In prison interview, Chris Watts describes his marriage

9NEWS

7 Mar 201909:48

Summary

TLDRThe video transcript captures a candid conversation where the speaker reflects on their complex emotions surrounding their partner's pregnancy. They express surprise and a mix of guilt, due to personal conflicts and the unexpected timing of the pregnancy. The discussion also touches on their discomfort with public videos, the partner's involvement in a multi-level marketing business, and the speaker's feeling of being overshadowed in their relationship. The conversation further explores the speaker's attempts to support their partner's business, despite personal reluctance, and their experience using energy-boosting patches.

Takeaways

😮 The speaker seemed shocked and surprised when they found out their partner was pregnant, expressing mixed emotions.
🧒 The speaker mentions previous pregnancies, where they had to try multiple times, unlike the latest one which happened quickly.
😨 There was a sense of guilt and surprise about the timing of the pregnancy, possibly due to ongoing issues in the relationship.
📹 The speaker recalls being visibly less enthusiastic in the pregnancy reveal video compared to previous ones.
😔 The speaker reflects on feelings of guilt, particularly regarding interactions with someone named Nikki during the time of the pregnancy.
🗣️ They discuss a lack of domestic violence or any physical altercations in the household, but mention their partner's dominant personality.
🤷‍♂️ The speaker admits feeling belittled at times but couldn’t pinpoint specific moments and usually went along with situations.
🎥 The speaker often felt uncomfortable being in videos that were made for their partner's business, but did so to help her out.
💼 The business associated with their partner seemed to be a source of significant income, with commissions matching the speaker’s regular earnings.
⚡ The speaker discusses the use of energy patches from the business, explaining how they made them feel more energetic, but didn’t impact personality.

Q & A

What was the speaker's initial reaction when they found out about the pregnancy?
-The speaker seemed shocked and surprised rather than excited. They felt like the situation was already complicated, and the pregnancy added to the complexity.
How did the speaker's feelings about this pregnancy differ from previous ones?
-With previous pregnancies, like Bella's, the speaker was more enthusiastic, even celebrating in some cases. However, with this pregnancy, it felt more like a shock, especially since it happened faster than expected.
What are some reasons the speaker gave for not appearing excited in the pregnancy video?
-The speaker mentioned feeling guilty and in shock. They were also possibly dealing with the guilt of starting to talk to someone else (Nikki) around that time.
Did the speaker indicate there were any fights or domestic violence in their relationship?
-The speaker denied any instances of domestic violence and said they didn't raise their voice often. There were no signs of physical altercations or threats.
How did the speaker describe their role in their relationship, particularly regarding decision-making?
-The speaker mentioned that they often let their partner take control of situations. They described themselves as someone who went with the flow and didn’t place themselves in a dominant or central role.
Did the speaker feel forced into making videos for their partner’s business?
-Yes, the speaker felt like they were participating in the videos primarily to help with their partner's business, rather than out of personal interest.
What kind of business was the speaker’s partner involved in, and how did it affect them?
-The speaker's partner was involved in a business related to promoting and selling patches, likely tied to a multi-level marketing company (Lavelle/Thrive). The speaker felt obligated to participate for the success of the business, even though they weren't passionate about it.
How successful was the speaker's partner in the business?
-The partner was quite successful, making as much money as the speaker did through commissions and even receiving a car allowance from the company.
Did the patches that the speaker wore have any noticeable effects on them?
-The speaker mentioned feeling a boost in energy, particularly with the ‘duo burn’ patches, which made them feel like they were working out all day, though they also expressed fatigue from not sleeping much.
Did the speaker feel like the patches or the business changed their personality?
-No, the speaker didn't believe the patches changed their personality but noted that the ‘duo burn’ patches had a strong effect on their energy levels, which made them feel like they were constantly active.

Outlines

00:00

😲 Shocked Reaction to Pregnancy News

In this section, the speaker discusses their reaction to finding out about their partner's pregnancy. Initially, the speaker seemed more shocked than excited, reflecting on how previous attempts to conceive were difficult, but this time it happened unexpectedly fast. The conversation touches on past pregnancies, including one with Cece, where trying felt more deliberate. The speaker expresses feeling surprised and even scared by the news, implying that it came at a complicated time, possibly due to other personal issues. The speaker also addresses speculation about the pregnancy being too quick, though they acknowledge the speed but dismiss further doubts. There is a mention of feeling guilty about a relationship with another person (Nikki) around the same time.

