Partners of Trans Series Part 1 | You Have Feelings Too!

DR Z PHD
9 Jun 202212:31

Summary

TLDRDr. Z, a clinical psychologist specializing in transgender care, introduces a video series for partners of transgender individuals and those in relationships with them. The series aims to help understand the complexities of transgender identity and its impact on relationships. Emphasizing the importance of acknowledging feelings and having agency, Dr. Z discusses the challenges of adjusting to a partner's transgender identity and the potential emotional reactions. The series will cover various stages similar to grief, providing guidance on navigating these emotions and making informed decisions about the relationship's future.

Takeaways

  • 👨‍⚕️ Dr. Z is a clinical psychologist specializing in transgender care and is creating a series of videos for partners of transgender individuals.
  • 👥 The series is designed for anyone in a relationship with a transgender person, including various types of partnerships and marriages.
  • 🌟 Dr. Z emphasizes the importance of recognizing the feelings and agency of partners whose loved ones have come out as transgender.
  • 🤔 The series aims to help viewers understand their feelings and the dynamics of relationships when a partner identifies as transgender.
  • 👁️ Dr. Z acknowledges the difficulty and emotional impact of a partner coming out as transgender, likening it to a significant life change.
  • 👫 The videos will cover the stages of dealing with a partner's transgender identity, similar to the stages of grief, but with different names.
  • 💔 Dr. Z validates the range of emotions partners may feel, including betrayal and feeling lied to, and stresses that these feelings are not anyone's fault.
  • 🤝 The series will discuss factors that can help predict whether a relationship will survive the transition and what acceptance looks like.
  • 👂 Dr. Z encourages open dialogue and the sharing of feelings in the comment section, fostering a supportive community for discussion.
  • 🔜 The series will provide guidance on how to move forward, with a summary video discussing next steps after going through the stages.

Q & A

  • What is the main focus of Dr. Z's channel and the video series?

    -Dr. Z's channel and the video series focus on providing support and guidance for partners of transgender individuals, as well as transgender individuals in relationships. The series aims to help understand the dynamics of relationships when one partner identifies as transgender.

  • Why is it important for partners to acknowledge their own feelings and agency according to Dr. Z?

    -Dr. Z emphasizes the importance of partners acknowledging their own feelings and agency because it allows them to make informed decisions about their relationship and emotional well-being. It's crucial for partners to recognize they have the capacity to decide what's best for them in response to their partner's transgender identity.

  • What does Dr. Z suggest about the complexity of relationships when a partner comes out as transgender?

    -Dr. Z suggests that when a partner comes out as transgender, it can be very challenging and complex. It can lead to a range of emotions and may affect the fundamental aspects of the relationship, including gender identity, gender expression, and sexuality.

  • How does Dr. Z approach the topic of gender dysphoria and its impact on relationships?

    -Dr. Z approaches the topic of gender dysphoria with empathy and understanding, acknowledging that it deeply affects an individual's sense of self and can significantly impact relationships. Dr. Z also recognizes that it's not something that can be easily resolved and that it requires thoughtful consideration from both partners.

  • What is Dr. Z's personal stance on supporting a trans partner if they were to discover their own partner identifies as transgender?

    -Dr. Z is honest about the uncertainty of their personal response if their partner identified as transgender, acknowledging that while they would likely be supportive, they cannot guarantee their decision to stay in the relationship.

  • Why does Dr. Z compare gender dysphoria to a medical condition like cancer?

    -Dr. Z compares gender dysphoria to a medical condition like cancer to highlight the struggle individuals face with a medical issue that often requires treatment. However, unlike cancer, where the gender remains the same post-treatment, gender dysphoria treatment can lead to a change in gender presentation and expression.

  • What advice does Dr. Z give to partners who are struggling with the disclosure of their partner's transgender identity?

    -Dr. Z advises partners to consider all factors, make decisions without rushing, and avoid actions that may lead to regret. The series aims to help partners navigate their feelings and the relationship dynamics with understanding and empathy.

  • How does Dr. Z plan to help partners and transgender individuals understand the stages of dealing with a transgender identity in a relationship?

    -Dr. Z plans to guide partners and transgender individuals through five stages, similar to the stages of grief but with different names, to help them understand and navigate the emotional journey associated with a transgender identity in a relationship.

  • What is the purpose of the summary video at the end of the series?

    -The purpose of the summary video is to discuss what to do now and how to move forward after understanding the stages of dealing with a transgender identity in a relationship. It aims to provide guidance on next steps for both partners and transgender individuals.

  • How does Dr. Z encourage engagement and dialogue among viewers of the video series?

    -Dr. Z encourages engagement and dialogue by inviting viewers to share their feelings and experiences in the comments section, provided the language used is appropriate and not overly negative or hateful.

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