How Years of Gaming Weakens Brain's Ability to Problem Solve | Executive Dysfunction

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1 Jul 202116:52

Summary

TLDRThe video script delves into executive dysfunction, a condition that hampers the ability to initiate and execute tasks, often exacerbated by mental health issues. Dr. K explains that executive function, linked to the brain's frontal lobes, matures around ages 30-32. To combat dysfunction, one must operationalize problems by breaking them into manageable tasks. The script also addresses the emotional impact and offers strategies like meditation to strengthen the medial prefrontal cortex, crucial for operationalizing tasks. It distinguishes executive dysfunction from motivational issues, emphasizing the importance of addressing the root cause rather than symptoms.

Takeaways

  • 🧠 Executive dysfunction is a condition where the frontal lobes of the brain, responsible for planning and executing tasks, do not function optimally.
  • 🔍 It can be challenging for those without executive dysfunction to understand the struggle of those who have it, as it feels like an inability to force oneself to take action.
  • 📈 Executive function improves with age, typically reaching its peak between 30 and 32 years old, due to the development of the frontal lobes.
  • 🎮 Playing video games can negatively impact executive function because they often provide the steps to complete tasks, reducing the need for the brain to plan and execute.
  • 🤔 Individuals with executive dysfunction experience paralysis around goals, understanding what needs to be done but struggling to break tasks into manageable steps.
  • 🔄 Operationalizing problems is a key strategy to overcome executive dysfunction, which involves breaking down abstract goals into concrete, actionable steps.
  • 💢 Frustration and negative emotions often accompany executive dysfunction and can hinder progress; addressing these emotions is crucial for improvement.
  • 🧘‍♂️ Meditation can help strengthen the medial prefrontal cortex, which is associated with operationalizing problems and can improve executive function over time.
  • 🚫 Be cautious of thoughts that prevent you from starting tasks, such as perfectionism or fear of failure, as they can exacerbate executive dysfunction.
  • ❌ Motivation is not the same as executive function; motivational issues can stem from various underlying problems, including executive dysfunction, and should be addressed specifically.

Q & A

  • What is executive dysfunction?

    -Executive dysfunction refers to difficulties with the cognitive processes that underlie planning, organizing, and executing tasks. It is often linked to issues with the frontal lobes of the brain, which are responsible for these functions.

  • How does executive dysfunction affect an individual's ability to perform tasks?

    -Individuals with executive dysfunction may struggle to break down tasks into manageable steps, leading to a feeling of paralysis and an inability to initiate or complete tasks, even those they find enjoyable.

  • At what age does executive function typically reach its full potential?

    -Executive function generally reaches its full potential between the ages of 30 and 32, which is related to the development of the frontal lobes.

  • How can playing video games impact executive function?

    -Playing video games can negatively impact executive function because they often provide step-by-step instructions, doing the planning for the player and potentially reducing the need for their own executive function skills.

  • What is the process of 'operationalizing problems' and how does it help with executive dysfunction?

    -Operationalizing problems involves breaking down abstract goals into concrete, manageable tasks. This process can help individuals with executive dysfunction by providing a clear, step-by-step guide to achieving their goals.

  • Why is it challenging for individuals with executive dysfunction to find purpose or work on other aspects of their life?

    -Finding purpose or working on other life aspects requires the ability to set and pursue goals, which can be difficult for those with executive dysfunction due to their struggle with planning and executing tasks.

  • How can meditation potentially improve executive function?

    -Meditation can strengthen the medial prefrontal cortex, a part of the brain associated with executive function, potentially improving one's ability to operationalize problems and manage tasks.

  • What role do emotions play in executive dysfunction, and how can they be managed?

    -Emotions, particularly frustration and feelings of incompetence, can exacerbate executive dysfunction by creating a barrier to action. Therapy and emotional processing can help manage these emotions and improve executive function.

  • How does executive dysfunction differ from motivational issues?

    -Executive dysfunction is a specific cognitive issue related to planning and executing tasks, whereas motivation is a broader concept that can involve various psychological and neuroscientific factors. Executive dysfunction can present as a lack of motivation, but the underlying issue is the difficulty in task management, not a lack of desire to act.

  • What strategies can be used to overcome the paralysis caused by executive dysfunction?

