HOW TO MAKE THEM BEG FOR IT, I GUESS

Summary

This video script explores eight unconventional principles to attract women, including not prioritizing them, showing restraint in emotional expression, passing fitness tests, ignoring paradoxically to gain interest, avoiding pedestalization, not trying too hard to impress, being willing to walk away, and not seeking validation. These insights aim to empower men to improve their interactions with women.

Takeaways

• 🌟 Women are attracted to men who don't prioritize them, as it creates a scarcity mindset and signals higher value.
• 😢 Men who show too much emotion can come across as weak, which is unattractive to women seeking stability and strength.
• 🚫 Women test men to see if they'll stand up for themselves, and failing these tests can lead to a loss of respect and attraction.
• 🙅‍♂️ Ignoring women after showing initial interest can create reward uncertainty, making them crave your validation more.
• 👸 Putting women on a pedestal can lead to them losing respect for you, as it signals that you see them as superior.
• 🤔 Women are repelled by men who try too hard to impress them, as it signals low self-worth and a need for external validation.
• 🚶‍♂️ Men who are willing to walk away easily are seen as more attractive, as it signals independence and strength.
• 🙅‍♂️ Men who don't seek validation from women are respected for their self-assurance and confidence.
• 🔄 The concept of reverse pursuit suggests that the less interested a man seems, the more a woman may be drawn to him.
• 🧠 Evolutionary psychology plays a significant role in shaping the behaviors that women find attractive in men.

Q & A

What is the main idea presented in the video script about attracting women?

The main idea is that women are attracted to men who prioritize themselves and their own goals, rather than prioritizing women, which paradoxically makes them more interested in being a part of the man's world.

How does focusing on one's own goals affect a man's attractiveness to women?

Focusing on one's own goals triggers a scarcity mindset in women, making the man seem harder to attain and therefore more valuable, which increases his attractiveness.

What is the evolutionary psychology perspective on men showing emotions?

Evolutionary psychology suggests that women are drawn to men who show strength and stability, so showing too much emotion can create a perception of weakness and reduce attractiveness.

Why do women test men, and what does it reveal about the man's character?

Women test men to see if they will stand up for themselves, which is an evolutionary way to gauge strength and assertiveness. Failing these tests can signal weakness and loss of respect.

How does ignoring a woman after showing initial interest affect her attraction towards a man?

Ignoring a woman after showing initial interest creates reward uncertainty, which keeps her on edge and makes her crave the man's validation more.

What is the effect of putting a woman on a pedestal on a man's attractiveness?

Putting a woman on a pedestal signals that the man sees her as superior, which can cause her to lose respect for him and see him as beneath her.

Why does trying too hard to impress a woman often backfire?

Trying too hard to impress signals low self-worth and a need for external validation, which is unattractive to women who are drawn to men with effortless confidence.

What psychological effect does a man walking away easily have on a woman?

A man who is willing to walk away easily triggers reverse pursuit, making him more attractive as it signals independence and strength.

How does not seeking validation from women impact a man's attractiveness?

Men who don't seek validation are seen as confident and self-assured, which are attractive qualities. This also aligns with the evolutionary perspective of leaders and decision-makers.

What are some practical tips a man can take from the script to improve his interactions with women?

Practical tips include prioritizing oneself, maintaining emotional balance, standing up for oneself, not giving too much attention, not putting women on a pedestal, not trying too hard to impress, being willing to walk away, and not seeking validation.

How does the concept of 'scarcity mindset' relate to the advice given in the script?

The scarcity mindset refers to the idea that people value what seems harder to attain. In the context of the script, men who do not prioritize women make themselves seem scarcer and thus more valuable.