Perspektif Ep. 30 - Proses Pendewasaan Diri Melalui Fase Quarter Life Crisis

Summary

The script explores the emotional journey of multiple individuals facing quarter-life crises. They reflect on personal struggles, such as career uncertainties, family problems, and relationship issues, while grappling with self-doubt and societal pressures. The narrative emphasizes perseverance, finding personal strength through faith, and the importance of overcoming challenges. It also highlights the common feeling of comparing oneself to others and how these experiences serve as a wake-up call to address personal growth. Ultimately, the message is one of hope, resilience, and trusting that every struggle leads to eventual rewards.

Takeaways

• 😔 Struggles with self-blame and pressure to stay strong in front of family, especially when asked about marriage.
• 🙌 Belief that perseverance will eventually bring rewards, with faith playing an important role.
• 🧑‍🎓 Many participants describe facing quarter-life crises, often feeling lost and uncertain about life choices and career paths.
• 💔 Personal struggles like broken homes, financial difficulties, and unsupportive relationships add to the feeling of being overwhelmed.
• 📚 Academic challenges are common, including feelings of being in the wrong major but pushing through due to family expectations.
• 💼 Difficulty finding work after graduation, leading to self-doubt and comparing oneself to more successful peers.
• 👫 Relationship struggles, especially when partners are emotionally unavailable during tough times, contribute to personal crises.
• 💡 Realization that everyone has their own path, and happiness or success should not be compared with others.
• 🙏 Turning to faith and spirituality becomes a key source of strength and guidance for some, helping them overcome low points.
• 🎯 Importance of focusing on personal growth, setting clear goals, and not wasting time on unproductive relationships or pursuits.

Q & A

What is the main theme of the transcript?

The main theme of the transcript is individuals' experiences with quarter-life crises, including feelings of anxiety, uncertainty about the future, and struggles related to career, education, relationships, and personal growth.

How do the speakers describe their quarter-life crisis experiences?

The speakers describe their quarter-life crisis as a period of confusion, self-doubt, and pressure to meet societal expectations. They mention comparing themselves to others, struggling with career choices, and feeling overwhelmed by responsibilities and family issues.

What role does family play in the lives of the speakers?

Family plays a significant role, often contributing to the stress and challenges faced by the speakers. Some mention broken homes, financial struggles, and the responsibility to support their families. For others, family expectations, especially related to education and marriage, add pressure.

How do the speakers cope with their struggles?

The speakers cope with their struggles by seeking self-improvement, turning to spirituality or religion for guidance, focusing on their career, and reflecting on their experiences. Some mention the importance of having friends for support and learning to accept their circumstances.

What challenges do the speakers face in terms of career and education?

The speakers face challenges such as being in the wrong major in college, difficulty finding a job, and working in careers that don't align with their passion. Some mention financial difficulties, such as needing to work while studying or not having family support.

What do the speakers say about relationships during their quarter-life crisis?

The speakers express disappointment and frustration in their relationships, particularly with romantic partners who fail to offer emotional support. Some mention feeling unsupported during difficult times, and others talk about the pressure to find a partner and marry, which adds to their anxiety.

How do societal expectations influence the speakers' quarter-life crises?

Societal expectations play a significant role in the speakers' quarter-life crises, especially regarding career success, financial stability, and marriage. The pressure to meet these expectations leads to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt when they compare themselves to others who seem more successful.

What role does spirituality play in the lives of the speakers?

Spirituality is a key source of comfort and guidance for some speakers. They mention turning to God during their lowest moments, attending religious services, and reflecting on the belief that everything happens according to God's plan, which helps them find peace and strength to continue.

How do the speakers view failure and setbacks?

The speakers view failure and setbacks as temporary and part of the learning process. They emphasize the importance of perseverance, believing that challenges will eventually lead to personal growth and better opportunities in life. Many acknowledge that struggling is necessary to achieve success.

What advice do the speakers give to others experiencing a quarter-life crisis?

The speakers advise others to remain resilient, focus on self-improvement, and trust that things will get better. They encourage finding clarity about personal goals, not comparing oneself to others, and believing that every individual has their own timeline for success.

Outlines

00:00

😓 Struggling to Stay Strong Amidst Family Pressure

The speaker expresses a deep sense of self-blame while trying to stay strong for their mother. They reflect on their challenging emotions regarding questions about marriage and how they cope by laughing at their past struggles. They believe that as long as one makes an effort, something positive will come as a reward from a higher power.

