How You Can Get Ahead Of Most People In 2024 (Full Guide)

Mark Tilbury
24 Apr 202310:39

Summary

TLDRThis video script contrasts two lifestyles: Jack, who works a job he dislikes and seeks temporary relief through partying, and Chad, a successful entrepreneur focused on building his dream life. The speaker, a multimillionaire businessman, shares a six-step guide to help viewers become more like Chad, emphasizing competitiveness, obsession with goals, producing over consuming, asking the right questions, focusing on skills over net worth, and becoming comfortable with money. The guide aims to help viewers get ahead in life by making small but significant adjustments.

Takeaways

  • πŸ˜€ **Competitive Mindset**: Embrace a competitive attitude to succeed, as the real world rewards winners, unlike the traditional education system.
  • πŸ’‘ **Obsessive Goal Pursuit**: Reject the concept of work-life balance in favor of an obsessive focus on personal and professional goals to stay ahead.
  • πŸ› οΈ **Producer Mindset**: Shift from being a passive consumer to an active producer, creating value and opportunities rather than just consuming them.
  • ❓ **Effective Questioning**: Cultivate the skill of asking clear and concise questions to engage mentors and gain valuable insights.
  • πŸ’Έ **Net Worth Realism**: Recognize that net worth is not the sole measure of success; focus on acquiring skills, knowledge, and confidence.
  • πŸ’Ό **Wealth Building**: Understand that wealth is not a fixed pie; believe in the abundance of money and the potential to create and capture value.
  • 🏦 **Money Comfort**: Become comfortable with the concept and handling of money to negotiate better, start businesses, and take financial risks.
  • πŸ”„ **Value Creation**: Prioritize providing value to others, understanding that by solving significant problems, one can attract substantial financial rewards.
  • πŸš€ **Small Adjustments**: Make incremental changes in your approach and habits, as these can lead to significant long-term benefits and success.
  • πŸ“ˆ **Long-Term Vision**: Maintain a long-term vision and stay committed to your goals, as this will help you navigate through the complexities of life and business.

Q & A

  • What is the main difference between Jack and Chad as described in the script?

    -Jack is depicted as someone who dislikes his job, has no savings, and seeks temporary relief through partying and social media. In contrast, Chad is a business owner who reinvests his profits, focuses on building meaningful connections, and maintains a healthy lifestyle.

  • What is the first step in the six-step guide shared by the multimillionaire businessman?

    -The first step is to become 'insanely competitive,' rejecting the notion that participation is as important as winning and embracing the idea of striving to win in all aspects of life.

  • How does the speaker criticize the education system in relation to preparing youth for the real world?

    -The speaker criticizes the education system for promoting the idea that participation is as important as winning, which he believes fails to prepare youth for the competitive realities of the world.

  • What is the issue the speaker sees with social media platforms like Instagram?

    -The speaker believes that social media platforms allow everyday people to see the lives of the 1%, complicating the once-simple path to success and potentially leading to dissatisfaction and unrealistic expectations.

  • What does the speaker suggest about the concept of 'work-life balance' in the pursuit of success?

    -The speaker is against the concept of 'work-life balance,' arguing that to get ahead, one must be hyper-obsessive about their goals and prioritize work over leisure.

  • Why does the speaker emphasize the importance of being a 'producer' rather than a 'consumer'?

    -The speaker emphasizes being a 'producer' because it's through creating and offering value that one can accumulate wealth and get ahead, rather than just consuming products and services.

  • What is the speaker's advice on how to find a mentor?

    -The speaker advises that the quality of questions one asks is crucial in finding a mentor. He shares his experience of asking clear and concise questions, which led to a successful businessman taking him under his wing.

  • Why does the speaker argue that 'net worth' is not a reliable measure of success?

    -The speaker argues that 'net worth' is not a reliable measure of success because it doesn't account for the skills, knowledge, and confidence acquired during the journey of building wealth. He gives examples of people who became rich through shortcuts like cryptocurrency or lotteries but lack the ability to replicate their success.

  • How does the speaker suggest one should view money to become more successful?

    -The speaker suggests that one should become less awkward with money, recognizing that it is abundant and not something to be feared. He shares an anecdote about carrying $1,000 to change one's perspective on the value of money.

  • What is the final step in the guide to getting ahead according to the speaker?

    -The final step is to solve big problems to make big money. The speaker emphasizes that the size of one's income is determined by the magnitude of the problems they solve, and to earn more, one should aim to provide solutions to significant issues.

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