The Mindset That Changed My Life...
Summary
TLDRIn this motivational video, Kevin Diaz from Crew Aesthetics emphasizes the importance of pushing through reluctance to attend events or go to the gym, as it can lead to life-changing opportunities. He shares personal anecdotes about how showing up despite not feeling like it has resulted in valuable connections and experiences. Kevin encourages viewers to be persistent, optimistic, and to seize every chance to improve their lives, highlighting the potential for personal growth and happiness that lies in stepping out of one's comfort zone.
Takeaways
- 💪 Always push through the feeling of not wanting to go to the gym or attend events, as it can lead to positive outcomes.
- 🤔 Reflect on past experiences where reluctance to attend an event or activity led to no regrets and potential gains.
- 🔄 Understand that every time you choose to go against your initial reluctance, you open doors to new opportunities.
- 🤝 Networking and meeting new people can lead to life-changing connections and experiences.
- 🎯 Recognize that sometimes, the greatest opportunities arise when you least expect them and are willing to step out of your comfort zone.
- 🏋️♂️ The gym is used as a metaphor for any activity you might not feel like doing but could be beneficial.
- 🚫 Avoid falling into the trap of comparing your life to the highlight reels seen on social media, which often do not reflect reality.
- 🌟 Embrace a mindset of optimism and apply yourself to every opportunity, as this can lead to personal growth and fulfillment.
- 🛌 Do not let laziness or the desire for comfort prevent you from seizing opportunities that could enhance your life.
- 🌱 Realize that your life is limited, and it's crucial to make the most of every chance you get to build your 'perfect world'.
Q & A
What is the main theme of the video script?
-The main theme of the video script is the importance of overcoming the initial reluctance to do something and the potential benefits of doing so, such as going to the gym or attending events, which can lead to life-changing experiences and opportunities.
Why does the speaker emphasize going to the gym even when not feeling like it?
-The speaker emphasizes going to the gym even when not feeling like it to illustrate the point that pushing through initial reluctance can lead to positive outcomes, such as feeling good after the workout or potentially meeting new people.
What example does the speaker give to show the benefits of attending events you don't initially want to go to?
-The speaker gives the example of attending an event where they met Justin Waller, Andrew Tate's best friend, which was a significant and positive outcome despite not wanting to go out that day.
How does the speaker feel about pessimistic people?
-The speaker expresses a dislike for pessimistic people, advocating for a more optimistic mindset that can open up opportunities and lead to a more fulfilling life.
What is the speaker's opinion on social media and its impact on people's perception of reality?
-The speaker believes that social media can warp people's perception of reality by presenting a highlight reel of life that makes it seem like everyone has perfect lives without bad times, which is not an accurate representation of most people's experiences.
Why does the speaker encourage viewers to 'apply themselves' more?
-The speaker encourages viewers to 'apply themselves' more because he believes that actively seeking out opportunities and experiences can lead to personal growth, new connections, and a more satisfying life.
What advice does the speaker give for dealing with feelings of depression or sadness?
-The speaker advises that instead of wallowing in feelings of depression or sadness, one should actively engage in activities and social interactions, which can help to improve mood and create a more fulfilling life.
How does the speaker view the concept of 'manifestation' mentioned in the script?
-While the script does not explicitly define 'manifestation,' the speaker seems to view it as a positive practice that aligns with his overall message of taking action and creating opportunities for oneself.
What is the speaker's strategy for meeting new people and making connections?
-The speaker's strategy for meeting new people and making connections involves being open to attending events and going to places even when not initially feeling like it, which can lead to unexpected and valuable encounters.
What is the speaker's ultimate message to his audience?
-The speaker's ultimate message is to encourage his audience to be proactive in seeking out opportunities, to maintain an optimistic mindset, and to not let initial reluctance or negative feelings hold them back from potentially life-enhancing experiences.
Outlines
💪 Overcoming Resistance to Achieve Goals
The speaker begins by discussing their role in offering motivation and advice, focusing on topics like manifestation, eliminating negativity, and pursuing passion. They introduce a personal realization about the importance of pushing through the initial reluctance to do something, like going to the gym, and how it can lead to positive outcomes. The speaker shares their own experiences, emphasizing that every time they have forced themselves to go to the gym despite not feeling like it, they have never regretted it. They extend this concept to social events and networking opportunities, suggesting that the reluctance to attend can be overcome by recognizing the potential for life-changing experiences.
