3 Techniques To Keep Any Conversation Going FOREVER
Summary
TLDRThis video script offers tips for maintaining engaging and extended conversations, beneficial for various social settings including networking and relationships. Key techniques include word association, where one uses keywords from the conversation to generate new topics, and self-amusement through discussing personal interests. The speaker also encourages expressing current thoughts and feelings to keep the dialogue natural and engaging. For practice, the script suggests using a word generator or creating 'conversation cards' with random words to improvise sentences or questions.
Takeaways
- 💡 Conversation skills are essential for various social interactions, not just with romantic interests but also in business, friendships, and family gatherings.
- 🔗 The speaker promotes a program called 'Hooked', which is an online course covering attraction, flirting, and communication with women.
- 🗣️ Word association is a basic improvisational skill for conversation, where one uses a word mentioned by the other person to create a related question or statement.
- 🧠 Word association can be challenging when nervous, so practicing active listening and associating with words can improve conversation flow.
- 🎭 Entertainment and self-amusement are key components of attraction; talking about topics you enjoy can help sustain a conversation.
- 🚫 A warning against dominating the conversation with only your interests; it's important to involve the other person and not just focus on yourself.
- 💭 Sharing your thoughts and feelings can be a powerful way to keep a conversation going, as long as it's done with social grace and relevance to the discussion.
- 🤔 The speaker suggests that expressing genuine thoughts and feelings can be more advanced and requires comfort in the conversation.
- 📝 The concept of 'conversation cards' is introduced as a practice method, using index cards or online word generators to create sentences or questions based on random words.
- 🔄 Practicing improvisational skills with conversation cards can help in developing the ability to respond quickly and creatively in social situations.
- 👍 The 'Hooked' program is praised for its effectiveness, with testimonials mentioned, including one from a person who is now planning to propose to his girlfriend.
Q & A
What are some easy techniques discussed in the script to make conversation simple and long-lasting?
-The script discusses techniques such as word association, talking about topics you enjoy and know about, and expressing your thoughts and feelings in the moment to keep a conversation engaging and interesting.
How does the script suggest improving at conversation skills to help with various social interactions?
-The script implies that by mastering conversation techniques, one can improve interactions with women, business networking, friendships, and family gatherings, making conversations more enjoyable and displaying one's personality effectively.
What is the 'Hooked' program mentioned in the script and how does it relate to conversation skills?
-The 'Hooked' program is an online course that covers topics such as attraction, flirting, and effective communication with women. It includes a module dedicated to conversation skills, which is crucial for displaying personality and charisma.
Can you explain the concept of 'word association' as a conversation technique mentioned in the script?
-Word association involves hearing a word from the speaker and then using that word to create a new question or statement. It's a basic improvisational skill that helps in actively listening and responding to the conversation in a relevant and engaging manner.
How does the script suggest using the word association technique during a conversation?
-The script suggests using the word association technique by taking a word mentioned by the other person and relating it back to oneself or asking a question based on that word, even if it's not directly related to one's own experience.
What is the importance of displaying personality in a conversation according to the script?
-Displaying personality in a conversation is crucial because it's a way to attract others, particularly women, who are drawn to a man's charisma and communication skills.
How does the script recommend maintaining a balance between listening and talking about oneself in a conversation?
-The script advises being careful not to dominate the conversation by only talking about oneself. It suggests asking questions and getting the other person involved, while also making sure to express one's own thoughts and interests.
What is the warning given in the script about talking about topics one enjoys?
-The script warns against talking about one's favorite topics for too long without involving the other person, as this can make the conversation one-sided and boring.
How does the script suggest practicing the word association technique?
-The script recommends using conversation cards or an online word generator to practice word association by coming up with sentences or questions based on randomly generated words.
What is the final advice given in the script for someone looking to improve their conversation skills?
-The final advice is to practice improvisational skills using conversation cards or a word generator, and to check out the 'Hooked' program for a deeper dive into conversation techniques and incorporating flirting.
Outlines
🗣️ Mastering Conversation Techniques
This paragraph introduces the importance of conversation skills not only in romantic contexts but also in business networking, friendships, and family gatherings. The speaker emphasizes the significance of displaying personality and charisma through conversation, which is attractive to women. The 'Hooked' program is mentioned as a resource for learning about attraction and communication. The paragraph outlines basic conversation techniques such as word association, where one uses a word mentioned by the other person to create a new question or statement, thereby keeping the conversation engaging and displaying active listening skills. The speaker also touches on the challenges of word association when nervous and provides reassurance that practice will improve this skill.