05:02

🤔 The Quarter-Life Crisis: A Battle with Career and Life Choices

This paragraph dives into the concept of a quarter-life crisis, emphasizing feelings of anxiety and comparison with others. The speaker shares their personal experience of going through it twice—once during university when they felt lost in the wrong major and again while balancing personal and family issues. They highlight their struggles with financial independence, dealing with a broken home, and navigating career challenges.

10:02

💼 Navigating Career Challenges and Relationships

The speaker recounts their struggles with finding a job and feeling stuck in a career that doesn’t align with their passion. They talk about the disillusionment in both work and relationships, including feeling unsupported by their partner during hard times. Despite these challenges, they strive to focus on career growth, but the constant pressure of comparing themselves to others remains a burden.

15:03

💔 Disillusionment with Love and Marriage Expectations

In this section, the speaker reflects on societal expectations surrounding marriage. They feel a sense of crisis when comparing themselves to friends who are in relationships or already married. They express frustration with their own romantic life, questioning whether they will find a suitable partner and grappling with feelings of hopelessness about love. They decide to focus on self-improvement instead of wasting time on unfulfilling relationships.

🙏 Faith, Reflection, and a Glimmer of Hope

The speaker describes a deeply spiritual journey, feeling abandoned by loved ones and questioning their faith. At their lowest point, they find solace in religious teachings and eventually receive an unexpected job opportunity. They emphasize the importance of trusting in a higher power, believing that everything happens in its own time. The realization that life is fleeting pushes them to reflect on their past actions and embrace personal growth.

💡 Overcoming the Quarter-Life Crisis and Finding Clarity

The final paragraph brings a message of resilience and hope. The speaker encourages others who are experiencing a quarter-life crisis to remain strong, emphasizing that difficult times are temporary and better days are ahead. They share the importance of self-acceptance, enjoying life as it is, and maintaining a carefree attitude as a way to overcome challenges.

Keywords

💡Quarter-life crisis

A quarter-life crisis is a period of uncertainty, anxiety, and doubt that many young adults face, usually in their 20s or early 30s. It involves questioning one's career path, relationships, and life choices. In the video, multiple individuals express feeling stuck, lost, and comparing their lives to others, which heightens this crisis.

💡Anxiety

Anxiety refers to the intense, excessive, and persistent worry or fear about everyday situations. The video highlights anxiety as a core component of the quarter-life crisis, with individuals feeling pressured by societal expectations and personal failures, such as not having a clear career or life direction.

💡Comparison

Comparison is the act of measuring oneself against others, which can lead to feelings of inadequacy. In the script, several characters mention comparing their lives, jobs, and achievements to their friends, which intensifies their personal crisis. This constant comparison is seen as a driver of dissatisfaction.

💡Career uncertainty

Career uncertainty involves not knowing which professional path to pursue or feeling trapped in an unfulfilling job. The script features multiple individuals struggling with their jobs, feeling either mismatched in their roles or unsure if their current career aligns with their true passions.

💡Financial struggles

Financial struggles describe the difficulty in managing finances, often exacerbating the emotional toll of a quarter-life crisis. Some characters in the video mention working while studying or having to support their families, adding financial pressure to their already overwhelming life situation.

💡Family expectations

Family expectations refer to the pressure individuals feel to meet their family’s hopes, particularly regarding education, career, and marriage. In the script, some individuals mention pursuing careers or degrees based on their family's desires rather than their own, leading to inner conflict and stress.

💡Romantic relationships

Romantic relationships are a significant theme in the script, with individuals expressing dissatisfaction with their current relationships or feeling pressure to find a partner. One character discusses how their partner failed to be supportive during tough times, contributing to feelings of isolation and emotional crisis.

💡Self-doubt

Self-doubt is the lack of confidence in one's abilities or decisions, a recurring emotion throughout the script. Several individuals question their life choices, wondering if they are on the right path or capable of achieving their goals, contributing to their overall sense of confusion and crisis.

💡Personal growth

Personal growth involves overcoming challenges and learning from life experiences. The video captures moments of self-reflection where individuals look back on their struggles and recognize how they have grown stronger and more self-aware, ultimately finding hope in their journey.