    -Strategies include learning to operationalize problems, managing negative emotions through therapy, practicing meditation to strengthen relevant brain areas, and addressing specific cognitive challenges that prevent task initiation.

Outlines

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🧠 Understanding Executive Dysfunction

The paragraph discusses the impact of executive dysfunction on daily life and the difficulty in finding solutions or even discussing the issue. It explains that executive dysfunction is related to the frontal lobes of the brain, which are responsible for planning and executing tasks. The analogy of a five-year-old versus a three-year-old's ability to clean a room is used to illustrate the concept. The speaker notes that executive function improves with age, reaching its peak between 30 and 32 years old, and suggests that video games may negatively impact this function by doing the planning for the player. The paragraph concludes by emphasizing the challenge of breaking down tasks into manageable steps, which is a key issue for individuals with executive dysfunction.

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🤔 The Frustration of Executive Dysfunction

This section delves into the frustration experienced by individuals with executive dysfunction, who have an understanding of their disorder but are unable to overcome it. The inability to break down tasks is likened to a three-year-old's struggle to clean a room without guidance. The paragraph highlights the importance of operationalizing problems, or converting abstract goals into concrete, manageable steps. The speaker shares an exercise from Dr. K's guide, suggesting that individuals pretend to have a servant who will carry out exact instructions, thereby learning to break tasks into smaller, executable parts. The paragraph also touches on the emotional toll of executive dysfunction, including feelings of incompetence and frustration, and the need for therapy to address these emotions.

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🛠️ Overcoming Executive Dysfunction

The paragraph focuses on strategies to overcome executive dysfunction, starting with the process of operationalizing problems. It suggests an exercise where individuals imagine giving detailed instructions to a hypothetical servant to complete a task, which can help in breaking down tasks into actionable steps. The discussion then moves to the emotional aspect, emphasizing the need to manage negative emotions that hinder action. The speaker mentions the role of meditation in strengthening the medial prefrontal cortex, which can aid in operationalizing problems. The paragraph concludes with advice on being mindful of thoughts that prevent starting tasks and the idea that executive dysfunction can improve over time with practice and specific cognitive skills.

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📉 Executive Dysfunction vs. Motivation

In this paragraph, the speaker differentiates executive dysfunction from motivational issues, arguing that motivation is a broad term that encompasses various processes. The paragraph critiques the oversimplification of motivation and the ineffectiveness of generic motivational advice. It suggests that what appears to be a lack of motivation could actually be executive dysfunction or other underlying issues. The speaker advocates for a more nuanced approach to understanding and addressing motivational problems, emphasizing the importance of identifying the specific root causes rather than applying a one-size-fits-all solution.

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Keywords

💡Executive Dysfunction

Executive dysfunction refers to difficulties in cognitive processes that are controlled by the executive functions of the brain, particularly the frontal lobes. These functions include planning, organizing, strategizing, paying attention to and completing tasks, and controlling impulses. In the video, executive dysfunction is described as a crippling effect caused by mental illness, making it hard for individuals to take action or manage tasks, even simple or fun ones.

💡Frontal Lobes

The frontal lobes are the front parts of the brain's cerebral cortex, responsible for high-level cognitive functions, including decision-making, planning, social conduct, and the expression of personality. In the script, it's mentioned that executive function, which is impaired in executive dysfunction, is associated with the development of the frontal lobes, which typically reaches full potential between the ages of 30 and 32.

💡Operationalizing Problems

Operationalizing problems is a process of breaking down complex or abstract goals into smaller, manageable, and concrete tasks. This concept is used in the video to suggest a strategy for individuals with executive dysfunction to tackle tasks by turning them into a series of simple steps that can be more easily executed. For instance, instead of thinking about 'cleaning a room,' one might break it down into 'putting books away,' 'putting toys away,' etc.

💡Video Games

Video games are mentioned in the context of how they can negatively impact executive function. The video suggests that video games can 'do the executive function for you,' meaning they provide the steps and structure for the player, which can reduce the need for the player to engage their own executive functions. This could potentially lead to difficulties in planning and executing tasks in real life.

💡Paralysis

Paralysis in this context refers to the feeling of being unable to start or complete tasks due to executive dysfunction. It is used in the video to describe the overwhelming sense of inaction that individuals with executive dysfunction can experience when faced with complex tasks. The video explains that this paralysis is not due to a lack of motivation but rather an inability to break down tasks into actionable steps.

