days, went to give a talk in Sydney. AndĀ when I say after 40 days, meaning like two monthsĀ Ā
later or three months later, I went there. But itĀ was then he comes up and says, brother Wallahi,Ā Ā
it worked. Wallahi, at 40 days, I couldn't turnĀ back anymore. Till now I'm doing it. I said, maybeĀ Ā
I should have said to him 20 days, maybe somethingĀ like that. But the point is, brothers and sisters,Ā Ā
he reversed it and it became a habit. It becameĀ easy. But you can't expect everything to happenĀ Ā
straight away. It happens slowly, inshallah.Ā Neuroplasticity, your body all reacts to it,Ā Ā
everything. Childhood traumas start with theĀ parents and the way they talk to their children,Ā Ā
especially children who have somethingĀ called ADHD. It's a problem with attention,Ā Ā
attention disorder. And what happens is that weĀ don't understand, that. We don't read a lot. WeĀ Ā
tend to make it worse. This child truly is bornĀ with a slight delay at their same age. They'reĀ Ā
just not as attentive as others their age. NoĀ child experiences the same upbringing as theirĀ Ā
sibling. A brother who is the oldest does not haveĀ the same experience as the brother who is second,Ā Ā
or the youngest, or the middle child or theĀ girl. It's like each one had their own family.Ā Ā
Literally, if you have five children, theyĀ had five different families. The older childĀ Ā
is treated differently. The youngest one. TheĀ youngest one is spoiled. Everything is cute.Ā Ā
The older one, there's a bit more responsibilityĀ and the middle one is usually neglected. And thenĀ Ā
we come to treat each one of them with the sameĀ consequence in the same words. It's very hard toĀ Ā
parent and Allah Subhu wa ta forgives us forĀ our shortcoming. But we do need to read moreĀ Ā
about parenting and these new names. So youĀ have a child, for example, who is diagnosedĀ Ā
with ADHD. Now, before I say something, one thingĀ I tell my young brothers and sisters, my dear,Ā Ā
my dear. And I'm old enough to be your father.Ā For some of you, my dear son, my dear daughter,Ā Ā
my dear brother, my dear sister, never ever everĀ remember, never ever self diagnose. Don't diagnoseĀ Ā
yourself as if you're your psychologist. JustĀ because you had a bit of anxiety or a bit ofĀ Ā
depression or a bit of your chest was a littleĀ bit constricted does not mean you are sick.
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