9 Things A Man Should NEVER Do (Beta males ALWAYS do..)
Summary
TLDRThis video script emphasizes nine critical behaviors men should avoid to reach their full potential. It advises against making light of one's dreams, needing constant company or isolation, blindly following influencers, feeling guilty for ambition, excessive emotional attachment, simping, allowing bullying, and excessive talking. The speaker encourages self-respect, solitude for reflection, brotherhood for support, and learning from successful individuals, advocating for self-improvement and a strong sense of self.
Takeaways
- 😀 Never joke about your dreams and goals as it undermines your self-respect and can be a sign of insecurity.
- 🏃♂️ Learn to be comfortable with solitude to foster self-reflection and personal growth, but also seek like-minded individuals for mutual support.
- 🤝 Avoid being a lone wolf; embrace brotherhood and networking to enhance personal and professional development.
- 📚 Be discerning with online advice; tailor it to your unique circumstances and don't blindly follow influencers' opinions.
- 🚀 Don't feel guilty for being ambitious; rise above the negativity of others who may not share your drive for success.
- 💔 Be prepared for emotional losses; understand that attachment is natural, but excessive attachment can be detrimental to personal well-being.
- 🙅♂️ Refrain from simping; maintain self-respect and avoid behaviors that undermine your dignity and trustworthiness.
- 💪 Stand up against bullying; confront it assertively to prevent it from escalating and to establish a reputation of resilience.
- 🤐 Practice the art of listening; when in the presence of successful individuals, ask insightful questions and listen attentively to learn and impress.
Q & A
Why should a man not joke about his dreams and goals?
-Joking about one's dreams and goals can be a sign of insecurity or an attempt to make others feel comfortable with one's ambitions. It's important to maintain seriousness and respect towards one's aspirations to avoid undermining them.
What is the significance of being able to be alone for a man?
-Being able to be alone allows a man to reflect, meditate, and think deeply about his life and goals. It is essential for self-improvement and developing mental strength, despite what others may think.
Why is it important to have both solitude and brotherhood in a man's life?
-Solitude provides space for self-reflection, while brotherhood offers support and camaraderie. Both are necessary for a man to grow and become the best version of himself.
What is the potential downside of blindly following influencers' advice?
-Following advice without considering one's own circumstances and life experience can lead to misguided actions. It's crucial to analyze and adapt advice to one's unique situation.
Why might some people feel guilty for being ambitious?
-Some individuals may feel guilty for their ambitions due to the influence of family and friends who have not achieved significant success. This guilt can stem from the fear of standing out or the pressure to conform to others' expectations.
What is the danger of excessive emotional attachment to people or things?
-Excessive emotional attachment can lead to devastation when the attachment is lost. It's important to prepare mentally for the inevitability of loss without letting it destroy one's life.
Why is 'simping' considered a sign of self-respect deficiency?
-Simping, or excessively seeking approval from someone, especially in romantic contexts, shows a lack of self-respect. It can also indicate a lack of trustworthiness and a disregard for one's own value.
How can one effectively deal with bullying?
-Embracing confrontation and standing up to bullies can effectively put an end to bullying behavior. It's important to establish a reputation as someone who does not back down.
What is the recommended approach when interacting with successful people?
-When interacting with successful individuals, it's advisable to be respectful, ask questions, and listen more. This approach not only fosters learning but also leaves a positive impression.
What is the potential consequence of talking too much when meeting a successful person?
-Talking too much can prevent learning opportunities and may cause successful individuals to dismiss you as uninteresting or lacking self-awareness.
What does the speaker suggest for those who lack a supportive brotherhood?
-The speaker suggests joining a community or tribe focused on self-improvement, such as the free Discord tribe mentioned in the script, to find like-minded individuals for support and growth.
Outlines
💪 Pursuing Dreams with Self-Respect
The first paragraph emphasizes the importance of taking one's dreams and goals seriously. It advises against joking about personal ambitions and not tolerating others making light of them. The speaker shares a personal experience where he stopped a friend from mocking his goals, asserting the need for respect towards one's aspirations. It also touches on the importance of being able to enjoy solitude to foster self-reflection and personal growth, rather than constantly seeking the company of others to avoid being alone.
🤝 Balancing Solitude and Brotherhood
This paragraph discusses the balance between solitude and the company of like-minded individuals, or 'Brothers'. It refutes the idea of being a 'lone wolf' and suggests that surrounding oneself with supportive peers is crucial for personal development. The speaker, identifying as someone who has been a lone wolf, explains that while self-sufficiency is important, so is the connection with others. The paragraph concludes with an invitation to join a Discord tribe focused on self-improvement, highlighting the coexistence of solitude and brotherhood as essential for becoming the best version of oneself.
🚫 Avoiding the Pitfalls of Influencer Advice
The third paragraph warns against blindly following online advice or influencers, using the example of advice from Andrew Tate. It stresses the importance of self-analysis and understanding one's unique life circumstances before adopting advice. The speaker cautions that even good advice can be detrimental if it doesn't apply to an individual's situation, emphasizing the need for personal discernment and critical thinking when engaging with online influencers and their advice.
