"I WISH I HAD MORE INTERNET FRIENDS." - Literally Nobody
Summary
TLDRIn this reflective video, the creator discusses the irony of running a tech-focused YouTube channel while advocating for a reduced reliance on technology. He shares his personal realization of having more free time due to less internet use and challenges the viewer to consider the impact of technology and social media on their lives. The creator also addresses the unnatural nature of online relationships and the importance of investing in real-life connections, concluding with a call to action to reduce internet usage.
Takeaways
- π The speaker has noticed having more free time recently and questions the reason behind it.
- π» There's irony in discussing technology on a YouTube channel while also considering the negative impacts of technology on our lives.
- π« The speaker expresses concern about over-reliance on computers and the negative effects of social media.
- π Successful tech figures, like Mark Zuckerberg, reportedly limit their children's use of technology, highlighting awareness of its potential harms.
- π± The speaker takes breaks from making videos to model a reduced dependency on technology and to encourage a similar approach among viewers.
- πΊ The speaker criticizes the repetitive nature of news responses and the futility of commenting on every event, suggesting a more thoughtful engagement with media.
- π€ The speaker's video hiatuses are a deliberate choice to communicate the value of not always being connected or creating content.
- π₯ The speaker dislikes the idea of being an internet figurehead and finds the parasocial relationships formed online unnatural and unhealthy.
- π‘ The speaker emphasizes the importance of real-life relationships and experiences over online interactions and presence.
- π The speaker believes that despite the potential for a large online audience, real-life connections are more meaningful and less controlled by external forces.
Q & A
What realization did the speaker have about their recent abundance of time?
-The speaker realized they had been spending a lot of time on the internet, which led to the question of why they had so much time, implying a reassessment of their internet usage.
What irony does the speaker identify in having a YouTube channel?
-The irony is that while the channel discusses technology, the speaker is also concerned about the negative impacts of technology and social media on people's lives.
Why does the speaker believe it's important to be aware of technology's effects on one's life?
-The speaker believes it's important because understanding the implications and consequences of technology can lead to a more mindful and balanced relationship with it.
What does the speaker think about the use of social media and its impact on people?
-The speaker views social media as having unnatural effects on people and is worried about its impact, suggesting that those who truly understand its effects might avoid using it.
Why does the speaker take breaks from making videos on their channel?
-The speaker takes breaks to practice what they preach, which is to reduce reliance on technology and the internet, and to avoid hypocrisy in their message.
What message does the speaker want to convey by taking long hiatuses from their channel?
-By taking breaks, the speaker communicates that their content is not essential and that people should focus on real-life experiences and relationships.
Why does the speaker avoid making news response videos?
-The speaker finds news response videos repetitive and believes that once people understand the principles behind the news, they don't need to hear the same thing repeatedly.
What does the speaker imply about the nature of internet relationships compared to real-life relationships?
-The speaker implies that real-life relationships are more important and meaningful than internet relationships, which are fleeting and less substantial.
How does the speaker feel about the idea of being a figure that people emotionally depend on through their videos?
-The speaker finds the idea of people emotionally needing their videos to be revolting and unhealthy, referring to it as a 'parasocial relationship.'
What lesson does the speaker want to impart with their video and channel in general?
-The speaker wants to encourage viewers to reduce their reliance on the internet and social media, and to invest more in real-life experiences and genuine relationships.
Outlines
π€ Reflecting on Technology and Its Impact
The speaker begins by acknowledging a hiatus from creating videos due to a realization about the abundance of free time. They ponder the irony of discussing technology on a platform that is itself a product of technology. The speaker expresses concern over the effects of technology and social media on people's lives, citing the example of Mark Zuckerberg limiting his children's use of Facebook. They argue for the importance of being aware of technology's impact and criticize the idea of creating content just for the sake of gaining online followers. The speaker also discusses their own habits of taking breaks from YouTube, which they see as a form of weaning their audience off an unhealthy dependency on online content. They emphasize the artificiality of online relationships and the importance of real-life interactions, suggesting that their breaks from creating content serve as a statement against the constant need for online engagement.
