Stop thinking...the key to success
Summary
TLDRThe video emphasizes the power of thinking less to attract abundance in life, whether it’s love, money, or opportunity. The speaker argues that overthinking disrupts the natural flow of abundance, and true success comes from being present, enjoying the process, and focusing on adding value to others. Instead of forcing outcomes through constant thinking, letting go and entering a state of flow leads to better results. The video also introduces a 21-day abundance challenge aimed at shifting one's mindset towards abundance through meditation, breathwork, and live coaching.
Takeaways
- 🧠 Thinking less allows more abundance to flow, whether it’s love, money, or opportunities.
- 🔑 The key to receiving abundance is reducing overthinking, which can butcher the vibration and block abundance.
- 📚 Referencing the book 'Don't Believe Everything You Think,' thinking itself can be a survival mechanism that creates suffering.
- 🌊 Abundance and success come more easily when you are in a flow state, not overanalyzing or focusing too much on specific outcomes.
- 💬 The shift from 'what can I get' to 'how can I give value' drastically changes the results, as experienced by the speaker during their time selling women’s shoes.
- 🔄 Permission slips, like the power of facing Southwest, only work if you believe in them. Overthinking them can disrupt energy.
- 🧘♂️ Presence and flow state, rather than constant thinking, are key to breaking free from scarcity and embracing abundance.
- 👶 Childhood experiences of lack, such as not receiving enough attention from parents, can create a deep-seated belief in scarcity.
- 📻 You tune into abundance, like a radio station, by following your passion and giving value, which shifts your energetic frequency.
- 🏡 Minimalism, such as having fewer material things and fewer thoughts, can bring more freedom and abundance.
Q & A
Why does the speaker believe thinking fewer thoughts leads to abundance?
-The speaker believes that thinking fewer thoughts allows one to be more present, enter a flow state, and align with their natural state of abundance. Overthinking disrupts this vibration, whereas being in the moment helps attract abundance naturally.
How does the speaker define abundance?
-The speaker defines abundance as a reflection of one's natural state of being. It is not something that needs to be created through thinking or forced action but is inherent within when one is aligned with their passion and purpose.
What realization did the speaker have while working a commission-based job?
-The speaker realized that focusing on the outcome, like trying to reach a sales target, caused tension and disrupted the process. When they shifted their focus to being present, connecting with others, and having fun, their sales improved naturally.
What is the key concept behind the book 'Don't Believe Everything You Think' mentioned in the video?
-The key concept is that thinking itself is a survival mechanism and the root of much suffering. The book argues that one does not need to believe every thought they have, as thinking often leads to overanalysis and disrupts one's natural flow.
Why does the speaker mention that some successful people might seem 'simple' in their thinking?
-The speaker suggests that people who are less intellectually driven or overanalytical often experience better results because they are not caught up in complex thought patterns. Their simplicity allows them to be more present and in flow, leading to success.
What role does the inner child play in abundance according to the speaker?
-The speaker believes that the inner child may hold beliefs in lack and scarcity if emotional or physical needs were not met during childhood. Addressing and healing this inner child can help release those limiting beliefs and allow one to experience more abundance.
How does the speaker describe the relationship between overthinking and scarcity?
-Overthinking is linked to scarcity because it is a survival mechanism that keeps one focused on what is lacking. To move beyond scarcity, one must let go of overthinking and enter a flow state that aligns with abundance.
What metaphor does the speaker use to explain tuning into abundance?
-The speaker compares abundance to tuning a radio station. Just as one can only listen to a radio station they are tuned into, a person must align their frequency to abundance by focusing on giving, following their passion, and being in flow.
What change in lifestyle did the speaker mention about Alex Becker, and why is it relevant?
-Alex Becker shifted from a materialistic lifestyle with luxury cars and a large house to minimalism, focusing solely on his business. This change helped him eliminate distractions and focus, eventually leading to him selling his company for over $100 million. It illustrates how letting go of excess can lead to greater success.
