GACKT、ギラギラの目つきで“一流の条件”語る ROLAND&“伝説の元キャバ嬢”門りょうも世の中の女性の悩みにアドバイス 『「G&R」プロジェクト 発表会』
Summary
TLDRThe speaker in the transcript emphasizes the importance of self-confidence and the relentless pursuit of excellence, suggesting that true confidence comes from within and is not something bestowed by others. They advocate for a proactive approach to personal growth, recommending small, incremental steps to build confidence, such as trying new things and adding personal touches to one's work. The speaker also addresses the issue of comparison with others, suggesting that while it's natural to compare oneself to others, the focus should be on personal improvement and setting goals to surpass oneself. They stress the value of effort and hard work, stating that without these, one cannot achieve the status of 'first-class' or 'top-tier'. The speaker reflects on their own journey, acknowledging that they have never considered themselves to be first-class, but they are continually striving for improvement. They encourage others to join them in this pursuit, to question themselves, identify their shortcomings, and work towards their goals with determination and courage.
Takeaways
- 🎓 **Continuous Effort**: The speaker emphasizes that effort is indispensable for aiming to be first-class. Without it, one cannot achieve such a status.
- 🌟 **Appreciation of Others**: The importance of valuing and appreciating others is highlighted, as it can inspire and motivate oneself.
- 💪 **Building Confidence**: The speaker suggests that building confidence involves trying new things and accumulating small successes, which can lead to a more positive self-image.
- 👀 **Avoid Comparisons**: It is advised to not constantly compare oneself with others, as it can lead to negative feelings. Instead, focus on personal growth and improvement.
- 🏃 **Lead by Example**: The speaker talks about leading by example, suggesting that aiming to be first can be a powerful motivator for oneself and others.
- 🤔 **Self-Reflection**: The need for self-reflection is mentioned, as it is crucial to identify areas of improvement and to continually challenge oneself.
- 🚫 **Avoid Shortcuts**: The script discourages seeking shortcuts to success, stating that there are no easy paths and that hard work is the only way to achieve goals.
- 😌 **Acting Confident**: Even if one lacks confidence, it is important to appear confident, as this can influence how others perceive you and can eventually lead to genuine self-assurance.
- 🏅 **Recognizing Achievements**: The speaker believes that only after striving to be the best and reaching a certain level can one truly appreciate and commend oneself.
- 👥 **Community and Support**: The value of having a supportive community is noted, as it can provide encouragement and help in overcoming challenges.
- 🔁 **Persistence and Repitition**: The importance of persistence and the power of repetition in mastering skills and achieving goals is discussed.
Q & A
What does the speaker value most in the people they meet?
-The speaker values people who make them feel grateful for the encounter and who inspire them to think that it's great to be alive.
What does the speaker believe is necessary to build self-confidence in one's work?
-The speaker believes that effort is the only way to build self-confidence, suggesting that there are no shortcuts and that one must work hard to achieve it.
How does the speaker suggest one can start to build self-confidence?
-The speaker suggests starting by taking action, such as adding a small thought or a word, and through the accumulation of these actions, one can gain confidence.
What does the speaker think about appearing confident even when you lack it?
-The speaker believes that it's important to appear confident even if you don't feel it, as it can lead to a positive cycle and eventually real confidence.
How does the speaker feel about comparing oneself to others?
-The speaker acknowledges that comparing oneself to others is common but suggests focusing on what one can do to be the best, rather than just comparing.
What does the speaker suggest as a method to overcome the habit of comparing oneself to others?
-The speaker suggests focusing on one's own goals and what one can do to achieve them, rather than just comparing to others.
What does the speaker believe is the source of courage and confidence?
-The speaker believes that courage and confidence are not given by others but must be drawn from within oneself.
What does the speaker consider as a sign of being a top-tier person?
-The speaker considers someone who can make others feel grateful for meeting them and who can inspire others as a top-tier person, regardless of age.
How does the speaker view the concept of striving to be a top-tier person?
-The speaker views striving to be a top-tier person as an ongoing process that requires continuous effort and self-reflection to identify and address shortcomings.
What does the speaker suggest as a way to continuously improve oneself?
-The speaker suggests repeatedly challenging oneself through small actions and enduring hardships to reach higher levels of achievement.
How does the speaker feel about their own achievements and the areas they need to improve?
-The speaker acknowledges that they have never considered themselves as top-tier and recognizes that there are many areas where they can improve, indicating a desire for continuous self-improvement.
Outlines
😌 Embracing Effort and Overcoming Self-Doubt
The speaker expresses that they have never considered themselves top-tier, emphasizing the impact of meeting someone who makes life seem worthwhile. Addressing common concerns, the speaker advises that confidence in one's work primarily comes from persistent effort, as there are no shortcuts to success. Additionally, by adding small personal touches to interactions, such as quotes or movie references, one can convey their thoughts and possibly gain confidence from positive responses. However, the speaker also acknowledges the importance of appearing confident, even if one does not feel it, suggesting that portraying confidence can eventually lead to genuine self-assurance.
😊 Striving for Continuous Improvement
In this section, the speaker reflects on the constant desire to aim higher, a sentiment that has been a part of their life from an early age. They discuss the challenge of maintaining this aspiration, as success in a few instances does not guarantee permanent achievement. The key, they suggest, is perseverance through repeated efforts and embracing the struggles that come with them. Despite the hardships, the speaker believes that these repeated endeavors and maintaining a positive outlook will eventually lead to rewarding outcomes, underscoring the importance of continuous effort and resilience in the pursuit of higher goals.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Self-confidence
💡Effort
💡First-class
💡Comparison
💡Courage
💡Approach
💡Recognition
💡Praise
💡Negative Thinking
💡Excellence
💡Age
Highlights
Never thought of myself as top-notch.