π΅ Embracing a Life Beyond the Internet
In the second paragraph, the speaker shares their personal journey of reducing internet usage for recreation, highlighting a shift from constant online engagement to more sporadic, purposeful use. They stress the importance of aligning one's actions with their beliefs, as they advocate for a reduced reliance on technology. The speaker also addresses the fleeting nature of online influence and the control exerted by those who govern the internet. They contrast the ephemeral connections online with the enduring value of real-life relationships, suggesting that the latter holds more significance. The speaker concludes by reinforcing the message to limit internet use, emphasizing the importance of focusing on real-life experiences and interactions over the pursuit of online validation and presence.
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘Irony
π‘Technology
π‘Consequences
π‘Hypocrisy
π‘Abstain
π‘Social Media
π‘Parasociology
π‘Real Life
π‘Influence
π‘Control
π‘Authenticity
Highlights
The speaker reflects on having more free time and questions the reasons behind it.
Irony is noted in discussing technology on a platform that can be detrimental to one's well-being.
The importance of considering the implications and consequences of technology is emphasized.
Concerns about over-reliance on computers and the negative effects of social media are expressed.
Examples of tech giants like Mark Zuckerberg limiting tech use for their children are mentioned.
The speaker's habit of taking breaks from YouTube to align with their message of reducing tech reliance.
The speaker clarifies that their goal is not to increase viewership but to encourage a reduction in tech dependency.
The futility of creating content for the sake of it and the desire to communicate through absence is discussed.
The speaker criticizes the repetitive nature of news responses and the lack of need to comment on everything.
The idea that not creating content can be a statement in itself is presented.
The speaker expresses discomfort with the concept of being an internet figure and the parasocial relationships it fosters.
The speaker's personal reduction in internet use and the hypocrisy of not practicing what they preach is highlighted.
The fleeting and controlled nature of online communities is critiqued.
The importance of real-life relationships over online presence is argued.
The speaker suggests that the influence one has in real life is more significant than online influence.
The final lesson is a call to action for viewers to stop using the internet recreationally.
Transcripts
good morning it's actually been a while
since I've done a video and that's for a
reason uh I had this realization the
other week actually
um I forget what I was doing in
particular but I realized man I've had
like so much time recently what's with
that why do I have so much time
the kind of I don't know this should be
an obvious question but
um you know one thing that there's an
irony there's an irony right many
ironies in uh me having this YouTube
channel we all know them so let's say
them out loud firstly a lot of the stuff
on paper that we pretend to talk about
on this channel right is technology I've
done many technology tutorials and stuff
like that but at the same time one when
you really get into any kind of topic
technology is no exception uh in unless
you are just brain dead you have to
think about the implications like what
what what actually what does this thing
that we're interested in cause like what
are the
um I don't know the ramifications what
are the consequences of Technology right
and I think anyone who's saying and sits
down and thinks about it is very worried
about the the effective technology on
their life okay on Computing like
relying too much on computers and uh
computerization of stuff uh but also the
unnatural effects that uh things like
social media things like this have on us
right
um that's something very worrisome so
ironic likely enough of course although
we talk about computers and stuff it's
very important to be aware of how they
affect you and I think a person who
knows I mean it's like I don't know I
want to say wasn't it like uh Mark
Zuckerberg doesn't let his kids use
Facebook and stuff like that it's the
same consequence when you really know
what these things do to people you are
not going to let the you know you're not
going to want to really participate in
them right
um and at the same token you know
obviously I have
um you know I have a channel where I do
stuff and I talk about I guess lifestyle
stuff that are related to technology and
things but at the same time I'm
militantly I have a habit and you all
know it
um uh you know I've been doing this for
a couple years and sometimes I'll do a
string of videos and then I will take a
Hiatus of several months and I I don't
feel like I need to notify you about
that I will just not do videos and I I
want to I want to bring that up just
let's talk about that explicitly why do
I do that it's not something I plan to
do it's just something that naturally
happens because if you are practicing
and preaching what I'm doing okay if I'm
saying on one side you you need to
abstain from technology and then on the
other side I'm saying hey guys watch
tomorrow's video like comment and
subscribe oh watch to the end of the
you know be enrolled in our sweeps man
hey if you find a secret message in
today's video post a comment and if
you're the first one I'll pin you if I
were doing that like it would be so
hypocritical like I I really don't like
my goal here is really not for people to
watch my channel but for people to stop
doing this all together like to not need