💡Emotions and Frustration

Emotions and frustration are discussed in relation to how they can exacerbate executive dysfunction. The video highlights that the negative emotions and frustration individuals feel about their inability to complete tasks can create a barrier to action. The video suggests that addressing these emotions through therapy and other means is an important part of managing executive dysfunction.

💡Meditation

Meditation is suggested in the video as a tool for strengthening the medial prefrontal cortex, a part of the brain associated with executive function. By practicing meditation, individuals can potentially improve their ability to operationalize problems and manage the emotional aspects of executive dysfunction.

💡ADHD

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is mentioned as a condition that often co-occurs with executive dysfunction. The video explains that individuals with ADHD may struggle with executive functions, making it difficult for them to plan, organize, and complete tasks. This connection is used to illustrate the complexity of executive dysfunction and the importance of addressing underlying conditions.

💡Motivation

Motivation is discussed in the video as a misunderstood term that encompasses various psychological and neuroscientific issues. The video argues that a lack of motivation is often misdiagnosed and can be a symptom of executive dysfunction, rather than the root cause. Understanding the actual problem, such as executive dysfunction, is crucial for finding effective solutions.

💡Cognitive Skills

Cognitive skills refer to the mental abilities that individuals use to process information, including memory, perception, thinking, and problem-solving. In the video, cognitive skills are mentioned as tools that can be developed to help manage executive dysfunction, such as learning how to operationalize problems and manage negative thoughts that prevent starting tasks.

Highlights

Executive dysfunction is a significant challenge for individuals with mental illnesses, often leading to a feeling of being unable to initiate actions.

The frontal lobes of the brain are responsible for planning and executing tasks, which are essential for executive function.

Executive function improves with age, reaching full potential around 30 to 32 years old due to frontal lobe development.

Playing video games can negatively impact executive function as they often provide the steps for the player, reducing the need for planning.

Individuals with executive dysfunction experience paralysis around goals due to an inability to break down tasks into manageable steps.

The importance of operationalizing problems, or breaking down abstract goals into discrete, actionable steps, for those with executive dysfunction.

A practical exercise for operationalizing involves imagining giving step-by-step instructions to a servant for completing a task.

Frustration and negative emotions often accompany executive dysfunction and can hinder progress.

Therapies can help process negative emotions and improve executive function over time.

Meditation can strengthen the medial prefrontal cortex, aiding in operationalizing problems and improving executive function.

Executive dysfunction is not the same as motivational issues, as motivation is a term that encompasses various psychological processes.

Executive function does not typically degrade after the age of 32, unlike some other cognitive functions.

The differentiation between executive dysfunction and motivational issues is crucial for proper diagnosis and treatment.

Strategies for dealing with executive dysfunction include addressing negative emotions, learning to operationalize problems, and being mindful of thoughts that prevent starting tasks.

Perfectionism can be a barrier to action for individuals with executive dysfunction, as it may lead to paralysis due to unrealistic expectations.

Cognitive skills training can help individuals with executive dysfunction overcome the challenges of initiating and completing tasks.

The discussion highlights the importance of understanding and addressing executive dysfunction as a distinct issue from general motivational problems.

Transcripts

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really like to talk to dr k about

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executive dysfunction and how to conquer

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it

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as it has been the most crippling effect

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caused by my mental illness and has

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essentially made life

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progress progress near impossible in

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many respects

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and yet this is a topic that seems to go

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often untalked about in any sort

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of detail especially in any sort of

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solutionary

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respect i've even struggled to get my

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therapist to talk about it with me

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perhaps that is because i have also

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found that those who don't

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deal with this issue have an especially

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difficult time understanding it as well

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it is hard for them to grasp the idea of

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feeling

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like you are literally unable to force

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yourself to take an action

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and i get it because i deal with it

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every day and i still

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find it hard to understand how it can be

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this way i too often wonder why can't i

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just do it like everybody else from my

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point of view it is a bad enough

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having to battle my mind but it is

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torturous not being able to hardly ever

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just get myself to do some sort of work

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or even a fun hobby

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to help myself through it on top of that

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and it is very hard for me to find

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purpose in myself

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or work on other parts of my life and

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mental health

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as well when i can't actually manage

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to hardly get myself to do simple or

