6 Signs That You're ACTUALLY A Handsome Man (How Women Will Treat You As An Attractive Man)
Summary
TLDRIn this video, the speaker discusses six signs that indicate a man is attractive to women. These signs include women being unable to just be friends, being more overt in expressing attraction, feeling intimidated by the man's looks, downplaying his attractiveness, exhibiting the 'reverse Rockstar effect' where women act differently to stand out, and leading with validation through compliments. The speaker also promotes a free IAB training for men to enhance their attractiveness and appeal to women.
Takeaways
- 😀 The video discusses six signs that indicate a man is attractive to women.
- 👫 Attractive men may find it difficult to maintain platonic friendships with women, as many of their female friends could be physically attracted to them.
- 💬 Women who are attracted to an attractive man might make subtle comments or hints about their attraction, even if they're in a relationship.
- 🔥 Women who are highly attracted to a man may be more overt and direct about their sexual attraction, especially if he fits their physical type.
- 😳 Attractiveness can be intimidating to some women, who might express feeling nervous or intimidated in the presence of an attractive man.
- 😌 Some women might downplay an attractive man's looks due to their insecurities or past experiences, trying to keep his ego in check.
- 🤩 The 'reverse Rockstar effect' refers to women who are attracted but act differently to avoid seeming like all the others who are attracted to the man.
- 👍 Women who lead with validation, complimenting the man's looks, often have high interest in him and are confident in their attraction.
- 🔗 The speaker suggests that becoming the most attractive version of oneself can lead to easier interactions with women and a more successful dating life.
- 📲 The video offers a free IAB training for men to maximize their attractiveness, with a link provided in the video description.
Q & A
What is the main topic of the video?
-The main topic of the video is discussing the six signs that indicate a man is attractive to women.
What is the first sign mentioned in the video that a man is attractive to women?
-The first sign is that women can't be just friends with the man, often showing subtle signs of physical attraction.
How does the speaker suggest women will behave if they find a man attractive and he is their physical type?
-Women will be more overt and direct about their attraction, potentially making advances or suggesting intimate situations.
What does the speaker mean by 'intimidating' when women find a man attractive?
-When women find a man attractive, they may feel intimidated or nervous around him, indicating that he is highly attractive to them.
Why might some women downplay a man's attractiveness despite being attracted to him?
-Some women might downplay a man's attractiveness to keep his ego in check or because they have insecurities and want to appear less interested initially.
What is the 'reverse Rockstar effect' as described in the video?
-The 'reverse Rockstar effect' refers to women who are attracted to a man but withhold validation and compliments initially to appear different from other admirers.
What does the speaker suggest is a sign that a woman is very attracted to a man and has high interest in him?
-A sign of high interest is when a woman leads with validation, such as giving compliments about the man's physical appearance, especially if she does so without an ego.
What advice does the speaker give to men about attracting women?
-The speaker advises men to become the most attractive version of themselves to naturally attract women who are interested in them, rather than chasing after them.
What is the IAB training mentioned in the video, and how is it supposed to help men?
-The IAB training is a program that has helped several men improve their attractiveness. It is suggested to help viewers maximize their looks and become more attractive to women.
What is the speaker's overall message regarding men's attractiveness and women's behavior?
-The speaker's overall message is that understanding the signs of attraction can help men navigate their interactions with women more effectively, and that being genuinely attractive can simplify various aspects of life, including dating.
Outlines
😎 Signs of Attraction: Women's Behavior Towards Attractive Men
The speaker discusses six signs that indicate a man is attractive to women. He suggests that attractive men tend to have fewer female friends who are not attracted to them, as most of their female friends will show subtle signs of physical attraction. The speaker shares personal anecdotes from his high school and college years, where female friends made comments indicating their attraction. He explains that attractive men may not have many 'just friends' relationships with women, as women often harbor romantic or sexual interest, which can lead to intimate situations if the man expresses his feelings.
💋 Overt Attraction and Subtle Cues in Dating
This paragraph delves into how women act when they are highly attracted to men. The speaker notes that while women are generally subtle, they can become overt and direct in expressing their sexual attraction, especially if the man is their physical type. He mentions personal experiences where women have made direct advances or suggested intimacy. The speaker also touches on how women might try to escalate intimacy during dates or social gatherings, using subtle cues to indicate their interest.
