Memahami Peran Dan tanggung Jawab Dalam Pernikahan | Ustadz Bendri Jaisyurrahman
Summary
TLDRThe video script discusses the responsibilities and roles of men and women in marriage, emphasizing the importance of understanding and fulfilling these roles. It highlights how men should be protectors and providers for their families, based on teachings from the Quran and Hadith. Men are compared to the feet of a household, essential for support and stability, and are encouraged to listen to their wives' concerns. Women are described as key to creating a peaceful home environment. The script underscores the need for mutual respect, communication, and active participation in maintaining a harmonious marriage.
Takeaways
- 💍 Marriage involves the responsibility of understanding and fulfilling roles as a husband and wife.
- 👨💼 A man must comprehend his role as the head of the family, ensuring the well-being and spiritual safety of his family.
- 👩💼 A woman has the role of creating a comfortable and peaceful home environment for her husband and family.
- 🕌 Understanding religious teachings, such as the hadith and Quranic verses, is essential for both men and women in their roles.
- 👨👩👦 Marriage requires mutual support, with men being protectors and providers for their families.
- 👂 Effective communication and listening are crucial in marriage, with husbands needing to listen to their wives' concerns.
- 🏠 The balance and stability of a household depend significantly on the husband's ability to support and understand his family.
- 🤝 Rasulullah's example of always talking with his wife before sleep highlights the importance of daily communication in marriage.
- 💪 A man's strength in marriage lies not only in providing but also in emotionally supporting his wife and family.
- 🌍 Men should contribute to the outside world and maintain progress in their lives, even when facing challenges like unemployment.
Q & A
What concerns might arise when considering marriage according to the speaker?
-The speaker mentions concerns about the appropriateness of marrying and the ability to fulfill the roles of a husband and wife.
How does the speaker describe the role of a man in a marriage?
-A man is described as the head of the family who will be questioned about his family's welfare. He must protect and provide for his family, ensuring they are free from harm, including the metaphorical 'fire of hell.'
What is expected of a woman in a marriage according to the speaker?
-A woman is expected to manage the household, create a peaceful home environment, and make her husband feel eager to return home.
What does the speaker mean by 'arrijalu qowwamuna alannisa' from Surah An-Nisa 34?
-This phrase means 'men are the protectors and maintainers of women.' It implies that men have the responsibility to safeguard, provide for, and improve the welfare of their family members.
How does the speaker interpret the term 'rijal' in relation to men's roles?
-The term 'rijal,' meaning 'men,' is rooted in 'rijlun,' which means 'foot.' This symbolizes that men should be the support and foundation of their household, capable of bearing burdens and providing stability.
What example does the speaker give of the Prophet Muhammad's behavior with his wives?
-The speaker highlights that the Prophet Muhammad used to talk and engage in conversation with his wives before sleeping, showing the importance of communication in a marriage.
What advice does the speaker give to single men regarding future marriage?
-The speaker advises single men to practice listening and understanding others' concerns, as this skill will be crucial in maintaining a healthy marriage.
Why is the ability to listen important for husbands, according to the speaker?
-Listening is important because it fulfills a fundamental emotional need for women to be heard and understood. It is a critical aspect of the husband's supportive role.
What does the speaker suggest about men's roles in terms of household progress?
-Men should be proactive and continuously seek ways to contribute to their household and society. They should not remain idle even if unemployed but should strive to find opportunities for growth and provision.
How does the speaker link men's responsibilities to their natural disposition?
-The speaker emphasizes that men's natural disposition is to move, work, and provide. Staying idle at home contradicts their inherent role as active contributors and protectors.
Outlines
🛠️ Responsibilities of a Husband and Wife in Marriage
This paragraph discusses the importance of understanding the responsibilities that come with marriage. It emphasizes that both husbands and wives have distinct roles to play. A man must be a protector, provider, and leader for his family, ensuring they are kept safe from harm and supported in their needs. The wife, on the other hand, is responsible for creating a peaceful and comfortable home environment, encouraging her husband to return home rather than seeking comfort elsewhere. The text also highlights the significance of a husband listening to his wife's concerns and the value of open communication, as demonstrated by the Prophet Muhammad.
