I stopped chasing money & it flowed into my life like water

Fair Value God
6 Mar 202410:31

Summary

TLDRThe speaker emphasizes the importance of shifting from a money-focused mindset to a process-focused one, highlighting that true fulfillment comes from personal growth and helping others. They argue that chasing money leads to an unfulfilled void, while an abundance mindset and disciplined trading can naturally attract wealth. The video encourages viewers to seek financial freedom through trading, not for materialistic gains, but to gain the freedom to make a meaningful impact on others' lives.

Takeaways

  • ๐Ÿ’ก Focus on personal growth and process improvement rather than solely on money to achieve long-term success.
  • ๐ŸŒŠ Shift from a scarcity to an abundance mindset to avoid the never-ending cycle of wanting more money and to manifest success in trading.
  • ๐Ÿ’ผ Money is a tool and a byproduct of skill; it should be used to buy back freedom and time, not just for materialistic gains.
  • ๐Ÿง˜โ€โ™‚๏ธ Prioritize capital preservation and risk management over chasing profits to ensure sustainable trading success.
  • ๐Ÿšซ Avoid comparing yourself to others; instead, focus on being 1% better than you were yesterday to foster personal growth.
  • ๐Ÿ”‘ Trading offers financial, time, and location freedom, which are the true goals, not just the money earned.
  • ๐Ÿค” Reflect on why you want money and recognize that most people desire freedom and the ability to impact others' lives more than material wealth.
  • ๐Ÿ›‘ Stop chasing money and instead let it flow to you by valuing it as the time and energy of others and using it wisely.
  • ๐Ÿ“‰ Understand that fewer, high-quality trades are more effective than taking numerous trades, which can lead to losses.
  • ๐ŸŒŸ Helping others and making a positive impact can be more fulfilling than materialistic pursuits, leading to a more meaningful life.
  • ๐Ÿ‘€ Keep a discerning eye on online content, as it can often promote a materialistic cycle that distracts from the true purpose of trading.

Q & A

  • What was the primary change the speaker made in their life to improve their financial situation?

    -The speaker shifted their focus from being money-focused to being process-focused, aiming to become 1% better each day in all aspects of their life.

  • How does the speaker suggest that focusing on the process rather than money leads to better outcomes?

    -Focusing on the process allows for a more relaxed and fulfilled state, which in turn leads to better performance in trading and other areas, with money becoming a natural byproduct of skill and good decision-making.

  • What is the 'scarcity mindset' mentioned in the script, and how does it affect trading?

    -The 'scarcity mindset' is a perspective where one trades from a position of lack, fearing loss, which can manifest negatively in trading decisions. It contrasts with an 'abundance mindset' that is more conducive to successful trading.

  • What does the speaker mean when they say that money is a tool?

    -The speaker means that money itself is not the ultimate goal but a means to achieve freedom, fulfill needs, and make a positive impact on one's own life and others.

  • How does the speaker define the three forms of freedom that trading can provide?

    -The three forms of freedom are financial freedom, time freedom, and location freedom, which allow individuals to manage their resources, time, and choose where they work or live, respectively.

  • What is the significance of the statement 'the more you chase something, the more it runs away from you' in the context of the script?

    -This statement emphasizes that a focused pursuit of money can be counterproductive, as it can lead to stress and poor decision-making, whereas a more relaxed and process-oriented approach can naturally attract success and wealth.

  • What advice does the speaker give for those who want to improve their trading and financial situation?

    -The speaker advises to stop focusing on the monetary outcome of trades and instead focus on the process, become a good risk manager, and measure success by personal improvement rather than external comparisons.

  • How does the speaker suggest reframing the concept of money?

    -The speaker suggests viewing money as a representation of time and energy, which can help individuals to be more conservative with their trading and financial decisions.

  • What is the main takeaway the speaker wants the audience to have from the video?

    -The main takeaway is to not destroy oneself for a job that can easily replace one, and not to lose oneself trying to impress people who won't remember one. Instead, focus on using money as a tool to buy back freedom and time.

