Justin Waller's INSANE Advice To Young Men To Achieve DREAM LIFE!
Summary
TLDRThe speaker encourages young men to stop feeling inadequate if they aren’t millionaires in their 20s, emphasizing that such expectations are unrealistic and often driven by social media illusions. Instead, the focus should be on self-improvement, hard work, and personal growth, with the goal of becoming successful in their 30s or 40s. Success is not just about money but also about fitness, intellect, style, and networking. The speaker advises young men to be patient, diligent, and to work toward becoming a version of themselves that their future self will be proud of.
Takeaways
- 💡 Young men should not feel guilty or upset about not being millionaires in their 20s.
- 📈 Becoming a millionaire in your 20s is not as common as social media portrays, and it's often exaggerated.
- 🚀 While it's possible to achieve wealth early with hard work and the right business model, it's not a realistic expectation for most.
- 💪 The focus should be on self-development and becoming the best version of oneself over time, especially as men mature in their 30s.
- 🏆 Aiming to become a millionaire by 40 is more attainable for the average man in today's world.
- 🚫 Many young influencers who appear wealthy on social media may not be as successful as they claim, often using it to sell courses or gain attention.
- ⚖️ Men should focus on balancing multiple aspects of their lives—money, fitness, style, intelligence, and social connections—to truly succeed.
- ⏳ Achieving success in all areas of life takes time, and expecting to have everything figured out before 30 is unrealistic.
- 🔄 Developing these various attributes requires patience and consistency over the years.
- 🎯 Set long-term goals and work on self-improvement, understanding that success comes with time, diligence, and effort.
Q & A
What is the main message the speaker wants to convey to young men?
-The speaker emphasizes that young men should not feel pressured to become millionaires in their 20s. Instead, they should focus on self-development, working hard, and understanding that financial success may take time.
Why does the speaker believe becoming a millionaire in your 20s is unrealistic?
-The speaker believes it is unrealistic because it often takes time to develop key attributes like business skills, intellect, fitness, and personal growth. While it is possible, it is rare and often hyped by social media.
How does the speaker view social media's influence on young men?
-The speaker thinks social media creates unrealistic expectations, with many influencers exaggerating their wealth to sell courses or boost their social image, which can mislead young men.
What does the speaker say young men should focus on instead of immediate wealth?
-The speaker advises young men to focus on self-improvement, including fitness, intellect, and personal development, rather than stressing about financial success in their early years.
What does the speaker mean by 'buckets' in life?
-The speaker uses 'buckets' to refer to different areas of personal development, such as fitness, intellect, style, networking, and financial success. He emphasizes that it takes time to fill these buckets and develop into a well-rounded individual.
How does the speaker compare financial success with other aspects of personal development?
-The speaker highlights that wealth alone does not make someone successful. A person may be rich but lack fitness, intelligence, or social skills, making them just as incomplete as someone with good physical health but no financial success.
What advice does the speaker offer to young men regarding long-term goals?
-The speaker advises young men to give themselves grace and time to achieve their goals, understanding that true success and personal development take years, not months.
What warning does the speaker give about wasting time?
-The speaker warns that while young men should not rush to become rich, they must also not waste time. Opportunities will come, and they should be diligent in preparing themselves by learning and growing.
Why does the speaker believe it’s important to keep working hard even if success doesn’t come immediately?
-The speaker believes that hard work and self-improvement will eventually pay off, and when opportunities arise, those who have diligently prepared themselves will be ready for success.
What final piece of advice does the speaker offer to young men about planning for the future?
-The speaker suggests making long-term goals, such as planning for where they want to be by age 30, even if they are not fully qualified yet. By continuously working on themselves, they will build a life that others may never experience.
Outlines
💡 Embrace Self-Acceptance in Your 20s
The speaker emphasizes that young men should forgive themselves for not being millionaires in their 20s. He explains that while it is possible to achieve financial success early on, it's not realistic for most people. Instead of feeling like failures, young men should focus on personal growth and development, working towards long-term goals, especially by their 30s and 40s.
🚫 Beware of Social Media Illusions
Many young men feel pressured by social media to appear wealthy, often leading to feelings of inadequacy. The speaker cautions that some influencers only pretend to be rich to gain attention or sell products. Young men should not compare themselves to these misleading portrayals but instead focus on their own path and development.
🏗️ Focus on Self-Development
Personal growth in life involves multiple 'buckets,' such as financial success, physical fitness, intellect, and social skills. The speaker suggests that being well-rounded is more important than excelling in just one area. Achieving this balance takes time, and young men should be patient with themselves as they build these various aspects of life.
📅 Long-Term Success Takes Time
Success in multiple areas of life—whether it be wealth, fitness, or intelligence—cannot be expected by the age of 30 for most people. It requires time and dedication to develop these qualities. The speaker encourages young men to avoid beating themselves up over unrealistic expectations and instead focus on gradual self-improvement.
