How To Confidently Flirt With Women (Full Guide)
Summary
TLDRThis video script emphasizes the importance of flirting in dating, highlighting its role as the 'language of love.' It discusses the necessity of emotional communication to appeal to women's nature and suggests techniques like 'magnifying' to create playful and flirty conversations. The script also covers the pillars of attraction, including displaying value and building trust. It advises on avoiding interview-style questions and escalating verbally before physically, while stressing the significance of a confident frame and strong body language in attraction.
Takeaways
- 💬 Flirting is essential for attraction and is the 'language of love'; without it, one may struggle in dating.
- 📱 In 2023, proficiency in both face-to-face and text-based flirting is crucial due to the prevalence of dating apps and digital communication.
- 👥 Understanding the emotional nature of women and logical nature of men is fundamental to effective romantic communication.
- 🔑 The two pillars of attraction are perceived value and trust/comfort, which must be built through communication and flirting.
- 🏆 Demonstrating high status through accomplishments, charisma, and social skills can establish initial attraction.
- 📸 An impressive Instagram profile can serve as a modern-day business card, attracting interest and reducing the need for initial flirting.
- 🔍 Magnifying is a technique to create playful and flirty conversations by exaggerating elements of the dialogue.
- 🙅 Avoid asking interview-like questions that don't evoke emotions or contribute to attraction.
- 💭 Let conversations flow naturally, making statements and sharing opinions to create a dynamic and engaging interaction.
- 🗣 Escalate verbally before physically to gauge comfort levels and ensure the other person is receptive to advances.
- 👀 Maintaining strong eye contact is a powerful non-verbal indicator of confidence and interest.
- 🧲 Having a solid frame, characterized by confidence and stability, is the most important aspect of attraction and flirting.
Q & A
What is considered the 'lifeblood of Attraction' according to the script?
-Flirting is considered the 'lifeblood of Attraction' as it is the language of love and essential for establishing a connection.
Why is it important to be able to flirt over text in 2023?
-It's important to be able to flirt over text in 2023 because most interactions happen on dating apps or through text, and being adept at it can help establish initial interest and attraction.
What are the two pillars of attraction mentioned in the script?
-The two pillars of attraction are being seen as a valuable guy by the woman and establishing enough trust and comfort to make her feel safe for escalation.
How can one convey their status to a girl to establish initial attraction?
-One can convey their status by being a high-status guy with accomplishments, a strong character, good personality, charisma, or by having a compelling Instagram profile that portrays status and intrigue.
What is the technique called 'magnifying' and how is it used in flirting?
-Magnifying is a technique used in flirting where you exaggerate or magnify what the other person says into something funny, ridiculous, and playful. It helps create a flirty and engaging conversation.
Why is it recommended to avoid asking biographical questions on a date?
-Biographical questions are recommended to be avoided because they don't spike emotions and can come off as an interview, which is not conducive to a fun and relaxed dating atmosphere.
What is the significance of verbal escalation before physical escalation in flirting?
-Verbal escalation before physical escalation serves as a temperature check to gauge the comfort level and interest of the girl, ensuring that any physical move is well-received and not intrusive.
How can slowing down in intimate environments enhance the romantic aspect of a conversation?
-Slowing down in intimate environments, such as speaking slower, maintaining strong eye contact, and lowering the volume of speech, can make the girl more engaged and put her in the mood, enhancing the romantic aspect of the conversation.
What is the importance of having a solid frame in attracting and flirting with women?
-A solid frame is crucial as it creates a sense of confidence and stability that attracts women. It includes your attitude, aura, and overall vibe, which can have a significant impact on the interaction.
Why is eye contact so influential in non-verbal flirting?
-Eye contact is influential because it conveys confidence and interest. Maintaining eye contact during flirty moments can build attraction and show that you are present and unafraid.
What additional support does the speaker offer for those who want to improve their flirting skills?
-The speaker offers a personalized program that includes dating app profile optimization, battle-tested opening lines, flake-proof texting strategies, and a first date framework, along with one-on-one access to the team for implementation support.
Outlines
💬 Mastering Flirting for Attraction
This paragraph emphasizes the importance of flirting in dating and attraction. It suggests that being adept at flirting is crucial for both in-person and text-based interactions, especially on dating apps. The narrator explains that women are more emotional by nature, while men tend to be more logical, which can lead to communication disconnects. To effectively flirt, one must communicate emotionally, establishing value and trust to create attraction. The paragraph also introduces the concept of 'magnifying' as a flirting technique to create playful and engaging conversations. It advises against asking interview-like questions and instead recommends sharing opinions and relating to the other person's experiences to build a connection.