😳 Intimidation and Insecurity: Women's Reactions to Attractiveness
The speaker talks about how attractiveness can intimidate women, leading them to feel nervous around men they find very attractive. He clarifies that this intimidation is actually a compliment, indicating that the woman is attracted and not sure how to act. The speaker shares that women might downplay a man's looks due to their own insecurities or past experiences, trying to protect themselves from getting hurt or appearing too eager. This behavior is more common in women with good intentions but who have been hurt before or are naturally more insecure.
🤔 The Reverse Rockstar Effect: Women's Mixed Approach to Attractive Men
In this section, the speaker describes the 'reverse Rockstar effect,' where women who are attracted to a man act differently to avoid seeming like all his other admirers. They might withhold compliments or validation initially to appear unique and not just another fan. The speaker suggests that as women get to know the man better, they may stop downplaying his attractiveness and start to compliment him more genuinely. He emphasizes the importance of being a cool, solid person, as women are more attracted to men with a good personality in addition to good looks.
👑 Leading with Validation: High Interest from Attracted Women
The final paragraph focuses on women who lead with validation when they are very attracted to a man. These women are confident and have no ego issues; they openly compliment the man's appearance and show high interest. The speaker shares examples of such interactions, both in person and online, and suggests that men who attract women in this way tend to have more success in dating and relationships. He concludes by advocating for men to become the best version of themselves to attract women who are genuinely interested.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Attraction
💡Friend Zone
💡Intimidation
💡Validation
💡Ego
💡Overt
💡Insecurity
💡Physical Type
💡Reverse Rockstar Effect
💡Compliments
Highlights
Discusses the six signs that indicate you're attractive to women.
Recommends a free IAB training for maximizing looks and attracting women.
Sign one: Women can't be just friends with you due to physical attraction.
Attractive men often have female friends who are subtly attracted to them.
Women may make comments indicating they find you attractive even as friends.
Attractive men are often perceived as more than just friends by women.
Sign two: Women are more overt and direct about their attraction.
Highly attracted women may escalate sexually in subtle ways.
Direct approaches from women indicate strong physical attraction.
Sign three: Women find you intimidating due to your attractiveness.
Intimidation is a sign of high attraction and nervousness around you.
Sign four: Some women downplay your looks due to their insecurities.
Insecurities can lead women to minimize the importance of physical attractiveness.
Sign five: The 'Reverse Rockstar Effect' where women act differently to stand out.
Women may withhold compliments to not seem like all your other admirers.
Sign six: Women who lead with validation are highly attracted and confident.
Leading with validation indicates high interest and attraction.
Encourages men to become the most attractive version of themselves to attract women.
Transcripts
what's going on bro so in this video I'm
going to be talking about the six signs
that you're actually attractive to women
and I'm going to be talking about how
women will treat you based on the sick
signs when you are actually a handsome
and attractive man now with that being
said before we do hop into those six
signs if you want extra help when it
comes to maximizing your looks becoming
the most attractive version of yourself
and attracting the woman that you desire
to you then I would highly suggest that
you check out my free IAB training I'll
have a link down below in the
description in the pin comment IAB has
helped several men achieve this so I'm
very confident it's going to help you as
well definitely check that out after
this video so with that being said let's
go ahead and let's hop into the six
signs man sign number one is that women
can't be friends with you here's the
thing when you are an attractive man
you're not going to have too many female
friends around and you're going to see
that most of your female friends are
going to be physically attracted to you
if they're not in relationships as well
or some even if they are relationships
that doesn't mean that they're still not
fing you physically I'm just going to be
honest but what you're going to see is
that when you have female friends around
you you're going to find that most of
the times they're going to be very
subtle about their attraction towards
you and I'll give you a couple examples
so when I had more female friends when I
was younger more so in high school
towards like junior year into my senior
year and then a little bit after that I
had a few female friends that I would
kick it with on a consistent basis and
they've made comments saying like how I
was their typee or they would say things
like oh Jordan if we weren't friends I'd
be nervous to talk to you stuff like
that and I've even heard a couple of
people that were mutual friends with my
female friends in the past those mutual
friends of ours I've heard from those
people that some of my female friends
thought I was sexy or that I was fine so
when it comes to having female friends
as an attractive man what you're going
to find is that really if you were to be
the one that expressed your feelings or
attraction towards them or maybe you
guys were hanging out and maybe it was
at party or maybe you guys went out or