👂 The Importance of Listening and Action for Men
This paragraph highlights the crucial role of men in actively listening to their partners. It acknowledges that men often struggle with listening without interrupting or trying to solve problems immediately. Effective listening involves patience and understanding. Additionally, it emphasizes that men should not only listen but also take action by continuously striving to improve their circumstances, even when facing unemployment. A man's role extends beyond the home, requiring him to seek opportunities and contribute to the broader world, thus maintaining a balance between domestic and external responsibilities.
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Keywords
💡Marriage
💡Role of a Husband
💡Role of a Wife
💡Communication
💡Hadith
💡Quranic Verse
💡Protection
💡Listening
💡Responsibility
💡Balance
Highlights
Marriage questions include whether one is fit to marry and can fulfill the roles of husband and wife.
A man must understand the hadith of Rasulullah that a man is the head of the family and will be questioned about his family.
Marriage involves more than just the ceremony; it includes the responsibility of protecting oneself and one’s family from hellfire.
The wife has a role in making the home peaceful, so the husband desires to return home rather than stay outside.
In the Quran, An-Nisa 34 states that men are the protectors and maintainers of women.
Men are described as protectors and providers, ensuring the needs of the family are met.
The term 'rijal' (men) in Arabic is linked to 'rijlun' (feet), symbolizing support and stability in the family.
If a man cannot fulfill his role as the family’s support, the family becomes unstable.
A man should be able to listen to his wife's concerns and support her emotionally.
Rasulullah emphasized the importance of husbands listening to their wives before going to sleep.
Men should practice listening to their wives' concerns as a crucial aspect of their role.
Effective listening involves not interrupting and understanding the wife's need to be heard.
Men must actively seek work and not remain idle at home to fulfill their role in the family.
A man should contribute to the outside world while maintaining his family responsibilities.
The essence of a man’s role includes both listening and taking action to support the family and seek Allah’s approval.
Transcripts
di saat kita menikah memang pertanyaan
pantaskah aku untuk menikah kepantasan
yg terkait dengan Mampukah menjalankan
peran sebagai seorang suami dan istrinya
baik Bagaimana seorang laki-laki
memahami hadits Rasulullah rojulu Rohim
ahli Android seorang laki-laki kepala
bagi keluarganya dia akan ditanya sama
keluarganya berarti apa ketika menikah
bukan sekedar tapi Bagaimana menjaga
diri dan keluarganya anak istrinya bisa
bebas dari api neraka itu dipikirkan
sementara istri Walmart khai sementara
wanita kepala bagi rumah suaminya kelak
akan ditanya perlakuannya Bagaimana
wanitalah yang berperan untuk membuat
rumah menjadi
cuman rumah menjadi tentram suami mau
pulang nggak betah nongkrong di luar
karena kangen untuk pulang karena istri
mampu membuat suasana nyaman berarti
memang ada pembagian peran maka
disinilah sejatinya kita sudah
memikirkan kesenangan ketika nikah harus
berbanding Apakah bisa menjalani peran
tersebut Bagaimana seorang laki-laki
memahami satu Hadis Rasulullah satu
kalimat Allah yaitu dalam surat an-nisa
34 yaitu arrijalu qowwamuna alannisa
laki-laki adalah bagi perempuan di sini