🤝 Building Connection Through Conversation
The second paragraph focuses on the dynamics of conversation during dating and flirting. It suggests that starting with a question or two and allowing the conversation to flow naturally can create a playful and flirty atmosphere. The narrator advises against being overly nervous about conversations, reminding the listener that they have had countless conversations in their life and should apply those skills when speaking to a woman. The paragraph also discusses the importance of escalating verbally before physically, as a way to gauge comfort levels and interest. It describes the use of verbal flirting to test the waters before moving on to physical contact. Additionally, it touches on the importance of slowing down and adjusting one's communication style in more intimate settings to enhance the romantic mood.
🛡️ Developing a Strong Frame for Flirting
The final paragraph discusses the concept of 'frame' in the context of attraction and flirting. It defines frame as one's attitude, aura, and overall vibe, which is crucial for creating attraction. The narrator stresses the importance of having a solid, unshakable frame that exudes confidence and stability. It explains that subtle aspects of communication, such as body language, eye contact, and the way one carries oneself, contribute significantly to one's frame. The paragraph also highlights the importance of congruence between words and actions, as well as the power of maintaining eye contact during conversations. It concludes with an offer for personalized coaching to help improve one's flirting skills and achieve success in dating, promising to provide templates, strategies, and frameworks to enhance the listener's dating life.
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Keywords
💡Flirting
💡Attraction
💡Emotional Communication
💡Value
💡Status
💡Charisma
💡Magnifying
💡Escalation
💡Frame
💡Eye Contact
💡Subtlety
Highlights
Flirting is essential for dating success, acting as the language of love and attraction.
In 2023, mastery in both in-person and text-based flirting is crucial due to the prevalence of dating apps and text communication.
Understanding the emotional nature of women and the logical nature of men is key to effective romantic communication.
Men often struggle with emotional communication, leading to difficulties in flirting, especially with attractive women.
Two pillars of attraction are being perceived as a valuable guy and establishing trust and comfort.
Displaying high status through accomplishments, charisma, and social skills can attract women.
An Instagram profile can serve as a modern-day business card, attracting women with its portrayal of status.
The technique of magnifying involves exaggerating elements of conversation to create a playful and flirty dynamic.
Avoiding interview-style questions can prevent awkwardness and keep the conversation light and engaging.
Making statements and sharing opinions based on her answers can create a more dynamic and natural conversation flow.
Escalating verbally before physically can serve as a temperature check to gauge a woman's comfort level.
Slowing down in intimate environments can enhance the mood and make conversations more romantic.
Having a solid frame, or confident and stable demeanor, is crucial for attraction and flirting.
Subtle non-verbal cues such as eye contact and body language significantly influence attraction.
Maintaining eye contact conveys confidence and can be a powerful tool in flirting.
The speaker offers personal coaching to refine flirting skills and increase dating success.
The coaching program promises results, with some students securing dates within the first 24 hours.
