How To Move On From Learned Helplessness-Psychotherapy Crash Course

Támara Hill, MS NCC CCTP LPC
20 Jan 202015:02

Summary

TLDRIn this video, Tamara discusses the concept of learned helplessness, particularly how it relates to feelings of depression and discouragement. She highlights the different ways depression manifests in men, women, and teenagers, offering insight into how learned helplessness can be a symptom of depression. Tamara shares practical strategies to overcome learned helplessness, such as stepping back, taking gradual steps, tracking progress, and engaging in systematic desensitization. She encourages viewers to abandon unrealistic New Year's resolutions and emphasizes the importance of having a supportive partner for accountability. The video offers valuable tips for regaining control and moving forward in life.

Takeaways

  • 😀 Learned helplessness is a state where repeated discouragement prevents you from moving forward and achieving goals.
  • 😀 Depression and learned helplessness can often coexist, but they are distinct concepts, with learned helplessness sometimes being a symptom of depression.
  • 😀 Depression manifests differently in men and women. Women may experience physical symptoms like nausea and headaches, while men may internalize their depression and exhibit irritability or anger.
  • 😀 Men and teenage boys with depression are often more irritable and may turn to unhealthy coping mechanisms like substance abuse, while women may become more emotional and have poor concentration.
  • 😀 Depression symptoms can vary across different races and cultures, with different approaches to seeking help based on socio-economic factors.
  • 😀 To overcome learned helplessness, one of the first steps is to step back and try again, taking time to rest and recharge before pushing forward.
  • 😀 Gradual steps are crucial in overcoming challenges. Take small, manageable steps toward a goal, instead of trying to accomplish everything all at once.
  • 😀 Tracking your progress by recording your steps helps you maintain perspective and stay motivated when setbacks occur.
  • 😀 Abandoning traditional New Year's resolutions can be helpful; instead, break down goals into smaller, achievable steps to make real progress.
  • 😀 Engaging in systematic desensitization can help reduce the sensitivity to failure, building resilience and encouraging you to push forward despite setbacks.
  • 😀 Having an accountability partner can provide encouragement, support, and help you reassess when you're pushing too hard or losing motivation.

Q & A

  • What is learned helplessness?

    -Learned helplessness is a psychological condition where individuals repeatedly face discouragement and failure, leading them to believe that they are unable to improve their situation. This mindset makes it difficult for them to take action or make progress, as they expect failure or pushback each time they try.

  • How does depression differ between men and women?

    -Depression manifests differently in men and women. Women may experience physiological symptoms such as nausea, headaches, and dizziness, while also potentially facing postpartum depression. Men, on the other hand, often internalize their depression, exhibiting irritability, anger, and workaholism. They may also turn to alcohol or drugs to cope.

  • How does learned helplessness relate to depression?

    -Learned helplessness can be a symptom of depression, but it is not the same thing. While depression involves deep emotional or physical symptoms like sadness and fatigue, learned helplessness is more about the belief that efforts are futile. However, both conditions can coexist, and one can exacerbate the other.

  • What role do cultural differences play in how depression is expressed?

    -Cultural differences significantly impact how depression is expressed and handled. For example, African Americans may internalize depression, while Caucasians are more likely to seek therapy or other resources. Different cultures also offer varying levels of access to mental health resources, which can influence how depression is managed.

  • What is the best way to overcome feelings of learned helplessness?

    -To overcome learned helplessness, it's important to step back and try again when facing setbacks. Taking gradual steps, tracking progress, abandoning unrealistic New Year's resolutions, and conditioning yourself to push through failures are all key strategies. Having a supportive partner or accountability partner can also make a significant difference.

  • Why is it important to take gradual steps when overcoming learned helplessness?

    -Taking gradual steps helps prevent burnout and frustration. Instead of trying to make dramatic changes all at once, breaking the process into small, manageable steps allows for continuous progress without overwhelming oneself. This approach also makes it easier to adjust and course-correct as needed.

  • What is the role of tracking progress when overcoming learned helplessness?

    -Tracking your steps allows you to keep perspective on your progress. It helps you see how far you've come, even if setbacks occur, and prevents you from feeling like you're not making any progress. By recording your efforts, you can reflect on what has worked and adjust what hasn't.

  • Why are New Year's resolutions not recommended in the context of overcoming learned helplessness?

    -New Year's resolutions often focus on a single large goal without breaking it down into smaller, manageable steps. This lack of planning can lead to frustration and failure. Instead, a more systematic approach that involves gradual steps and consistent effort is more effective in overcoming learned helplessness.

  • What does systematic desensitization mean in this context?

    -Systematic desensitization refers to the process of gradually becoming less sensitive to failure and setbacks. By conditioning yourself to continue moving forward, regardless of the obstacles, you desensitize yourself to discouragement. This helps build resilience and a stronger mindset for achieving goals.

  • Why is having a partner important in overcoming learned helplessness?

    -Having a partner provides accountability and support. A partner can help you stay on track, offer encouragement, and provide feedback when you're pushing too hard or need to reassess. This external support can make it easier to maintain motivation and persistence.

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