Menitipkan anak kepada orang tua menurut islam- Ust syafiq riza basalamah
Summary
TLDRThe script emphasizes the importance of traditional family roles, highlighting that a husband is responsible for providing for his family, while the wife should focus on raising children. It discusses the challenges of balancing work and parenting, stressing the need to honor parental responsibilities and support aging parents without overburdening them. The speaker touches on spiritual themes, urging reliance on Allah for sustenance and encouraging faith, repentance, and perseverance through hardships like unemployment. It emphasizes that true fulfillment comes from spiritual devotion and maintaining strong faith, even during difficult times.
Takeaways
- 🙏 Husbands are leaders and are responsible for providing for their families.
- 👶 Mothers should prioritize caring for their children, even if they also work to support the family.
- 👵 Grandparents may enjoy spending time with their grandchildren, but should not be burdened with full-time childcare.
- 🤲 Parents should strive to make their own parents happy without overloading them with responsibilities.
- 📜 Our sustenance (rizq) is predetermined by Allah, and we will not die until we have received all of it.
- 💪 Hijrah (migration for faith) requires struggle and tests, similar to what the Prophet’s companions endured.
- 🌍 This world is temporary, and faith holds greater value than any material possessions.
- 🕌 Acts of worship, like two rakaats before Fajr, are more valuable than worldly goods.
- 🌦 Despite challenges like pandemics or job losses, one’s sustenance remains with Allah and will not be missed.
- 🧘♂️ During trials, one must strengthen faith, seek forgiveness, and stay resilient as the trials will pass.
Q & A
What is the central message of the speaker in the script?
-The central message is about the responsibilities of husbands and wives in a household, emphasizing that husbands should provide for the family, while wives should primarily focus on taking care of the children. The speaker also discusses balancing work and family responsibilities without overburdening parents or grandparents.
How does the speaker view the role of women in the household?
-The speaker believes that a woman's primary role is as a caregiver, focusing on raising and educating children. While helping with the family's financial needs is acceptable, it should not take precedence over her responsibilities as a mother.
What does the speaker say about parents or grandparents taking care of their grandchildren full-time?
-The speaker advises against leaving children with grandparents full-time, as it could burden them. Instead, it should be an occasional joy for grandparents rather than a daily obligation.
What point does the speaker make regarding financial provisions and faith?
-The speaker emphasizes that ultimately, it is Allah who provides for people’s sustenance. They stress that one should not act out of fear or desperation to provide for their family, as this might lead to actions that go against religious principles.
What does the speaker mean by saying, 'suami cari duit istri cari tumit'?
-This phrase humorously highlights the imbalance in some households where both the husband and wife are focused on earning money, potentially neglecting their other responsibilities, especially child-rearing.
What does the speaker advise when people face hardships like unemployment or financial difficulties?
-The speaker advises turning back to Allah, repenting, and strengthening faith, as only Allah is the provider. They mention that even in difficult times, people should rely on Allah for sustenance and remain patient.
What example from Islamic history does the speaker refer to when discussing faith and hardships?
-The speaker refers to the companions of the Prophet Muhammad, who faced hardships such as poverty and unemployment after migrating to Madinah. Despite their struggles, their strong faith helped them endure and prioritize spiritual wealth over material gain.
How does the speaker view modern employment in contrast to staying at home as a caregiver?
-The speaker suggests that while working in an office or other professional setting might seem respectable, the job of raising children and managing a household is far more significant and should not be undervalued.
What is the significance of the speaker mentioning '50,000 years before the creation of the heavens and earth'?
-The speaker refers to the belief that Allah had already determined everyone’s provision and destiny long before creation, encouraging trust in Allah's plan rather than being overly anxious about sustenance.
What is the speaker’s advice for maintaining faith during times of trials or hardships?
-The speaker advises believers to stay strong in their faith, seek repentance for past sins, and trust in Allah’s wisdom, knowing that all trials are a test of faith that will eventually pass.