uh not need the uh fake friends of
YouTube that's kind of what I'm getting
at and you'll be in a better position
like that
um but at the same time I want people to
realize like oh a lot of times
especially when it's news things now
I've never done like news responses or
whatever because I think they're very
stupid
um well I mean some of them are good
because they're instructive I'm not like
you know there are lots of people who do
good uh videos like mental Outlaw on
kind of new stuff but it's more like
it's more targeted as what are the
principles behind the news kind of stuff
and that's fine that's fine for people
to to understand what's going on but
even then I don't even do those and I
think the reason is once you kind of
understand what's going on you don't
need to hear the same thing over and
over and over again okay that's my
belief so I don't feel the need to do it
but also more importantly like I don't
need to make a statement on everything
and sometimes frankly me not saying
anything that should constitute a
statement okay when I every day I don't
do a video I am communicating something
to you that that's what I want people to
realize like if I take several months
off that is me saying uh I'm sorry this
isn't worth I might have this like um
this this this ability to speak to
thousands of people but that is not I
mean most of you guys I mean the vast
majority of you guys I will never know I
don't really I don't mean to be mean but
I don't really care to know you I think
you understand that like that this is
just how uh adults work right this is
how real life works and um I I think
it's important not to do videos just to
be able to communicate to people like
this is not this is not life like the
reality is
um obviously in the same way that a lot
of Technology the way people use it is
very unnatural uh social media like
YouTube this is like the Pinnacle of
weirdness like it's just the weirdest
thing you could possibly do
um and I know people like they they they
really glom on to figures they see on
the internet and it's one of the most
healthy things unhealthy things ever
ever it just has always made me want to
puke so the idea of me being one of
these figures is just like revolting
like the idea that there are people who
like emotionally need my videos who
don't know me who literally do not know
me that is just a weird parasocial
relationship
um that I if anything I think people
need to get out of so uh I'm constantly
I'm occasionally using the time time the
time that I want to be lazy and not do
videos as a weaning of people who you
know really shouldn't be addicted to
this kind of stuff right
um so that that's why I do what I do
and so you know my the thing that I
realized a couple weeks ago is that I've
gotten to the point really I I don't use
the internet recreationally at all
anymore
um I mean occasionally maybe once a week
I'll I'll watch some YouTube videos but
I mean it used to be when I was younger
I I'd just be on the internet all the
time I'd pull my computer up all the
time now I do open up my computer and do
little work and stuff like that without
a browser without anything but like
um even that is like I've cut down
significantly and that I mean it would
be it would be bad if I were doing
anything else you know what I mean if
I'm telling you what I think to be the
absolute truth that you are best if you
are cutting the stuff out of your life
uh it would be hypocritical for me not
to do that and that's exactly what I do
right
um so I think one thing that people have
in mind I I want to say there was some
video I did like maybe last month or the
month month before where you know people
were I don't even remember which one it
was but um if something is something
else about like divesting from the
internet but I think that what you got
to realize is yes there is a sense in
which on the internet you can have a
much bigger platform okay like oh I can
talk to these people oh wow in numbers
oh I have a much bigger influence on
YouTube than maybe I do in real Actually
I don't even know if that's true to be
honest like if you really
um if you really think things true
through but it is much like the the
communities the fake Society on the
internet it is so fleeting it is so easy
to control by the people who control the
internet you know what I mean
um and it is not really it's not really
social it's not really anything I I I
guess as I've gotten older and older
I've had the idea that like and this is
very true you might hate it but the
relationships you have in real life are
more important than that even if you all
even if you don't have very many at this
point and you're a fool like when you
are on your deathbed you're not going to
be like man I wish I had more YouTube
subscribers you you're just not going to
be thinking that you're going to be
saying wow I was an idiot I was an idiot
for not spending more time in real life
because there is a difference and
frankly you might feel like you're not a
super powerful person in real life but
you have a lot more power there than you
do on the internet even if you're
talking to a bunch of fake uh internet
friends with anime avatars that make you
uh I don't I don't know I don't know I
don't know what you're doing on the
internet I would just invest you know
what I'm gonna say why why even I don't
even I didn't even need to put this
video up because you you should already
know what I'm going to say but I guess
I'll do it I might as well throw some
some stuff out for people who don't get
it yet so
um today's lesson same lessons and as
usual stop using the internet
that's all
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