What is the speaker’s approach to helping others achieve abundance through the 21-day challenge?
-The 21-day magnetic abundance challenge involves live coaching, meditations, and breathwork aimed at releasing old patterns and beliefs that block abundance. It helps participants get into a flow state, let go of scarcity thinking, and align with their natural state of abundance.
Outlines
💭 The Power of Thinking Less to Attract Abundance
The video introduces the idea that thinking fewer thoughts can help attract abundance in various areas like love, money, and opportunities. Contrary to popular belief that positive thinking is necessary to attract abundance, the overthinking process disrupts vibration and hinders results. The speaker references a book, *Don't Believe Everything You Think*, which argues that thinking is often a survival mechanism and not always beneficial. The key to abundance is focusing less on thoughts and more on being present, which leads to a transformative life shift.
🌀 The Flow State and Overthinking
The speaker emphasizes the importance of entering a flow state where thinking is minimal, leading to better results in life, love, and work. By being present in the moment, rather than focusing on specific outcomes or goals, one can naturally attract abundance. The speaker shares a personal experience of selling shoes where focusing on connection, fun, and adding value, rather than on sales targets, led to greater success. Overthinking is likened to butchering the natural flow and energy needed to manifest abundance.
🌱 Embracing Flow Over Scarcity Thinking
The speaker discusses how overanalyzing situations stems from scarcity thinking, a survival mechanism rooted in childhood experiences of lack. The solution to breaking free from scarcity is to stop trying to think your way out of it and instead focus on aligning with your natural state of abundance. The speaker introduces a 21-day Magnetic Abundance Challenge aimed at helping people release these limiting patterns through coaching, meditation, and breathwork. The ultimate message is that abundance is our natural state, and by letting go of overthinking, we can tap into it effortlessly.
📡 Tuning to Abundance Through Passion and Purpose
The speaker explains that abundance is like a radio frequency—you experience the abundance you're tuned into. By giving value and following your passion, you naturally attract abundance. The speaker shares a personal story about transitioning from a shoe sales job to full-time YouTube work, where the higher frequency of passion and creativity resulted in greater success. Overthinking, procrastination, and impostor syndrome are identified as barriers that keep people stuck in familiar, limiting mindsets. To experience more abundance, one must let go of fear and embrace passion-driven action.
🚀 Breaking Free from Familiar Patterns
In this section, the speaker urges viewers to stop overthinking and start taking action. Many people hold themselves back due to fear of the unknown and attachment to familiar but limiting situations. The speaker emphasizes that waiting and overanalyzing are forms of self-sabotage and that success requires stepping into the unknown with confidence. Through personal experience and coaching others, the speaker has found that taking the first step towards following your passion is the most transformative. By letting go of scarcity thinking, one can embrace a more abundant and fulfilled life.
🌍 Redefining Abundance as Freedom
The speaker redefines abundance not as material wealth but as freedom. This realization came through personal experiences, where material possessions, like a big house and expensive cars, eventually felt burdensome. The speaker shares an inspiring story about a successful entrepreneur who downsized his life to focus on his business and ultimately grew it into a multi-million-dollar enterprise. The speaker suggests that true abundance lies in having fewer distractions and more freedom to pursue passion, creativity, and personal growth.
🌟 Letting Go to Make Space for Abundance
The final message focuses on letting go of old habits, overthinking, and self-sabotaging behaviors that keep people tethered to a scarcity mindset. The speaker encourages embracing change, stepping into the unknown, and surrounding oneself with like-minded individuals who inspire growth. Flow, excitement, and passion are the keys to manifesting abundance. Viewers are invited to join the 21-day Magnetic Abundance Challenge, where they can deepen their understanding of abundance and participate in meditation practices that reprogram their minds for success.
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Keywords
💡Abundance
💡Flow State
💡Overthinking
💡Presence
💡Survival Mechanism
💡Scarcity Mindset
💡Imposter Syndrome
💡Vibration
💡Minimalism
💡Letting Go
Highlights
Thinking fewer thoughts allows for more abundance, whether it's love, opportunity, or money.