Meeting someone who truly makes you think 'I'm glad I met them' is what I consider top-notch.
For more confidence in work, consistent effort is essential.
Adding a personal touch, like a kind word or gesture, can build confidence over time.
Even without confidence, appearing confident is crucial.
The only way to stop comparing yourself to others is to become number one.
Striving to lead and focusing on the goal prevents negative comparisons.
Being number one provides a unique perspective and self-validation.
Comparing yourself to others can be motivating if it drives you to improve.
I believe a top-notch person makes others feel lucky to have met them, regardless of age.
Achieving top-notch status requires continuous effort and self-assessment.
Even with successes, there's always room for improvement and higher goals.
Persistence in small tasks, repeated until ingrained, leads to seeing new horizons.
Encouraging others to strive for higher goals together fosters mutual growth.
Genuine top-notch status is a continuous journey of self-improvement and perseverance.
Transcripts
自分のことを一流と思ったことは
一度もないんですよね正直この人に出会えて本当に良かったってそう思ってくれること
こんな素敵な人に出会えてよかった生きててよかったって本当にそう思わせてくれる人
そんな人を僕は年齢等ず一流なんじゃないのかなっていうふうに
覚えますけどね
世の中の女性のお悩みにお二方にお答えいただきましょう
自分により自信を持って仕事を進めていくためにはどうすればいいですか
ヒビノ
まあ努力しかないというかよく受賞も様にはどうしたらいいんですかっていうの質問を
ねあれをいただくんですけども
やはり突き詰めていくと頑張るしかないのかなっていう
なので近道はないよとあまり面白い回答ではなくて恐縮なんですけども
自信を持つためにやはりどこには努力が必要だよってよだ
回答させて頂いております
ちょっとした想いを添えるっていうことを
まずはやってみたらいいんじゃないですか例えば映画をを添えるとか
一言何か言葉を添えるとか
ということの積み重ねがまあ相手に思いが届いてその相手から笑顔っていう形で返って
くるようになると
自分に自信が持てるようになるんじゃないですか
でも自信がなくても自信があるように見せるのが大事だと思っているの
まあ虚勢張って生きたらなんかそうなるようなことがあるので
はい2問目必要ないとわかっているのにいつも他人と比べてしまいますどうすればいい
ですか
一番なるしかないよとまっていうのはまあマラソンで例えたらよくわかるんですけども
結局目の前に人が写り込む乗って2番目以降ろ
人じゃないですかじゃ戦闘だったらどうかっていったらやっぱりゴールテープしか見え
ないわけで
司会で誰も入らないじゃないですかだから一人
ねこう
人と自分を比べて落ち込んでしまったりとかネガティブになってしまう人って結局解決
方法で行ったらもう一番なるしかないんですよね
だから前にああああの先頭を切るために何ができるかということを
しっかりアプローチであってごらんっていうようなアドバイスをすることが多いです
なあまあローランド終わってることが
しんどいことですけど
心理なんじゃないですか
やっぱりやるしかないというか
結局勇気も自信もそうですけど他人から与えられるものじゃなくて自分の中から
振り絞る
ものだと思うので
その1番を目指して頑張ったからこそ見える戻って
あると思うんですよね
そこにたどり着いたときに初めて自分のことを本当に褒めてあげられるようになるん
じゃないですか
えっ比べる人がいるのってよくないですかでもその人より良くなりたいと思う
宇野が
なんかそれがまた活力になれば別に比べること自体そんな悪くないかなって思います
はい
お二人が思う一流の長剣是非伺いたいと思うんですが100とさんいかがでしょうか
[音楽]
年齢に頭ず
どんなときでも
いつまで経っても
そ出会った人が
この人に出会えて本当に良かったってそう
思ってくれること僕が
いつもそうですけれども誰かにやって
こんな素敵な人に出会えてよかった生きててよかったって本当にそう思うことを増して
くれる人
そんな人を
僕は年齢問わず一流なんじゃないのかなっていうふうに
思いますけどね
エヴァ冒頭ねあの先ほどの記者会見でも言わせていただいたんですけどやはり一流を
目指すにあたって努力っていうのは不可欠な部分でそれをなくして一流っていうことは
絶対にないと思うので自分自身も
客観的に見たら一流かと問われたらまだまだ突き詰めていかなくてはいけない部分って
いうのが多々あるのでそういった部分
自分自身にねあのしっかり問いかけて何が足りないのかというところ
自分の中で課題をしっかり出してアプローチていくそラバーみんなも変わらない作業だ
と思うので
どちらかというと一流からの目線とよりも一応目指す目線として一緒に頑張りましょう
という事を皆さんに声かけしたいなと思います
自分のことを一流と思ったことは
一度もないんですよね所持系
自分に至らないところもたくさんありますし
やっぱり悔しいっていう思いや
もっとやれたんじゃないかとか
もっと上を目指せるんじゃないかっていう思いがいつもあるというか
それは
昔からもそうですしいいもそうですし
何も変わってないんですよ
で
同じように上を目指す仲間として
より高みに
目指したいどうやったらそれができるのか
聞かれたら
一度や
2度何かうまくいったからといって
それが自分のものになることってなかなかぱないんですよね
とにかく小さなことでも
繰り返し繰り返し自分の
体に
入るまで
何度も何度も
辛い思いしてそれでも頑張って笑っていこう
やって言ったその先に見える景色があるんじゃないのかなって
そう思ってます
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