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even fun tasks

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let alone those more important

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purposeful ones

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so basically it feels like i'm

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constantly stuck in a solitary prison

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and given nothing to do other than sit

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and look out through the bars to see all

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the things that i enjoy and want

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need to take part in but can't okay this

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is a great question

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so the first question is what is

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executive dysfunction

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we have a part of our brain called the

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frontal lobes

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which plan and execute tasks okay

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so what this means is that the example

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that we're going to use to

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explain executive dysfunction is i have

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a three-year-old and i have a

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five-year-old

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if i tell my five-year-old to clean up

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the room she can do it

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if i tell my three-year-old to clean up

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the room

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she's gonna feel like she just can't do

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it right so then what i have to do is i

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have to tell my three-year-old okay

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let's put the books away and the

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three-year-old can do that i can tell

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let's put the toys away but she can do

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that let's put the stuffed animals away

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she can do that she can put the ipad

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away she can put the controller away she

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can put her bowl away

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but she needs me to structure those

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tasks together to take like to reach an

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abstract goal okay so executive function

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is the ability to plan and execute tasks

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so if i think about something like

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finding a job

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that requires a lot of executive

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function right

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so it requires me to think about okay

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like what are the steps involved and

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execute on those tasks

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so the first thing to understand about

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executive function is that

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it improves with age and your executive

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function kind of

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uh you know reaches its full potential

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it's somewhere between

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the age ages of 30 and 32 and this has

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to do with frontal lobe development

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so the first issue for this person is

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depending on how old you are

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things may get better for you as you get

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older

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i'm not saying that it's sufficient now

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like you can't really bank on that right

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like you can't like

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if you're a high school student with

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poor executive function

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you can't wait until you're 30 to do

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high school

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so that's the first thing just to

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reassure you guys that you will get

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better at this

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over time until the age of 30 to 32. the

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second thing that i found is that

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executive function tends to get

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negatively impacted by playing video

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games

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i know it sounds kind of weird but if

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you spend a lot of time playing video

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games

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what video games essentially do is like

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do the executive function for you okay i

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know it sounds weird but like think

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about this so i've been playing genji

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impact recently right so like i don't

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have

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the the game sort of tells me what i

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need to do like if you play world of

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warcraft or genji

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impact or whatever i don't have to plan

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out i mean sort of people do in genshin

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impact but

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you know if you play a particular video

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game the game tells you okay the next

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step you need to do is this the next

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step you need to do is this the next

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step you need to do is this

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like if i if i take ff7 for example like

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ff7 doesn't start off in the first 10

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minutes and say

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hey beat sephiroth and then you have to

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construct

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how to get from where you are to like

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beat sephiroth at the end

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sure you know he's the bad guy and you

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know he's the end goal but

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gideo video games give you the steps

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okay

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so the problem that people with

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executive function have or dysfunction

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have

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is that they don't they're not their

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brains are not able to

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plan out and execute each step of the

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task

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so if we think about like you know

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planning and execution

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what someone with a good executive

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function can do is like plan out the

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steps they understand that okay if i

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need to clean my room

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these are the six things that need to

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happen so what people

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with executive function experience is

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paralysis

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around goals so what that means is like

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they know

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like the three-year-old theoretically

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knows

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what a clean room looks like and if i

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ask her like what in the room looks

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dirty she can tell me that

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so what's really frustrating about

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people with executive dysfunction

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is that they're they have insight

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into um

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their dysfunction but what's incredibly

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frustrating about this is that despite

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the insight

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it doesn't actually change your brain

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and allow your brain to actually do it

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so you like the three-year-old can

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understand what a clean room looks like

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can understand that her room is dirty

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but that

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abstract level understanding is not the

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same

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as the frontal lobes being able to chunk

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down that task

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so really what executive function is is

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the ability to take one task and like

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chunk it into pieces right so when i

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plan and execute like here's find a job

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or clean a room and it's it's being able

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like this process

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is what's messed up with executive

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dysfunction

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okay and understanding it insight into

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it

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is not the same it's the ability to like

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think through what

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what to do so another example is like

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you know sometimes we'll have like let's

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say like you're having you're hosting a

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party

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so people who have like people who are

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event planners

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have really good executive dis uh

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function so like

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they like plan out this big task let's

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throw a wedding this has to get done

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this has to get done this has to get