Overthinking or trying to think your way into abundance can disrupt the vibration needed to attract it.
Thinking is a survival mechanism; focusing on being present and in a flow state brings better results.
People who seem simple or not overly intellectual often achieve more abundance by being less focused on thinking and more in the present moment.
Shifting focus from 'What can I get?' to 'How can I add value to others?' changes the energy and leads to better outcomes.
Overthinking, like trying to align with specific 'power positions,' disrupts the flow and creates awkwardness.
Flow states occur when there’s little thinking and more being present, which is the key to achieving abundance.
Abundance is your natural state of being, and thinking your way into it is paradoxical; it requires letting go of old beliefs.
Inner child healing is essential in transforming scarcity beliefs, which often stem from unmet needs in childhood.
The analogy of tuning into a radio station: abundance is always available, but you must tune your energy to it through passion and giving.
Stepping into the unknown and following your purpose are crucial for shifting into a more abundant state.
Minimalism can enhance focus and abundance by reducing distractions and unnecessary materialism.
Abundance isn’t about acquiring more; it's about freedom, alignment with purpose, and meaningful experiences.
Overanalyzing, procrastination, perfectionism, and impostor syndrome are side effects of overthinking and prevent stepping into abundance.
Letting go of overthinking and stepping into a flow state creates a natural alignment with abundance and purpose.
Transcripts
this video I'm going to show you why
thinking less thoughts is the key to
more abundance whether it's an abundance
of love an abundance of opportunity an
abundance of money you can benefit by
actually thinking less thoughts around
any of these subjects to actually allow
yourself to receive that abundance into
your life now in this video I'm going to
show you exactly how to do that why it
is the key and many for many people the
missing key to actually receiving and
allowing these things
in now first off understand that what we
learn in this type of com this type of
information is that thinking thoughts is
good you want to think positive thoughts
to attract abundance you want to tr
think positive thoughts to attract love
but the thing is is the fact that you're
even thinking thoughts is what is
butchering up the
vibration now you could say that in some
ways there's a book that I read it's
called don't believe everything you
think and it's about this concept of
understanding that because we think that
is why we suffer and we believe that we
need thinking thoughts in order to
survive when in fact thinking itself
self is a survival
mechanism thinking is a survival
mechanism that many animals don't do
when you are in the present moment and
you are in a flow
State what are you thinking
about you're probably not thinking of
anything and what happens is when you
realize that instead of focusing on
thinking thoughts and on trying to
manifest from thinking better thoughts
there's this other way to go about it
that's when it's when everything your
life
changes now and even think about it some
of the people that get the best results
when it comes to either abundance money
or even love a lot of times they're the
most simple
people they're not the most
intellectually smart that's like using
their thoughts to think in certain
sequences to get a specific result a lot
of times not that they're dumb but
they're just they're just not thinking
and some people may say that you know
may on the outside interpret it that way
that they're slower or something but in
fact they're just more
simple with how they're
thinking now one of the things and the
realizations around this for me when it
comes to
abundance was I could very clearly see
that when I used to sell women's shoes
I'd go in every day it was commission
based job so every day I'd go to work I
could see a direct correlation between
what I was thinking to what what I was
experiencing and if I went in and my
goal was to sell $5,000 with the shoes
because that was $500 of commission and
I was thinking about it I was thinking
about it and I was thinking about it I
could tell it was just butchering up the
vibration of
it and what happened is eventually I
stopped thinking about the outcome and I
started focus on being present to the
moment I started to focus on the process
and my intentions changed from what can
I get to get the $5,000 of sales so I
get $500 of commission and it started to
be how can I connect with other people
how can I add value to other people how
can I have fun in the
process and what happened is as I
changed that energy it was more present
moment I wasn't thinking every person
that I helped like how can I add value
to you what can I do it wasn't like that
it was just this inner int it was this
intention that was General but then I
