Don't Play This Dangerous Game with Women in Japan
Summary
TLDRIn this video, Young James from Tokyo shares his experience working in a restaurant kitchen and the cultural insights he gained from his Japanese co-workers. They discuss the differences in communication between Japanese and American women, particularly in intimate situations. James is shocked to learn that when Japanese women say 'stop' or 'yummy' during intimate moments, it might not mean the same as in America. His co-workers explain that such phrases are often used to heighten excitement by implying forbidden actions. James, however, firmly states that he would always respect a woman's 'stop' command, regardless of cultural differences. He advises other foreigners in Japan to avoid playing such games, emphasizing the importance of consent and personal safety.
Takeaways
- 🍣 The speaker, Young James, is working part-time in a Tokyo restaurant kitchen and has been getting closer to his Japanese co-workers.
- 🗣️ His co-workers asked him about his experiences dating Japanese women, prompting a conversation about cultural differences in communication.
- 🚫 James mentioned that a Japanese woman he was with used the phrase 'yummy yummy dummy dummy', which he initially misunderstood as a positive response.
- 😳 His co-workers clarified that 'stop' in Japan can sometimes be a signal for the opposite, indicating excitement or desire to continue.
- 🤔 James expressed confusion and discomfort with this cultural norm, stating that he would always respect a woman's request to stop.
- 🚨 He warned other foreigners in Japan not to ignore signals to stop, emphasizing the importance of consent and personal safety.
- 👫 The conversation also touched on the idea that mentioning a boyfriend might be a tactic to make the interaction feel more forbidden or exciting.
- 🏃♂️ James advised against playing games with consent and emphasized the importance of clear communication in relationships.
- 🇯🇵 Despite his love for Japan and its culture, James highlighted that there are certain aspects he finds difficult to adjust to.
- 📢 He encouraged viewers to reach out to him for discussions or to join his Discord community, indicating his openness to further dialogue.
Q & A
What is the main topic discussed in Young James' video?
-The main topic discussed is the cultural differences in communication between Japanese and American women, particularly in intimate situations.
Why did Young James' co-workers ask him about his experiences with Japanese women?
-They were curious about his experiences and wanted to know if there were any cultural differences or peculiarities in his interactions with Japanese women.
What did Young James' co-workers tell him about the phrase 'yummy yummy dummy dummy'?
-They explained that in Japan, when a woman says 'stop' or 'yummy yummy dummy dummy' during intimacy, it might actually mean she is enjoying it and wants the man to continue, contrary to what it would typically imply.
How did Young James react to the cultural difference in communication during intimacy?
-Young James expressed discomfort and confusion, stating that he would not continue if a woman says 'stop', regardless of cultural differences, as he sees it as a serious boundary.
What advice does Young James give to foreigners visiting Japan?
-He advises against playing games or disregarding a woman's request to stop, emphasizing that it's not worth the risk and that one should respect personal boundaries.
What does Young James think about the Japanese culture and lifestyle?
-Young James appreciates the Japanese culture, lifestyle, and people, but he mentions that there are certain aspects he cannot adjust to, such as the cultural differences in communication during intimate situations.
Why does Young James mention the phrase 'grape dude' in his video?
-He uses the phrase 'grape dude' to emphasize the seriousness of stopping if a woman says 'stop', as it would be considered assault in America.
What is the context behind the phrase 'I have a boyfriend' as mentioned by Young James' co-workers?
-His co-workers explained that if a Japanese woman says she has a boyfriend while flirting, it might be a sign that she is interested in the man, using the mention of a boyfriend to heighten the sense of doing something she shouldn't.
What is Young James' stance on the cultural practice of saying 'stop' during intimacy?
-Young James is against this practice, considering it a dangerous game and a misunderstanding of consent, and he emphasizes the importance of respecting a person's wishes when they say 'stop'.
How does Young James conclude his video?
-He concludes by reiterating his love for Japan and its culture but also his inability to adjust to certain cultural practices, and he encourages viewers to respect personal boundaries.
Outlines
😅 Cultural Misunderstandings in Japan
Young James recounts his experiences working in a Tokyo restaurant and the cultural differences he's encountered. He discusses conversations with his Japanese co-workers about dating and relationships, particularly the different meanings of certain phrases in English and Japanese. James shares a story where a woman used a phrase that he interpreted as a stop signal during intimacy, which led to a discussion about how such signals are often used playfully in Japan to heighten excitement. He emphasizes the importance of respecting personal boundaries and not taking risks with these cultural cues.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Tokyo
💡Part-time job
💡Cultural differences
💡Dirty [__]
💡Yummy, dummy, dummy
💡Assault
💡Consent
💡Risk
💡Japanese culture
💡Discord
Highlights
Young James discusses his new part-time job in Tokyo and his interactions with Japanese co-workers.