whatever the case is and you you are in
a more you know intimate setting things
could transpire from that right if your
female friends are physically attracted
to you which more than likely will be
the case if you are actually an
attractive man and this is why I believe
that when it comes to men and women
being friends most of the time I don't
believe men and women can be friends cuz
usually it's the dude that is just
trying to be friends with the woman
because he's just trying to secretly get
with her and trying to scheme on the low
and trying to strategize and all this
right but not many times do we
hear about how it's the reverse like
when you are an attractive man it's
really women who are friends with you
they may not actively try to get out of
the friend zone with you that's more
more so something that men do but they
will make subtle suggestions or they
will showcase more subtle signs that
they are attracted to you or maybe
something between you two can transpire
it just really depends on the context
they're very subtle about these things
but nevertheless they would be more than
happy to get out of the friend zone with
you if you were to be the one that
expressed your feelings towards them and
you made a move so that's sign number
one moving on to sign number two is that
women will be more overt and just
overall direct with their attraction
towards you now not every woman is going
to be like this but when you are a
woman's exact physical type and she's
highly attracted to you she will be
overt about her sexual attraction for
you and most of the time women are going
to be more subtle they are going to be
more indirect but from my personal
experience I found that if you really do
it for her on a physical level and you
are her exact type A lot of times
they're going to be more overt and
direct and I've noticed that this is
also going to be dependent on their
personalities like they're more
extroverted or just more outgoing
they'll be more likely to do this but
most of the time even if they are an
extrovert or introvert it really doesn't
matter that much they're more on the
indirect side but don't be surprised
that if you are an actual handsome and
attract a man and you get with women
maybe you meet them off of dating apps
social media in person however that
happens some of these women are going to
be a lot more overt and direct right
they're going to be overt and direct
about their attraction for you and
here's something that dudes need to
understand man and I know some of you
aren't going to like this but it is the
truth is that when you're really that
dude for women a lot of times they will
try to sexually escalate on you a lot of
times they will right and these can be
very subtle ways that they do it let's
say you're on a date with a girl or
you're just kicking it with her
somewhere let's say like at a bar or
lounge and she tries to say something
like hey you want to go back to my place
or hey we can go back to my place or hey
what are you doing later what else do
you have going on for the rest of the
night those are very subtle cues that
that woman wants to spend more time with
you and be intimate with you again
depending on the context right but those
are very subtle ways that women will try
to start to begin the process of you
guys really escalating towards Intimacy
in other scenarios like with this
message right here you know this was a
message from a woman I was matched up
with on hinge not too long ago she said
I want you to use that Greek god body on
me all night athletic s3x like we're
giving each other a workout like
sometimes it can be this directing over
not all the time but it can definitely
happen and even from the standpoint of
women approaching you you'll have some
women that will approach you in person
if you are really an attractive man in
their eyes and again you are their ideal
type they won't mind being direct and
approaching you and letting you know
that they find you attractive or that
they have the hots for you or whatever
right I've had that told to me as far as
women approaching me and saying that
they've had the hots for me and I didn't
even know who they were you know what
I'm saying and they don't really care
about getting rejected just because
they're that attracted to you and they
want to shoot their shot so that's sign
number two is that women will be more
overt and direct about their attraction
towards you moving on to number three is
that they're intimidated by you women
tell you that you are intimidating so if
women find you attractive you're often
going to hear how you're intimidating to
them and for the longest time I thought
this was bad I thought wasn't a
compliment or anything like this but
it's actually a good thing if they say
this because what they're really saying
is that when they tell you that you're
intimidating they really just mean that
they're nervous around you because
you're that attractive to them they
don't really know how to respond or act
around you because they're just not used
to being around men of your caliber if
they find you that attractive and you
know they'll say this if they're not
only not used to being around men that
look like you but if they're not used to
being around men that they're highly
attracted to that's when you're also
going to get this like it's not just
about being around good-look men but
like it's more so about if she's very
highly attracted to you and you are her
ideal type on top of that you know what
I'm saying and I'm just going to be
honest if they're saying stuff like this
if women are saying that they're
intimidated by you they do think that
you're more attractive than them that
that's just what it is they think that
