Kasih Gw 20 Menit & Lo Bakal Bisa Ngomong Terstruktur TANPA Belibet!

Summary

In this video, Jess Stanley, a certified communication coach, shares practical tips to speak clearly and confidently without confusing your audience. He explains that complicated speech usually stems from unstructured thoughts and emphasizes the importance of deeply knowing your topic, writing your thoughts daily in a structured way, and speaking in short 3–5 word sentences. By following these steps, you can organize your ideas, present them logically, and make your communication easy to follow. Jess also highlights that consistent practice and expanding knowledge on frequently discussed topics are key to becoming a confident, persuasive, and engaging speaker.

Takeaways

• 😀 Understand your topic deeply to speak clearly and confidently without confusion.
• 😀 Having extensive knowledge about what you're discussing helps prevent rambling and miscommunication.
• 😀 The more you learn, the easier it becomes to convey ideas clearly and avoid over-complicating things.
• 😀 Write down your thoughts every day in a structured format to train your brain to think and communicate more clearly.
• 😀 Practice writing essays with a main opinion, supporting points, and factual evidence to enhance your communication skills.
• 😀 Speaking in short, concise sentences (3-5 words per sentence) allows your brain time to think and improves clarity.
• 😀 By focusing on 3-5 words per sentence, you make it easier for others to follow and understand your message.
• 😀 Speaking slowly and allowing pauses before responding makes communication more deliberate and less rushed.
• 😀 Regularly practice speaking and writing to build up mental clarity, making your ideas easier to express and share.
• 😀 Joining a structured program can accelerate your communication skills, as proven by the success of others in Jess Stanley’s program.

Q & A

Who is the speaker in the video, and what is their credibility?

The speaker is Jess Stanley, a certified BNSPRI communication coach who has helped over 1,200 people across Indonesia improve their communication skills in just 30 days, giving him credibility to discuss effective communication techniques.

What does 'belibet' or complicated communication mean according to the video?

'Belibet' refers to situations where the listener struggles to understand what the speaker is saying because the message is tangled or unstructured, often caused by unclear or unorganized thoughts.

What is identified as the main cause of complicated communication?

The main cause is a tangled or unstructured state of mind, where the speaker doesn’t have clear knowledge or understanding of the topic they are discussing.

What is the first tip to overcome complicated communication?

The first tip is to gain extensive knowledge about the topic you plan to discuss. Knowing much more than the basic information allows you to have multiple points to talk about and reduces confusion.

How does Jess suggest structuring your knowledge when preparing to communicate?

Jess suggests writing down your thoughts daily in a structured format: main opinion, supporting opinion, and supporting data or facts. This helps train your brain to organize ideas clearly when speaking.

What is the purpose of writing thoughts in a structured essay every day?

Writing structured essays daily conditions the brain to think logically and express ideas in a clear order, making it easier to communicate without jumping randomly between points.

What is the second tip mentioned in the video for improving communication?

The second tip is to routinely write down your thoughts every day, including main opinions, supporting opinions, and supporting data or facts, to develop a structured thought process.

What is the third tip for speaking more effectively?

The third tip is to limit sentences to 3–5 words and pause before speaking, which gives your brain time to process thoughts and improves clarity for the listener.

Why does speaking in short sentences improve communication?

Short sentences allow the speaker to organize their thoughts and give the listener time to understand each point, reducing confusion and preventing tangled speech.

How can someone practice these communication techniques daily?

One can practice by writing structured essays daily on a topic of interest and recording short videos speaking in 3–5 word sentences using their written points, gradually training their brain to communicate clearly.

What additional resources does Jess offer for improving communication skills?

Jess offers a program at stanleyacademic.com where participants can learn to communicate fluently, reduce nervousness and stuttering, and develop advanced communication skills like being charismatic and persuasive, with a 30-day money-back guarantee.