He shares conversations about cultural differences in intimate relationships.
James is asked by his co-workers about his experiences with Japanese women.
He recounts an incident where a woman used the phrase 'yummy yummy dummy dummy' during intimacy.
James explains that he stopped when the woman said 'stop', as he believed it was a signal to cease.
His co-workers react with surprise, explaining that in Japan, women often say 'stop' to heighten the excitement.
James expresses his discomfort with this cultural practice, emphasizing the importance of consent.
He advises foreigners in Japan to respect personal boundaries and not to engage in risky behavior.
Another co-worker explains that if a Japanese woman mentions having a boyfriend while flirting, it might mean she is interested.
James finds this cultural nuance 'sick and twisted' and reiterates his stance on not taking risks.
He shares his overall positive experience in Japan, appreciating the culture, people, and lifestyle.
James concludes with a warning about not adjusting to certain cultural practices and the importance of personal values.
He invites viewers to message him for topics, join his Discord, or support him on PayPal.
James signs off with his signature 'peace out', ending the video on a friendly note.
Transcripts
what up y'all young James coming at you
from Tokyo as some of you guys may know
I have a new part-time job I'm working
in the kitchen at a restaurant been
getting a little bit closer with my
Japanese co-workers lately all the guys
there it's all guys so we talk about
like dirty [ __ ] and whatnot obviously
what what else did you guys talk about
and they came up to me the other night
my co-workers and they were like hey
Jimmy have you uh have you ever like
have you ever done it with a with a
Japanese lady and I was like well on
twice once or twice and they're like
like tell us what happened like how was
it and they're like was anything weird
was anything different and I was like
was was anything different uh yeah dude
when I
was when I was with the lady she kept
saying yummy yummy dummy dummy which
means like stop not good like yeah yeah
it was different and they just like
stared at me they were just like
[Music]
and I'm like I'm like did I translate
something wrong and they're like like
girls in America don't say that and I
was
like bro you do like a girl's telling
you to stop in America that's called
grape dude like that's assault Brother
of course girls don't do that in America
unless it's like I said unless it's
assault Brother and they were like wait
so what did you do I was like I mean a
girl said stop so I stopped obviously
and like everyone's
[Music]
like I'm like bro no what like like what
are we talking about
here a girl said stop and I
stopped and they were like what the [ __ ]
like then then what happened and I was
like yeah the girl like looked at me
like I was crazy and they're like yeah
right like what this this [ __ ] is
[ __ ] insane and so I was like yeah so
what am I missing here like what what's
what's the whole point like why are
girls doing that here like BR everyone
knows that all girls say that here in
Japan like when you're getting it on
they always say stop and don't and don't
go any further Etc and I was like yeah
like why though and my one friend was
like hold on like you don't know this
girls in Japan like doing things they're
not supposed to be doing so the more
that they say like stop doing it I don't
like this stop stop stop it makes them
feel like it's something they're not
supposed to be doing more and they get
more turned on by that so then you have
to keep going when they say that and I
was like
bro I don't give a [ __ ] I'm not trying
to get me toed if a girl says stop I am
stopping no matter what that is a
dangerous ass game to play bro so and
then and then this other guy goes on to
continue to say like oh like yeah like
when a girl here says like oh I have a
boyfriend I have a boyfriend but like if
you ever wonder like if a girl's like
flirting with you here but then she also
talks about having a boyfriend
dude she definitely wants it from you
the only reason she's saying that she
has a boyfriend is to make herself feel
more and more like she's doing something
she shouldn't be doing and it's turning
around more and I was like dude that is
sick and twisted and I want to go
home n in all reality like that is that
is screwed up and I I I don't understand
that at all but like yo that is crazy
and I I would still say guys if you're
foreign if you're coming to Japan don't
even don't even screw around with that
[ __ ] don't don't play any games it's not
worth the risk even if your Japanese
friends tell you keep going keep going
like BR it is it is not worth the risk
don't [ __ ] play that game you guys
need to no like like like [ __ ] that [ __ ]
I'm not I'm not taking any risks and I
would hope that you guys don't
also um but anyways regardless just like
interesting little knowledge inside
knowledge that I got here from my
Japanese friends at the workplace so
yeah I love Japan things are awesome
here the culture is really cool the
people are been for the most part really
cool to me um the lifestyle is dope I
love it here I'm happy Japanese food is
sick but there are some things that
regardless uh I I just can't adjust to
and and this is one of them so uh I
don't know thanks for watching guys I
guess this is kind of a maybe a funny
story for you and my name is Young James
if you guys want to message me ask me
about something to talk about on video
or if you guys want to join my Discord
hit me up send me a message on Instagram
or $ me $5 on PayPal with your Discord
username in the description otherwise
thank you guys take care and peace out
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