When A Girl Ignores You But Likes You | The TRUTH Behind Why She Acts Hot And Cold

Summary

In this video, Coach Aegean explores the common phenomenon where a woman, despite having feelings, may appear cold or distant. He suggests that fear of vulnerability and societal expectations may be at play, causing her to hide her emotions. He advises men to take the initiative, create an environment for connection, and enjoy the chase phase of a relationship. Coach Aegean encourages viewers to embrace the potential of a relationship and to court women with respect and attention, promising a rewarding outcome for those who dive into the process of building a healthy love story.

Takeaways

• 💭 Women may ignore you because they are afraid of being vulnerable and overwhelmed by their feelings for you.
• 🤔 It's important not to misinterpret her behavior; she might be genuinely interested but acting cold due to her own insecurities.
• 💖 Falling in love can make even the most successful people feel out of control, which can lead to self-consciousness and avoidance.
• 👀 She might be worried about appearing too available, influenced by societal norms that suggest playing hard to get is advantageous.
• 👥 Peer influence, such as friends advising her to be less forthcoming, can also affect her behavior towards you.
• 🚀 If you suspect mutual feelings, take the initiative to create an environment where you can connect on a deeper level.
• 💞 The period of mutual attraction before commitment is a thrilling time full of possibilities and should be enjoyed.
• 🛡 Don't let your fears and insecurities dominate your actions, as they may lead to pushing each other away.
• 🌹 Women appreciate being courted with respect, attention, and genuine interest in their world.
• 🏋️‍♂️ Men should be proactive in showcasing the potential of a relationship and not hesitate to dive into the process of building one.
• 👫 Building a healthy relationship requires taking responsibility and being part of a supportive community that believes in love.

Q & A

Why might a woman who loves you ignore you in public?

She might be afraid to be vulnerable and reveal her feelings because of the overwhelming nature of strong emotions, which can make her feel out of control.

What could be the psychological reason behind a woman's hot and cold behavior towards someone she loves?

The psychological reason could be fear of vulnerability and the overwhelming nature of her feelings, leading her to act self-consciously and tip her hand.

What does the coach suggest is happening when a woman is in love but appears to lose her abilities or self-control?

The coach suggests that the more in love a person is, the more they may feel out of control, which can lead to a loss of abilities or self-control as emotions become overwhelming.

How can a man support a woman who is feeling overwhelmed by her emotions?

A man can support a woman by taking the initiative, inviting her out, and creating an environment where they can connect, helping her to break out of her self-consciousness.

What is the potential reason behind a woman being cold towards a man she likes?

It could be that she is insecure, self-critical, and afraid to appear too available, influenced by societal norms or advice from friends.

Why might a woman be coached by her friends to withdraw and wait for the man to make a move?

She might be influenced by societal expectations that women should not appear too eager or available in romantic pursuits, playing 'hard to get' to achieve desired results.

What advice does the coach give to men who have feelings for a woman who is ignoring them?

The coach advises men to take the lead, initiate plans, and create opportunities for one-on-one connection to foster the relationship.

What is the significance of the 'honeymoon phase' in a relationship according to the coach?

The honeymoon phase, or the chase, is one of the best periods of a relationship, filled with possibilities and excitement before any commitments are made.

Why is it important not to let fears and insecurities take over during the early stages of a relationship?

Fears and insecurities can prevent the development of a relationship by causing both parties to push each other away, missing out on the potential of a loving connection.

What does the coach suggest as a way for men to dive into the process of seduction and relationship building?

The coach suggests that men should dive headfirst into the process, showing attention, affection, and respect, while exploring the potential of what a relationship could be.

What is the community's goal as described by the coach in the video?

The community's goal is to support each other in creating healthy love relationships, taking responsibility for building the relationships they desire.