THE THERMOSTAT THEORY *life changing*

Jillz Guerin
10 Sept 202323:23

Summary

TLDRIn this video, the concept of the 'Thermostat Theory' is introduced as a key to personal growth. The theory suggests that individuals have an internal limit, or 'thermostat setting,' that regulates their happiness and success. When life exceeds this setting, people may unconsciously self-sabotage to return to their comfort zone. The video offers insights into recognizing and shifting these internal limits, emphasizing the importance of awareness, self-compassion, and surrounding oneself with 'expanders'—people who inspire growth by exceeding their own limits.

Takeaways

  • 🌡️ The 'Thermostat Theory' is a concept that suggests individuals have an internal setting that determines the level of happiness, success, and abundance they allow themselves to experience.
  • 🔄 When life starts to improve and surpasses this internal setting, people often unconsciously self-sabotage or attract negative events to return to their familiar comfort zone.
  • 🚫 The subconscious mind is drawn to familiarity, even if it's not ideal, because it's predictable and provides a sense of comfort, which can hinder personal growth.
  • 🔑 Awareness is the first step in shifting the internal thermostat; recognizing when you're approaching your upper limit and identifying the behaviors or thoughts that pull you back.
  • 🌟 To change the thermostat setting, one must challenge and expand their comfort zone by consciously holding onto positive feelings and experiences longer and resisting the urge to self-sabotage.
  • 🧘‍♀️ Techniques like mindfulness, breath work, and self-compassion can help in managing the discomfort that comes with expanding one's comfort zone and internal temperature setting.
  • 🤔 Identifying and addressing limiting beliefs, such as feeling fundamentally flawed or fearing that success brings more burdens, is crucial for personal growth.
  • 💡 The people around you can influence your internal thermostat; being around 'expanders' who have achieved what you aspire to can help raise your own upper limits.
  • 🏃‍♂️ The process of shifting the thermostat is not instant but requires consistent effort and the willingness to step into discomfort to achieve lasting change.
  • 🌱 The concept of the 'upper limit problem' by Gay Hendricks and the idea of breaking through self-imposed barriers are key to understanding and applying the Thermostat Theory.
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