you're more attractive than them they
think that your smv is higher because
why would they be intimidated by you if
they thought that they were more
attractive than you basically or if you
guys were on the same level you know
what I'm saying I've been with women
that have told me that they thought they
were like a seven or eight and then they
told me that I was a nine or a 10 and
when you're really that dude you're very
attractive to her and you are her
physical type you're going to get things
like oh you intimidate me a little bit
or you make me nervous those things it's
just because you're very attractive they
don't really know how to contain
themselves act around you they're just
not used to being around a man like
yourself every day so that's sign number
three is that you are going to be
intimidating to them but this is
actually a good thing so moving on to
number four is that you'll have some
women that will downplay your look so
some of the women that you will come
across will downplay your looks and this
is more so from women who are insecure
or more so women who actually have like
good Hearts like they have they actually
have good Hearts they're good people and
the sense of like when they get with a
certain man they're going to be off for
that man they're going to love on that
man care for that man but those type of
women have been hurt in the past so
therefore they've had to have more of a
hardened shell but some women are just
going to be insecure and just try to
downplay your looks even though they are
attracted to you they're going to try to
make it known that your attractiveness
and and your handsome look and all those
things aren't that big of a deal to her
she's going to make it seem like you're
just another handsome dude as if there's
attractive Men by the Dozen right which
there isn't just from an objective
standpoint of men not putting in the
work on themselves and becoming the best
version of themselves there's not really
that many dudes like that you can see 12
beautiful women in a day but you're not
going to see a dude who looks like he
takes care of himself like that you're
not going to see that that easily but
women are going to make it seem like
they're constantly coming across
handsome men every day as far as like
some of the women that are going to try
to downplay your looks they're going to
try to act like that or they may say
some like oh looks don't really matter
like that they're not that important
you're going to hear little silly stuff
like that which is obviously not true
and the reason why women are going to
try to do this man some women will try
to do this not all but some women will
try to do this is that they want to try
to keep your ego in check because
especially if you guys are just meeting
for the first time or you guys are
starting to get to know each other she
doesn't know you like that she doesn't
know your personality women are just
going to assume that you are a player
they're going to assume that you're
cocky that you're arrogant that that
you're better than everyone else and if
they have more insecurity Within them
they're going to try to knock you down
off a pedestal they're going to try to
knock you down off your pedestal they're
going to try to Humble you even when
you're being a cool and solid dude and
that's really the cheat code as a
handsome attractive man really you
should be a cool solid dude regardless
but if you want to be able to be more
successful with women as a handsome
attractive man because you have to
understand at the same point a lot of
women are going to have their guards up
they're going to have negative and
positive assumptions of you right just
based on dealing with handsome and
attractive men in their past social
conditioning as far as how they see
handsome and attractive men excuse me
portrayed in the TV shows and the movies
and media all those things entertainment
they're going to think that you're going
to be this cocky arrogant dude and that
you're going to car yourself like you're
better than everyone else and better
than her so that's why you're going to
have some women that are going to try to
downplay your looks but you'll notice
that as they get to know you more not
only will they stop doing all this but
then they'll actually start to
compliment you more validate you in the
of just talking about how attractive you
are all those things but just don't be
surprised if you come across some of
these women that just they'll try to
downplay your looks and really if
they're doing this they're very
attracted to you that's the thing that's
why they're also doing this is because
they're also very attracted to you but
in order for them to say face contain
themselves not appear thirsty or
whatever they're going to try to
downplay your looks and keep your ego in
check so that's sign number four is that
some women will sometimes downplay your
looks now moving on to number five I
call this the reverse Rockstar effect I
don't know that's just the name that
came to me so I'm going to roll with it
but this is the reverse Rockstar effect
so this is when you'll have certain
women that will look at you almost like
a rock star like oh my gosh like this
guy he's very attractive he's very
handsome but she doesn't want to come
off like every other fan of yours right
basically meaning she doesn't want to
come off or portray herself like every
other woman that she perceives are just
throwing themselves at you there are
just chasing you there blowing up your
phone blowing up your inbox on in
Instagram dating apps Etc like she's
highly attracted to you but she just
wants to appear different she wants to
appear different than all the other
women she doesn't want to give you that