  • What is the role of discipline and risk management in the speaker's trading philosophy?

    -Discipline and risk management are central to the speaker's trading philosophy, as they believe that money flows to the most disciplined and process-focused individuals who manage risk effectively.

Outlines

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๐ŸŒŠ Embracing the Flow of Money Through Process Focus

The speaker emphasizes the importance of shifting from a money-focused mindset to a process-focused one, highlighting how this change has led to a more fulfilled and relaxed approach to trading. By striving to improve 1% each day, the individual found that money became a natural byproduct of good trades rather than the primary focus. The speaker critiques the materialistic mindset ingrained in Western society and suggests that an abundance mindset is essential for successful trading. The video aims to explain why putting money on a pedestal leads to an unfulfilled life, as the desire for more money is insatiable. Instead, the speaker advocates for a focus on the freedom that trading can provide, including financial, time, and location freedom, and encourages viewers to reflect on their true motivations for seeking wealth.

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๐Ÿ’ผ The Illusion of Monetary Success and the Path to True Trading

This paragraph discusses the common trap of chasing monetary gains and the disillusionment that can follow. The speaker admits to falling into this trap and suggests that new traders are particularly susceptible to the allure of online profits and materialistic lifestyles. The speaker stresses the importance of valuing money correctly, noting that it flows to those who value it most and are disciplined in their approach. The focus should be on capital preservation and making high-quality trades, rather than on the quantity of trades. The speaker also advises against comparing oneself to others and instead encourages self-improvement and introspection. The goal is to be 1% better each day, and the speaker reminds viewers that money is a byproduct of skill and should be treated as a tool for achieving freedom and making a positive impact on others' lives.

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๐Ÿšซ Breaking Free from Materialistic Pursuits and Prioritizing Personal Impact

In the final paragraph, the speaker urges viewers to avoid sacrificing personal well-being for the sake of impressing others or a job that can easily replace them. The speaker reiterates the message of not chasing money for its own sake but rather using it as a means to achieve freedom and make a meaningful impact. The video concludes with a call to action for viewers to reflect on their priorities and to use money as a tool for buying back time and freedom, rather than squandering it on materialistic pursuits that fail to bring true happiness or fulfillment.

Mindmap

Keywords

๐Ÿ’กProcess Focused

Being 'process focused' refers to concentrating on the actions, strategies, and daily improvements in one's endeavors rather than solely on the end results or financial gains. In the video, the speaker emphasizes that by focusing on becoming 1% better each day in all aspects of life, including trading, one can achieve greater fulfillment and success. This mindset shift allows for a more relaxed and effective approach to trading, where the quality of decisions and actions naturally leads to financial rewards.

๐Ÿ’กMaterialistic Mindset

A 'materialistic mindset' is one that values material possessions and wealth above other aspects of life. The video discusses how the speaker overcame this mindset by shifting focus from money to personal growth and process. This change allowed the speaker to find more meaning and satisfaction in life, illustrating the negative impact of a materialistic mindset on personal fulfillment and trading performance.

๐Ÿ’กScarcity Mindset

The 'scarcity mindset' is a belief that resources, including money, are limited and must be fiercely competed for. In the context of the video, the speaker contrasts this with an 'abundance mindset,' suggesting that traders who approach the market with a scarcity mindset are more likely to make fearful and self-defeating decisions. The video encourages traders to adopt an abundance mindset to improve their trading and overall life experience.

๐Ÿ’กFulfillment

Fulfillment, in the video, is described as a state of contentment and satisfaction that comes from personal growth, helping others, and achieving one's goals beyond monetary success. The speaker argues that chasing money alone does not lead to fulfillment, but rather, focusing on personal development and the process of trading does. This concept is central to the video's message that true satisfaction comes from within and from one's actions, not from external wealth.

๐Ÿ’กRisk Management

Risk management in trading involves the strategies and practices used to minimize and control potential losses. The video underscores the importance of being a good risk manager rather than solely focusing on monetary gains. By managing risk effectively, traders can protect their capital and ensure sustainable success in the market, which is depicted as a key component of the process-focused approach.