🎥 The Power of Positivity and Taking Action
In this paragraph, the speaker delves into their personal experiences with filming and how even on days when they didn't feel like filming, they still went ahead and did it, leading to significant connections and opportunities. They recount a specific instance where they met Justin Waller, Andrew Tate's best friend, despite not wanting to go out that day. The speaker encourages the audience to adopt a mindset of optimism and to actively seek out opportunities, as they believe that many people miss out because of a negative mindset or lack of effort. They stress the importance of being proactive and not letting opportunities slip away due to laziness or complacency.
🚫 Challenging Unrealistic Social Media Standards
The speaker addresses the negative impact of social media, where people often present an idealized version of their lives, leading to unrealistic expectations and self-doubt. They express their dislike for the way social media can distort reality, with individuals portraying perfect lives and bodies, which can be harmful to others' self-perception. The speaker advocates for authenticity and encourages the audience to not be swayed by the curated highlights of others' lives. They conclude by reiterating the importance of self-application and seizing opportunities, emphasizing that one should not let the fear of imperfection or the comfort of inaction hinder personal growth and the pursuit of meaningful experiences.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Motivation
💡Manifestation
💡Eliminating fake people
💡Driven
💡Persistent
💡True passion
💡Opportunities
💡Optimism
💡Applying oneself
💡Social media
Highlights
The importance of motivation and advice in personal development.
The concept of manifestation and eliminating negativity from one's life.
The significance of persistence and finding one's true passion.
The realization that pushing through the feeling of not wanting to go to the gym can lead to positive outcomes.
The rarity of regretting going to the gym despite initial reluctance.
The potential for life-changing encounters at events one initially doesn't want to attend.
The idea that every time one decides to go out despite not wanting to, it can lead to positive experiences.
The domino effect of meeting new people and how it can positively impact one's life.
The hypothetical scenario of meeting the love of one's life at the gym on a day one didn't want to go.
The impact of having a positive mindset and optimism on attracting opportunities.
The suggestion that a lack of opportunities might be due to not putting oneself out there enough.
The metaphor of life as a race and the importance of not wasting the chance to live it fully.
The critique of social media for creating a false image of perfection and its impact on self-perception.
The encouragement to apply oneself more and to seize every opportunity that comes along.
The strategy of going out and doing things even when one doesn't feel like it, as it can lead to unexpected benefits.
The personal anecdotes shared by Kevin Diaz to illustrate the value of pushing oneself to new experiences.
The call to action for viewers to build their perfect world and make the most of their lives.
Transcripts
I always spit you know motivation you
guys I always give you guys advice I
always got you know I always talk about
like manifestation and you know
eliminating like fake people out of your
life and uh just to be driven no matter
what and be persistent and then find
your true passion like I always like
give you guys advice genuinely solid
advice at least in my opinion right
but I want to talk to you guys and share
with you guys something that I just kind
of came across like and it just popped
up in my head
recently and it honestly can change
lives I know this sounds so whack right
now what I'm saying but like hear me out
just give me a second let me like cook
real quick okay so for people who go to
the gym which is probably like most of
you guys I would assume I mean I'm
partially Fitness on this channel right
but for those of you who go to the gym
you know that feeling that you get on
days that you really don't want to go to
the gym but you still go and like before
you go you got that feeling like oh my
God I I really do not want to go I will
do anything but go to that one place
that I do not want to go to but I know
that in reality I kind of have to but I
just I don't want to now I know some of
you are going to say that you probably
act on those feelings and decide not to
go and then there's probably some of you
who say no I wouldn't no matter what I
don't care what my mind says it's what I
have to do regardless of what I feel and
then there's probably some of you who
are in the middle and do both some days
you slack when you feel like that and
then some days you go even though you
don't want to the point I'm trying to
get at here is the the feeling you get
right when you feel that way when you
feel like damn I don't want to be here
but you go you get it
done what are the times and and and
chances that you could even recall of of
yourself being like damn I really
regretted going today like I really just
should have stayed home it was a waste
of time I don't know why I still went
even though I didn't want to or I didn't
feel like it right and being sick and
like having like the flu or some [ __ ]
it's like a completely different story
I'm just saying you're being a lazy ass