💡Support systems

Support systems refer to the network of friends, family, or community that provide emotional and practical support. Throughout the script, some individuals mention how friends or family helped them during their lowest points, while others note the absence of support, exacerbating their struggles.

Highlights

Struggles with self-blame while trying to appear strong for family.

Reflects on quarter-life crisis driven by anxiety and comparing oneself to others.

Felt lost in college due to being in a major that wasn't the right fit but pushed through with support.

Worked hard to secure scholarships to fund education, while supporting a single mother.

Faced difficult times during college, struggling with multiple issues including family and relationships.

Described reaching a breaking point with feelings of hopelessness and confusion about the future.

Turned to business after months of job searching and feeling discouraged.

Found fulfillment in a career aligned with personal passion, but acknowledges that not all dreams have come true.

Believes that people who compare themselves to others may face more frequent quarter-life crises.

Experiences dissatisfaction with romantic relationships, feeling unsupported during tough times.

Discusses societal pressure to marry by a certain age, leading to a crisis about personal milestones.

Explains the internal struggle of balancing career success with personal fulfillment.

Takes inspiration from spiritual reflection and turns to faith during difficult periods.

Ultimately decides to focus on self-improvement and career growth rather than pursuing unfulfilling relationships.

Acknowledges the importance of realizing that everyone has their own timeline and to trust the process.

Transcripts

Hai uang rasa ancur banget gitu

maksudnya gua kayak menyalahkan diri gue

sendiri tapi gua harus tetap bisa

berusaha untuk gua strong di depan yokap

gitu agar Ice Oh nanya gitu Kapan

merried dan ketika gua udah lewatin itu

gue ketawain diri gue sendiri sih kayak

gila banget gue sampai ngelakuin kayak

gitu selama lo mengusahakan itu Tuhan

utuh pasti akan menghadiahkan sesuatu

buat lo dari steam for you to dance step

out with your eyes I

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usianya 24 tahun Halo Nama gua Mona umur

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tahun nama gua anjos umur gue 26 tahun

nama gue izin undur gua 24 tahun nama

gua Melati Kusuma umur gue 22 Luth tidak

punya tujuan hidup

Hai hey quarter-life Crisis itu menurut

gua ketika lalu merasa in tentang

enciety tentang dirimu sendiri gara-gara

lu ngebandingin dulu sama orang lain

buat ribet tapi harus diaduk fine sih

pernah terjadi dalam hidup gua dan gua

udah lewatin semua itu dua kali lah

pernah terjadi dalam hidup gua gua lewat

itu ketika gua masih di bangku kuliah

gua ada di satu jurusan yang mungkin

salah bagi gua gitu ya pilihannya hanya

satu gua harus selesaikan kitab yg

Memang gua enggak punya tempat dimana

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Hai semua keluh kesah gua gitu kesusahan

gua gitu tapi ya Ya puji tuhan gue bisa

lewati semua itu itu sebenarnya sih gua

eh waktu lulus SMA Masnya

sebelum-sebelumnya setelah kayak hidup

gue tuh dah krisis semua gitu karena gua

bukan hidup di dunia yang menyenangkan

gitu kayak body dari kecil keluarga

broken home gitu sekolah bukan orang

kaya gitu sampai gua bisa harus sekolah

SMA kuliah semua Gua harus bisa cari

beasiswa biar bisa dapetin itu semua

gitu karena gua situ beasiswa untuk

kuliah Jadi gue kuliah sambil kerja gitu

supaya biaya Gue di rumah gua menafkahi

orang tua gue nyokap yang cuma sendiri

itu bisa dari biaya gue kerja aku lagi

ngerasain sih sebenarnya Kenapa gue

kayak gini Kenapa gue bisa ada diposisi

ini Waktu itu gua ada di posisi di mana

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banyak masalah dari permasalahan kuliah

keluarga dan juga pacar gue jadi gue

ngerasa saat itu disaat dengan banget

keluarga gue hampir hancur dan keluarga

dan pacar gue pun tidak mendukung itu

tidak ada disisiku Allah bada rasanya

tuh apa ya bingung Nomor satu pasti

bingung kedua tuh eh NU selalu mencoba

mencari jalan keluar tapi lu kejebak di

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diskret lagi ya lama-lama lu kayak

