The Pain of Change is Greater Than The Pain of Comfort. (Bashar Explains it Beautifully)
Summary
TLDRThe script explores the concept of inner peace and the belief that it is achievable. It challenges the notion of stress and control, suggesting that individuals already possess control over their experiences. The speaker emphasizes that our choices are driven by the desire to seek pleasure and avoid pain. Stress is perceived as a choice based on beliefs that change could be more painful. The key to achieving inner peace lies in changing these definitions and beliefs, recognizing that physical reality is a reflection of our inner beliefs. By making conscious what was previously unconscious, one can alter their perceptions and experiences, ultimately leading to a more peaceful state of being.
Takeaways
- 🌟 Inner peace is a state that everyone is capable of achieving, and it is not just a philosophical concept but a tangible reality.
- 🤔 The speaker challenges the listener's belief that everything is possible, yet they are not experiencing inner peace, suggesting a contradiction in their beliefs.
- 🔒 The listener is reminded that they are in control of their experiences and that they are not victims of external circumstances but rather active participants in their life choices.
- 🧘 The concept of inner peace is tied to one's belief systems and definitions, which can be limiting if they are not serving the individual's well-being.
- 💡 The speaker emphasizes that if one is experiencing stress, it is because they believe that the stress is serving them in some way, even if it is not consciously recognized.
- 🛑 The idea that change could be more painful than the current situation is a belief that prevents individuals from seeking inner peace, according to the speaker.
- 🔄 The speaker suggests that changing one's definitions and beliefs about what is pleasurable and painful is the key to achieving inner peace.
- 🌱 The motivation for any action is always in the direction of what is perceived to be most pleasurable and away from what is perceived to be most painful.
- 💭 The speaker encourages the listener to become aware of their unconscious definitions and beliefs that may be causing them stress.
- 🔍 Physical reality is described as a mirror that reflects one's beliefs, showing that the circumstances one finds themselves in are a result of their own choices and perceptions.
- 🚀 The final takeaway is that once an individual believes that inner peace is more pleasurable and attainable, they will naturally move towards it, as motivation is intrinsic and powerful.
Q & A
What is the main theme of the conversation in the transcript?
-The main theme of the conversation is achieving inner peace and understanding the role of personal beliefs and perceptions in one's life experiences.
What does the speaker suggest about the nature of reality?
-The speaker suggests that reality is subjective and shaped by one's definitions and beliefs, rather than being an objective external condition.
According to the speaker, why might someone not be experiencing inner peace despite believing everything is possible?
-The speaker posits that the individual might be experiencing stress because they have belief systems that define their current circumstances as serving them, even if they are stressful.
What does the speaker mean when they say 'you are all already totally in control'?
-The speaker means that individuals have control over their lives and experiences, and that they are always getting what they ask for based on their beliefs and definitions.
Why does the speaker emphasize the importance of changing one's definitions?
-The speaker emphasizes changing definitions because they believe that our perceptions of pleasure and pain are based on these definitions, and changing them can lead to a shift towards more pleasurable experiences, like inner peace.
What is the speaker's view on motivation?
-The speaker views motivation as a natural response to the perceived balance between pleasure and pain, with individuals always moving towards what they believe to be most pleasurable and away from what they perceive as most painful.
How does the speaker describe the relationship between physical reality and one's beliefs?
-The speaker describes physical reality as a mirror or reflector of one's beliefs, suggesting that what happens in one's life is a reflection of their strongest beliefs.
What does the speaker suggest is the first step in achieving inner peace?
-The first step suggested by the speaker is to become aware of and make conscious one's definitions and beliefs that may be causing stress or preventing the experience of inner peace.
Why does the speaker repeatedly stress the importance of definitions in our lives?
-The speaker stresses the importance of definitions because they form the basis of our reality and determine our perceptions, choices, and experiences.
What is the ultimate message the speaker is trying to convey about change and inner peace?
-The ultimate message is that change towards inner peace is possible and instantaneous once an individual believes that it is more pleasurable than their current state and decides to change their definitions and beliefs accordingly.
How does the speaker address the issue of stress in relation to one's belief systems?
-The speaker addresses the issue by suggesting that stress is a choice based on one's belief systems, and that recognizing and changing these beliefs can alleviate stress and lead to inner peace.
Outlines
😌 Achieving Inner Peace Through Belief Systems
The speaker begins by discussing the concept of inner peace and the belief that it is achievable. They question the listener's readiness to believe in its possibility, emphasizing that everything is possible. The dialogue delves into the listener's current stress and how it contradicts their belief in the attainability of inner peace. The speaker suggests that the listener's stress is a result of their belief systems and definitions, which they choose to maintain because they perceive it as less painful than change. The key insight here is that people are always motivated by what they perceive as pleasurable or less painful. The speaker encourages the listener to change their definitions and beliefs, suggesting that once they perceive inner peace as more pleasurable, they will naturally seek it out.
🔍 Understanding Reality Through Personal Definitions
In this paragraph, the speaker continues the discussion on stress and reality, emphasizing that reality is a reflection of one's personal definitions and beliefs. They explain that if someone is experiencing stress, it is likely due to unconscious definitions that they hold about what reality should be. The speaker suggests making these definitions conscious and examining them to change them. They further explain that physical reality is a mirror of one's strongest beliefs, which can manifest in unexpected ways. The speaker highlights the importance of understanding that choices are made based on what one perceives as more pleasurable or less painful, which are influenced by personal definitions and beliefs. The goal is to recognize and change these definitions to align with a more positive and stress-free reality.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Inner Peace
💡Belief Systems
💡Stress
💡Control
💡Pleasure and Pain
💡Reality
💡Motivation
💡Definitions
💡Perception
💡Change
💡Unconscious Definitions
Highlights
The speaker emphasizes the possibility of achieving inner peace and asks if the listener is willing to believe in it.