would be in the moment of adding value
being in flow having fun there were less
thoughts and anytime there was
overthinking you want to you want to
know how crazy this could get by the
way when I was in uh I learned about
something that had to do with funu when
I was selling women's shoes and in funu
there was this power position where when
you are facing Southwest based on your
birthday dat that's your power position
so I got a compass and I was looking I
was looking on on uh you know where
where I was working in women shoes at
Nordstroms I was like okay for Southwest
position I have to be faced this way so
what would happen is over overthinking
about it every time I'd be helping a
customer I'd be like how do I get into
my power position so I'd be like in this
awkward position helping people it was
so
dumb overthinking it but here's the
thing these things just butcher up the
vibration if you buy into them if you
believe them they're also just
permission slips meaning they're they're
really only true if you buy into them
being
true but that ended up butchering it all
up the times I've had the best
experience whether it's commission
selling women's shoes or it's even on
YouTube or even at Live Events there's
very little thinking happening there's a
flow state
that's the goal of this whole entire
intention is understanding that you're
not going to think your way out of being
in your head you have to get into your
body you're not going to think your way
out of
scarcity you're not going to think your
way out of
loneliness it has to do with
presence and it has to do with getting
into a flow state of alignment of
following your passion following your
purpose and understanding the true base
bis of abundance in general is that
abundance is a reflection of your
natural state of being not one you need
to talk yourself into it's something you
naturally are you just believe you're
not it so you try you're trying to think
your way into
it it's a
paradox it's a metaphor it's an ironic
Sati I don't know in general this isn't
something you talk yourself out of or
even talk yourself into it's something
you let go of the old you let go of
belie beling that thinking is going to
get you there overanalyzing is going to
get you
there and you start following the
flow following and focusing in the
direction you want to
go so scarcity lack these are things
that priorly there's been some form of
attachment
to and what happens is when you start
focusing more on the Flow State things
being an end of itself the process
process you'll notice you start to get a
different
result so something I'm going to be
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that when we talk about this too there's
a deeper layer we can go here when it
comes to thinking thoughts overanalyzing
the survival mechanism that we
have it's understanding that a lot of
times if our needs were met as a kid if
Mom or Dad's attention was not there if
Mom or Dad were not physically or
emotionally present when we were a kid
we can then maybe buy into lack and
scarcity we may believe that there's not
enough to go
around even think about it in the form
of having siblings if you had siblings
and Mom's attention mom's gaze can only
go to one kid at a
time so anytime Mom's attention was over
here there may have been the
subconscious part of you that's like
what do I have to do to get that if you
weren't having your needs met do I need
to be quieter do I need to be perfect do
I need to be more funny who do I need to
be so there's this there's this survival
mode thinking that starts to
happen and then a shifting of your own
energy and many times a self-abandonment
that happens in order to get your needs
met but there's this ultimate belief in
there's something wrong with me and
there's scarcity there's lack in the
world so a big part of the
transformation is understanding that
there's an inner child part of you that
may believe in lack and scarcity may
feel alone and may feel like your
presence isn't
there so it takes on the burden of
trying to think itself out of getting
its needs
met and if you were to just be present
with that inner child part of you you
may start to
find that there's abundance all around
you it's just requires a shift in energy
a shift in Consciousness a shift in
Focus think of it like the
abundance of you think about the you
know the analogy I use a lot it's like a
radio radio station Tunes to certain
stations the radio frequencies are all
around but you only perceive that which
station you are to tune to so if you
want to experience more abundance you
have to tune to more abundance and you
tune to more abundance partially by
giving by giving and adding value by
following the frequency of your
passion in 2017 when I started on
YouTube I was making daily videos I was
working maybe two hours a week on two
hours a day on videos but 6 hours a day
s hours a day eight hours a day at my 9
to5 job selling women's shoes within a
few months though things picked up on my