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done this has to get done so they're

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very good

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like very organized so the problem with

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executive dysfunction is that we

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aren't able to like figure out how to

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chunk up a task and execute on it

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and it feels incredibly paralyzing

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because our brain is

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literally not able to do this so if we

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think about how you know how do you

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start on a task that's too big

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you can't so this is why people feel

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paralyzed because if the task is too big

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you literally cannot do it

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like i can't like if i were to tell you

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you know

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win a nobel prize like

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how do you even start with that like

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that's crazy like you may be able to

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theoretically map out what needs to be

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done but you can't actually break it

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apart

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into like it's subsequent pieces and

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actually execute on it

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so then the question is what to do about

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executive function

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about executive dysfunction actually and

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this is where there are a couple of

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things to recognize

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so when people um

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have paralysis and executive dysfunction

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there are a couple of different

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components

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so when you're paralyzed towards a

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behavior there are

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three things that i'd like to talk about

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the first is operationalize

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so what this means is like there's

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actually a formal process that you can

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get

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trained in to do this

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so this is what we call operationalizing

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problems

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um in in gamer terminology so like back

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when we did

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a lot of work with gamers i know we

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still do a lot of work with gamers but i

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used to

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do a lot of work specifically around

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video game addiction and what i would

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teach people is how to

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change an open-ended problem so this is

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something like win nobel prize or find a

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job

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into a close-ended problem so what that

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means is to essentially

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go through the process of converting an

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abstract thing

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into like a discrete quest goal so like

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forget about the quest

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chain we're gonna like because we can't

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map out the quest chain so or

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actually what we're gonna do is we're

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gonna take a goal and we're gonna map it

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on to what we call a quest

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chain and then the quest chain will have

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discrete pieces

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so this is called operationalizing

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problems which gamers

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are bad at the really interesting thing

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is that gamers are actually better than

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the average population

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at this piece so if you give a gamer a

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very discreet task

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and you give them an end goal and you

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give them all the pieces

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they will actually outperform regular

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people when it comes to doing that task

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so this is a real scenario okay i was

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taking a class at harvard business

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school

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and in the in the class at harvard

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business school we were given a case and

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we were told to solve this problem

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about how to optimize flow through a

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urology clinic

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literally i was swamped at the time so i

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logged onto discord and i was like hey

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do you guys want to help me with this

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and i just uploaded this

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harvard business school case to group of

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my degenerate gamer friends

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and the next day they like came up with

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like four or five solutions i went into

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class two days later

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i had the solutions for my gamer buddies

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and they're like how what do you do and

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i was like hey this is what i'm going to

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do and the professor is like that's

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brilliant no understanding of medicine

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no understanding of mba stuff no

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understanding of any of that crap

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if you give them a close-ended task and

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give them the parameters

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gamers are good at this gamers are bad

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at this so if you have a problem with

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executive dysfunction the first thing

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that you need to do

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is learn how to turn this into this so

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that's called

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operationalizing problems there's a

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there's a actually an exercise that we

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share in dr k's guide so we talk a lot

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about this in dr k's guide but i'll

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share the exercise with you now so this

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is what i tell people who have

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um executive dysfunction like as a

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therapist

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what i'll say is pretend you are

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paralyzed from the the neck down

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and pretend you have a servant who will

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do exactly what you tell them to do

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what would you how would you tell them

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to like accomplish this task

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so in the terms of like finding a job

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it's like you're paralyzed you like

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literally have to tell them

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go to my computer log in open a web

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browser

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do a google search for jobs available

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in you know washington dc

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what do you see there okay then do this

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then do this then do this

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and what i find with with people who

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have executive dysfunction is that when

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you really like work them through that

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process

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they will actually be able to like

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execute on tasks so the first thing is

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operationalizing problems

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second problem with executive

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dysfunction is frustration

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and emotions a lot of people with

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executive dysfunction

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also have adhd or the other way around

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so people with adhd have trouble like

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with executive

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function okay so this is the really

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interesting thing is that i find that

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when you're

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paralyzed towards behavior there's like

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a practical component to it

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but there's also this component of like

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feeling so

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damn dumb and feeling so damn

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incompetent and frustrated with yourself

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that it actually negatively impacts your

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behavior because if we think about like

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what

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promotes behavior right so like it's not

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frustration and negative emotion