05:04

😐 Reluctance in Social Media Presence

Here, the speaker reflects on their discomfort participating in social media activities, particularly live videos that were important for their partner's business. The speaker never felt enthusiastic about being in videos and recalls events like a gender reveal on Facebook Live, where they appeared disengaged. The speaker also talks about being involved in their partner's business as a 'salesman' for Lavelle, though reluctantly, because they had to share photos to help her marketing efforts. While the business was profitable, earning commissions and paying for a car allowance, the speaker still felt uncomfortable with the performative aspect and often stumbled when trying to speak about the product.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Pregnancy

The concept of pregnancy is central to the narrative, as it reflects a turning point in the speaker’s life. Throughout the transcript, the speaker discusses multiple pregnancies, including feelings of shock, surprise, and complexity. The pregnancies seem to have occurred in varying circumstances, with the speaker expressing different emotional reactions to each.

💡Nico

Nico is mentioned in relation to the speaker's surprise upon learning about a new pregnancy. The speaker implies that the pregnancy with Nico happened unexpectedly and much faster than previous attempts to conceive, which adds to the emotional complexity of the situation.

💡Guilt

Guilt is a recurring theme in the transcript, particularly in relation to the speaker's interactions with another woman, Nikki. The speaker mentions feeling guilty about talking to Nikki at work, possibly implying an emotional or romantic connection, and this guilt is tied to the timing of the pregnancies and the overall emotional stress in the relationship.

💡Nikki

Nikki is a significant figure in the narrative, as the speaker admits to flirting and forming a connection with her while still involved in another relationship. This interaction creates feelings of guilt and adds tension to the speaker’s emotional state, particularly during the time of the pregnancies.

💡Video

The concept of video appears multiple times, reflecting how the speaker and their partner documented important life moments. The speaker discusses a video in which the pregnancy news was revealed and contrasts it with another video where their reactions were different, indicating emotional changes over time. Videos also play a role in the speaker’s feelings of discomfort and being forced into the public eye.

💡Lavelle/Thrive

Lavelle, or Thrive, refers to the business the speaker’s partner is involved in. It is a multi-level marketing company, and the speaker describes how their partner would include them in sales efforts, often through videos or social media posts. The speaker expresses discomfort with this involvement, highlighting the tension between personal boundaries and business responsibilities.

💡Sales

Sales are mentioned in the context of the speaker’s partner’s business endeavors. The speaker felt forced to participate in sales videos and promotions for Lavelle/Thrive, even though it wasn’t something they were passionate about. This reflects the pressure of being involved in a business that is intertwined with their personal life.

💡Fatigue

Fatigue is discussed in relation to the use of Lavelle/Thrive patches. The speaker mentions feeling constantly energized from the patches, to the point of exhaustion, sleeping only a few hours each night. This fatigue and energy imbalance contribute to the speaker’s overall mental and emotional strain during the time described in the transcript.

💡Control

Control is a key concept, as the speaker frequently discusses their partner taking control in various aspects of their life. This includes making decisions in social situations, managing business-related activities, and even directing the speaker’s involvement in videos. The speaker reflects on how they often took a backseat and didn’t assert themselves, leading to feelings of frustration or resentment.

💡Relationship dynamics

The dynamics of the speaker’s relationship are a core theme, characterized by imbalance and emotional tension. The speaker reflects on being in the background while their partner took charge, and also hints at underlying issues such as guilt, lack of communication, and emotional distance. These dynamics are further complicated by the pregnancies, business pressures, and external relationships.

Highlights

The speaker reflects on their reaction to discovering their partner was pregnant, feeling more shocked than excited.

The pregnancy occurred much faster than anticipated, leading the speaker to suspect it was unusually quick.

The speaker compares reactions to previous pregnancies, noting a more joyful response when learning about the second child.

They recall feelings of guilt potentially linked to an extramarital relationship that began around the time of the pregnancy.

The speaker mentions flirtation with someone at work that began before their partner's pregnancy, contributing to feelings of guilt.

Despite not raising their voice in arguments, the speaker recalls a neighbor mentioning fighting, but denies any domestic violence occurred.

The speaker reflects on their passive role in the marriage, often deferring to their partner's control over situations.

While participating in videos for their partner’s business, the speaker felt uncomfortable and not truly engaged.

They discuss how their partner managed most aspects of their business and how they struggled with sales and communication.

The speaker mentions that the videos and participation in social media were mainly for the business, though they were not enthusiastic.

Despite discomfort, the speaker participated in these videos to support the family financially through the business.

The business was financially successful, generating a significant income, including car allowances and commissions.

The speaker explains how the use of certain products, such as patches, impacted their physical energy and perceived health benefits.

They note feeling unusually energized from wearing specific patches, though not fully understanding the effects.

The speaker recalls experiencing exhaustion despite using energy products, suggesting they may have been overstimulated by them.