sendiri dijelaskan dalam kitab tafsir
al-manar 7 makna minimal sebagai
pelindung bagi penjaga sebagai pemenuh
kebutuhan
termasuk memperbaiki anggota keluarga
dimiliki oleh ki laki bahkan ketika
laki-laki disebut Arizal makna deorro
Joel maka kembali kepada Fitrah
kelelakian Apa itu Rizal makna sendiri
berakar kata = rijlun yang artinya kaki
laki-laki ditambahkan dalam bahasa Arab
dengan kaki karena memiliki dua peran
pertama kaki adalah penopang tubuh
makanya kuda-kuda itu akan sesuai
tergantung Bagaimana kakinya seseorang
kan Limbung kalau kakinya salah satunya
mungkin Maaf patah maka keseleo atau
tidak kuat jatuh
Hai laki-laki yang tidak bisa memahami
perannya sebagai kaki rumah tangga
Limbung dia tidak bisa menopang beban
dia tidak bisa menerima curhatan istri
istri bilang meski kentut Skin Care
qaabidh kamu bener-bener ya mau masak
udah banyak banget Skin Care lagi wajar
itu kita kenapa semua curhatan itu di
kita jadilah suami service curhatanku
lakukan banget cerita memang itu peran
suami-suami yang diam mendengarkan
obrolan makanya Baginda Nabi enggak
pernah lelah melakukan
kebiasaan-kebiasaan Rasul Rasulullah
telah disebutkan dalam hadits riwayat
Imam muslim sampai di rumah ini
Pengakuan dari Abdullah bin ABD
Oh ya Maimunah istri Rasulullah Wasallam
karena Rasulullah Shallallahu Alaihi
Wasallam yatahaddasu manis Umar kodak
Rasulullah SAW senantiasa ngobrol dulu
sama istrinya baru tidur kebiasaan rasul
sebelum tidur itu ngobrol sama istrinya
jika kita tidak mampu dari sekarang para
laki-laki mendengar curhatan orang
terdekat belum istri ini maaf nih
jomblo-jomblo kalau mau curhat mah nggak
bakalan jadi suami susah itu baru
kebayang gak kalau kita udah nikah kita
tinggal sama punya istri ya
hai satu orang punya kebutuhan ngomong
20.000 kata kali empat 20 kali 48
berbekal tayaka laredo produk Maksudnya
gimana emang begitu laki-laki harus siap
untuk menerima curhat karena fungsinya
kaki yang menopang Karena itulah Kenapa
Rosulullah menjadi laki-laki terbaik
karena mampu memetik kebutuhan dasar
dari istrinya yaitu kebutuhan batin
untuk didengarkan
Hai fungsi kaki menopang itu
Hai Jadi kalau dari sekarang para kaum
laki-laki ini cuma bilang alhamdulillah
Ustaz memang dada hingga nglamar doang
tapi mendengar itu enggak menjadi salah
satu kebiasaan baik kita sulit
ia mendengar menyimak dan mendengar
menyimak itu salah satunya kemampuan
laki-laki yang luar biasa Bagaimana
mendengar bertahan mendengar ocehan
perempuan tanpa tiba-tiba Kanada
laki-laki awalnya luar biasa otot yang
kedua seringkali senang sekali memotong
pembicaraan karena ingin selesai bikin
paspor ayat kalau mau tahu lebih tebel
karena Audzubillah himinas buat diruqyah
niemals dan rezeki sudah males karena
suami merasa seolah-olah dengan
menyampaikan nasehat selesai belum
padahal istrinya butuh didengarkan itu
baru paling penting pertama dari
laki-laki yang kedua Bagaimana laki-laki
sebagai seorang punya fungsi melangkah
bergerak bahwa rumah tangga progress
laki-laki enggak bisa dengan statusnya
saya dipecat ustad dari kantor
Hai Sayang ada pekerjaan maka Jangan
terbiasa untuk Stay di rumah karena itu
melanggar Fitrah laki-laki atau
laki-laki harus bergerak meskipun
nganggur dalam pengertian apa
bergeraklah mencari yang namanya Ridho
atau yang namanya peti Ridha Allah
berkeliling atau berjalan kaki jangan
dia selesai di rumah maka Lelaki Sejati
berusaha untuk Bagaimana memiliki
kontribusi untuk dunia luar dalam rangka
menjaga pertamanya hanya dirakit
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