Outlines
🧑🤝🧑 Balancing Family Responsibilities
This paragraph emphasizes the roles and responsibilities within a family. It highlights how a husband is obligated to provide for his family, while the wife traditionally cares for the children. The speaker reflects on how societal changes have led both men and women to work, potentially neglecting childcare responsibilities. The discussion also touches on the challenges faced by grandparents who are asked to care for grandchildren full-time. The speaker advises that parents should strive to ease the burden on grandparents, ensuring their happiness without overwhelming them.
🌧️ Strengthening Faith Amid Challenges
This paragraph explores how faith and belief in Allah can help navigate life’s trials. It stresses that one's sustenance and lifespan are predetermined by Allah, encouraging believers to trust in divine provision even in the face of challenges like job loss. The speaker reflects on historical examples, including the Prophet’s companions, who faced hardships after migrating but maintained their faith. The importance of continuing religious practices, like prayer, and recognizing spiritual rewards over material gains is highlighted. The speaker advises to seek repentance, stay steadfast in faith, and surround oneself with supportive companions during times of difficulty.
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Keywords
💡Nafkah
💡Hijrah
💡Rezeki
💡Fitnah
💡Istighfar
💡Taqwa
💡Sabar
💡Kewajiban
💡Keluarga
💡Ajal
Highlights
The speaker emphasizes that Allah appoints men as leaders and assigns them the responsibility to provide for their families.
Mothers are expected to focus on taking care of children, though in modern times, some mothers also work to support their families.
The speaker advises that even if women help with finances, they should not neglect their primary role in child-rearing and educating the children.
The importance of parental involvement in children's upbringing is stressed, as the speaker discusses how tired the previous generation was from raising their own children.
There is a reflection on how being a homemaker is a significant role and that raising children prepares them for the future.
The speaker cautions against placing too much burden on elderly parents by making them take care of grandchildren full-time.
It is suggested that supporting one's parents without burdening them is a way to show respect and appreciation.
The speaker reminds the audience that Allah has predetermined everyone's sustenance and lifespan even before birth.
The belief that no one will die until they have received all the sustenance allotted to them by Allah is reinforced.
In times of hardship, such as a pandemic, the speaker encourages faith in Allah, emphasizing that sustenance comes from Him, not just from jobs.
There is an acknowledgment that losing a job, especially during a pandemic, does not mean the end of one's life, and faith in Allah's plan is crucial.
The speaker encourages people to repent and seek forgiveness from Allah, particularly if they have consumed forbidden (haram) items.
The concept of faith and trust in Allah during life's storms is likened to being strong on a boat during a storm, with the assurance that the storm will eventually pass.
The speaker mentions that Allah tests people's faith through hardships, and these trials are meant to distinguish true believers from non-believers.
The importance of having supportive friends during difficult times is highlighted, as friends can strengthen one's faith and help maintain a positive mindset.
Transcripts
halo
halo halo
[Musik]
halo
[Musik]
ini disinilah kita harus Hai harus apa
ya
Harus melihat
Hai dengan dalam
Hai bagaimana Allah azzawajal mengatur
kehidupannya
Ya Allah jadikan lelaki suami sebagai
pemimpin Allah wajibkan kepada dia untuk
memberikan nafkah kepada istri
Hai sehingga seharusnya yang merawat
anak-anak adalah istrinya
Hai tapi sebagian sibuk cari duit