🤔 Expressing Thoughts and Feelings in Conversation
The second paragraph delves into the concept of self-amusement and entertainment in conversation, suggesting that discussing topics one is knowledgeable and passionate about can sustain a conversation. It warns against dominating the conversation with one-sided topics and emphasizes the importance of involving the other person through questions. The paragraph introduces the technique of openly sharing one's thoughts and feelings as a way to keep the conversation dynamic and genuine. Examples are provided to illustrate how to naturally incorporate personal comments into a conversation. The speaker also mentions the 'Hooked' program again, highlighting its effectiveness in teaching conversation and flirting techniques, and suggests an exercise using 'conversation cards' or a word generator for practicing improvisational skills in conversation.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Conversation
💡Word Association
💡Personality
💡Charisma
💡Networking
💡Improvisation
💡Attraction
💡Entertainment
💡Flirting
💡Self-Amusement
💡Conversation Cards
Highlights
The importance of mastering conversation techniques for various social settings including networking, business, friendships, and family gatherings.
The Hooked program, an online course covering attraction, flirting, and communication with women.
Conversation as a crucial tool to display personality and charisma, which women find attractive.
The concept of word association as a basic improvisational skill in conversation.
Using word association to actively listen and create questions or statements based on a word mentioned by the other person.
The challenge of word association when nervous or flustered and the importance of mindset in conversation.
The balance between talking about oneself and involving the other person in the conversation.
The idea of self-amusement in conversation, discussing topics one enjoys to keep the conversation engaging.
The warning against dominating the conversation by only discussing personal interests without involving the other person.
The technique of expressing one's thoughts or feelings in the moment to keep the conversation natural and flowing.
The importance of not being robotic and the ability to improvise in conversation.
The Hooked program's deeper exploration of incorporating flirting into conversation techniques.
The testimonial of a man who credits the Hooked program for his upcoming marriage proposal, highlighting the program's effectiveness.
The introduction of conversation cards as a practice method for word association in conversation.
Using a word generator or creating index cards with words to practice forming sentences and questions for conversation.
The encouragement to try out the conversation card technique and the anticipation of seeing viewers in the next video.
Transcripts
Let's talk about some easy techniques that you'll be able to use today to be able to
make conversation simple and go on for a very long time. When you get better at conversation
this is not only going to help with women, but it's going to help with networking with business
with friendship with family gatherings with anything. It's going to make conversation
more fun and interesting for you when you learn these techniques. It's going to be huge. If you
want to get a real deep dive into conversation real quick, don't forget to check out my Hooked
program which is a complete online course that teaches you everything about attraction, flirting,
what to say to women, how to meet women, and all that good stuff. There is a link down below. Check
it out. Get Her Hooked dot dom. There's a whole module dedicated to it. Let me give you a few tips
that you can use here today. First understand that conversation is crucial because it's the way to
display your personality which women are attracted to. They're very attracted to a man's personality,
his charisma, the way he's able to communicate with a woman. You want to be able to keep
conversation going for as long as you can and not stale out. Understanding these tips and
implementing these tips are going to help with that. You want to make sure that there's enough
time there for you to display your personality. One of the first things that you could do, which
I've taught many times in the channel is this idea of word association. This is one of your basic
improvisational skills. Meaning, you hear a word from when they say when they're talking and you do
a word association to take that word and then say a question or a statement based off of that word.
For example, if they're talking about their work and they use the word "boss". Just as an example,
you can use the word "boss" and relate it back to yourself. By the way, whether you have a boss or
don't have a boss. That's the beauty of it. It's not something you have to directly relate to. Just
because they're saying it. You just relate to the word. If they say something about "oh yeah,
work's crazy and I just got a new boss", you could say "oh man, that's interesting. I don't even have
a boss. I wonder what's that? What's that like for you?" Or you can say "yeah, you know what,
I have a great relationship with my boss and I'm so glad that it works out for me".