YouTube channel and I put in my two
weeks 6 months
later now the thing that I believe
happened is my dominant vibration even
though it was only two hours a day of
making videos those two hours of making
videos I was way more passionate about
had a higher frequency it was about
adding value it was a it was almost like
the universe was more flowing through me
to help me and send me more resources
the more I stepped into it this is what
holds back a lot of people they don't
step into it they don't start they're
waiting they're waiting they're waiting
and it's like you're out of radio
station and you're waiting to tune to
111 FM spiritual people love
synchronistic numbers 111 FM but you're
waiting to turn to the channel because
it feels so familiar to be on 97.5 lak
FM
97.5 L that's hard to say fast but you
get it is feel so familiar this is what
I know this is what's been playing since
I was a kid what if I turn into 111 FM
and what if everyone leaves me that was
on
97.5 what have my friends and family
judged
me overthinking overanalyzing trying to
figure it all
out procrastination perfectionism
self-sabotage impostor syndrome these
are all side effects of
overthinking thinking that thinking is
going to think yourself out of lack or
out out of scarcity you don't think
yourself out of lack and scarcity you
let
go of it to begin with and you start to
get into the flow you make a choice to
start you know I do these 21-day
challenges with my friend Victor where
we show people how to go fulltime doing
what they love and some of the biggest
Transformations we've seen in people is
just I do this thing where I just pretty
much yell start start stop waiting just
start stop waiting just start start what
are you waiting for what are you waiting
for what are you waiting for and it it's
like people just start and then 6 months
later like thanks Aaron I'm full time
because you yelled start at the you
yelled start at us for like 10 minutes
straight it's really that simple but now
even right now even as I say start with
whatever your passion is start following
your excitement what is happening inside
of your
head but but but I don't know how to do
this but what about this but what is my
passion but what is all these trying to
figure it out trying to figure it out
that's the survival mechanism that is
fighting for familiar it's fighting to
keep you where you are cuz where you are
on 97.5 FM feels so
familiar so lukewarm and
comfortable this is what I
know yes maybe some of these friends in
this station don't want the best for me
maybe they're bad influences maybe I'm
drinking and smoking and doing these bad
habits but they're what I
know so so could it be that the thoughts
the overthinking is keeping you Tethered
to the known when there's a whole new
reality with you within you that you can
begin to experience and tune to when you
begin to buy
into following your purpose following
your
passion stepping into the
unknown I moved to California simply
because I knew that that was going to
allow me to step more into the unknown
I'm in a new environment I become more
adaptable cuz for a long time I was not
that adaptable I was like I need
blackout drapes in my in my room so I
can sleep really
deep I have all these rules that was
keeping me Limited in a very comfortable
way of being but I know magic happens in
the unknown creativity happens in the
unknown I've made a video almost every
single day that I've been out here in
Cal California simply because I'm in a
new environment and I have the energy to
do
so another part of abundance is
reframing what abundance is to you what
do you value before there was like a
certain unconsciousness where abundance
to me was like I lived in this big house
had all of these things it was to
totally unnecessary for just one
person but it was like I found comfort
in that
somehow and now I defined abundance as
actually not having so many things so
what I'm doing is I'm donating a whole
bunch of valuable things that I always
rationalize keeping so that I can get
freedom to me is being able to get up
and travel places at a time in my life
where I'm like I could travel anywhere
make videos just have an internet
connection that's what abundance is to
me it's not having materialistic things
it's actually being
free so what do I
value I value freedom I value travel I
value having less things just like
having less thoughts will help you
become more abundant it's almost a
minimalist way of thinking about it
remember watching this one guy on
YouTube he's a YouTuber that's in the in
the um Finance not Finance in like the
business
Niche um his name is Alex Becker I
watched him couple years ago I I watched
him go through I was in a
mastermind um similar Master the same
Mastermind as him when this Mastermind
was open and uh I heard about his story
and then I checked you know out of stuff
but basically he was this guy that had
like six businesses super successful but
just extremely chaotic life he lived in
this huge house in Dallas with all of