The speaker questions why the listener isn't experiencing inner peace despite believing everything is possible.
The listener admits that stress in life is preventing them from experiencing inner peace.
The speaker challenges the listener's belief that stress is a limiting factor, suggesting it's a choice.
The speaker asserts that everyone is in control and gets what they ask for, implying that inner peace is attainable through choice.
The speaker provides a clue that the listener is already in control and that their experiences are a result of their choices.
The speaker explains that people are motivated by what they perceive as pleasurable and move away from what they perceive as painful.
The listener is told that their current stress is a choice based on their belief that change would be more painful.
The speaker suggests that changing one's definition of reality is key to achieving inner peace.
The speaker emphasizes that reality is a reflection of one's beliefs and definitions.
The speaker explains that physical reality is a mirror of one's strongest beliefs.
The speaker challenges the listener to make their unconscious definitions conscious to change their reality.
The speaker asserts that changing one's belief about what is pleasurable and what is painful is crucial for achieving inner peace.
The speaker encourages the listener to believe that inner peace is more pleasurable than their current stress.
The speaker assures that once the listener believes in the pleasure of inner peace, they will change instantly.
The speaker concludes that nothing in the universe can stop the listener from achieving inner peace once they decide to change their beliefs.
Transcripts
um I wish to achieve inner peace go
ahead
and did you do
it I don't know how to do that oh you
don't are you sure would you like some
suggestions yes I would please all right
now before I give you the suggestions
I'm going to ask you a question if I may
be so bold may I yes thank
you are you willing are you willing to
believe that inner peace is possible yes
I am why because I believe everything is
possible I see then what is the
difficulty with allowing yourself to
experience inner peace if you believe
everything is possible why aren't you
experiencing inner peace right
now because I have so many stresses in
my life but I thought you said you
believed everything was possible it is
then why do you have stress if
everything is possible what limits you I
let these stresses in my life control me
why do you choose to do
that you must be getting something out
of it or you must believe you're getting
something out of it that's the point and
I'm giving you your first clue right now
okay listen carefully please okay I'm
going to say something very simple and I
really really mean it I really mean it
this is not a
trick this is not a philosophy I really
mean it
you are all already totally in
control you all know what you're
doing you all get what you ask
for instantly immediately and nothing
nothing nothing nothing
nothing
nothing
no is ever for an instant for a microc
for a nanc
ever withheld from you that you do not
decide should be
withheld so what we are saying is this
if you are experiencing the idea that
you do not feel like you have inner
peace then you are working with belief
systems and definitions that say that
whatever it is you are experiencing is
what serves you because you always
always always always are motivated in
the following way are you still paying
attention yes all right this is very
simple but it's very profound pay
attention this is the basis of all
motivation and I mean this is it it is
no more complicated than this that's
it here is the reason you choose to do
anything you will always all of you
every single one of you without
exception you will always make a choice
in the direction of what you perceive to
be most pleasurable you will always move
away from what you perceive to be most
painful always without any fail
whatsoever therefore if you are
experiencing something that seems
stressful and painful to you what does
that tell you in light of what I just
said it tells you this no matter how
stress ful no matter how painful it
seems you have a belief that says to
change would be more
painful therefore you are staying with
what you believe is the lesser of the
pains no matter how painful it is you
have a definition that says this is the
more pleasurable Choice therefore you
believe you're getting something out of
continuing to choose the situations the
circumstances the lifestyles the beliefs
that you are choosing rather than
letting yourself change because you have
a definition and a belief that says that
to change would be more painful than the
pain you're experiencing right now
changing that definition is what needs
to happen because once you change that
definition believe me none of you lack
motivation and as soon as you believe
that inner peace is truly and changing
to Inner Peace is truly more pleasurable
than what you're experiencing now you
will change in an instant and nothing in
the universe can stop you and nothing in
the universe would stop
you did that make some sense yes thank
you we'll go over it again if you want
but the idea really is that basic okay
let's
explore you have definitions this is all
it comes down to definitions there is oh
oh oh pay attention all of you pay
attention here we go here we go
simple there is no
reality
what there is is no
reality except your definition of it but
that's what reality
is so if you have what you call stress
if you are choosing to put yourself into
circumstances and choosing to accept
stress you have a definition that says
this is what reality is most likely
going to be it might even be an
unconscious definition but this is the
whole point is to make these definitions
conscious and the way you can make them
conscious the way you can begin to make
them conscious find out what they are so
you can change them is see what's going
on in your life because physical reality
is a mirror a reflector of the things
you believe most strongly are possible
absolutely a reflector not always
necessarily one for one it may come back
to you in a
picture that is not necessarily what you
think it ought to look like or in an
unexpected way but nevertheless it is a
reflection of what you believe most
strongly is capable of being true
therefore the choices you
make you make because you are motivated
to make those choices you make the
choices that you make because of what
you believe to be true because notice
what I said is what you perceive to be
more painful you move away from what you
perceive to be more pleasurable you move
toward it doesn't mean they actually are
more painful or more pleasurable it's
what you define what you have been
taught to believe is more pleasurable or
more painful that you move to or away
from
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