right has there ever been a moment that
you can even recall that you felt like
that cuz I've never had a moment every
time I have that feeling and I still go
regardless of how I felt I'm always like
damn that felt good I don't know what I
was thinking man like I'm tweaking bro
when people invite you to events
or you know I don't know someone wants
to introduce you to one of their buddies
right you never met or like in a circle
a group circle they want to introduce
you right or I don't know maybe there's
like a event there's like a little event
that maybe you got invited to where
that's like coming up right and like
you're sitting there like nah I don't
want to nah screw that
right I used to be that guy I still am
at times believe me and I'm sure a lot
of you are too the point I'm trying to
make here is that I've come to a
realization with that example I told you
about not want her to go to the gym but
you go anyways we could have gone to
something and something really good
something
even life
changing could have came out of that
thing that we saw don't want to go to at
times right you know I I've had
instances where I've had a really bad
day
man oh man I was going through it
horrible right then maybe a buddy hits
me up or whatever and says yo there's
this like thing going on right now like
you should pull up whatever and I really
really did not want to go bro and then
you know I end up going and I I meet a
few people that you know till this day
now I'm buddies with and sometimes I
hang out with and they benefit my life
as well as they benefit theirs and you
know they got me into doing certain
things certain Sports whatever or like
meeting certain people like it just it's
like a domino effect right one thing
goes to another you know for for example
let me let me make an example here like
we were talking about with the gym right
you know you never know man maybe that
one moment that you decide to slack of
not going to the gym maybe you you would
find the love of your life that day bro
maybe the love of your life would just
appear in that gym one day and just be
strolling around maybe she wouldn't even
be a girl that you've ever seen before
in that gym but you just see her for
some reason that day for some reason and
then that could be the day that you
approach her and talk to her and then
that was also the very same day that you
really didn't want to go and I've had so
many instances in my life where I didn't
want to go to certain things and ended
up going to them and had not just
specific for the thing itself attending
it right that was so spectacular but the
things that came out of it that was
astounding right even filming guys for
me right I can only relate to myself cuz
I don't really know every single one of
you right behind the screen that's
watching but even filming I've had so
many instances bro so many instances
that are like almost lifechanging where
it's a day where it's like I don't
really have to film but I could so and
so hits me up wants to film with me okay
let's go to Miami Bickle South Beach
blah whatever get a video done and
there's some days where like I already
have content in stores and I don't
really need to film it's not like I'm
missing out or not posting I'm posting
content the same with the same frequency
I'm just you I just don't want to go
that day or whatever the reason
is and recently you know I've come with
this theory of mine with the whole like
great things can come out of times that
you don't want to do certain things
right or go to certain places and what
happens when I have this new mindset and
I just go no matter what still I meet
for example I mean there was one time I
I went to Bickle and I met Justin Waller
right Andrew Tate's best friend freaking
insane bro and uh yeah that was the day
that I did not want to go out to film
but it was a really good day to film
because I made a great connection as
well as the fact that I I mean the the
the video itself that whole day was
hilarious and golden right so that was
another thing you know I I mean there's
so many things I could like say and
think of and scenarios and situations
but I can't get off the top of my head
to be honest with you right now um my
point is is go out there
and and go try it cuz you never know who
you'll run into you never know what
you'll run into right opportunities
comes and presents itself man and I've
realized that if you don't have
opportunities com coming your way it's
not because you're
unlucky maybe it's two things okay to be
fair one maybe it's the mindset the
mindset of you being negative and very
very pessimistic I can't [ __ ] stand
pessimistic people yeah sure you're
Stern and rational and just like saying
what it is at times but sometimes what
it is isn't really what it is it's also
what it could be and what it will be if
you have that mindset of optimism right
being optimistic so that's one thing but
if it isn't that it's probably because
you're not applying yourself out there
as much as you could or and should
honestly put yourself out there you're
only one person you are only one being I
know a lot of [ __ ] things out there
there's a lot of pronouns they them and
this and that and I like to make jokes
and [ __ ] like that on my videos I know
you've seen them like I classify myself
as day them I'm over here here on
multiple people like I [ __ ] around but
in reality like you're only one person
right you were only one self individual
