I found the best way to move on from failures and traumas.
Summary
TLDRIn this video, the speaker shares their personal experience of a significant exam failure and how they overcame it. They emphasize viewing failures as opportunities for growth, learning from them, and developing a better mentality. The speaker encourages the audience to appreciate the love around them and to see themselves as heroes overcoming challenges, rather than victims. They remind viewers to be kind to themselves and to continue striving for their goals, offering praise and encouragement.
Takeaways
- π Faced a significant exam failure that was emotionally impactful.
- π Despite the failure, recognized the importance of a positive mindset and learning from the experience.
- π€ Questioned self-worth but reframed the failure as an opportunity for growth.
- π Learned the value of better study methods and stress management from the failure.
- π« Gained a deeper appreciation for friendships and the support of loved ones after the setback.
- π Expressed gratitude for the love and support received, especially from family.
- πͺ Suggested viewing challenges as opportunities to become stronger, like a hero in movies.
- π« Advised against viewing oneself as a victim, as it hinders recovery and progress.
- π― Emphasized the goal of recovering quickly from bad experiences to continue exploring life.
- π Offered praise and encouragement, recognizing the viewer's efforts and potential for success.
Q & A
What was the speaker's biggest failure?
-The speaker's biggest failure was not achieving satisfactory results in an exam they had prepared for over five years.
How did the speaker feel after the exam results were released?
-The speaker's mood dropped to the lowest point in their life, feeling self-doubt and questioning their intelligence.
What was the weather like on the day the exam results were released?
-The weather was quite good, with the sun being shiny.
How did the speaker's friends and teachers play a role in their experience?
-The speaker was chatting with friends and teachers they hadn't seen in months, which might have provided some comfort despite the disappointing results.
What was the speaker's mindset during the night before the exam results were released?
-The speaker couldn't sleep, indicating a high level of anxiety and anticipation.
What is the speaker's perspective on failure and trauma?
-The speaker believes that every failure and trauma can be a learning experience and an opportunity for growth.
What specific lessons can one learn from failing an important exam according to the speaker?
-One may learn better study methods and improve their ability to cope with stress.
How does the speaker suggest viewing failures and traumas?
-The speaker suggests viewing failures and traumas as growth opportunities and challenges rather than dwelling on them as victims.
What is the speaker's advice for recovering from bad experiences?
-The speaker advises treating bad experiences as challenges and focusing on recovery to continue with life and explore new things.
What realization did the speaker have after their big failure?
-The speaker became more aware and appreciative of the love and support they have around them.
What does the speaker suggest people do if they have similar thoughts about the love they receive?
-The speaker suggests expressing gratitude and telling loved ones how much they are appreciated.
What is the main reason the speaker believes teenagers feel incompetent?
-The speaker believes a lack of compliments and positive reinforcement is the main reason why teenagers feel incompetent.
What is the speaker's final message to the viewers?
-The speaker's final message is to keep going despite setbacks, as they believe the viewers will succeed one day.
Outlines
π Overcoming Failures and Traumas
The speaker begins by sharing their personal experience of a significant failure, which was not passing an exam they had prepared for over five years. Despite the sunny weather and supportive friends, the speaker couldn't sleep the night before the results were released and was deeply disappointed by the outcome. They questioned their own intelligence and confidence. However, they reframed the failure as an opportunity for growth, suggesting that from every failure or trauma, one can learn valuable lessons such as better study methods or coping mechanisms for stress. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of developing a better mentality and becoming more appreciative of the love and support from friends and family. They encourage viewers to see their own failures as a chance to grow and to express gratitude to their loved ones.
πͺ Embracing Challenges as a Path to Strength
In the second paragraph, the speaker encourages viewers to view their challenges not as insurmountable obstacles but as opportunities to become stronger, drawing parallels to movie heroes who face adversity to grow. They acknowledge that feeling daunted is a natural response to high expectations and reassure viewers that they are doing well. The speaker offers praise and compliments, which they believe are lacking in modern society and contribute to a sense of inadequacy. They urge viewers to keep moving forward with their goals, promising that success will come with persistence. The speaker ends by thanking viewers for watching and inviting them to engage with the content by commenting, sharing, and subscribing.