edge as far as oh yeah like I got
another woman like I got her wrapped
around my finger women don't want that
type of hold from a man right like they
don't want a man to have that type of
hold that type of control over them
right and what you're going to see is
that with some of these women you're
going to be able to tell that she's
attracted to you based on how she's
speaking to you based on the fact that
she's making herself available to you
she's willing to see you but you're also
going to see that some of these women
are going to be more likely to withhold
validation and compliments about your
looks at first when they're still
getting to know you when they're still
trying to get to know your personality
see if you are a cool dude if you're
more down to earth and chill like you're
not even though you may be a handsome
attractive man you're not this dude who
thinks he's better than everyone else
and is cocky and arrogant when they see
okay like not only is he attractive but
he's actually a cool dude he's solid he
has a good personality cuz personality
does matter it matters in the sense
where they still want to be able to Vibe
with you they still want to if they're
going to spend time with you from more
so a long-term perspective right women
want to be with handsome attractive men
that are like good solid dudes and again
that's more so for like the longterm if
it's more of a short-term thing they
don't really care about that but for
more of a long-term perspective they're
definitely going to be checking for that
personality and again you'll find that
some of these women are going to do
their best to withhold the valid
validation the compliments about your
looks at first because they're still
trying to get to know you they're still
trying to figure you out and they don't
want to blow your head up that's the
biggest thing that I've been told is
women will give me compliments but
they'll be like I don't want to say too
much cuz I don't want to blow your head
up and I'm like no like you're not going
to blow my head up like it's cool you
know what I mean cuz the thing is
especially for us men let's just be
honest we like having our ego stroked I
don't care what anyone says we all like
having our ego stroked by women so like
really it's it's only going to be
helping them but but of course like you
got to car yourself like a good solid
dude you got to be mature man don't act
like an arrogant there's no need
to be doing that there's no need to do
that when the woman's already feeling
you and being attracted to you see dudes
who try to put on that fake Alpha
Persona they know they're operating from
a place of a deficit they know the woman
isn't really feeling them like that
that's why they have to do all those
little Antics and but also keep in
mind man that some of these women they
may delay intimate acts with you as a
byproduct at first just because again
they don't want to throw themselves at
you they don't want to be quick to give
it to you because they want to portray
themselves in a different light because
they are highly attrac to but again they
don't want to just seem like every other
girl they don't want to come off like
every other fan you know what I'm saying
so that's sign number five the reverse
Rockstar effect and then the sixth and
final sign is that you will have women
that will lead with validations women
when they're very attracted to you
they're very feminine very sweet they do
have more confidence to them they will
lead with validation right and this just
usually comes in a form of a compliment
about your physical appearance and this
can take either in person Andor online
and what I found men is that women who
lead with validation usually have no ego
to them and they have high interest in
you like they want you to know that they
find you physically attractive like they
have no problem letting you know they
have no problem stroking your ego
because they are highly attracted to you
and they are into you like for this
screenshot right here this was on hinge
and then this woman very beautiful very
attractive had to blur her face out of
course but she said okay King hello you
know what I mean so like they will come
correct man they will come correct and
have no problem letting you know that
they find you physically attractive
because they have high interest in you
and again this can be in person Andor
online and I've always just seen the
most success with women in terms of
meeting up with them things transpiring
to intimacy all those things
relationships all that I've seen that
the women that voluntarily compliment me
let me know that they found me attracted
Ive and just had no ego to him and and
didn't mind pursuing me at all I've
always had the best success with those
type of women which is why I always
Advocate to men to become the most
attractive version of themselves and be
the man that attracts women that want
them to them because you're going to
have an easier time when you can attract
and you're not chasing when you're the
man that can attract your life in
general not just dating but your life in
general is just going to be so much
easier so with that being said man again
if you want extra help when it comes to
maximizing your looks becoming the most
attractive version of yourself and
attracting the woman that you desire
then again I would highly suggest that
you check out my free I training I'll
have it linked Down Below in the
description and the pin comment with
that being said I hope you got a lot of
value from this video if you did please
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like this and with that being said I
will talk to you in the next video
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