๐Ÿ’กCapital Preservation

Capital preservation is the principle of safeguarding one's trading capital to ensure its longevity and avoid significant losses. The video stresses that capital preservation should be the primary concern for traders, as it enables them to continue trading and capitalize on opportunities. It is presented as a foundational aspect of the trading process, where protecting one's capital is more important than chasing short-term profits.

๐Ÿ’กA+ Setups

In the video, 'A+ setups' refer to high-quality trading opportunities that present the best chance for profit. The speaker advises traders to focus on identifying and executing these setups rather than taking numerous lower-quality trades. This concept ties into the broader theme of quality over quantity in trading, emphasizing the importance of discipline and selectivity in trading decisions.

๐Ÿ’กFinancial Freedom

Financial freedom, as discussed in the video, is the state of having enough financial resources to live life without the constraints of a traditional job or financial worries. The speaker relates this to the benefits of successful trading, which can provide not only money but also the freedom to choose how one spends their time and where they live, highlighting the broader implications of financial success beyond material wealth.

๐Ÿ’กAbundance Mindset

An 'abundance mindset' is the belief that there are ample opportunities and resources available for success. The video contrasts this with a scarcity mindset and suggests that adopting an abundance mindset can lead to more positive outcomes in trading and life. It is presented as a mental approach that can help traders overcome fears and make better decisions, thereby attracting success and wealth.

๐Ÿ’ก1% Better

The concept of getting '1% better' each day is a recurring theme in the video, symbolizing the idea of continuous, incremental self-improvement. The speaker uses this phrase to encourage daily progress in all aspects of life, including personal development and trading skills. This mindset is portrayed as a key to long-term success and fulfillment, as it fosters a growth-oriented approach to life and trading.

Highlights

The speaker emphasizes the importance of shifting focus from money to personal growth and process improvement, suggesting that this change leads to a more fulfilled and relaxed life.

Being process-focused rather than money-motivated results in better performance in trading and other aspects of life.

The materialistic mindset ingrained by Western society can be overcome by focusing on personal development.

Money should be seen as a byproduct of good trades and process adherence rather than the primary goal.

The speaker argues against putting money on a pedestal, as it leads to an unfulfilled life and a never-ending desire for more.

An abundance mindset is crucial for trading success, contrasting with the scarcity mindset that many people bring to the market.

Fear of losing money in trading can manifest as losses due to the scarcity mindset.

The speaker finds more fulfillment in helping others succeed, both in and out of trading, rather than just chasing money.

Trading provides not just financial freedom but also time and location freedom, allowing for a greater impact on others' lives.

The true desire behind wanting riches is actually the freedom that comes with it, not the material possessions themselves.

The speaker encourages reflection on why one wants money and suggests that it's often about the freedom it can provide.

Chasing money can lead to an enslaving cycle, whereas focusing on the process can allow money to flow naturally.

The speaker shares personal experiences of getting caught up in the materialistic cycle and the importance of refocusing on the true purpose of trading.

Capital preservation is the primary focus for traders, with the goal of maximizing returns through disciplined trading.

The market is always available, and a trader's career does not hinge on a single day's outcome.

The speaker advises to stop focusing on the monetary outcome and instead concentrate on becoming a good risk manager.

Success should be measured by personal improvement rather than by money or comparison to others.

Money is a byproduct of skill, and having the right skills in trading will naturally attract money.

The speaker suggests that taking fewer, high-quality trades is more beneficial than taking many trades in the hope of making more money.

Money is framed as the time and energy of others, emphasizing the importance of respecting and using it wisely.

The final message is to not destroy oneself for a job or lose oneself trying to impress others, but to focus on the freedom and impact that trading can provide.