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘Failure
π‘Trauma
π‘Growth
π‘Confidence
π‘Stress
π‘Mentality
π‘Love
π‘Victim
π‘Challenges
π‘Expectations
π‘Compliments
Highlights
The best method to face failures and traumas is introduced.
The speaker shares their biggest failure of not doing well in an exam.
The day of the exam result was sunny and the speaker was chatting with friends and teachers.
The speaker couldn't sleep the night before the exam results were released.
The speaker's mood dropped significantly after seeing the unsatisfactory results.
The speaker questioned their intelligence and confidence after the failure.
The speaker suggests viewing failures and traumas as opportunities for growth.
Failures can lead to learning better study methods and coping with stress.
Experiencing bullying can lead to a better understanding of friendship.
The speaker emphasizes the importance of developing a better mentality through difficult experiences.
After the failure, the speaker became more aware and appreciative of the love around them.
The speaker encourages expressing gratitude to loved ones for their support.
The speaker suggests not thinking of oneself as a victim to avoid getting stuck in negativity.
The goal is to recover from bad experiences quickly to continue with life.
The speaker advises treating failures as challenges to become stronger.
The speaker acknowledges that expectations can be a source of stress.
The speaker praises the audience for their efforts and goals.
The speaker encourages the audience to keep going and believes they will succeed.
The speaker asks the audience to comment, share, and subscribe to the channel.
Transcripts
in this video I want to share about the
best method to face failures and
traumas before telling you the method
let me share about my biggest failure
that happens in around 2 months ago I
prepared an exam for fre years and then
the results aren't very satisfactory to
me I still remember clearly and will
probably remember it for my entire life
that the weather is quite good in that
day the sun was shiny and I was chatting
with my friends and my teachers you know
we haven't seen in months I couldn't
sleep last night before the release of
my entrance exam
results and turns out the
results aren't good for me my mood
dropped to the lowest point in my life
self-doped I even question whether I'm
stupid I haven't ever been that Inc
confident I mean I'm not a very
confident person
but yeah it is
my most
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inconfidentes to think it as a growth
I think for every failure and promise
you can learn something out of it for
example you failed in a very important
exam you may learn some better study
methods and you may cope with stress
better and for example you experienced
bullying you may fail your friendship
more after that you will be a very good
friend to your
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friends and I think most importantly you
grow a better mentality during those
events and that's why I
think you can think it as a
growth so all those things are the
so-called benefits from the
event for me personally After
experiencing
that big failure I I'm more aware of the
love around me yes definitely I
appreciate it even
before that event but since I kind of
have it too easily so I thought it was
meant to be here but then I realized
that it is in fact not true if you look
online or um even
friends around you classmates around
you they may not have good
parents like their parents may not love
them so now I'm genuinely very grateful
for people loving
me
because they really don't have to do it
but they still do it for
you if you have the same thoughts as me
you can tell your parents that you love
them so much
tonight so I guess this is the biggest
take away from my
failure I know you may disagree with me
that failures or traumas may be good at
this point but hold on don't comment yet
and don't leave this video keep
watching I'll explain now you may think
yourself as a victim
and yes you
are but what does it bring to you
thinking yourself as a victim it does
not help you in any
way if you keep thinking yourself as a
victim you get stuck in it like nearly
forever let's make things clear our goal
After experiencing those bad experiences
is to recover from from it as fast as
possible because life has to continue
and there are many many things to
explore yet if you follow my
suggestion treat those things as
challenges they will no longer become
something too bad imagine yourself as a
hero in movies Marvel or anything else
you have to to go through all those
shits to become
stronger I think there's no any heroes
in movies that don't experience any
challenges I want to tell you in front
of the camera that you are daunted most
likely because you have expectations for
yourself and it could possibly be too
high I want you to know that you already
did very well
you have your goals and you worked hard
for it so don't put too much stress on
yourself I Want To Praise You In This
video because I think nowadays we really
lack of
compliments and I think it is the main
reason why we are so
incompetent as teenagers you already did
very well so just keep going and you
will succeed one
day thanks for watching my videos if you
like my video comment share and
subscribe my channel
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