The BEST First Date Ideas (RANKED)

Summary

In this video, the host creates a fun and insightful tier list of popular first date ideas, ranked based on their casualness, intimacy, and low investment. From bars and lounges to bowling and coffee dates, the host explores each idea’s strengths and weaknesses. The ranking system includes categories like 'Digital Romeo,' 'Seasoned Playboy,' and 'Beta Cuck,' giving viewers a humorous yet practical guide to choosing the best date options. With tips on what makes a great first date, the host provides a mix of advice and entertainment for anyone navigating the dating world.

Takeaways

• 😀 First dates should be casual, intimate, and low-investment, allowing both parties to assess compatibility without too much pressure.
• 🍸 A bar date is ideal because it offers a casual and intimate environment, with low investment if not in an overly expensive place.
• 🍔 Fast casual food dates fall under the 'Average Joe' category, as they aren't intimate enough, often lack a setting for physical escalation, and can be awkward due to eating habits.
• 🎳 Bowling is a fun, low-investment date that promotes intimacy through physical activity, and it’s great for casual interactions.
• 🎥 Movie dates rank low for first dates as they are too quiet, prevent meaningful conversation, and hinder physical escalation.
• 💃 Club dates might surprise you, but they can be very effective for a first date, with a fun atmosphere that makes it easy to physically escalate and flirt.
• 🚶‍♂️ A walk in the park (or similar scenic walk) is one of the best first date ideas, offering a relaxed, low-investment environment with room for physical escalation.
• 🏋️‍♂️ Gym dates are low-investment and can work well if both parties are into fitness, although they aren’t great for intimacy after the date due to sweat.
• 🍷 Lounges combine the best of bars and comfortable settings, making them a top-tier date for those looking for a relaxed yet intimate environment.
• ☕ Coffee dates are often seen as too platonic and don’t facilitate intimacy, making them a less ideal choice for a first date.
• 🛍️ Shopping as a first date is a big no-no. It's seen as 'beta' behavior, as it involves excessive spending without genuine connection or effort from the woman.

Q & A

What are the three main characteristics of a great first date, according to the video?

The three main characteristics of a great first date are: 1) Casual, meaning it's in a relaxed environment without too much pressure. 2) Intimate, where the atmosphere allows for flirting or physical escalation. 3) Low investment, so it's a way to gauge compatibility without committing a lot of time or money.

Why is the bar considered a top-tier first date idea?

The bar is considered a top-tier first date idea because it's casual, intimate, and low investment. It provides a comfortable environment for conversation, and the cost is reasonable unless you're going to an expensive bar.

Why does fast casual food fall into the 'Average Joe' category?

Fast casual food falls into the 'Average Joe' category because while it is casual, it isn't intimate. Eating food in a casual setting can feel platonic, and many women are self-conscious about eating in front of someone they're dating, making it less ideal for a first date.

What makes bowling a good first date option?

Bowling is a good first date option because it's casual, provides an opportunity for physical activity, and can create an intimate atmosphere. It allows for easy conversation, and you can combine it with drinks or food, making it low investment.

Why are movie dates considered a bad first date?

Movie dates are considered bad because they don't allow for meaningful conversation or emotional connection. Most of the date is spent in silence, making it hard to get to know the person, and physical escalation feels awkward due to the movie setting.

What makes clubbing a good first date, according to the video?

Clubbing is considered a good first date because it allows for physical escalation through dancing, creating a flirty atmosphere. It's also casual and can lead to a fun night of talking and drinking, which increases the chances of getting closer to your date.

Why is a walk in the park ranked as 'Seasoned Playboy'?

A walk in the park is ranked as 'Seasoned Playboy' because it's casual, low investment, and intimate. Walking together in a scenic setting allows for easy conversation, and small physical gestures like holding hands or putting an arm around the person can naturally escalate intimacy.

What makes gym dates fall under 'Amateur Playboy'?

Gym dates fall under 'Amateur Playboy' because they provide a good opportunity for physical connection, but it's not ideal for a first date since you're both likely to be sweaty. While it can create comfort and a shared interest, it doesn't necessarily lead to a lot of intimacy right away.

Why is taking a girl shopping on a first date considered a bad idea?

Taking a girl shopping on a first date is considered a bad idea because it can appear as though you're trying to impress her with money, which can come off as desperate or insincere. It lacks effort and intimacy, and the girl might not feel the need to reciprocate any attraction.

Why is a coffee date considered too platonic for a first date?

A coffee date is considered too platonic because it tends to feel more like an interview or casual conversation, making it difficult to build intimacy or escalate physical connection. It's low investment but can often feel more like a friendship-building activity than a romantic one.