ALLAH MADE THIS HARAM AT FIRST NIGHT IN BED, STOP IT RIGHT NOW

Summary

The script discusses the Islamic rituals and etiquette for the first night of Nikah, emphasizing the importance of prayer, communication, and mutual comfort between the spouses. It outlines the Sunnah practices such as leading Salah, offering a drink, and reciting specific duas for protection and blessings. The script also stresses the prohibitions against sharing intimate details and the restrictions on intercourse during menstruation and postnatal bleeding.

Takeaways

• 👥 The first night of Nikah is a significant moment for Muslims, filled with excitement and tension.
• 🕋 It's important for Muslims to know the proper etiquette and Sunnah for the first night of marriage.
• 🙏 The first action after meeting in privacy should be to pray Salah, with the husband leading.
• 📖 If the wife is unable to pray, she should perform Dua instead.
• 🤲 The husband should place his hand on the wife's forehead and recite a specific Dua asking for good and protection from evil.
• 🥤 It's Sunnah for the husband to offer his wife a drink or sweet dish after Salah.
• 🚫 There is a specific Dua to recite before intimacy, asking Allah to keep evil away from the couple and their future children.
• 💬 Communication and spending time together are essential for building comfort and intimacy.
• 🚫 Intercourse is forbidden during the wife's menstrual cycle or postnatal bleeding.
• 🈲 It is Haram to engage in anal intercourse.
• 🤐 Sharing private marital experiences with others is strictly forbidden in Islam.

Q & A

What is the significance of the first night of Nikah in Islam?

The first night of Nikah is significant as it marks the first time the newlywed couple meets in privacy after being married. It is a moment of excitement and tension, and it's important for Muslims to know the proper etiquette and Sunnah to follow.

What is the first thing the couple should do when they meet in privacy after Nikah?

The first thing the couple should do is to pray Salah, with the husband leading the wife. If it is nighttime, the prayers can be read aloud or quietly.

Is there a specific Dua that the husband should recite after the Salah on the first night of marriage?

Yes, the husband should place his hand on the forehead or the front part of the hair of his bride and recite a Dua asking Allah for the good in her and refuge from the evil in her.

What is the Sunnah regarding offering a drink to the wife on the first night?

It is Sunnah for the husband to offer his wife a drink or a sweet dish or dessert. The Prophet (S.A.W.) offered a cup of milk to his wife on their first night.

Is there a specific Dua to be recited before intimacy between the spouses?

Yes, there is a Dua to be recited before intimacy: 'Oh Allah, keep shan away from us and from what You provide us through this marriage.' This Dua is to protect the children from shan.

Is it mandatory to have intimacy on the first night of marriage?

No, it is not mandatory. It is completely up to mutual agreement and comfortability. The couple should communicate and get to know each other before proceeding with intimacy.

What are the restrictions regarding intercourse in Islam?

Intercourse is forbidden during the wife's menstrual cycle or postnatal bleeding (nas). It is also forbidden through the anus.

Is it permissible to share intimate experiences with others after the first night?

No, it is Haram to share private intimate experiences with anyone, even close friends. Intimacy should remain between the spouses.

What is the importance of communication on the first night of marriage?

Communication is crucial for building comfort and understanding between the spouses. It helps in avoiding misunderstandings and potential psychological impacts.

What are some ways the couple can achieve comfortability on the first night?

The couple can achieve comfortability by talking, sharing a meal, and spending time together in a relaxed environment.