Transcripts
if you suck at flirting you suck at
dating period end of story flirting is
the lifeblood of Attraction it's the
language of love without it you are
totally lost and honestly screwed and in
2023 not only do you have to be a master
flirter in conversation with a girl but
you also need to know how to do it over
text as well since most interactions
happen on dating apps or over text by
the end of this video you have
everything you need to effectively flirt
with women and get yourself into a happy
relationship or explore a large pool of
high quality options the thing you need
to understand is that women are more
emotional by nature men are more logical
by Nature both of these Tendencies have
upsides and downsides however this
contrast between a man and a woman is
often what creates a disconnect when it
comes time for romantic communication
men are overly logical and thus can't
appeal to a woman's emotions so he bores
her to death and doesn't know how to
turn her on or get her excited about the
conversation and he doesn't know how to
communicate his value to her and in a
way that draws her in learning how to
communicate emotionally with women is
the Bedrock of flirting and since most
guys suck at tapping into their
emotional communication it's no surprise
men struggle to flirt especially with
attractive women when the nerves are
high and the risk of rejection comes
into play that's why it's important to
understand these fundamentals of
flirting the two pillars of attraction
in order for a woman to be attracted
enough to you to agree to a date or
physical escalation she needs two things
first she needs to see you as a valuable
guy AKA a guy who would she benefit from
hooking up with number two she needs
enough trust and comfort to make her
feel safe enough to comfortably escalate
with you your communication and flirting
must build these two things in order to
get her attracted to you if you want to
establish enough value to get the
initial attraction the easiest way to do
so is to just convey your status to the
Girl by being a high status guy a guy
with lots of accomplishments a guy who
is going somewhere in life a guy with
strong character good personality good
Charisma Etc now obviously in 20 23
having a sick Instagram profile and
Adobe lifestyle is the easiest way to
get the initial interest and Intrigue
from the girl if your Instagram portrays
enough status for you you'll attract any
girl whoever clicks on it or comes
across it without you actually having to
do anything again honestly do a lot of
the flirting for you it serves as your
modern day business card except it can
get you laid if you do it right and some
other obvious ways to display your
status are by having strong Charisma and
social skills when someone is fun and
intriguing to talk to in conversation it
draws her in that is inherent value and
it makes people want to spend more time
around you specifically women because
women are emotional by Nature if you can
appeal to their emotions and make them
feel something when they're with you
your status isn't going to matter all
that much because that is going to
contribute to and add to your status
this is why improving your charisma and
verbal game is always the easiest and
ironically the most important step in
increasing your value and status to
girls because even if you're not the
highest status guy in her head she will
view you above other men who may
objectively be higher status than mute
simply because you know how to make her
feel something in conversation perhaps
the easiest and simplest way to flirt is
through a technique called magnifying
magnifying is a technique I use all the
time in order to maintain and create
interesting conversations between me and
a girl basically what you want to do is
you want to magnify or exaggerate
whatever it is she says into something
that's funny ridiculous and most
importantly of all playful this is
perfect for creating a playful and
flirty Bible to broke so that she'll be
more open and interested in talking for
example let's say you and a girl are
talking about lifting she mentions that
she likes working out one thing you
could say to magnify this is oh does
that mean you could outlift me or oh
does that mean you have bigger muscles
than me and maybe playfully grab at her
R these are easy ways to magnify and
make the conversation more sexual more
flirty and just inherently more romantic
and emotional the beauty of magnifying
is that it also creates easy
opportunities for you to escalate
physically and you can practice it all
the time in conversation you can
practice it on guys as well as girls and
when you use it on guys it'll actually
make you seem a lot funnier and more
charismatic if you want to get really
good at this trick I recommend
practicing it on everyone you talk to
avoid interviewing the girl what do you
do for fun where do you go to school do
you work do you like it do you have a
dog how many dog is it these are just
really really really cringe things to
talk about on a date because they don't
really get you anywhere this
biographical information although may be
useful later down a lot or maybe good
questions to keep in your back pocket if
there's an awkward silence you run out
of things to say none of these things
are going to make her attracted to you
because none of these things Spike
emotions nobody likes to be interviewed
on a date when the whole purpose is to
have fun and relax even I get triggered
when I go on dates with girls and they
start to interview me the funny thing is
is that a lot of times when I do my own
cold approaches when I go on dates with
women a lot of that biographical
information on where they're from what
they do for work etc doesn't even come
up we're just having fun having
emotionally charged conversations that
are playful that are about honestly
really inconsequential stuff because the
whole point is to enjoy each other's
company and to have a good time the most
natural way to create this fun back and
forth Dynamic to have a more playful and
flirty Dynamic is to just start by
asking her a question or two and letting
the conversation flow from there instead
of asking more questions you should make
statements about her answers and share
your own opinions or relate it back to
something that is applicable to you or
your life and again once nerves and the
fear of rejection come into play guys
get really nervous and scared about
conversations but the truth is
conversations with a girl in
conversations in general shouldn't be
that difficult or scary I mean just
think about it like this you literally
have conversations every single day when
you interact with people and you've had
