7 Things That Attract Others Subconsciously To You

Summary

This video from Psych2Go explores seven ways to make yourself more attractive, highlighting factors beyond just looks. These tips include wearing sunglasses to add mystery, embracing androgyny, and being kind, as studies suggest these traits can enhance your appeal. Owning a pet and showing emotional awareness also increase attractiveness. The video further mentions that tilting your head downward and playing musical instruments can make you more desirable. Each tip is backed by research, offering practical advice to boost both physical and emotional attractiveness.

Takeaways

• 😎 Wearing sunglasses can make you appear more attractive by creating facial symmetry and adding a sense of mystery.
• 🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Being androgynous, with both masculine and feminine traits, can increase attractiveness and improve social perception.
• 😊 Kindness enhances physical attractiveness, as positive personality traits create a halo effect.
• 🐶 Owning a pet makes you more attractive, signaling responsibility and care, and increases your chances of forming connections.
• 🗣 Clearly expressing emotions and understanding others' emotions improves interpersonal attraction.
• 🙃 Tilting your head downward slightly can make you appear more attractive and behaviorally alluring.
• 🎸 Playing a musical instrument, especially complex music, is linked to higher attractiveness due to perceived cognitive abilities.
• 💖 People are drawn to those they can emotionally understand and connect with on a deeper level.
• 🐾 Adopting a rescue pet further enhances attractiveness, as it shows compassion and care for animals.
• 🎶 Musical talent may signal good genetics, making musicians appear more appealing as potential partners.

Q & A

What is one reason sunglasses can make someone appear more attractive?

Sunglasses can make someone appear more attractive by hiding asymmetries around the eyes, making the face seem more symmetrical. They can also add a sense of mystery, as the eyes are often a vulnerable source of information.

What does the 1983 study by Dr. Linda A. Jackson suggest about androgyny and attractiveness?

Dr. Linda A. Jackson's study suggests that people with both masculine and feminine attributes are often perceived as more attractive. Androgynous individuals are seen as better adjusted, more likable, and having an advantage in the workplace compared to those with strictly masculine or feminine traits.

How does kindness affect physical attractiveness according to the Chinese study?

The Chinese study found that people who were perceived as kind were also seen as more physically attractive. This is an example of the 'halo effect,' where positive personality traits influence how attractive a person appears.

How does owning a pet affect one’s attractiveness?

Owning a pet can increase attractiveness by signaling responsibility, care, and commitment. In one study, a man with a dog was three times more likely to receive a woman's phone number than when he approached alone.

What does the 2016 study on emotional expression reveal about attraction?

The 2016 study shows that people are more attracted to those whose emotions they can easily understand. The ability to recognize and interpret someone’s feelings activates reward circuits in the brain, making the person more attractive.

How does tilting your head impact perceived attractiveness?

A study published in 2015 found that women who tilted their heads slightly downward in photos were rated as more attractive and behaviorally alluring. This head tilt was preferred in 64-73% of cases.

Why might learning to play a musical instrument make someone more attractive?

Learning to play a musical instrument can make someone more attractive because it demonstrates cognitive complexity, which can be a desirable trait. Women may find men who can create complex music more appealing as potential partners for genetic benefits.

How does the 'halo effect' influence perceptions of attractiveness?

The 'halo effect' occurs when a person's positive personality traits, like kindness, enhance how attractive they appear to others. People tend to rate someone as more physically appealing if they have favorable personality traits.

What did the study involving Antoine and Gwendu the dog reveal about dating success?

The study revealed that Antoine's success in getting a woman’s phone number increased from 10% to 30% when he was accompanied by a dog. This suggests that having a pet can make someone seem more approachable and responsible.

What role does facial symmetry play in attraction?

Facial symmetry plays a significant role in attraction as it is often associated with health and genetic fitness. Sunglasses, for example, can enhance perceived symmetry by covering up imperfections, making a person appear more attractive.