THE NARCISSIST MAY OF LEFT BUT THEY DIDN'T EVER WANT YOU TO KNOW WHAT THEY ARE‼️ #awakening

Summary

This video script addresses the awakening of empaths and chosen ones to the manipulations of narcissists. It discusses how narcissists prefer their victims to remain unaware to maintain control. The speaker advises that while it may be tempting to confront a narcissist after realizing their true nature, it's often unnecessary as they are likely already aware of the change in their victim. The script emphasizes the importance of focusing on personal healing and growth rather than seeking validation or confrontation from the narcissist. It also mentions resources for survivors, including a community forum, one-on-one sessions, and support groups.

Takeaways

• 🔒 Narcissists prefer their victims to remain 'asleep', as it allows them to maintain control and exploit the victim's empathy.
• 👤 When victims 'wake up' to the narcissist's true nature, they often feel the urge to confront them, but it's not always necessary to do so.
• 💬 Narcissists can sense a change in their victims, even without direct confrontation, and may react by discarding or reverse discarding them.
• 🚫 It's crucial for victims to understand that they don't need to seek validation or closure from the narcissist; their own realization is enough.
• 🛡 Going silent and focusing on self-healing can be more powerful than any confrontation, as it disrupts the narcissist's control.
• 🔍 Narcissists may feel threatened when their victims become aware of their behavior, leading to fear and attempts to regain control.
• 🏃‍♀️ The act of 'waking up' can be liberating for victims, empowering them to break free from the narcissist's influence.
• 💔 The process of awakening can be painful, as it involves recognizing the harm caused by someone once trusted and loved.
• 🌟 The speaker encourages victims to embrace the awakening process, as it leads to personal growth and a stronger sense of self.
• 🔗 The speaker provides resources for further support, including a community forum, one-to-one sessions, and group meetings for survivors.

Q & A

What is the significance of becoming a 'chosen one' in the context of the video?

In the context of the video, being a 'chosen one' refers to an individual who is an empath or highly sensitive person who narcissists exploit for their emotional energy or 'supply.' Narcissists prefer these individuals to remain unaware or 'asleep' to maintain control over them.

Why do narcissists prefer their victims to be in an 'asleep' state according to the video?

Narcissists prefer their victims to be in an 'asleep' state because it allows them full control over the victim. The victim, being unaware of the narcissist's true nature, unknowingly provides a continuous supply of emotional energy to the narcissist.

What does the term 'awakening' mean in the context of the video?

In the video, 'awakening' refers to the process of a victim becoming aware of the narcissist's manipulative and abusive behavior, and recognizing the need to detach from the narcissist to protect themselves.

Why might a victim feel the urge to inform a narcissist that they have 'awakened'?

A victim might feel the urge to inform a narcissist that they have 'awakened' as a way to seek closure, validation, or to confront the narcissist with the truth about their behavior. However, the video suggests that this is not necessary and can be counterproductive.

How do narcissists react when they sense a victim is 'awakening', as mentioned in the video?

When narcissists sense a victim is 'awakening', they may become scared and try to regain control by implementing tactics such as discard or reverse discard. This is an attempt to throw the victim off balance and potentially reset them back to a more subservient state.

What is the advice given in the video regarding telling a narcissist that you have become aware of their behavior?

The video advises against telling a narcissist that you have become aware of their behavior, as the narcissist will not provide clarity or honesty. Instead, focusing on personal healing, setting boundaries, and moving forward without seeking a response from the narcissist is recommended.

What are the potential outcomes for a narcissist when a victim 'awakens', as discussed in the video?

When a victim 'awakens', narcissists may experience shock, fear, and a sense of loss of control. They might regret their decisions to discard or reverse discard the victim, as they realize the victim no longer views them in a positive light and is less likely to be manipulated in the future.

What is the importance of 'no contact' as mentioned in the video for victims of narcissistic abuse?

The 'no contact' approach is emphasized in the video as a crucial step for victims to heal and regain their power. It involves cutting off all communication with the narcissist, which helps the victim to focus on their own recovery and prevents further manipulation.