I'm not saying you interrupt them, but you're just able to do this word association that helps you
actively listen. Everyone's doing this anyway. We're all doing word association whether we
like it or not, but I'm just breaking it down for you into an actual technique. But understand that
a lot of guys, and you probably know this, can't do word association as well when they're nervous,
when they're flustered, when they're scared. When you're talking to a woman try to get back into the
mindset of oh. yeah, I want to be listening here. I want to listen, my goal is to listen to what
she's saying so I can grab a word and then relate it back with a question or a statement. That's
word association. That's a pretty simple one. It does take practice. I'm going to give you a little
technique and a little exercise on how you can get better at that in just a little bit here. But
understand this is the first way to be able to make conversation go on for a very long time. Just
by listening and associating with words. Next is this, and a lot of guys don't know this. This taps
into my formula for attraction which I talk about in the Hooked program. One of the parts of this
formula is about entertainment or self amusement where you're having a good time and entertaining
yourself. What I always say in this concept of entertainment is you want to talk about the things
once in a while, that you like to talk about. That you enjoy. One of the easiest ways to keep
conversation going on for a long time is talking about the things that you know about and enjoy.
If you're ever able to latch on to something based off of maybe a word association and then
continue based on that topic that you know, fantastic. Be careful here though, warning...
don't do this too much. Because then you're just going to be not very charismatic because you're
only going to be talking about the things that you're talking about and you're not going to be
necessarily involving her in the conversation. Unless there's a way you could do that by asking
her questions and getting her involved in it. But if you talk about one topic for too long,
obviously that's going to be very boring and very one sided. However, most guys I noticed don't do
that enough. They're way more focused on what she has to say and asking her questions and going into
interview mode where you're just asking her, asking her and then you don't get to say anything.
Make it a point to talk about the things that you want to talk about and that you know best
based on any topic. Anything that you like, whether it's music or something with work
or a hobby. And by the way, you don't even need to use word association. You can just say it. This.
brings me to my next technique. It's this idea of just saying what you're thinking or feeling.
It can be related to that. This is the opposite of word association. Saying anything you're thinking
or feeling. It could be a topic that you know about, that you want to start talking about.
Obviously with social grace. Meaning, don't just blurt things completely out of nowhere where she's
like "we were just talking about this and now he's talking about that". There is a time and
a place for this. But you could just bring it up in conversation. Let me give you an example.
Let's say she starts bringing up food for some reason. What you could do is you could say to her
"oh man, you know what? I am starving right now. I am so hungry. You know what I wish?
I wish right now I had a big hot dog with a ton of mustard and relish" or whatever. Or maybe you can
say how you're feeling like "oh man, it is so cold out here. Isn't it freezing right now? It's just
like freezing. Let's go somewhere else where it's a little bit warmer". You can even say "you know
what, I think you're a very interesting person. This has been an interesting conversation. I've
haven't had an interesting conversation in a long time. I feel like everyone I talked to is really
boring." Again, this is something you're thinking or feeling. It's a little bit more advanced. I
think it's a little bit easier for a guy who's more comfortable in conversation. But still,
I think this is a great way to keep conversation going. Not being afraid to express how you think
or feel in that moment, something that's going on in that moment that you can bring up. The
reason why I'm giving you this tip is because I don't want you to be so robotic and only use
something like word association. Word association is great and you can use it for a while. But it's
a little bit better if you're also able to improv in the sense where you can just bring up things
on your own. I'm going to give you this little exercise in just a second here. But remember
that I go deeper into this idea and how to incorporate flirting into some of this when
you are talking to a girl in my Hooked program, which again is at www.getherhooked. com. Link is
in the description below. Thousands of people have gotten this course. I talk about it quite
a bit on my YouTube channel because it's amazing. I even got a testimonial just recently from a guy
who said he got the program and now he's going to propose to his girlfriend and that it actually
works. It's pretty incredible what it can do. Now for you, what can we do with this information? A
great way to practice word association, and this is something I talk about in the Hooked program
is what I call conversation cards. Or a simple way of doing this without doing it with index cards
is you can go on a search engine, type into the search engine,
word generator or noun generator. Then you go to a website where you click a button and it generates
a word. Then when you see the word, you come up with a sentence, either a statement or a question
based on that word and then click the generate button again. It will bring up a new word and then
again you come up with a sentence or a question. Now you're practicing improvisational skills by
coming up with something to say based off of a word which will then be something you
can use in conversation itself. I call it conversation cards because another
way to do this is just do it on your own. Get a bunch of index cards, write down a word, boom,
write down another word. And then after you've written down 50 different words on an index cards,
pick one up and then come up with a sentence which is either a question or a statement.
Either way it works great. It's a great way to try word association.
Try that out. See how it goes. Hope this helps. And of course, I'll see you on the next video.
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