Transcripts

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I stopped chasing money and it flowed

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into my life like

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water the number one change that I made

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in my life in the past few years was one

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I switched from being money focused and

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chasing the bag to being process focused

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and actually becoming 1% better each day

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as a person as a Trader as a friend in

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all aspects of my life right I was

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focused on getting better 1% each day

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and so when I made that change in my

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life

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it allowed me to one get rid of the

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materialistic mindset that I think a lot

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of Western Society has implanted in us

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um since a young age is growing up we're

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surrounded by ads we're surrounded by

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this luxury lifestyle that you see

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online but when I made the switch from

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being Money Motivated to process

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motivated I found that I was way more

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fulfilled and I just was way more

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relaxed in general when I was at the

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charts and it allowed me to perform much

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better when I was more relaxed at the

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charts and not really focused on the

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monetary outcome of my trades but really

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just making good trades right and then

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the money comes as a byproduct of that

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so in today's video I'm going to be

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covering why you need to stop putting

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money on a pedestal so when you actually

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do put money on a pedestal right and

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you're looking up to the bag and chasing

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that dollar right that is going to lead

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you to a unfulfilled life okay and the

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reason for that is because the more

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money you get the more money you want

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it's a NeverEnding void right money can

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be printed out of thin air so one

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there's no need in chasing it right

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shift your mindset shift your outlook

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okay an abundance mindset is what you

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need to have in trading and a lot of

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people they come into the market with

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this scarcity mindset and they're

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trading from a position of scarcity

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instead of trading from a position of

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abundance trading from a scarcity

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mindset that's only going to manifest

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itself in the charts right the the very

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thing that you're afraid of losing money

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that is what is going to happen in the

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charts I'm telling you if the thing that

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you're most scared of in the market is

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going to manifest itself in your trading

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and so these things they manifest in

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your trading but also you have to

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remember that money and chasing the bag

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that is only going to lead to one an

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unfulfilled void because the more money

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you make right the more money you

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actually want it's never enough it's a

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never ending cycle you always want more

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more more and so that's going to leave

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you with a empty void inside all right

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there's not a lot of fulfillment in just

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chasing money I found personally the

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most fulfillment in helping other people

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not only succeed in trading but helping

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other people outside the markets right

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helping my brother helping my parents

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spending time with them asking what they

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need fulfilling their needs that has

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been the most fulfilling thing and

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that's what allowed me to really wake up

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with gratitude each morning

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and that's why I love trading because

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you have this Outlet right you have this

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source of income but you also have the

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freedom not just the money but you have

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the freedom to really go take that trip

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or to spend time with your kids whatever

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it is you have the freedom in trading to

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really make an impact in other people's

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lives not just the money but with your

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presence and so I want you to listen

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very closely okay you do not truly want

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riches you want

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freedom and trading provides all three

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forms of Freedom you have Financial

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Freedom time freedom and location

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Freedom trading brings in the money

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money is just a tool you can use it to

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do whatever you want right money is just

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a tool but trading it gives you that

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Financial Freedom it gives you that time

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Freedom right and it also gives you that

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location Freedom that most people can

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never dream of right we can do this from

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anywhere as long as you have an internet

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connection or sell service you can trade

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from anywhere in the world and so when I

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say you don't actually want money what

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you truly want is freedom well you have

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to remember the fastest way to not have

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freedom is by chasing enslaving for

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money so I want you to truly ask

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yourself why do you want money why do

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you want a lot of money okay is it

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because you want to drive nice cars and

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show off for people who don't actually

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give a about you or is it because

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you want to make an impact not just in

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your life but in other people's lives

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and use it as a tool to buy back your

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time and I think for most people deep

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down they don't really just want to be

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rich and wear Louis Vuitton but what

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they really want to do is they want to

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do what they

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want when they want with who they want

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right so I think that is what attracts a

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lot of people to trading deep down but

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they're just get caught up in all the

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money right they get caught up in all

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the monetary things right trying to

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chase the dollar get their profits back

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whatever it is they get caught up in

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that materialistic cycle and they lose

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sight of what they got into the game for

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in the first place it happened to me

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I'll be honest it happened to me and I

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think that's what happens to a lot of

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new Traders too they see all these

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profits online they see the Lambos the

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marketing

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gurus and you got to remember when

