8 Ways TO Manipulate Your CRUSH To Like You (Dark Psych Tricks)

Summary

This script reveals eight psychological strategies to make someone like you, drawing on sales psychology and the chameleon effect. It advises avoiding 'can I' questions, directing the interaction, and using visual cues like eye contact to establish dominance. The script also discusses the importance of first impressions and ending conversations on a high note. It introduces concepts like clothed cognition, where clothing influences perception and behavior, and suggests using flirty banter to spark interest. Finally, it touches on manipulating primal instincts related to food, sex, and danger to become irresistible.

Takeaways

• 😀 Avoid asking 'can I' questions to prevent the option of rejection.
• 👀 Use direct statements and questions to guide the interaction towards your desired outcome.
• 🔍 When feeling judged or awkward, look at the middle of the person's forehead to shift the dynamic.
• 👔 Focus on first impressions and end-of-conversation feelings, as these are most memorable.
• 👕 Dress to impress by wearing clothes that elevate your perceived status and attractiveness.
• 🙆‍♂️ Utilize the chameleon effect by nodding your head to encourage agreement.
• 👖 Employ 'clothed cognition' to enhance your perceived fitness, status, and confidence through your attire.
• 🤔 Challenge her capabilities playfully to provoke a response that shows her abilities.
• ☝️ Frame questions to elicit a 'no' response, which can paradoxically lead to a 'yes'.
• 🍽️ Manipulate the primal brain by associating with food, sex appeal, and safety to become irresistible.

Q & A

What is the first psychological trick suggested in the script to make someone like you?

The first trick is to avoid asking 'can I' questions, which give the other person the option to say no. Instead, use direct statements to guide them towards the desired action.

How does looking at someone in the middle of their forehead affect them according to the script?

Looking at someone in the middle of their forehead can make them feel judged, which through the Hawthorne effect, may lead them to try to impress and improve their behavior.

What is the serial positioning effect and how can it be used to manipulate someone's memory?

The serial positioning effect suggests that people tend to remember the first and last parts of a series or conversation, but not the middle. To use this, focus on making a strong first impression and ending the interaction on a positive note.

How can clothing influence the first impression according to the script?

The script suggests that clothing can significantly influence the first impression by communicating status, trustworthiness, and dominance. Wearing structured clothing like a polo shirt can elevate one's perceived status.

What is the chameleon effect and how can it be used to persuade someone?

The chameleon effect is the tendency to mimic the movements of others. By nodding your head while asking for a favor, you can influence the other person to nod in agreement, making them more likely to say yes.

How does the script suggest using the concept of 'clothed cognition' to enhance one's attractiveness?

The script advises using 'clothed cognition' by dressing in a way that aligns with the ideal image one wants to project, such as wearing gym clothes to appear fit, tailored pants to appear high status, and colors that boost confidence.

What is the flirty banter technique mentioned in the script and how does it work?

The flirty banter technique involves doubting someone's capabilities to provoke them into proving you wrong, which can make them try harder to impress you.

How can making someone say 'no' be beneficial in building a connection, as per the script?

Making someone say 'no' can make them feel safe and in control. By framing questions to elicit a 'no' response, you can create a sense of safety that may lead to a 'yes' later on.

What are the three things the 'reptile brain' cares about according to the script?

The 'reptile brain' cares about three things: whether it can eat something, have sex with it, and if it poses a danger.

How can the script's advice on manipulating the 'reptile brain' be applied in real-life interactions?

To apply the advice, one could use food-related scents to create a feeling of arousal, dress in a way that subtly shows off attractive body parts, and demonstrate the ability to handle danger through physical fitness or martial arts.

What is the significance of the date 'June 24th' mentioned multiple times in the script?

The date 'June 24th' is significant as it is the launch date for the speaker's new Essentials clothing collection, which is mentioned as a tool to enhance one's appearance and perceived status.

Outlines

00:00

🧠 Psychological Tricks to Win Over Someone

The paragraph discusses eight psychological strategies to make someone like you. It begins with advice on asking open-ended questions to avoid giving the other person the option to say no. It then suggests looking at the middle of the person's forehead to make them feel judged and, through the Hawthorne effect, to impress you. The serial positioning effect is mentioned, emphasizing the importance of first impressions and last interactions, as these are most memorable. Clothing is highlighted as a way to manipulate perceptions of status, trustworthiness, and dominance. The paragraph also introduces the idea of ending interactions on a high note with a compliment to leave a positive impression. Lastly, it mentions the chameleon effect, where nodding your head while asking for a favor can trick the other person into agreeing.