How does the video suggest victims can find support and community after 'awakening' to narcissistic abuse?

The video suggests that victims can find support and community through joining forums, participating in group meetings, and connecting with other survivors. It mentions a new free community forum on the membership website and upcoming empath group meetings.

What is the role of self-reflection and personal growth after 'awakening' to narcissistic abuse, as highlighted in the video?

The video highlights the importance of self-reflection and personal growth after 'awakening' to narcissistic abuse. It encourages victims to focus on their own healing, set life goals, and develop a stronger sense of self, which can lead to a more fulfilling and empowered life.

Outlines

00:00

😴 Awakening from Narcissistic Control

The paragraph discusses the dynamics between narcissists and their victims, particularly empaths and 'chosen ones.' It explains that narcissists prefer their victims to remain 'asleep,' or unaware, as it allows them to maintain control and exploit the victim's emotional energy. The speaker suggests that victims often awaken after or during their interaction with a narcissist, leading to a desire to confront the narcissist about their realization. However, the speaker advises that such confrontation is not necessary, as the narcissist is likely already aware of the victim's change in perception and behavior. The speaker emphasizes that the narcissist's fear of losing control can lead to 'discarding' or 'reverse discarding' behaviors to reassert dominance. The paragraph concludes with an encouragement to embrace the awakening process and seek closure without necessarily informing the narcissist of one's newfound awareness.

05:02

🙅‍♂️ The Narcissist's Reaction to Awakening

This paragraph delves into the narcissist's denial and defensive mechanisms when confronted with their behavior. The speaker notes that covert narcissists are unlikely to admit to their traits and will employ tactics such as gaslighting and manipulation to maintain their facade. The speaker highlights that the narcissist never intended for their victims to become aware of their true nature, as it disrupts the power dynamic they rely on. The paragraph also touches on the narcissist's tendency to monitor their victims even after the relationship has ended, as they are keenly aware of any changes in the victim's consciousness. The speaker reiterates that victims do not need to inform the narcissist of their awakening, as the narcissist will inevitably notice the shift in behavior and attitude. The paragraph concludes with an encouragement to focus on personal healing and growth rather than seeking validation or confrontation from the narcissist.

10:04

🔍 Recognizing the Narcissist's Fear and Regret

The final paragraph addresses the narcissist's fear and potential regret when their victims awaken to the reality of the relationship. The speaker suggests that narcissists may feel threatened by the victim's newfound clarity and independence, leading to sudden and unexpected discards or reverse discards. The speaker posits that narcissists may regret their decisions to discard or reverse discard, as they realize they have lost control over the victim and can no longer manipulate them. The paragraph emphasizes the importance of the victim's self-awareness and self-improvement during the awakening process, suggesting that the narcissist's ultimate fear is the victim's ability to discern and resist their manipulative tactics. The speaker invites viewers to share their experiences and highlights the availability of support resources, including a community forum, one-on-one sessions, group meetings, and crisis email support.

Keywords

💡Narcissist

A narcissist is an individual with narcissistic personality disorder, characterized by a grandiose sense of self-importance, a deep need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. In the context of the video, the term is used to describe individuals who exploit and manipulate others, particularly empaths and 'chosen ones,' for their own gain. The video discusses how narcissists prefer their victims to remain 'asleep' or unaware of their true nature, as it allows them to maintain control.

💡Chosen One

In the video, 'chosen one' refers to an individual who is specifically targeted by a narcissist due to their empathetic nature and potential to provide 'supply' to the narcissist. This term is used to describe someone who is particularly vulnerable to the manipulations of a narcissist, often due to their innate desire to help and understand others. The video suggests that narcissists are aware of the 'chosen one's' potential to provide them with a continuous source of emotional or psychological 'supply.'

💡Empath

An empath is a person who has a heightened ability to sense and understand the emotions of others. In the video, empaths are depicted as individuals who are particularly susceptible to the manipulations of narcissists because of their natural inclination to be compassionate and supportive. The video discusses how narcissists exploit empaths for their emotional energy, often leaving them feeling drained and controlled.