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you're online I said it in a previous

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video when you're online you have to

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have that in mind you have to look at

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all the content online with a filter I

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want to tell you this there is no point

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in chasing money because you have to

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remember money flows from the people who

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value at least and it flows into the

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pockets of the people who value it most

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money flows to the most disciplined the

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process focused and the ones who manage

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risk it's important to remember that as

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Traders our number one priority is

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capital preservation all we're trying to

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do is maximize our returns by one making

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good trades taking A+ setups but also

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not taking any stupid setups or doing

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anything dumb or making mistakes in

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between those A+ setups okay and that is

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what it's all about hitting the target

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hard and hitting the button hard when

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your A+ setup appears and when you don't

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see anything or you can't really read

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the market that a certain day or there's

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something that you don't quite see or

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maybe there's just chop right that's

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when you stay out and that's when you go

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off and you go do something else

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the market will always be here your

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trading career does not depend on the

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outcome of a single trading day unless

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you let it and so now I want to tell you

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about some changes that you can make in

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your life and how to actually let money

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flow to you instead of you chasing it

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because we all know the more you chase

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something right the the more you chase

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something the further it runs away from

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you and the harder it is to obtain and

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by chasing something you subconsciously

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are already putting it up on a pedestal

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right you're saying that's greater than

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I am I need to go chase that and so by

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doing that you're subconsciously putting

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materialistic things money whatever it

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is you're in here for and you got

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distracted by on a pedestal and you're

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not focused on the true purpose the true

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essence of what trading is right we're

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here for Freedom we're here for

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financial time and location freedom to

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allow us to make can impact in other

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people's lives so now I want to share

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with you some changes that you can make

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in your life and the first one being

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stop focusing on the monetary outcome of

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your trades and instead focus on the

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process focus on becoming a good risk

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manager not the money you should be

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process focused and the money will

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naturally follow and so I want you to

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stop measuring success by one the money

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but two looking outward and seeing what

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everyone else is doing comparing

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yourself to other people instead look

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Inward and Look Backwards look behind

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you and say was I better than I was

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yesterday remember the goal is to be 1%

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better than you were yesterday right 1%

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better a day that's going to get you to

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elevate not only your mindset but your

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trading as well it's important to

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remember that money is a byproduct of

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skill and that money is just a tool

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right if you have the skills if you have

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the skill set of being a good Trader

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taking A+ setups managing your risk

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you're doing everything right that money

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is going to flow into your life because

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it it's impossible not to right you're

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doing all the right things you're

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managing risk you're not taking dumb

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setups you're limiting the losses and

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you're hammering the A+ setups when they

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present themselves there's no way the

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money is not going to come to you okay

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it's just a byproduct of the skill and

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so what a lot of people do is they want

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to think oh I can the more trades I take

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the more money I'm going to make but

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really it's the opposite it's like the

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fewer trades you take that are high

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quality quality and you don't take any

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of the dumb ones in between that's when

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the money flows right Capital

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preservation one way to think about

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money is if you want to reframe it money

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is just the time and energy of other

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people because think about it most

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people are trading time for money right

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they go to a job they have a job they go

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to their 9-5 and they sit down they work

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and in exchange for their time right

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they're getting a paycheck so money

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really is just the time and energy of

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other people so if you can respect that

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and you take and you treat your money as

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is right as the time energy that you've

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put in to earn it then you'll be way

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more conservative in your approach and

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you will limit your trades right less is

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more in trading you have to remember

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that money is just a tool and that at

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the end of the day it's all in how you

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use it right are you going to use the

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money that you earn to buy back your

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freedom and buy back your time or are

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you going to go take that money right

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and are you going to go throw it away in

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some Gucci Louis Vuitton flipflops some

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Louis bags to show off on the internet

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to strangers that don't actually care

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about you if there's one thing that I

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want you to take away from this video

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it's to not destroy yourself for a job

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that will replace you within a week and

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to not lose yourself trying to impress

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people that won't remember you in a

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day I hope you enjoyed this video if you

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did hit the like button smash the

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