Suami cari duit istri cari tumit
mpule istri membantu suami mencari duit
tapi jangan melontarkan kewajibannya
kewajiban yang apa tadi merawat anak
membesarkan anak mendidik
ndak orang tua kita itu udah capek
besarin kita capek
Hai Jadi kalau dilihat Lebih enak mana
ini seorang perempuan lebih enak mana
seorang perempuan bekerja di sebuah
instansi dengan menjadi ibu rumah tangga
lebih capek manga lebih repot manga
lebih menyebalkan manga jadi buruh tak
Hai yang dianggap pekerjaan ini remeh
itu pekerjaan yang besar dan aku serta
mulih ta
Hai mereka ini mempersiapkan masa depan
pengen makan rasa seorang anak hendaklah
melihat
Hai kalau ternyata sang suami enggak
seharusnya Aneng full bekerja isi bantu
tetap biru karena kasihan orang tua kita
mungkin kakek-nenek mau ya capek mereka
kakek-nenek itu sesekali Legends dong
anaknya merawat cucunya itu semen ada
kebahagiaan tersendiri tapi kalau
dititipin full dari pagi sampai sore
dari pagi sampai malam kesian
Hai tapi kok dikasihkan orang tua
menerima Ya kalau mereka menerima ya
semoga mereka benar-benar menerima bukan
karena terpaksa tapi kondisi yang ideal
yang menjadi bentuk kebaktian anak
kepada orangtuanya bagaimana dia
menyenangkan kedua orang tuanya tanpa
membebani mereka tanpa membebani mereka
cukup engkau yang sudah dibesarkan
engkau yang sudah diajarin sekarang
tugas untuk membahagiakan orang tua
bukan malah merepotkan itu Barakallah
fiik
cerpen hebat tephillah
50.000 tahun sebelum penciptaan langit
dan bumi
tapi kita udah dicatat Rizky kita sudah
ditetapkan sebelum kita lahir
atau kita berumur 120 hari dicatat
kembali Rizki dan ajal kita
ketahuilah engkau enggak bakal mati
sampai rizkimu habis bahkan mati jadi
kita harus yakin yang memiliki rezeki
adalah Allah Azza munada orang-orang
yang takut khawatir
akhirnya dia melakukan sesuatu yang
Allah murkai
Bagaimana supaya kita lebih yakin
sesuai dengan kondisi yang seperti
sekarang ini
aku sudah lama hidup senang
Hai Dian
Hai dan hijrah itu memerlukan perjuangan
Hai Awak kan mengujimu
Hai itu sebuah kepastian
Hai untuk membuktikan kebenaran hijrah
kebenaran Taubat bagaimana para sahabat
nabi mereka masuk Islam mereka hijrah ke
Kota Madinah di kota Madinah bahkan
enggak punya pekerjaan sebagian tidur di
mesjid
susah hidup mereka
Hai tapi mereka tahu bosen dunia ini
tempat yang fana
ini dia punya keimanan yang lebih baik
dari dunia dan isinya satu tasbih Yang
kau baca lillahi taala itu lebih baik
daripada dunia dan isi dua rakaat
sebelum subuh yang mungkin sebelum ini
kau tidak pernah melaksanakannya dua
rakaat sebelum subuh itu lebih baik dari
dunia dan isi
maka lihat kepada kenikmatan yang
lainnya kemudian yakin
Hai yang memberikan rezeki adalah Allah
semuanya Bukan Pekerja
Hai di masa pandemic kemarau ini banyak
orang yang di-phk
bukan resign di-phk Apakah dengan di-phk
Semua pada mati atau
Hai lupakan manusia di-phk
Hai apakah punya mereka mati karena
keluar dari tempat kerja hingga maka
yakin wolfis sama rizqukum waktu Aduh di
langit to Rizky kalian dan yang
dijanjikan kepada kalian
Hai maka hendaklah kita kembali kepada
Allah bertaubat kepada Allah
memperbanyak istighfar dan mohon ampun
dengan dosa-dosa yang lalu mungkin ada
banyak makan haram yang telah masuk ke
perutnya dia perlu bersihkan hal itu dan
kuat keimanan
hai ketika badai datang
Hai kok harus kuat di atas perahu
tersebut dan yakin badai Ini akan
berlalu
tidak dengan mudah orang mengatakan
Bagaimana lalu dibiarkan begitu saja
walakod Fathan yang nanti namanya Fadli
katalog kami benar-benar akan membikin
fitnah memberikan ujian kepada
orang-orang
Hai yang sebelum mereka
Hai singkat nampak mana yang benar-benar
beriman dan mana yang buruk dengan
kondisi seperti ini Ko perlu kawan-kawan
yang menggandeng karena kadangkala ya
pikiran-pikiran masa lalu dateng
kekhawatiran dateng tapi tetep Raden
menggandeng mu Insyaallah dengan kawan
mungkin lebih kuat
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