WHY MEN CHEAT: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT APPRECIATION!
Summary
TLDRIn this insightful discussion, the importance of gratitude in relationships is highlighted. The speaker emphasizes that men often find themselves drawn to women who are ungrateful and entitled, investing more in them due to a psychological desire to see their 'investment' succeed. Conversely, grateful women, who may not demand much, are sometimes overlooked or given less, despite their appreciation. The advice given is to reward gratitude and avoid falling into the trap of investing in entitled behaviors, as this can lead to an unhealthy dynamic and potential dissatisfaction in relationships.
Takeaways
- 🙏 Gratitude is a highly valued trait in relationships, but it's often overlooked or underappreciated.
- 👑 Men sometimes feel unappreciated despite providing a better life for their partners, expecting more recognition and appreciation.
- 🗣 Verbal appreciation is important and can significantly impact how valued one feels in a relationship.
- 💬 Communication is crucial in relationships, as misunderstandings can lead to feelings of unappreciation or entitlement.
- 💔 Meeting someone new can lead to the end of a relationship if the existing partner feels unappreciated or taken for granted.
- 🌟 Men should look for women who are naturally grateful and appreciative, as this can lead to a more balanced and fulfilling relationship.
- 💸 Entitled women often receive more attention and investment from men, despite their lack of gratitude, leading to an imbalance in relationships.
- 🤔 Men may unknowingly reward entitlement rather than gratitude, investing more in relationships where they feel they need to prove themselves.
- 💔 Grateful women who expect less may be overlooked or not rewarded, leading to a sense of unfairness in how relationships are valued.
- 💰 Men should be mindful of their investments in relationships, ensuring they reward gratitude and not just entitlement, to foster healthier dynamics.
- 🌐 Cultural differences, like those between Eastern European women and others, can influence how relationships are approached and valued.
Q & A
What is the main issue discussed in the transcript regarding relationships?
-The main issue discussed is the dynamic of gratitude and entitlement in relationships, particularly how men tend to invest more in women who are not grateful, leading to a potential imbalance and dissatisfaction.
Why does the speaker believe that men might end up rewarding entitled behavior in women?
-The speaker suggests that men might reward entitled behavior because they invest more in women who demand more, and due to this investment, they become more committed to making the relationship work.
What is the speaker's view on the importance of verbal appreciation in relationships?
-The speaker believes that verbal appreciation is significant and can go a long way in making someone feel valued and appreciated in a relationship.
According to the transcript, what is the consequence of a woman being too grateful and not asking for much?
-The consequence is that men might not give them as much because they perceive these women as being content with less, whereas they might invest more in women who are seen as entitled.
What advice does the speaker give to men regarding their relationships with women?
-The advice given is to reward grateful women and not to reward entitled women who constantly want more, as investing in gratitude can lead to healthier and more balanced relationships.
Why do some men struggle to recognize and appreciate the value of a grateful woman, as per the transcript?
-Some men struggle because they might be conditioned to work harder for women who are not as appreciative, and they may not realize the value of a woman who is genuinely grateful for the small things.
What does the speaker suggest is a common misunderstanding about men's behavior in relationships?
-The misunderstanding is that men might mistakenly believe they need to provide more for women who are not grateful, whereas they should be valuing and rewarding the gratitude and low expectations of others.
What is the analogy used in the transcript to explain men's investment behavior in relationships?
-The analogy used is that of investing in Bitcoin; the more one invests, the more dedicated they become to its success, which parallels how men might become more committed to relationships where they have invested more.
What does the speaker imply about the role of physical attraction in maintaining a relationship?
-The speaker implies that as long as a woman keeps a man physically attracted, she is in a strong position in the relationship, regardless of whether she asks for a lot or not.
How does the speaker describe the dilemma faced by women who are naturally grateful and low maintenance?
-The dilemma is that while they are grateful and do not ask for much, they may end up being treated less well or not receiving as much as they deserve, compared to women who are more demanding and entitled.
What is the potential flaw in men's approach to relationships as discussed in the transcript?
-The potential flaw is that men may inadvertently reward entitlement and demand in relationships, investing more in those who ask for more, which could lead to imbalanced and potentially unhealthy dynamics.
Outlines
🙏 Gratitude and Relationship Dynamics
The speaker discusses the importance of gratitude in relationships, particularly how it affects how men treat women. They note that men often feel unappreciated and expect gratitude from their partners. The speaker suggests that verbal appreciation can be very impactful. They also highlight the paradox where men tend to invest more in relationships with entitled women who demand more, rather than those who are grateful and ask for less. This leads to men potentially overlooking the value of gratitude and rewarding entitlement instead. The advice given is for men to recognize and reward the gratitude shown by women, as it can be a more sustainable foundation for a relationship.
💰 Investment in Relationships and Its Consequences
This paragraph delves into the concept of investment in relationships, drawing parallels with financial investments. The speaker explains that the more a man invests in a woman, the more committed he becomes to making the relationship work, similar to how one might feel about a financial investment. This can lead to men being more dedicated to relationships with women who require more investment, even if it means enduring negative dynamics. The speaker advises that it's crucial to invest wisely in relationships, emphasizing the need to choose partners who are deserving of such investment. They conclude by suggesting that men should be mindful of their investments and ensure they are not overly committed to relationships that are not beneficial or healthy.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Appreciation
💡Gratitude
💡Entitlement
💡Investment
💡Reward
💡Relationship Dynamics
💡Attraction
💡Sunk Costs
💡Low Maintenance
💡Gold Digger
💡Motivation
Highlights
The importance of gratitude in relationships and how it affects how one is treated by their partner.