millions of conversations throughout
your life up until this point so how bad
can you really be at having a
conversation with a girl all you have to
do is translate all of those
conversational and social skills to a
conversation with a woman it's not
exactly rocket science there's no
difference in the dynamic the only
difference is that you're too stuck in
your head and psyching yourself out
about it just because it's a hot girl
with big boobs escalate verbally before
you escalate physically now here's what
that means because it's actually really
really important what you want to do
when you're flirting with a girl because
flirting can be both physical it could
just be verbal before you make the first
move of escalating on the girl whether
it's a kiss whether it's you putting
your arm around her or something of that
nature you want to escalate verbally
first so you're doing a sort of
temperature check so you can get a sense
of if she is comfortable with you
escalating on her physically so if you
make a flirty comment or a suggestive
comment with your verbals and she
responds positively we can safely assume
that hey she's probably gonna react
positively if we escalate on her so make
a flirty comment tease her a little bit
make a risque or maybe even borderline
sexual joke do some sort of escalation
with your words first and then see how
she reacts if she seems uncomfortable
then you know she's probably still not
ready for you to make a move physically
so you can back off and wait till later
in the day if she reacts positively then
you know there's a very big chance
you'll like it when you make a move
physically by holding her hand putting
your armor router or even kissing her
escalating this way enjoys that the
girls comfortable at all times and it
gives you an easy way to read her
interest level without ever putting her
in an uncomfortable position slow down
when you get some more intimate
environments such as your house a
separate part of the bar or a party or
just a more quiet and intimate place on
a date and it's just you and the girl
just slow it down talk slower keep
really really really strong eye contact
slow down the Cadence of your speech and
you can even lower the volume of your
voice because it's just you and her and
now she's gonna be more engaged and
listening because lowered the volume and
change due to all of these subtle
communicators help put her in the mood
and will make your conversation a lot
more romantic regardless of what is
actually being said and if she seems
receptive and comfortable then you can
start slowly escalating physically and
see if she responds positively frame
your frame is your attitude Aura and
general Viber on the girl this is
actually the most important aspect when
it comes to attraction and flirting
having a rock solid frame that's
unshakable creates a sense of confidence
and stability that pulls the girl in
like a magnet the way you carry yourself
as a man in the energy with which you
walk through the world should instill
confidence in the woman that she is
making a good decision by being with you
people respond to the energy you put out
this is why most romantic communication
is subtle and unspoken the way you grab
her and lead her by the hand when you
open the door for her the way you look
at her when she does something you don't
like the way you look at her when she
does something you do like all these
tiny little things add up and set the
frame and dynamic for the relationship
this is the most underappreciated and
least talked about aspect of gay when
guys talk about having natural game or
the sauce this is exactly what they're
talking about all of the little
subtleties that go into creating your
frame which is really just your energy
and overall attitude around the girl
this is the most sophisticated part of
game and the most detailed and it's the
most important to nail if you actually
want to get Advanced if you nail this
you could honestly up a lot of
other things and still get success you
gotta have the confidence and Security
in yourself to say what you mean and
mean what you say without faltering or
rushing to qualify yourself to the girl
your body language and congruence with
which you carry yourself with have a
huge impact on your frame your words
need to be congruent with your actions
and that means your body language strong
body language is a necessity for
attracting girls and it can be insanely
powerful when combined with a solid
frame and eye contact one of the most
important non-verbal factors that
influence how women perceive you and
your fraying is eye contact the way you
look at a woman when you speak how you
look away when she loses her interest
and how you look her up and down in a
suggested way right before you make a
move the way you look at her lips when
you're trying to imply that you're going
to kiss her and seeing how she responds
all of these flirty non-verbal
indicators build insane amounts of
Attraction because you're speaking the
language of subtlety and Body Language
saying a flirty comment and then letting
the silence build as you confidently
look her in the eye and make your
attentions clear the ability to maintain
eye contact and not cower away when you
say something to the girl is powerful
for example if I'm making eye contact
with a girl after we said something or
we're just in conversation I'm not gonna
look away until she does because I'm
perfectly comfortable and confident to
just look at her she's right in front of
me I'm being very very present and I
feel very confident and secure in myself
and in my being with her that I don't
need to look away and feel strange or
weird now this doesn't mean we get into
a staring contest but there's something
powerful about keeping eye contact and
not looking away until the other person
does a lot of times because women are a
lot more socially intelligent than men
they'll keep eye contact just as long
because they're used to most men being
afraid or feeling awkward with a little
bit of eye contact if you as a man have
such little conviction in yourself and
such little confidence and self-esteem
in yourself that you can't even hold
basic eye contact with a woman and she
feels more comfortable in a Face-Off
with you then why should she respect you
why should she be attracted to you as a
man this may seem subtle and it may seem
like I'm majoring in the minor but these
subtleties like eye contact the way you
carry yourself how you move through
space how you move her through space
along with you all of these things make
up a huge part of the experience that
she's gonna feel when she's with you now
if these flirting tips still aren't
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