THE NARCISSIST IS FURIOUS WITH YOU AND THIS IS WHY!

Summary

This video script delves into the emotional and psychological impact of narcissistic abuse on empaths and chosen ones. The speaker explains how narcissists are furious when their victim doesn’t react as expected, especially when the victim begins to heal and regain control. Emphasizing that narcissists thrive on manipulation and self-obsession, the speaker encourages viewers to recognize their power, break free from the trauma bond, and avoid falling into destructive coping mechanisms. Ultimately, the message is one of empowerment, urging survivors to continue healing and moving forward, despite the narcissist's attempts to break them.

Takeaways

• 😀 The narcissist is furious because they expected the victim to be destroyed by their actions, but instead, the victim is healing and growing stronger.
• 😀 Narcissists often function with demonic or toxic influences, acting with premeditation and anticipation to manipulate others into feeling helpless and broken.
• 😀 Narcissists derive satisfaction from causing emotional harm and misery, including attempting to push their victims toward suicide or substance abuse.
• 😀 The term 'narcissist' comes from Greek mythology, where Narcissus fell in love with his own reflection, symbolizing extreme self-obsession and the narcissistic behavior.
• 😀 Narcissists anticipate that their victims will never recover from their abuse, but when the victim shows resilience, it frustrates and enrages the narcissist.
• 😀 The trauma bond with a narcissist is compared to a demonic soul tie, which makes the victim feel trapped and unable to function without them, but healing is possible by breaking this bond.
• 😀 Victims of narcissistic abuse should stop seeing the narcissist through empathetic eyes and instead recognize them for what they truly are: manipulative, self-centered, and destructive individuals.
• 😀 Healing from narcissistic abuse involves understanding the contrast between the bad (narcissist) and the good (healthy relationships) so that the victim can appreciate their worth.
• 😀 Narcissists will try to make the victim feel worthless or incapable of moving forward, but the victim’s strength and healing make the narcissist feel threatened and upset.
• 😀 Time doesn't heal all wounds, but with time, victims of narcissistic abuse become more resilient, stronger, and better able to recognize and protect themselves from further harm.

Q & A

Why is the narcissist furious with the person they targeted?

The narcissist is furious because they anticipated that the victim would be destroyed or unable to move on. However, the victim has shown resilience, healing, and growth, which defies the narcissist's expectations.

What is meant by the concept of the narcissist as a 'demonic spirit'?

The narcissist is referred to as a 'demonic spirit' to emphasize their lack of control over their thoughts and actions. Their behavior is portrayed as deranged, manipulative, and destructive, which is likened to the influence of dark, negative forces.

What does the term 'narcissist' originate from?

The term 'narcissist' originates from Greek mythology, specifically the story of Narcissus, who fell in love with his own reflection in water and eventually died because of it. This myth symbolizes the narcissist's excessive self-love and self-absorption.

How does the narcissist typically try to manipulate their victim?

The narcissist manipulates their victim by creating a trauma bond, which is often referred to as a demonic soul tie. This bond leaves the victim feeling emotionally dependent on the narcissist, making them believe they cannot survive without them.

What happens when a narcissist's victim stops engaging with them?

When the victim cuts off contact, stops feeding the narcissist's supply, or goes no contact, the narcissist becomes furious. They never anticipated that the victim would regain strength, heal, and move on without them.

Why is the narcissist's behavior described as sadistic?

The narcissist's behavior is described as sadistic because they take pleasure in causing others pain and suffering. This includes manipulating their victim into suicidal thoughts or destructive behavior to maintain control and power over them.

What role does trauma bonding play in the relationship with a narcissist?

Trauma bonding creates an unhealthy emotional attachment between the narcissist and their victim. The victim feels an intense emotional pull to the narcissist, often mistaken for love, which prevents them from breaking free despite the narcissist's abusive behavior.

How can a person heal from a relationship with a narcissist?

Healing involves separating from the trauma bond, going no contact, and cutting off the narcissist's influence. The individual must stop viewing the narcissist as a source of love and instead recognize their manipulative and harmful behavior.

What is the significance of the 'Footprints in the Sand' story mentioned in the video?

The 'Footprints in the Sand' story illustrates how, during difficult times, a person may feel abandoned, but in reality, they are being carried and supported. This is used as a metaphor for how the victim is being guided and protected during their healing process.

Why does the narrator emphasize the importance of not rushing into a new relationship after leaving a narcissist?

The narrator warns against rushing into a new relationship because it can lead to repeating unhealthy patterns, such as codependency. It is essential to focus on healing and self-awareness before entering a new relationship to avoid further trauma.