Motivation: Fail Better (ft. Peter Dinklage)
Summary
TLDRThe speaker shares their journey of transitioning into a full-time actor at 29, leaving behind a stable job and embracing the uncertainty of a career in acting. They recount the fear and excitement of this decision, the importance of financial independence instilled by their parents, and the eventual success that followed. The narrative emphasizes the value of perseverance, the inevitability of defining moments, and the wisdom of Samuel Beckett's words on failure and trying again.
Takeaways
- π The speaker decided to commit fully to acting at 29, regardless of pay, leading to a career in acting.
- πΌ They quit their stable job at professional examination services to pursue their passion.
- π The speaker had no internet, cell phone, or job but found a low-paying theater job that started their acting career.
- π The theater job led to a film called '13 Moons' and subsequently to a series of acting roles.
- π¨βπ©βπ§βπ¦ The speaker emphasizes the importance of financial independence and the hunger it instilled in them.
- π« The speaker's parents invested in their education but made it clear they were on their own financially after graduation.
- π The fear of change and being stuck was a driving force for the speaker to make a significant life change.
- π¬ The speaker found themselves working alongside actors, writers, and directors they admired.
- π The speaker advises not to search for defining moments but to realize they are already happening.
- π The speaker quotes Beckett, encouraging continuous effort and improvement despite failures.
Q & A
At what age did the speaker decide to commit fully to acting?
-The speaker decided to commit fully to acting at the age of 29.
What was the speaker's job before becoming an actor?
-Before becoming an actor, the speaker worked at professional examination services, which involved data processing.
What was the first acting job the speaker got after deciding to become a working actor?
-The first acting job the speaker got was a low-paying theater job in a play called 'Imperfect Love'.
How did the role in 'Imperfect Love' impact the speaker's acting career?
-The role in 'Imperfect Love' led to a film called '13 Moons' with the same writer, which in turn led to other roles and a continuous acting career.
What were the circumstances the speaker faced at 29 when they decided to become an actor?
-At 29, the speaker was without a job, internet, or a cell phone, and they were walking away from a stable but unsatisfying career in data processing.
Why did the speaker's parents send them to the best schools?
-The speaker's parents, despite not having much money, struggled to send them to the best schools to provide a better education.
How did the speaker's financial independence after graduation affect their motivation?
-The speaker's financial independence after graduation made them very hungry and unable to be lazy, which motivated them to work hard.
What was the speaker's living situation like during the early part of their acting career?
-The speaker lived in a place without heat for ten years during the early part of their acting career.
What advice does the speaker give to those who are afraid of change?
-The speaker suggests not to be afraid of change and to trust that a rhythm will set in after a period of being derailed.
What quote from Beckett does the speaker reference in their speech?
-The speaker references Samuel Beckett's quote, 'Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.'
What is the main message the speaker conveys about defining moments in life?
-The main message is that defining moments do not announce themselves; they have already happened and will continue to happen, so one should not wait for a specific moment to start living their life.
Outlines
π The Journey to Becoming a Working Actor
The speaker recounts their decision at age 29 to commit fully to acting, regardless of pay, leading to the resignation from a stable job at professional examination services. Despite the lack of internet, cell phone, and employment, they landed a low-paying theater job in 'Imperfect Love,' which sparked a chain of opportunities including a film '13 Moons.' This sequence of events established their career in acting. The narrative also touches on the speaker's background, including the financial struggles of their parents who prioritized education, and the importance of self-reliance post-graduation. The speaker emphasizes the value of perseverance and the search for a personal rhythm in life, suggesting that defining moments are not sought but are a product of one's journey. They conclude with a quote from Beckett, encouraging continuous effort and improvement despite failures.
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘working actor
π‘professional examination services
π‘imperfect love
π‘13 moons
π‘data processing
π‘financial independence
π‘hungry
π‘defining moments
π‘derailed
π‘rhythm
π‘fail better
Highlights
The speaker decided to commit to acting at 29, regardless of pay, leading to quitting a stable job.
Lacking internet, a cell phone, and a job, the speaker still managed to land a low-paying theater job.
The theater job in 'Imperfect Love' led to a film role in '13 Moons' with the same writer.
Following '13 Moons,' the speaker secured more acting roles, establishing a career in acting.
The speaker reflects on the fear of change and the decision to leave data processing at 29.
Despite financial struggles, the speaker's parents prioritized education, instilling a strong work ethic.
Financial independence after graduation made the speaker 'hungry' and unable to be lazy.
At 29, the speaker found themselves among the actors, writers, and directors they admired.
The speaker encourages not to search for defining moments, as they happen naturally.
The moments that define a person have already occurred and will continue to occur.
The speaker admits to feeling derailed after graduation but assures that a rhythm will set in.
Advice is given to not wait until a certain age, like 29, to find one's path.
The speaker acknowledges that some people may never find their path, but promises that the listener will.
A quote from Beckett is shared about the importance of trying and failing better.
Transcripts
When I was 29 I told myself the next
acting job I get no matter what it pays
I will from now on for better or worse
be a working actor
so I quit my position at the professional examination services
and now I didn't have either the
internet or a cell phone or a job
but something good happened
I got a low-paying theater job in a play
called imperfect love which led to a
film called 13 moons with the same writer
which led to other roles which led to other roles
and I've worked as an actor ever since
I didn't know that would happen
at 29 walking away from data processing
I was terrified
ten years in a place without heat
six years at a job I felt stuck in
maybe I was afraid of change
are you?
my parents didn't have much money
but they struggled to send me to the best schools
and one of the most important things they did for me
is that once I graduated I was on my own
financially it was my turn
but this made me very hungry
literally
I couldn't be lazy now I'm totally lazy
but back then I couldn't be
and so at 29 in a very long last
I was in the company of the actors and writers
and directors I'd sought out that first year
that first day after school
I was I am by their sides
Raise the rest of your life
to meet you
Don't search for defining moments
because they will never come
The moments that define you have already happened
and they will already happen again
sorry it sucks after graduation
it really does
I mean I don't know at least it did for me
but that's the only thing I know
you you just get a bit derailed
but soon something starts to happen
trust me
a rhythm sets in
just try not to wait until like me
you're 29 before you find it
and if you are that's fine too
some of us never find it
but you will
I promise you
what did Beckett say
ever tried ever failed
no matter
try again
fail again
fail better
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