bergerak di situ-situ aja gitu terlalu

banyak hal

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waktu yang singkat gitu lecce kayak satu

tahun atau dua tahun sampai akhirnya tuh

bingung mau fokus eh shouting out yang

mana dulu aja sudah resmi jadi itu belum

karena gue masih kuliah kan waktu itu

Cuma gue ngerasain iya gue pengen nyerah

juga sama kuliah gue gue itu salah

jurusan gua itu ada di jurusan eh yang

enggak Sebenernya gue pengen itu karena

orang tua gua dan gue ngerasa gue tuh

nggak bisa gue ngerasa gua gua nggak

mampu tapi untungnya temen-temen jurusan

gue itu membantu gue dan akhirnya gue

bisa melewati itu sih sempet sih Eh

waktu lagi kuliah begitu gue juga

berfikir Eh gua kuliah aja rasa buntu

begini apalagi yang sedepan gue gimana

nih kayak gitu saat itu memang belum

assaban demi tapi sulit

remain cari kerja gitu buat Apple

sana-sini segala macem Slam 3 bulan gue

nggak kerja dan situ Gua merasa itu

benar-benar yang gue ngerasa kalut dan

jadi Titik terendah dalam hidup gua

sedang gue ngerasain kayak gue ngeliat

temen-temen gue semua tuh mereka udah

kerja dengan gaji dan hasil yang

Maksudnya gaji yang lumayan besar dan

prospek kerja yang bagus Sedangkan gue

Hai gue juga sedang mencari waktu itu

tapi emang susah banget sampe akhirnya

gue mencoba Yaudah gue Cobain untuk

memulai lagi bisnis mencoba fokusin

bisnis gue financially I'm good good

good secara karir kadang tuh lu ngerasa

lu bekerja enggak sesuai fashionmu

segala macem kadang gua ngerasa bosen

gue ngerasa gue sering banget

mempertanyakan Apakah pekerjaan ini pas

buat gua ya gitu sih ih Bendo

financially good kayaknya yang bisa

ngaliang bakalan lebih sering ngalamin

quarter-life Crisis itu orang-orang yang

punya prefilled lebih aja deh karena dia

Hai pasti ngebandingin diri dia sendiri

sama orang lain gitu terus dia kaya pop

gua nggak bisa kayak gini ayah gitu

terus akses biak untuk mencapai

kebahagiaan itu kenapa jadi lebih

gampang kita dibanding gua sakit kuliah

kita tuh tidak diharuskan untuk tau apa

yang kita mau dalam hidup ini dan kita

juga tidak mempunyai kewajiban atas diri

sendiri dalam artian lo tuh masih

dikasih uang sama orang tua lu bisalah

pulang Eh kita main yuk apa segala macem

karena lu nggak peduli tuh caranya

redsit yang lo bakal parents.her itu

kayak gimana Tapi ketika Lu sudah

bekerja

Hai uang tuh akan menjadi suatu hal yang

lo perhitungkan gitu gue ngerasa nggak

didukung sama pacar gue itu kayak kalau

cewek kan biasanya kayak lu ngertiin

dong posisi gue lagi daun banget nih

gitu kan tapi eh Justru cowok kita tuh

malah lebih kalau jika kalian dia enggak

mikirin Perasaan gimana Jadi yang kayak

mereka enggak mau ambil pusing itu

sedangkan kalau kita kita tuh pengennya

dia peka etnis dia ada disamping kita

tapi ternyata yang dilakuin nggak kayak

gitu kayak gak sesuai ekspektasi kita

gitu loh gue jadi ngerasa Kayaknya

coworth buat gue karena disaat gue kayak

gini aja dia enggak ada buat gue kayak

gitu di usia gua yang waktu itu udah

kurang lebih 29-30 ya musuhnya pasangan

gitu jadi agar ECC Oh nanya gitu Kapan

merried kapan aku

Hai ah punya pacar gitu ya yang akhirnya

membuat gua yaitu krisis juga gitu dalam

hal ini gitu mungkin gak sih gue merried

gitu mungkin kasih Ada yang mau sama gua

gitu gue sering banget ngeliatin

temen-temen gue tuh udah pada nikah atau

sering banget jalan sama pacarnya di

kemana kayak terlihatnya bahagia banget