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it's like inspiration and confidence so

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what people with executive dysfunction

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literally have to do in order to improve

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their dysfunction

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is digest these emotions so we'll do

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therapy around this

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because any time you're thinking about

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taking a behavior right like so

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if i have an idea and then i want to

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take an action

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what goes in here what is this composed

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of it's composed of

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operationalizing and then there's going

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to be like

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there's going to be good emotions and

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there's going to be

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bad emotions right so there's like a war

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between my good emotions and my bad

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emotions

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in terms of whether i take the action or

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not if i think i'm going to fail if like

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you know if i think i'm good at it like

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if i feel confident then i'll take the

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action

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so that those are a couple of pieces

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that go into it okay

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so we're paralyzed towards the behavior

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we have to learn how to operationalize

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we have to learn how to like deal with

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our negative

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emotions and frustration i think

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generally speaking i just do two things

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with them so we tend to get to

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processing their negative emotions and

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then we operationalize problems

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and we use that exercise and that tends

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to be actually like the way that you

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deal with executive

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dysfunction and the third thing to to

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remember is that over time

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you will actually improve okay

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yeah so people are talking about

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meditation absolutely so you can also do

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meditation

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right so the uh it's that's good thank

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you chat

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see chad is learning so if we talk about

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strengthening your frontal lobes

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meditation actually strength

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strengthens your mpfc your medial

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prefrontal cortex

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which is going to be like a big part of

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what we want to talk about when it comes

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to

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operationalizing problems i think

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another thing that we want to

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talk a little bit about is you have to

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be careful about

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the thoughts that keep you from starting

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so this is also like another cognitive

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skill that you can learn so anytime

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someone has this is related to the

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emotions but like

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if you think about problems with

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operationalizing like this is where the

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what-ifs happen right we were talking

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about the what-ifs earlier

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what if you know

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so a lot of thoughts that keep you from

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starting this kind of has to do a little

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bit with like procrastination so

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sometimes like

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you know perfection can actually keep

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you paralyzed as well like you want to

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do it perfect

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you don't want to like get a b so you're

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not even gonna try for

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until you're sure you can get an a

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you're not even gonna you'd rather have

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an

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f than a 10 or 90 chance for an a

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right you want a 100 chance of an a or

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an f

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so this is where there are particular

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like psychological complexes or

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cognitive things which you can actually

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work on

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these are almost like some scars so we

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talk about a couple of these in dr k's

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guides

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i'll try to you know map more stuff out

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but when it comes to

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solving executive dysfunction it gets

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better with time you have to learn how

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to operationalize

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which you can practically do deal with

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the negative emotions that keep you from

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acting

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you can absolutely meditate and then the

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fourth thing is that

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you know there are particular thoughts

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there are particular other

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challenges that arise which have

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specific solutions to them

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questions about executive function does

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it degrade after the age of 32 not

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really

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is it different from motivational issues

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no so so here's the problem there's no

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sanskrit word for motivation

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so motivation i think is one of the

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worst words in the english language

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because

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it lumps together all of these

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disparate processes under like one term

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it's like and so the problem like if you

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look at like solutions to motivation

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like if you do

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a google search for like solutions to

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motivation you will find

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a million websites with a bunch of

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people who will

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sell you their product for like how to

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get more motivated and we're guilty of

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that too

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the problem is like if they're all these

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solutions to motivation like

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why isn't everyone super motivated none

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of them work why don't they work because

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it's a problem of misdiagnosis

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motivational problems could be adhd it

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could be executive

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dysfunction it could be trauma it could

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be like a lack of clarity of goal it

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could be that

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you're not motivated because it's

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something you should do instead of

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something that you care about

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there are all kinds of like nuances to

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motivation it's actually a

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a bunch of different neuroscientific

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psychological

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and spiritual problems and the way that

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i help motivate people is because like i

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don't call it motivation it's like

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what's your actual problem

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so you could look at someone with

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executive dysfunction you could say this

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problem has a problem this person has a

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problem with motivation

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but they're absolutely they can't act

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when they want to act right that's what

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motivation is

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but if you look at it like their actual

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problem is not

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a lack of motivation that's a symptom

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their problem

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is is executive dysfunction and so in

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that way

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a lack of motivation has a differential

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diagnosis

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that includes a lot of different things

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you

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