05:00

👕 The Power of Clothing in Perception and Self-Belief

This paragraph delves into how clothing can influence both how others perceive you and how you perceive yourself. It explains the concept of 'clothed cognition' and how wearing certain clothes can enhance your performance and self-image. The paragraph provides examples of how sportswear can motivate gym visits and improve performance, and how tailored clothing can elevate perceived status. Color psychology is also discussed, with green being associated with confidence and a positive mood. The speaker promotes his Essentials brand, which includes a fitness quarter zip designed to create an illusion of a V-taper and tailored sweatpants that look high-status but feel comfortable. The paragraph concludes with a teaser for an upcoming collection release.

Keywords

💡Manipulation

Manipulation refers to the act of influencing someone's behavior or decisions in a skillful and devious way. In the context of the video, it is used to describe strategies that can be employed to make someone like you. The video suggests various psychological tricks to achieve this, such as reframing questions to avoid a 'no' answer and using body language to establish a connection.

💡Sales Psychology

Sales Psychology is the study of how people make purchasing decisions and how to influence those decisions. The video uses this concept to explain why asking 'Can I' questions can be counterproductive, as it gives the other person the option to say 'no.' Instead, the video suggests using direct statements or questions that guide the person towards the desired response.

💡Hawthorne Effect

The Hawthorne Effect is a psychological phenomenon where people change their behavior due to their awareness of being observed. The video suggests looking at someone in the middle of their forehead to make them feel judged, which, through the Hawthorne Effect, could lead them to try to impress you.

💡Serial Positioning Effect

The Serial Positioning Effect is a phenomenon where people tend to remember the first and last items in a series better than the ones in the middle. The video advises focusing on making a strong first impression and ensuring the last interaction leaves a positive feeling, as these are the parts most likely to be remembered.

💡Clothing as Status Symbol

Clothing as a status symbol refers to the idea that the clothes one wears can communicate their social status. The video suggests that wearing visually striking and structured clothing, like a polo shirt instead of a simple t-shirt, can elevate one's perceived status.

💡Chameleon Effect

The Chameleon Effect is a social psychological phenomenon where people unconsciously mimic the behavior, mannerisms, and attitudes of those around them. The video recommends nodding your head when asking for a favor to induce the other person to nod in agreement, thereby increasing the likelihood of a positive response.

💡Enclothed Cognition

Enclothed Cognition is the influence of clothing on an individual's psychological processes. The video discusses how wearing certain types of clothing, like sportswear, can make a person feel more fit and motivated, thereby influencing their behavior to align with the image the clothing projects.

💡Flirty Banter

Flirty Banter is a playful and teasing form of conversation often used to establish a rapport and attraction. The video describes using doubt or challenge in conversation to provoke a response, such as suggesting someone might not be able to handle a certain task, thereby encouraging them to prove you wrong.

💡No-Oriented Questions

No-Oriented Questions are inquiries framed in a way that encourages a negative response, which paradoxically can lead to a positive outcome. The video suggests that by asking questions that a person would say 'no' to, you can make them feel safe and in control, which may lead them to agree to your actual request.

💡Reptilian Brain

The Reptilian Brain, also known as the old brain, is associated with basic survival instincts like eating, mating, and self-preservation. The video advises manipulating these primal instincts by presenting oneself as someone who can fulfill these needs, such as through wearing clothing that suggests physical fitness and status.

Highlights

Avoid asking 'Can I' questions to prevent the option of rejection.

Rephrase questions to be more direct and guide the interaction.

Looking at the middle of the forehead can make the other person feel judged and improve their behavior.

The serial positioning effect shows that people remember the first and last parts of a conversation more clearly.

Manipulate first impressions by dressing in a way that signals status and trustworthiness.

Offer a genuine compliment and then exit the conversation to leave a positive last impression.

Nod your head while asking for a favor to trigger the 'chameleon effect' and increase the likelihood of agreement.

Clothing can influence your own perception and behavior, a concept known as 'clothed cognition'.

Wearing sports clothes can motivate you to be more physically active and fit.

Choose clothing that enhances your best features to project a high-status image.

Understand color psychology to elevate your confidence through the colors you wear.

Doubt someone's capabilities to make them try harder and prove you wrong, a technique used in flirty banter.

