8 Signs You Have Self Respect

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25 Jul 202206:02

Summary

TLDRIn this video, Amanda explores the concept of self-respect, identifying eight pillars that define it: being one's own best friend, knowing priorities, respecting others, admitting mistakes, maintaining boundaries, standing by one's values, recognizing self-worth, and surrounding oneself with respectful people. She challenges the viewer to reflect on these pillars and consider how they can cultivate self-respect to improve their mental health and personal relationships.

Takeaways

  • 📞 Amanda reluctantly helps a friend who has been unsupportive in the past, highlighting the need for self-respect.
  • 🤔 Self-respect is not just about being kind to others but also about treating oneself with the same kindness and care.
  • 🌟 Being your own best friend means treating yourself with the same respect and care as you would a loved one.
  • 🎯 Knowing your priorities helps maintain self-respect, even when faced with tempting alternatives.
  • 🌈 Respecting others, regardless of their status, is a sign of having self-respect.
  • 🙇‍♀️ The ability to admit when you're wrong and apologize is a sign of humility and self-respect.
  • 🚧 Maintaining healthy boundaries is crucial for self-respect, ensuring your time and energy are spent wisely.
  • 🌳 Standing by your values, even when unobserved, is a key component of self-respect.
  • ❤️ Recognizing your own worth and reasons to love yourself can help build self-respect.
  • 👥 Surrounding yourself with people who respect you is essential for maintaining self-respect.

Q & A

  • What is the main issue Amanda faces with her friend Susie?

    -Amanda faces the issue of Susie constantly asking for favors and not being there when Amanda needed her, which causes Amanda to feel drained and conflicted about helping her.

  • Why does Amanda continue to help Susie despite her frustration?

    -Amanda continues to help Susie because she is a good person who wants to avoid conflict and possibly deep down hopes that Susie will change her behavior.

  • What is the first pillar of self-respect mentioned in the script?

    -The first pillar of self-respect is being your own best friend, which means knowing how to respect and befriend yourself.

  • How does treating oneself with kindness relate to self-respect?

    -Treating oneself with kindness is a sign of high self-respect because it shows that you value yourself as you would a loved one.

  • What does it mean to know your priorities according to the script?

    -Knowing your priorities means sticking to what is most important to you, even when faced with difficult choices or temptations.

  • Why is it important to respect others to gain self-respect?

    -Respecting others, regardless of their status, shows that you have enough self-respect to understand that treating people well is its own reward and not dependent on their position.

  • What does the ability to apologize signify about a person's self-respect?

    -The ability to apologize signifies that a person has both confidence and humility, acknowledging their mistakes and showing a willingness to grow and improve.

  • How does maintaining healthy boundaries contribute to self-respect?

    -Maintaining healthy boundaries helps protect one's time and energy, ensuring they are invested in fulfilling activities and relationships, which in turn builds self-respect.

  • What role does integrity play in self-respect?

    -Integrity is the foundation of self-respect. When actions and words are rooted in integrity, it naturally leads to a self-respecting mindset and a sense of inner peace.

  • Why is it beneficial to list your own positive traits to improve self-respect?

    -Listing positive traits helps remind you of your value and worth, reinforcing self-respect and providing motivation to continue adhering to your values.

  • How does surrounding oneself with respectful people enhance self-respect?

    -Surrounding oneself with respectful people reinforces self-respect by providing a supportive environment that validates and encourages one's own respect for oneself.

  • What is the script's stance on the importance of self-respect in mental health?

    -The script emphasizes that self-respect is crucial for mental health, and it encourages maintaining self-respect as a continuous journey, not just a destination.

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