one
so if you think about it that means that
you can only be at one place at one time
and one day and one hour and you know
what I'm saying like you you really got
to like schedule your [ __ ] here you got
to put your [ __ ] on a schedule and you
really
want to throw away and trash the
opportunities that you could have
presented to you to be [ __ ] bed
rested and just laying down on the bed
like
this right and I'm not saying to like
you can't have any days where you're
just literally vibing I'm not saying
that I'm saying pretty much that a lot
of people are doing it a little bit too
[ __ ] much okay and you're getting a
little bit too comfortable with
yourselves okay you need to cut this
[ __ ] out because you can really be
applying yourself out there I mean I
know I'm figuratively speaking here but
also literally like look at this look at
this I have a whole I mean you can't see
[ __ ] that's crazy I can't either there's
not many lights but you have a whole
world out there man a whole world world
right and you're just sitting your ass
in your bedroom like what the [ __ ] is
that that that that's not what you were
destined to do you didn't finish the
first race to become alive in this
planet to to now to now doing that [ __ ]
what kind of depressing sad [ __ ] is that
and then a lot of people message me and
they they sit there and say like I'm
depressed I'm sad you don't understand
my life yeah sure maybe I don't
understand your life but I understand
bad times I understand being depressed
being sad being angry being happy I
understand every human emotion because
I'm literally [ __ ] you in a different
body I'm a human myself so understand
what you're going through to a degree
maybe not the situation and Circumstance
in particular but I understand the
emotion the reason why a lot of you were
like that is because you're
realistically not in a place and in a
life that you really want to be in at
the end of the day a lot of people look
on social
media on Tik Tok reals YouTube videos
and they see these people that put their
life on a highlight reel on a pedestal
right that's why I try to keep it real
like my life's not perfect you know what
I'm saying I go through [ __ ] all the
time too but you have these people just
presenting themselves like they're
perfect they have the perfect [ __ ]
life nothing goes wrong couldn't be bad
times don't exist on social media it
couldn't and it's it's it's really wared
and [ __ ] up a lot of your heads into
thinking that because these perfect
people don't have bad
times I'm having bad times that means
I'm a [ __ ] up I'm a mess this is this is
ridiculous this this can't be this
impossible oh my
God and um yeah I mean I know I do
social media a lot I post a lot of
[ __ ]
content and and I'm
grinding but that's one thing I really
do hate about it I really do hate about
social media that everyone puts
themselves on a pedestal I hate that
[ __ ] because no one's perfect no one has
it perfectly you know everyone's with
the perfect bodies and photoshopping
their muscles to look [ __ ] bigger
than what it actually is and acting like
they're Millionaires and probably have
more than what they actually have and
you know I don't know I mean the list
can go on you guys know exactly what I'm
talking about I don't even need to disc
discuss that but yeah man like just
apply yourself
more right if you get invited go to that
event meet that new friend go to the gym
that day you really don't want to and
you're not sick it's not like you're
debilitated I'm not talking about those
specific circumstances okay I think
that's like we all know okay I don't
think it takes a [ __ ] rocket
scientist yeah maybe you should lay off
the gym if you're really injured or
whatever but if you're not you're just
is being a lazy ass and it's a mental
thing go do it if you're doing nothing
that day and there's something going on
around your city or whatever like go go
out there you never know who you're
going to meet who you're going to
connect with the connections you can
possibly make and in my circumstance
doing this I don't want to call it like
some whole philosophy like this whole
like strategy almost cuz that's what it
is honestly I look at it like a strategy
I've made connections I've met new
people I've built some relationships
with a lot of people and like that I'm
glad are in my life now and that benefit
my life and add to my life not
subtract that it just makes me think
damn like I really got to apply myself
more every chance I got I'm going to do
it every [ __ ] chance I got because
you can't go wrong with that and it can
never hurt so yeah that's that's pretty
much what I wanted to say I don't know
if this makes sense I know I say that a
lot in my videos but I'm assuming it
does I mean if I'm rationally like
reviewing this and I'm posting it and
you guys are watching it and you guys
are not saying like y know you're making
no [ __ ] sense are you talking Chinese
like so maybe it makes sense
right but yeah that's all I wanted to
say I hope you guys enjoyed this video
it's your boy Kevin Diaz from crew
Aesthetics make
sure to build your perfect world now
because we don't have this life
forever that's all I wanted to say and I
wanted to end it off there it's your boy
Kevin Diaz from Cru
Aesthetics road to 1 million subscribers
and yeah it's your boy uh your boy Kevin
is and and we're out
peace boom
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