Frame questions to elicit a 'no' response, which can paradoxically make the other person feel safer and more in control.

Manipulate the three primal concerns of the 'reptile brain': food, sex, and danger.

Use food-related scents like vanilla and pumpkin to create feelings of arousal.

Show a moderate amount of skin in your clothing to signal sex appeal without being excessive.

Develop an image of being capable of handling danger, which is perceived as attractive.

Transcripts

eight ways to manipulate someone to like

me this feels Raw it's not the world's

top seducers use all of these strategies

naturally I'm here to provide you with

all the psychological tricks you'll ever

need to win the girl of your dreams one

never ask can I questions it gives them

an option to say no every time you ask

an open-ended question can I have your

number no can you go on a date with me

no now this is basic sales psychology

but for most people you have to direct

them exactly to where you want them to

go so how do you reword the questions we

just went over simple the first one here

put your number in the second one found

a new burger spot in the city we have to

go pick you up Saturday around seven two

you want to look at them right in the

middle of their forehead to bring them

down a lot of times when you are near a

beautiful person you feel as if they're

judging you you feel awkward this is a

normal response that happens to everyone

scientifically when you're near somebody

that's beautiful dopamine levels rise in

your brain which make you feel a little

jittery so you have to change that

narrow to put yourself in that higher

position mentally both in her mind and

in your mind and the trick here is you

look at them right in the middle of

their eyebrows right on their forehead

this makes the other person feel as if

they're being judged and now through

something called the Hawthorne effect

because they feel they're being watched

and judged they will try to impress you

and improve their behavior three the

serial positioning effect you are too

worried about what to say to your crush

but that doesn't matter through serial

positioning we as humans only remember

the first part and the last part the

middle it's a blur so to break that down

even further she's only going to

remember that first impression when she

first saw you and how that conversation

ended what it made her feel we're going

to manipulate both those ends let's

start with the first impression don't

worry too much about your face she will

establish a first impression of you in

less than a second and in that second

she can judge your status your

trustworthiness and how dominant you are

so the best thing you can manipulate is

the clothing that you're wearing on your

body because visually is what takes up

the most space and which she will use to

judge you so for example I want you to

replace a simple t-shirt that everyone

wears with something nicer with a collar

more structured like a polo shirt notice

how it immediately elevates your outfit

and makes you look higher status that's

how she's going to perceive you this

specific Polo is a design I've been

working on for a few months now it's for

my new Essentials collection dropping

June 24th and it just has that power to

level you up now we're gonna manipulate

the other side which is making her feel

great because that's all she's going to

remember now the best trick that you can

do here is offer her a compliment after

a few minutes of an interaction remember

the middle doesn't matter offer her a

genuine compliment it could be about

anything and then immediately after tell

her that you have to go you have an

appointment and cut it off short you

will leave her at a high point and she

will remember that feeling plus that

first impression look this is only the

first three ways to manipulate somebody

to like you I have five more this next

one it's mind-blowing you're gonna trick

her into saying yes by Naughty everyone

knows that when you nod your head you

are basically agreeing to whatever is

being said you can use this to your

advantage while asking for a favor while

also nodding your head this is where it

gets interesting we are biologically

wired to mimic the movements of that

other person we are talking to this is

something called the chameleon effect so

she will most likely start nodding her

head as well and thus agreeing to your

ask and this was proven in a case study

called the effects of head movement and

persuasion in this study they took

participants and they made them nod

their head as they were listening to a

persuasive message they noticed that

those participants that were nodding

their head were more convinced of the

message versus the participants that

were shaking their head so how do you

implement well say there's a complete

stranger in the gym right your

approacher after she's done with her set

you can say do you have a second to talk

right and you're not in your head as

you're making your ask and your favor

she will most likely agree five and

clothed cognition you can make her think

you are her perfect match by making

yourself think you're you're the perfect

guy you will turn yourself and believe

that you are the perfect guy using

something called enclosed cognition a

scientific field that studies how

clothing affects the wear to do this

properly you first need to establish

what is the ideal Man Simple they want a

man that's physically fit a man that is

high status and a man that is confident

all three of those can be manipulated

using a clothed cognition let's start

with being fit and closed cognition

plays a major role because it's been

studied that wearing sports clothes can

motivate you to step in the gym and get

fit it doesn't even stop there they took

it a step further and proved that this

can also increase your performance