💡Supply

In the context of the video, 'supply' refers to the emotional energy or attention that narcissists derive from their victims, particularly empaths and 'chosen ones.' The term is used to describe the nourishment that narcissists seek from others to validate their self-worth and maintain their sense of importance. The video explains that narcissists aim to keep their victims in a state of unawareness to ensure a continuous flow of 'supply.'

💡Awakening

Awakening, in the video, refers to the process of becoming aware and recognizing the manipulative behaviors of a narcissist. It is a pivotal moment for the victim, where they shift from a state of ignorance to one of enlightenment. The video emphasizes the importance of this awakening for victims, as it allows them to break free from the control of the narcissist and begin the process of healing and self-empowerment.

💡Discard

A 'discard' is a term used in the video to describe the act of a narcissist ending a relationship or cutting off contact with a victim once they no longer serve the narcissist's needs or once the victim has awakened to the narcissist's true nature. The video explains that narcissists may use discards as a tactic to regain control or to prevent the victim from gaining momentum in their journey towards self-awareness.

💡Reverse Discard

A 'reverse discard' is a strategy employed by narcissists where they pretend to be the one who has been wronged or discarded by the victim. This is done to manipulate the victim into questioning their own actions and potentially seeking reconciliation. The video suggests that this tactic is used by narcissists to maintain control and to confuse the victim, preventing them from fully awakening to the abuse.

💡No Contact

In the video, 'no contact' refers to the act of cutting off all communication and interaction with a narcissist as a means of self-preservation and healing. It is presented as a crucial step for victims to take in order to protect themselves from further manipulation and to focus on their own recovery. The video implies that by going no contact, victims can begin to rebuild their lives without the influence of the narcissist.

💡Gaslighting

Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation where a person seeks to sow seeds of doubt in a targeted individual, making them question their own memory, perception, or sanity. In the video, it is mentioned as a tactic used by narcissists to maintain control over their victims and to discredit their awakening to the narcissist's true nature.

💡Healing

Healing, in the context of the video, refers to the process of recovery and restoration that victims of narcissistic abuse undergo after awakening to the abuse. It involves addressing the emotional wounds inflicted by the narcissist and rebuilding one's sense of self. The video encourages victims to focus on their healing journey, emphasizing that it is a necessary and empowering step towards moving on from the abuse.

Highlights

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Narcissists prefer their victims to remain 'asleep' for continuous emotional supply.

Victims of narcissistic abuse often wake up after or during the encounter with a narcissist.

It's not necessary to inform a narcissist that you've become aware of their behavior.

Narcissists may discard or reverse discard their victims upon sensing a change in consciousness.

Narcissists are scared when their victims wake up and realize their true nature.

Survivors of narcissistic abuse report that narcissists often deny their behavior.

The awakening process can be painful but is ultimately fulfilling.

Narcissists may regret discarding someone once they realize the victim has awakened.

The narcissist never wanted the victim to wake up to their true nature.

Narcissists have full control over their victims when they are in an 'asleep' state.

The urge to inform the narcissist about one's awakening can be strong but is often unnecessary.

Using no-contact and focusing on personal healing can signal to the narcissist that the victim has changed.

Narcissists may feel scared when they notice the victim has gone silent and withdrawn.

The narcissist will notice and feel the victim's change even if they are no longer in contact.

The process of awakening can lead to a new version of oneself, free from subservience to the narcissist.

Enjoying the awakening process is encouraged despite its pain.

A new free community forum has been launched for survivors to connect and support each other.

One-on-one sessions and group meetings are available for tailored advice and support.

Crisis email support and a plan of action are available for those in need.