gitu sedangkan gue tuh di di fase yang

gini-gini aja nggak nggak kemana-mana

Inikah mungkin butuh mungkin juga enggak

nikah itu harus cari partner yang pas

sampai saat ini gue belum nemuin partai

itu dan bukan cuma gua doang tapi juga

buat keluarga gua buat teman-teman gua

sanggul lingkungan gua

Hai gue lebih ngerasa sekarang tuh udah

hopeless sama percintaan ini karena gue

ngerasa buang-buang waktu sih karena gue

nggak mau jatuh ke lubang yang sama gitu

kayak gue Mikir Ya udah deh gue

improvisasi diri dulu Gue menjadi yang

lebih baik dan gue nggak mau buang-buang

waktu gue untuk apa ya hal yang percuma

gitu i-sport not Hehehe nggak tahu ya

Bungin kayak eh itu bukan menjadi sebuah

perhatian gue banget kalian dibidang

relations di Medan di bagian relation

gitu mah gue kayak gue lebih fokus sama

karir dan mimpi-mimpi gua aja sih sejauh

ini Alhamdulillah yang gue lakuin

sekarang lebih sesuai passion gue sih

Jadi sekarang gue udah jauh lebih happy

Dan itu berkat pengalaman gue yang

sebelumnya itu ia sebenarnya kalau mau

dibilang jalur gua sampai sekarang ya

nggak

Fauzi kitab Iya gua punya tanggung jawab

gitu ya Apa aja gua kerjain untuk

menghidupkan anak-istri gua-gua dan

istri godaan ada anak jadi apa aja gua

aku kan ya yang penting itu Eh gua jalur

Ada jalur dalam jalur yang benar aja

gitu Jadi Yang Penting Halal Dan kalau

mau dilepas enggak spesies sama gua gitu

ya kalau sejarah fashion realita Gue

merasa pekerjaan gue sekarang adalah

Memang gua banget gitu memang dari dulu

event gua kerja bukan di bukan di

perusahaan entertain tapi gue selalu

diminta untuk mengisi acara SL

Entertainment gitu kayak ulang tahun Apa

maksudnya kayak gue jadi tim ininya lele

lainnya gitu yang meramaikan segala

macam Gan gitu juga jadi ketika gue

sekarang bekerja di dunia entertain gitu

Gua merasa bahwa Ia memang ini

sebenarnya fashion gua banget gitu kalau

misalkan fashion gue sama realitas

sekarang sih

Ya udah apa udah sesuai Cuman emang yang

gue inginkan impian gue tuh Belum belum

jadi kenyataan itu orang bisa ngejalanin

fashionnya itu biasanya orang yang yang

siap mengambil resiko

Hai dan gue rasa gue belum siap ambil

resiko itu untuk menurut nurutin fashion

gua makanya gua masih tetap di pekerjaan

yang monthly income yang ada status

masih ada tunjangan-tunjangan dan hidup

ini lo tuh udah punya blessing

sendiri-sendiri jadi ya semua tuh cuma

nunggu waktu aja gitu loh bisa aja lu

mau jadi penyanyi gitu lu suara lu bagus

tapi nggak ada tuh kesempatan datang ke

lo ya mungkin karena Tuhanmu enggak mau

Frozen menyanyi tapi bisa aja lu menjadi

something bigger than being single gitu

jadi gua dari posisi di mana sampai

kayak pengennya akhirnya hidup itu kan

kayak drama banget ya drama Semua orang

pasti ada sisi jalan kayak pengen

ngelahirin hidup dan kondisinya waktu

itu gue sampai masuk rumah sakit tapi

kondisinya orang tua gua enggak tahu

cuma saat itu yang gue lihat adalah di

sebelah gua ada teman-teman terdekat gue

yang benar-benar nangis ketika gue sadar

dia nangis mereka

ia menangis dan disitu merasa masih

banyak yang sayang sama gue Dan ketika

gua udah lewatin itu gue ngetawain diri

gue sendiri sih kayak gila banget gue

sampai ngelakuin kayak gitu toh kalau di

sini sih ada sih temen yang memang eh

bantu Comblang ini coba lagi nenen sini

gitu kenalin dengan si ini dengan

sia-sia begitu enggak seperti di masa

yang pertama gitu bawa enggak ada yang

mendampingi guestline diri gua harus