⏳ Give Yourself Time but Act Diligently
The speaker advises young men to give themselves the grace to understand that achieving their life goals will take time. However, they should remain diligent in working on themselves, continually learning, and preparing for the opportunities that will come their way. By being consistent, they can ultimately live a fulfilling life that many others won’t experience.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Self-Forgiveness
💡Millionaire in 20s
💡Realistic Expectations
💡Personal Development
💡Social Media Influence
💡Life Buckets
💡Long-Term Perspective
💡Mentorship
💡Comparison Trap
💡Continuous Improvement
Highlights
Forgive yourself for not being a millionaire in your 20s.
It's not realistic to expect to be a millionaire at 22.
Social media often portrays a false image of success.
Many young men who seem rich online are not actually as wealthy as they appear.
Focus on self-development rather than material success in your 20s.
You can become a millionaire by 40 with hard work and the right business model.
It's important to avoid self-hate or negative feelings if you're still building yourself in your 20s.
Many influencers try to sell an image of success to deceive followers.
Work on becoming better every day; that's the real measure of success.
There are different 'buckets' of success, such as fitness, wealth, style, and intellect.
No single bucket defines success; a balance across them is essential.
Being wealthy doesn't compensate for being unhealthy or uninteresting.
It takes time to develop various aspects of being a man, and rushing this process is unrealistic.
Set long-term goals, but give yourself the grace to grow and develop over time.
You don't have time to waste, as opportunities will come, but make sure you're ready for them.
Transcripts
let me tell you this what I'm about to
say is very important and needs to be
heard and needs to like really be taken
in by any young man watching this
podcast is that you need to forgive
yourself or remove any negative feelings
you have about not being a millionaire
in your 20s that to me even though it
randomly happens sometimes from my
experience that's not number one as real
as you think it is I think a lot of it
is laring and then number two it's not a
realistic expectation can you do it if
you work really hard and you getting the
right business model yes I think you can
but to hate yourself or to be upset with
yourself or to feel like you have failed
as a man when you were still developing
as one is not a good way to look at it
it's not a healthy way to look at it and
to be quite honest with you it's not
even true what you should be focusing on
is the efforts that you're putting into
yourself to become that person that you
could become in your 30s I do think that
you should be a millionaire by 40 that's
very obtainable for the average guy
especially in 2024 but to think that you
should be a millionaire at 22 is hor
[ __ ] you're not failing you're seeing a
hyped up expectation of what people on
social media would want you to believe a
lot of times those young men that are
acting like they're so rich they're not
and they're just trying to trick you
into either buying their course or
they're trying to trick a bunch of young
women into thinking they're a big boss
so they can get a couple extra
girlfriends you're not failing if you're
working hard and you're developing
yourself and you're studying becoming
better every day you're doing exactly
what you need to do and I can tell you
this from personal experience you will
be shocked at just how far far ahead you
are of the influencers you meet when you
finally meet them keep your head down
work your ass off you're not failing
it's okay you don't need to be rich
right now just go to work on you and
you'll be ready for everything when the
time comes and that opportunity comes in
front of you I just want to give young
men that permission because there's
buckets in life there are plenty of
people that I know that are
substantially richer than me like they
make me look homeless almost they're so
rich I wouldn't trade places with them
for men I believe there's buckets
there's a money bucket there's style
there's swag there's networking there's
your Fitness which is a huge one there's
intellect and being intelligent and
being able to have a conversation and
connect with a person a lot of these
buckets fills up you can see a guy
that's in world class shape Best Fitness
guy you ever see on the planet if he's
dead broke doesn't matter you can see
the richest guy that you'll ever meet
own skyscrapers billionaire whatever but
if he's fat and out of shape and
uninteresting and not good to be around
like all the things that you have to
develop to be a man then he's just as
worthless as the guy that's in shape
this broke and so you have to understand
it takes a long time to develop all of
these different attributes and all of
these different categories for you to
think that you're going to have that all
put together sub30 years old is highly
unlikely unless you have some kind of
special father or special Mentor in your
life that can directly help you now my
goal is that we're helping guys find the
right path but they still have to go do
the work on themselves we don't get to
talk to these guys every day we're just
trying to share with them what we saw
along our path at that time and just
hope that they take what they can from
it what they will and become the best
person they can but to think that
they're going to have it all figured out
at a super young age is just not true
and they shouldn't beat themselves up
about it it's not real if there is a
final sort of message that you could
give if you had to wrap it up in one
sentence what would it be when I was 24
I made goals for 30 that I was not yet
qualified to make if you're a young man
and you want to create the life that you
truly want you have to give yourself
enough Grace to understand it might take
a minute that said you're on the clock
you don't have time to waste because
your opportunity is coming to you so be
diligent about studying what you want to
become learning that as deeply as
possible taking care of your body and
being a version of yourself that the
older version of you will be incredibly
proud of if you do this you will live a
life that many men will never experience
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