🏆 Overcoming Guilt and Embracing Ambition
The fourth paragraph addresses the issue of feeling guilty for being ambitious, which often stems from being surrounded by people with limited aspirations. It advises not to let the negativity of others dampen one's spirit and to avoid discussing goals with those who hold limiting beliefs. The speaker encourages maintaining a protective distance from such individuals while still maintaining love for them, to preserve one's ambition and drive for success.
💔 Managing Emotional Attachment
This paragraph discusses the inevitability of loss and the importance of not becoming overly emotionally attached to people or things. It acknowledges the pain of losing loved ones but emphasizes the necessity of mental preparedness for such events. The speaker warns against letting the loss of a person or thing destroy one's life, sharing observations of individuals who have been devastated by loss and have not recovered, stressing the importance of resilience in the face of emotional pain.
🚫 Avoiding the 'Simp' Behavior
The fifth paragraph criticizes the behavior of 'simping', where men change their demeanor and act desperate around attractive women. It suggests that this behavior is a sign of self-disrespect and untrustworthiness, as it can lead to betraying friends for the attention of women. The speaker advises maintaining self-respect and not engaging in such behaviors, which can be detrimental to one's character and relationships.
💬 Not Letting Yourself Get Bullied
The sixth paragraph tackles the issue of bullying, which is not limited to schools but can occur at any age and in various forms. It encourages recognizing bullying behavior and confronting it to prevent further victimization. The speaker points out that standing up to bullies can often stop the behavior with a single confrontation, whereas allowing it to continue can lead to repeated mistreatment and a negative impact on one's self-esteem.
🤐 Talking Less, Listening More
The final paragraph advises against talking excessively when interacting with successful individuals. It suggests that being respectful, asking questions, and listening attentively can leave a positive impression and foster learning opportunities. The speaker warns that talking too much can lead to being dismissed by successful people, who often encounter many individuals who talk excessively without showing genuine interest in learning or understanding.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Potential
💡Goals
💡Solitude
💡Brotherhood
💡Influencers
💡Ambition
💡Emotional Attachment
💡Simping
💡Bullying
💡Confrontation
💡Communication
Highlights
A man should never joke about his dreams and goals as it shows a lack of seriousness and self-assurance.
Surrounding oneself with mediocre people or constantly seeking a partner to avoid solitude can hinder a man's potential.
Solitude is essential for a man to reflect, meditate, and be at peace with his own thoughts.
While solitude is important, so is surrounding oneself with like-minded individuals for mutual growth and support.
One should not blindly follow influencers or online advice without considering personal circumstances and self-analysis.
Feeling guilty for being ambitious can be a result of being surrounded by people with limited achievements; it's crucial to stay focused on one's goals.
Excessive emotional attachment can lead to devastation when loss occurs; it's important to prepare mentally for such eventualities.
Simpsong behavior, or excessively seeking validation from the opposite sex, is a sign of low self-respect and can damage personal integrity.
Bullying is not limited to schools; it can occur at any age and should be confronted to prevent further victimization.
Talking too much when meeting successful individuals can be off-putting; it's better to listen, learn, and ask insightful questions.
Respect for one's goals and dreams is paramount, and others should not be allowed to ridicule or undermine them.
The ability to enjoy one's own company and engage in solitary activities is a sign of mental strength and self-sufficiency.
Building a network of supportive and ambitious peers is as crucial as personal growth and solitude for achieving success.
Self-analysis is necessary before accepting advice from influencers to ensure it aligns with one's personal journey and goals.
Ambition should be embraced without guilt, and one should protect themselves from the limiting beliefs of others.
Mental preparation for loss is necessary to prevent emotional devastation and to maintain personal well-being.
Self-respect is crucial, and simping behavior undermines one's dignity and trustworthiness.
Confronting bullies is essential for self-preservation and to establish a reputation as someone who won't be pushed around.
Successful communication with successful individuals involves active listening and thoughtful questioning rather than excessive talking.