bangkit dengan memandang sekeliling gua

gitu dengan memandang orang tua gua

harus gua Subangkit gitu lebih rohani

gue ya gue apa namanya flashback gitu

Apa isi yang salah sama hidup gue gitu

gue lebih bertanya sama Tuhan itu gitu

gue salah apa sih gitu Tuhan gua kenapa

gitu katanya kalau kita lakukan yang

terbaik buat Tuhan Tuhan juga akan

lakukan terbaik buat kita tapi kenapa

gua sampai segini aku gua enggak kayak

kayak Mungkin gitu loh nggak ada yang

nggak ada yang manggil gue gitu gue

sempet kayak gitu

Hai Sampai suatu hari itu benar-benar

benar-benar di titik terendah gue yang

bener gua kayak ada di gereja G2 pagi

gue datang dua pagi setiap pagi dan gua

kayak tiap doa tuh gua nangis kayak

Tuhan ini guys gimana ya lebih tiga

bulan mau sampai berapa lama gua begini

gitu dan di situ Maksudnya gue cuma

denger ada satu ada satu khotbah yang

dikasih tahu bahwa hidup manusia itu

sama aja kayak uap yaitu yang ada

kelihatan lalu hilang lenyap begitu dan

Enggak ada enggak ada hak bagi kita

untuk kita bisa ngatur gua mau buat

abcdefg gitu karena kita bukan

siapa-siapa gitu tapi dia satu-satunya

adalah tanya sama Tuhan Biar Tuhan yang

atur Tuhan mau kemana hidup lo gitu

karena hidup lo sebelumnya punya tuhan

gitu dan itu memang benar-benar yang gue

abis dua pagi dengerin khotbah tentang

itu yang benar-benar siangnya itu

dipanggil gitu untuk interview gitu

itupun sebenarnya lebih ke obrolkan

nyokap kekuatanku Asih kek Kenapa gue

ngerasa kayak gini ya sebenernya Ibnu

tahu siapa ya kalau mau masuk tapi itu

susah ya untuk tahu apa yang lu mau

cuman kayak

hai ketika lo tahu apa yang lu mau lu

tuh bisa

hai oh ngasih to-do list buat diri lo

sendiri gimana sih caranya untuk

mencapai a

Hai dengan ngakuin b c d e f g gitulah

dan itu yang gue lakuin dan yang paling

penting dan yang mengarah banget buat

gua adalah menyadari penuh kalau

semuanya untuk punya waktu masing-masing

dan mungkin besok meetingnya tapi all be

there sometimes Shoulders Something For

Who I don't know tapi kayak selama lo

mengusahakan itu Tuhan itu pasti akan

menghadiahkan sesuatu buat lo karena gue

percaya Days time for you to dance step

out with your eyes Gitu dulu Gue sempet

Ayah di fase bingung tapi bingung itu

bikin gue sadar kalau ada sesuatu yang

harus gue beresin sama kayak lo pas lagi

sakit fisik itu kan sebagai tanda kalau

misalkan ada sesuatu yang gak beres

didalam tubuh loh jadi buat gue

quarter-life Crisis itu adalah pengingat

untuk diri sendiri Hidup itu cuma sekali

Melo sia-siain cuma karena hal yang bisa

sebenarnya lewatin untuk kalian yang

masih ngerasain percaya aja kalau ini

semua bakalan bisa kalian lewatin cepat

atau lambat

Hai ndak bangkit tetap berjuang untuk

hal ini ia enggak selamanya lu akan

seperti ini pasti sesuai ada Keadaan

nanti akan berbalik dan semuanya akan

lebih baik lagi gitu Jadi tetap berjuang

semangat aja gitu buat lo yang sekarang

lagi ngalamin hal ini ya ya itu tadi nih

lucu bersama-sama diri lo sendiri ke

coba jalannya semuanya lo harus merasa

bahwa hidup lo ini udah paling sempurna

itu maksud gue dan lo bisa jalani

semuanya dengan enjoy dengan nyaman gitu

ketika itu semua lo bisa-bisa dapatkan

ya lu bisa ngelewatin masa-masa itu dan

gak akan ada lagi di titik itu gitu

Kalau udah tahu apa yang jadi kuncinya

ia mencoba bodo amat adalah salah satu

jalan keluar untuk menghadapi ini semua

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