Transcripts

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chosen ones EPS you Awakening to the

narcissist is something they never

expected they really didn't want it to

happen narcissists love it when you're

asleep they have full

control they know that you being a

chosen one and empath will just pour

Supply into them and they know they have

a continuous source of Supply by you

remaining in this asleep state right

they they they they know they that that

they'll have you in this this permanent

State you know the longer you stay

asleep the the more you'll pour out

Supply but the issue victims face is

they wake up usually after the encounter

with the narcissist involved in their

life or alternatively they wake up

during and inform the narcissist

involved in their life but either way

you know it um the

problem

occurs

because you'll feel like you want to

tell them you know and often times you

don't really want to wake up a

narcissist not all the narcissists that

were in your life were awaken narcissist

some of them may have been but you don't

really actually want to tell them you

know um you don't need to tell them you

know know you

can

but you don't always have to you know

some of you may feel the desire to tell

them to inform them about do you waken

up to them finally you've woken up to

the abuse you've woken up to what they

are but realistically you don't you

don't really need to tell them you know

I can understand that it will give you

some sort of closure some sort of

Clarity by informing the narcist that

was involved in your life that you've

woken up

but

really what you got to understand

is they know you've changed you know the

narcist involved in your life knows

you've changed even if you haven't said

no words even if you're in no context at

the moment right you know even if

they've gone their way they've gone East

you've gone west or you've gone they've

gone East whatever right and you're no

longer reaching out to them you're no

longer communicating with them

right

um and you've backed away and gone

silent they'll know it you know I've

heard survivors

saying

that um in sessions I've held that

they've cuz I've often pointed this out

as well um many

narcissists choose to to to discard you

or reverse discard you because they they

saw a shift in your Consciousness they

saw you treating them a different way

they saw you waking up to the parasite

that they actually are and often times

they get very very scared narcissists

involved in your life will get very very

scared and they'll um put put in it

they'll Implement you know a discard or

a reverse discard you

know very suddenly it will feel like out

of nowhere and it's to make you lose

your balance you know or how's the

better way I can put it is to make

you to lose your your momentum or where

you're at in your journey you know cuz

they throw a discard out and it try they

Tred to reset you back to um being

asleep they try and put you back to

sleep through that discard or through

that reverse discard they ultimately

want to try and put you back to

sleep but

really you you you don't need to tell

them anything you know what you've what

you see about them like even if you

brought it to their attention you know

they're not going to be truthful they're

not going to be honest you know if you

if you brought things to their attention

that you saw within them that indicate

that they're a narcissist they're not

really going to give you any Clarity on

that you know the only thing is going to

enable you is is is you expressing

yourself freely and openly will give you

some closure from that so I totally

understand understand if you do choose

to go down that path um please press the

like and the Subscribe button help

people right will take two seconds of

your time just like this video showed up

for you help it show up for someone else

in the community that it may be a

benefit to but you know you got to

understand they never want they never

wanted you to wake up you know they

never wanted you to wake up whether you

woke up during the relationship and you

brought it to their attention or you've

woken up after the relationship's ended

either way it's just as powerful you

know um they certainly didn't want you

to wake up to them being a narcissist

you know especially the covert ones they

they're not they're not proud you know

they're not walking around proud that

they're narcissist you know that if

anything if you got into a conversation

with them they're going to deny it till

the cows come home you know if you if

you if you if you made the allegation

that they're a narcissist or not even an

allegation if you made the statement or

fact that they're a narcissist right

um they'll deny it you know they'll deny

it they'll try to Gaslight you they'll

try to manipulate you that you know this

is what they're going to try and do

right but they they seriously seriously

never wanted you to wake up they

seriously never wanted you to wake up

you know and

um I've heard it from survivors of uh of

narcissistic abuse you know when I've

heard sessions you know when when the

Survivor starts to wake up and educate

themselves makes the narcist that was

involved in their life very shocked at

seeing how much the empath and the

chosen one becomes a new version of

themselves you know becomes a completely

new version they're no longer

subservient to the narcist that was

involved in their life they've woken up

and and this destroys the narcissist

that was involved in their life and the

narcissist knows wherever they are you

know they keep watch on you they keep

tabs on you they they they look out for

signs um they're aware that you've woken

up that's why I did say to you you don't

always have to tell them CU they'll

figure it out soon enough right you know

they'll figure it out you know and