Transcripts
imagine being born as a man the greatest
gift on planet Earth and just wasting
that potential way it's the most
ungrateful thing a man could ever do I
will tell you nine things a man should
never do but let me warn you if you are
a man-child a beta male or a simp you
will get triggered by this video
number one joking about your dreams and
goals
having a sense of humor is important and
we should all know when not to take
ourselves too seriously but there are
some things you should never make jokes
about one of those things is your goals
if there's any Big Goal you have in life
don't joke about it that is a coping
mechanism because you are unsure of
yourself or because you try to make
other people with mediocre Minds feel
comfortable around your Big Dreams
listen to me never joke about your goals
and never let others make fun of your
goals either
I remember when I was joking around with
a friend about different things but he
got too comfortable and started to make
a joke about my goals the moment he did
that my demeanor changed instantly I
looked him dead in the eye and told him
to never do that again
he apologized and he never did
if people don't support your goals and
dreams the bare minimum they should do
is shut up I don't care if it's your
best friend or your family what you want
out of life is not something to laugh at
respect yourself and your goals number
two always surrounded by others the
reason why most guys waste their
potential away is because they can't be
alone they are either surrounded by
mediocre people or are always looking
for a girlfriend to prevent them from
being alone
listen as a man you need to be able to
go to places alone you must know how to
sit in your own solitude
even if you are surrounded by great high
level people you still need to go to
places alone sometimes it doesn't matter
if it's going to the movies alone or
going to a different country being in
solitude gives you time to think to
meditate and be with your own thoughts
average-minded people will call you
strange they may even laugh at you but
it doesn't matter the greatest asset you
have is your own mind and if you can't
go to places by yourself and be at peace
with your own mind you have already lost
number three always alone
this may sound contradictory to the
previous point but it isn't you
need to be able to find peace in
solitude but you also need to surround
yourself with like-minded Brothers
the idea of being a lone wolf is a
Fool's game and I say this as someone
that has been a lone wolf for most
life we may need Brothers around them it
makes us better in every way most guys
cope with reality they call themselves
Sigma because they lack the ability to
network with others these guys fail to
understand that although it's necessary
to be self-sufficient it's also
necessary to connect with other men
Solitude and Brotherhood can perfectly
coexist in peace listen to that again
Solitude and Brotherhood can't perfectly
coexist in peace and you need both to
become the best version of yourself if
you are alone right now and have no
Brotherhood I suggest you join our free
Discord tribe in the description down
below it's a tribe of forty thousand men
on self-improvement always looking for
ways to become better
number four listens to influencers there
is much information online but you
should never blindly listen to anyone
you will see guys like Andrew Tate say
you shouldn't read books and many
Fanboys follow that advice
they don't analyze themselves and see
that they weren't born with their chess
Grand Master as their father and they
don't have the life experience of
someone like Tate so how could you
follow that advice
this was just an example but it applies
to any online advice always analyze
yourself and your own life before seeing
if the advice even applies to you
because even if someone has good advice
if it doesn't apply to your life and
circumstances it becomes bad advice for
you as an individual
number five feel guilty for being
ambitious
there's a lot of people that feel guilty
for having big goals the reason for this
is because their family and friends
never achieved anything big in fact no
one around them has achieved anything
that's why they constantly cope with
reality they say things like money is
the root of all evil or rich people are
greedy it's very hard to be ambitious if
everyone around you is saying garbage
like this to cope with reality but at
the same time you must not let it get
your spirit down just make sure you
don't discuss your goals with these
types of people because they are not
like-minded
you can still love them but protect
yourself from their limiting beliefs
number six excessive emotional
attachment everyone feels some sort of
attachment to people things
places
after all if you have something good in
your life it makes sense that you feel
resistant to losing that person or thing
but the dark reality is that you are
going to lose people in your life it can
be your mother your father or your best
friend and it can happen when you least
expect it
I'm not saying this to make this video
dark or have you become worried rather
I'm saying this to prepare you mentally
the worst pain is seeing the person you
made memories with turn into a memory
and yet you must be prepared to take
that pain because we will all experience
it sooner or later you can't be so
emotionally attached that losing someone
destroys your entire life I've seen many
guys that lost someone and they haven't
recovered from it ever since I'm talking
about guys full of potential that were
just destroyed for years
you must be prepared for what's about to
come will it still hurt no matter how
well prepared you are of course it will
you're human and it's a person you love
but being hurt and being destroyed are
two different things death comes for us
all always remember that
number seven simp
deep down every man knows he should not
sin and yet most guys still simp for
girls the moment a beautiful woman walks
into the room their entire demeanor
changes you will see their eyes change
and they become desperate sometimes I
think being a simp runs in their blood
because no matter how well guys
understand they should not sin they
still double text girls like a worm
listen
something may seem funny but it's
actually a very serious lack of respect
you have for yourself and there is
nothing funny about lacking self-respect
on top of that a simp can't be trusted
they are the type of guys that will hook
up with the acts of their own friends
number eight letting yourself get
bullied
when most people hear bullying they
think of school but the reality is that
Bullying happens at all ages and in
thousands of different ways it can be
constant passive aggressive comments
made by a family member or someone you
work with that's embarrassing you in
front of other colleagues maybe your
friend that jokes about you in front of
girls to make himself look good whatever
it is recognize that they are trying to
bully you and step up to it
you absolutely have to embrace
confrontation if you want bullying to
end and here's the beautiful thing about
stepping up to bullies you're not
getting into 100 fights or even 10
fights no if you do it correctly you
only have to do it once
however if you allow bullying to take
place you are going to get terrorized to
more than a hundred times so embrace the
confrontation and you'll get the
reputation as someone that doesn't back
down
number nine talk too much
when you come across a successful person
do not talk too much
ask most guys try to impress others they
don't know their place on the chessboard
it is all legal and it keeps them away
from learning things if you come across
a successful man be respectful and ask
questions why
when you ask and listen more you not
only learn a lot or the other person is
going to walk away finding you
interesting
you see most successful people come
across nobodies that talk a lot they
instantly write them off in their head
but when they meet someone that's
respectful and willing to listen and
learn it leaves a good impression
by the way if you want to level up in
life don't forget to show some love by
hitting the like And subscribe button
until next time
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