The expectation of verbal appreciation and its significance in personal relationships.
The paradox of men investing more in women who are less grateful, leading to a cycle of entitlement.
The dilemma of men falling in love with those they invest in, regardless of gratitude levels.
The observation that grateful, non-entitled women may be overlooked because they ask for less.
The contrast between the treatment of low-maintenance women versus those with high expectations.
The advice for men to reward gratitude in women rather than rewarding entitlement.
The discussion on the unintended consequences of being too grateful and low maintenance in relationships.
The insight that men may be more attracted to women who require more investment.
The analogy of investment in relationships compared to investment in business, such as Bitcoin.
The advice to men to ensure they are investing in the right women to avoid wasted effort.
The cultural observation of Eastern European women requiring more investment in relationships.
The commentary on men's tendency to be more dedicated to relationships where they have invested more.
The notion that men may overlook the value of gratitude in favor of the excitement of pursuit.
The advice for women to maintain their gratitude while also ensuring they are not undervalued.
The importance of recognizing and rewarding the qualities of being appreciative and low maintenance in a partner.
The discussion on the balance between being grateful and ensuring one's needs and desires are met in a relationship.
Transcripts
praise be to God yeah
and you would think that the person
that's receiving that better life would
would be like thank you treat you like a
king not that I need to be have my ass
kiss but just
not feeling like the opposite of that
and what would treating you appreciating
would that be what what would be a
gesture that would make you feel
appreciated do you need verbally or do
you need acts of service or no verbally
verbally okay and that doesn't even
happen that goes a long way with me
yeah and even that is hard to get
sometimes with well I mean just in one
case M okay and even when you expressed
it would they still struggle oh I I
wasn't see I'm not that aware sometimes
of what's going on the Dynamics of a
relationship you don't know why you're
feeling this way all I know is I met
somebody else and that appr F that yeah
it's like that was the end of it but I
would say one trait that men need to
look for in women is a woman who's
naturally grateful grateful and they say
oh we don't like entitled women but
here's the problem which men have when a
woman is not grateful it actually makes
a man work harder for her cuz let's say
for example you take her to a nice
restaurant and she's a bit unimpressed
if you're attracted to her enough just
take her to even better restaurant and
so what ends up happening is you put up
with a lot of crap they put up with a
lot of crap so what happen is if they
meet a girl she's attracted to and she's
just like instead of being like no
they're like okay let me do more so they
end up investing more and more into
entitled women whereas the woman that
expects less they give her less so they
end up investing in the wrong women and
and Men we not we men you guys fall in
love with whoever you invest in here's
the problem that a lot of grateful non-
entitled women find they find that
because they are so grateful for the
small things and because they don't ask
for a lot men don't give them a lot
because there's some women out there
that would just be happy with the
takeaway and just be you know don't need
a lot so what they find is men don't
give them a lot but that same man might
meet a gold digger two years later and
you see that he's buying her a car and
he's taking her here and he's and she's
thinking I didn't ask for anything
because I was so grateful to be with you
but you didn't reward that gratitude but
they reward the entitlement of other
women well see to me to me to my way of
thinking and correct me if I'm wrong but
I always feel
like it's my job to motivate her to want
to motivate me how to inspire me what
does that
mean be so physically attracted be so
appreciative be so fun to hang out with
be
so whatever whatever great qualities she
has because what women sometimes feel is
that the more you kind of have accept
the bare minimum just to show him that
you're not there for the wrong reasons
the worse they treat you and whereas
when you are that woman that says is is
it you just got one bed my ex had two
men work harder for that girl so they
just learn that men reward entitlement
and they don't really reward gratitude
there are so many women that F feel like
they didn't ask for anything never
expected anything whatever it is and
they got nothing in return and there's
other women who are just by Design go
diggers by Design entitled and they get
things straight away and so what yeah I
see what you're saying yeah and so
that's why it feels a bit like it's so
strange what men reward so that's why we
we want to be grateful and we want to be
low maintenance but we realize when we
do that you treat us less
well all so my advice to men would be as
long as you keep the guy physically
attracted to you I think you're you're
in great shape you're in great shape
yeah I would say my advice to men is
always to reward gr grateful women
reward those women don't reward the
entitled woman who wants more and more
and more and more reward that woman that
doesn't ask for anything who doesn't
might not ask for anything she still
deserves it I know men who says oh my ex
was such a goldig girl she left with all
my money my new wife is amazing she
doesn't ask for anything I don't have to
buy her anything s stinginess is not a
good question it's not good so reward
reward gratitude in women women that are
grateful just because they don't ask
doesn't mean they don't deserve reward
those women rather than the entitled
ones because the more you invest in
entitled women the more you'll want the
relationship to work because you've just
invested so much so reduce your
investment I find because I'm I'm very I
tend to be generous when I am generous
I'm more attracted yeah because she it's
a weird I don't know understand it and
it's so interesting like a fetish yeah
it's so interesting because I live in
Dubai and I work with lots of different
types of women one thing I noticed about
Eastern European women is they require
investment they require investment and
men are addicted to that because they
want to see like men are still
businessmen at the end of the day when
you invest in something you're more
dedicated to it if I put $0 into a
Bitcoin I don't really care if bitcoin's
up or down but if I put 10 million I now
am loyal to my Bitcoin same thing
applies to women the more you invest in
her the more you want it to work out so
because you don't want to see a loss in
your investment so make sure you're
investing in the right
ones great advice yeah all right Sadia
always interesting thank you so much for
having me thank you thank you thank all
right we'll do this again hopefully inah
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