another reason why I I'd say not to tell

them is because if you're telling them

it's kind of like from their end if from

their deluded mindset they all take it

as oh you're bringing that to their

attention so that they have to give

initiate a response or you want want to

hear something back from them you know

but if you kind of just tell them in a

statement you're a narcissist you're a

Dusty Dusty weirdo I want nothing to do

with you you know and you you don't even

stick around to hear a response from

them you know that's better you don't

you don't need to hear nothing they have

to say you know waking up to a

narcissist is actually really a

beautiful beautiful

thing I know it can be painful I know it

can be hurtful this is someone that you

loved someone that you cared about

someone you had a bond with or thought

you had a a decent bond

with but really it's so fulfilling

waking up to a narcissist you know um

and you know this could always this

could have always prolonged longer but

God or the universe did not want this

situationship to go on longer than it

did and that's what they start to

realize they realize you know even if

they were the one that disgarded you

they think to themselves they made a

mistake they shouldn't have disgarded

you cuz they they they kind of

underestimated your ability to start to

be able to discern correctly and see

correctly and be able to be able to

piece together the the the clues and

figure them out right

um

so they they often regret their

decisions for discards and reverse

discards narcissists will often regret

their decisions um because now they know

that you don't see them in that light no

more there's absolutely nothing that

they can do for you to see them in that

loving light that you used to look at

them like you know you know they that

pisses them off right so the narcissist

may have left but just understand they

never wanted you to wake up right they

never they you know they they never

wanted you to know what they

are right they never wanted you to know

what they are and you Awakening to a

narcissist is something they never

expected um they really didn't want it

to happen you know list really enjoy it

when you're asleep they have full

control over you they honestly have full

control over the chosen one and the

empath when the empath when the chosen

one or empath is in an asleep State

um they do have full

control but like I said there is a

problem that victims do face is

if they wake up and it's after the

encounter they feel a necessity or an

urge to inform the narcissist about

their shifting Consciousness or

alternatively if you wake up during the

thing you inform them because you're

still in interactions with them on a

daily basis so you inform them but

either way you don't really need to

inform them you don't really need to

tell them you um they'll know you change

you know if you go silent go go no

contact utilize no contact get in with

your own life work on your healing you

know focus on your priorities focus on

your goals focus on your purpose they'll

notice that change in you yeah and

they'll feel that you've backed away and

you've gone silent and that that

honestly you know that

scares the narcissist you know that

scares the narcissist and a lot of the

times like I said you know there may

have been something not always but there

may have been something that happened in

the relationship uh towards the last

days that this narcissist involved in

your life saw something in you and

realized that

um realized that you were waking up to

the fact that they're a narcissist that

often occurs and then that's why these

discards come out of nowhere so it seems

unexpected to you but they saw something

in you before you consciously processed

this information that was being

downloaded to your system right so but

they saw it they saw a glint in your eye

they saw something different in you you

know but they you know regardless where

they're at now they know you've changed

they know you're on the path of

Awakening you know they know you're

never going to get back to that same old

state that you was before that loving

kind empath you know you're going to

still speak treat people genuinely and

and nicely but when it comes to them you

know they they're a different kle of

fish and they'll be treated in the way

that they treated you you know you're

not going to be loving and caring to

them and open and empathetic you're

going to be guarded reserved you know

and they're never going to get you back

to that state of being or at least make

sure they never get you back to that

state of being of subservient and trying

to appease them you know make sure you

never go back down to that level you

know cuz enjoy the Awakening process I

know it's hurtful I know it's painful

but enjoy the Awakening process and i'

would love to hear your comments or your

experience in the comment section below

um there is something I want to bring to

your attention before I draw the video

to a close I've launched a new free

community Forum on the membership

website it's open for everyone to use to

build expand and connect with fellow

survivors I'm looking at the longevity

of the Forum as I should have created

one when I first launcher members site

I'm also running onetoone sessions if

you want tailor made advice and me to

shed some light on your issues you can

always reach out the empath group

meeting is coming up on the 28th and

there is a new WhatsApp and telegram

group for survivors to stay in touch

lastly if you want a crisis email

support and a plan of action the links

for all I've mentioned are in the

description box below and there's a

video that I think will be beneficial

for you to check out um why do you miss

your narcissist so anyway that video

should come up here now so anyway I'll

be back with another video soon peace