because of that motivated mentality that

the clothing provided this is why I

recommend it buy nice gym clothes that

not only fit right but enhance your best

features I'll give you a great example

of this right now I designed a new

fitness quarter zip and I designed it

with a seam on both sides of the waist

this is to create an illusion of a V

taper to give you that ideal male

physique now the last quarter zip I

designed for my brand Essentials sold

out within like a day or two this one's

better it's probably gonna go faster the

second thing you can manipulate with

clothing is your status you want to

become High status in this specific

study they took college students and had

them look at images of a male model

dressed in formal clothing like a suit

and then in casual clothing the students

then reported is that the guy that was

dressed formally they perceived to not

only earn more money but had a better

job position and honestly don't even go

out and buy a full suit because it's

impractical instead focus on the idea of

having tailored pants a nice pair of

tailored pants that are comfortable to

wear will give you a similar effect that

was my ultimate goal with designing

something that's never been done before

these are from my brand Essentials also

dropping June 24th and as you can see it

has that perfect tailored fit but I made

them with a sweat pant fabric it feels

like a blanket but it looks High status

and the third one is your confidence you

can also Elevate this with clothing you

just have to understand color psychology

and understand that certain colors will

elicit a certain response in your brain

for example wearing green which is the

color of nature is naturally soothing

and triggers that feel good hormone in

your brain that uplifts your mood it

gives you that confidence that's exactly

why I wanted to feature different shades

of green in this new Essentials

collection I designed for summer that's

dropping June 24th at 10 A.M Eastern and

I'm telling you our collections sell out

fast so the best thing you can do put a

reminder on your phone when the

collection drops you'll be ready we are

five tricks down I have three more to go

which in my opinion are the most

powerful and most dangerous which is why

I left them towards the end which takes

us to number six tell her she probably

can't get it done when you doubt

somebody's capabilities they will try

harder to prove you wrong this is the

basis of flirty banter that those guys

that always win with girls that's what

they get right all the time and you're

probably not implementing you're

essentially tricking the person into

trying harder when they're around you

let me give you three easy examples on

how you can implement this say she's a

traveler okay you can say something like

I've seen you've traveled a lot honestly

I don't think you can handle blank

insert whatever country you want to

insert now she will try to convince you

and give you every reason why she can

handle that she is basically selling to

you now let's say she's a thrill seeker

okay you can say oh skydiving was super

fun but you couldn't handle blank insert

whatever again she will start selling

herself as to why she could do that with

you let's say she's athletic running a

marathon is tough but doing an off-road

Trail that's a different level I don't

know if you're ready for that one same

thing the only goal that you have here

is to do it with a smile do it with the

grin so she knows that it's playful

banter number seven get them to say no

most of the times you're looking for a

yes and because you get pushy that other

person starts to feel Corner however

making them say no makes that other

person feel safe and in control so

you're gonna trigger that feeling to get

exactly what you want so we're just

going to rephrase questions so they are

no oriented and her saying no is

basically the yes you were looking for

let me give you a few examples you can

do these through text or in person have

you given up on dating would you be

opposed to grabbing some coffee together

would it be horrible if we did together

in any of those situations the

likelihood of her saying no or hi and

her saying no is that yes you want it

and finally number eight manipulate the

three things she can never ignore in a

book called neural web designs it states

that we all have three brains we have

our new brain that is our logical and

conscious brain we have our middle brain

that processes emotions and then we have

our old brain this one just cares about

survival they also call it the reptile

brain this old brain only cares about

three things can I eat it can I have sex

with it and will it kill me so you will

manipulate those three categories so you

become someone she can never ignore

let's start with can I eat it the food

category there have been multiple

studies that have looked into the notes

of fragrances two two specific notes

Stand Out vanilla and pumpkin what they

realized were that sweet food notes

created a feeling of arousal in the

other person two sex you have to dress

in a way where you show off a bit of

skin without it being too much this is

why you should always unbutton a few

buttons if you're wearing a button on

shirt if you're wearing a jacket you

want to keep it opened up and truly why

when I designed our new Summer shirts

for Essentials I kept in mind what are

the areas or body parts that are the

most sexual on a man and how do we

exhibit these without it being too much

I'm telling you this collection it's the

best we've ever designed and it's

dropping June 24th and if you don't put

that reminder on your phone it's gonna

sell out but finally number three danger

really this one's gonna be hard to

develop you have to go to the gym and

then learn how to fight pick up a

martial art because a man that is

capable of danger and can control it is

an attractive man