these Lamborghinis and cars and stuff
and then what he did is he had this big
dramatic shift in Consciousness or
something and he sold everything he got
rid of everything and he moved into a
$10,000 a month apartment building with
like nothing in it just like a bed and
then like a desk and he just focused on
his business and every day all he did is
he was completely minimalist he went
from extreme consumerism to extremely
minimalist and everyone was like
inspired ired by this because they saw
and his reasoning was now I can focus
now I can focus well what he ended up
doing is growing a business to over 00
million using a software that I think uh
Tony Robbins and Dean graziosi and all
these people use it's like a Facebook
ads thing but anyways he sold it for
over $100
million and that was like a year or two
after he like got rid of everything and
he's like I have so he had he was
already very successful by then I think
he was already worth 20 plus million
but he had the ability basically to live
in this house this empty house he's like
I have enough money to pay this rent for
like 150 years so he had a lot of he had
a lot of uh freedom in knowing that he
didn't have too many things weighing him
down but also he just felt more free so
he went from one lifestyle of cars
things three-story house being in Dallas
to then being in like a smaller
apartment but like with a view maybe
that was just inspiring for him but he
cut away all that stuff and it cut away
all the distraction
and then two years later he sells a he
sells a um company for over100
million thought that was inspired
because it's like you I think a lot of
times people that become successful not
always but sometimes you eventually to a
point to you realize materialism is just
kind of a headache like it doesn't
really equal any more happiness by the
time you get something like a certain
car or something like that it wears off
after a couple days they're like why did
I I got to pay insurance on it every
month and I'm going to drive it barely I
know this stuff sounds like like I don't
know first world problems
but understand what I'm saying when it
comes to abundance
is it's really an internal State of
Consciousness because whatever you
experience and whatever you create on
the external is fleeting unless there's
a deeper sense of meaning there I say
this as someone that's gone from working
a 9 to-5 job selling women shoes to
doing what I love for a living I went
for making maybe sound kind of like I
don't know bragging or whatever I know
it's a spiritual you know a lot of
spiritual content here so sometimes that
can bring up things in spiritual people
because they're like money is bad but I
went from making $70,000 a year to
making probably 50 $60,000 a year so on
my first year on YouTube and then after
that it went to like quarter of a
million a year and then seven figures a
year uh like two or three years later
and the biggest shift in Consciousness
the biggest shift in energy was just
that first shift when I went from doing
a 9 to-5 job to doing what I love that
was the biggest shift cuz I bought my
time back I could go to lunch when I
want to go to lunch I could then start
shopping at Whole Foods and stuff like
that like I didn't have to like kind of
settle for like not such healthy food or
good quality food that was the biggest
shift after that then it's like you get
certain level of success to where you're
like oh this is kind of a burden to have
all of these things I kind of want to
like be free now and then you become
free and that's kind of where I'm at now
where I'm traveling and I'm realizing
what is abundance really to me but you
find this through through
self-exploration you find this through
realizing that more is not better maybe
less is better maybe less is more free
maybe you can be happier with less maybe
it's more about just finding something
very meaningful that you love doing that
you just get into the flow state with
like when I make these videos I get into
a flow state so understand that for this
process of abundance it requires a
certain level of letting go of the past
letting go of overthinking just getting
into a flow State and starting stop
letting self- sabotage impostor s
procrastination perfectionism hold you
back they're just over analytical
thoughts that are trying to keep you in
the familiar are you going to leave the
people behind that you know some of them
may be inspired to come with you and to
like Elevate their their their mindset
some of them won't that's okay you will
find the people that resonate with the
New Abundant you and you do that by
letting go and realizing it's about
getting into the Flow State the more I
get in flow the more I love what I do
the more I'm I step into the unknown the
more I start the more magic that's just
how it works so if you want to join that
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listen to this meditation for 21 days
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