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Summary
TLDRDans cet épisode du podcast 'Slow and Clear', l'animateur explore les traditions familiales et les différences culturelles entre l'Occident et le Vietnam, mettant l'accent sur les cérémonies de l'anniversaire de décès et la manière dont les familles s'unissent pour commémorer les défunts. Il introduit également un nouveau produit, '1 000 mots anglais les plus courants', conçu pour aider les débutants à apprendre l'anglais. Le podcast couvre également les termes relatifs aux membres de la famille, ainsi que les différences dans la vie quotidienne et les traditions familiales, invitant les auditeurs à partager leurs propres expériences culturelles.
Takeaways
- 🌕 La célébration de l'anniversaire du décès est une tradition vietnamienne où la famille se réunit pour prier et offrir des offrandes pour le bien-être de l'au-delà.
- 👨👩👧👦 On apprend les termes pour parler de la famille, y compris les membres de la famille immédiate et étendue, ainsi que les différences culturelles entre les familles occidentales et vietnamiennes.
- 📚 Le podcast propose un nouveau produit appelé '1 000 mots anglais les plus courants', conçu pour aider les débutants à apprendre l'anglais.
- 🔗 Le PDF et les fichiers audio du produit incluent la prononciation, des exemples de phrases en anglais et leurs traductions en vietnamien.
- 🏠 En Occident, les familles nucléaires sont plus courantes, tandis que les familles étendues vivent souvent ensemble au Vietnam.
- 👵 La prise en charge des personnes âgées diffère entre les cultures : en Occident, les maisons de retraite sont fréquentes, mais au Vietnam, les aînés vivent généralement avec leur famille.
- 👶 La participation des parents et l'attitude envers les enfants sont plus strictes au Vietnam que dans de nombreuses familles occidentales.
- 💰 Contrairement à l'Occident, il est attendu que les enfants envoie de l'argent à leurs parents au Vietnam.
- 🎎 Les pressions matrimoniales sont plus élevées au Vietnam que dans de nombreuses familles occidentales.
- 🌼 En Occident, après un enterrement, les gens peuvent rendre visite à la tombe du défunt et y déposer des fleurs, mais il n'y a pas d'anniversaire du décès célébré de manière similaire à celle au Vietnam.
- 👉 Le podcast invite les auditeurs à commenter si ils ont des informations supplémentaires ou des corrections à apporter sur les traditions et la culture mentionnées.
Q & A
Quel est le but principal du podcast 'Slow and Clear English'?
-Le but principal du podcast est d'enseigner et de discuter des mots et des expressions liés à la famille, aux traditions familiales et à la culture vietnamienne, tout en comparant les différences culturelles entre les familles occidentales et vietnamiennes.
Quels sont les mots clés que l'on peut apprendre dans le podcast pour parler de sa famille?
-On peut apprendre les mots pour parler des membres de la famille immédiate comme 'mother', 'father', 'sibling', 'older brother', 'stepbrother', 'stepsister', 'stepmom', et aussi pour la famille étendue comme 'grandfather', 'aunt', 'uncle', 'cousin', 'niece', 'nephew'.
Quelle est la différence entre 'sibling' et 'step-sibling'?
-Un 'sibling' est un frère ou une soeur de sang, tandis qu'un 'step-sibling' est le frère ou la soeur d'un parent de votre autre parent, donc non sanguin mais lié par le mariage.
Quel est le sens de 'sister-in-law' et 'brother-in-law'?
-'Sister-in-law' fait référence à la femme de votre frère ou à la femme de votre mari, tandis que 'brother-in-law' se réfère à l'époux de votre soeur ou au mari de votre femme.
Comment le podcast aborde-t-il les différences entre les familles occidentales et vietnamiennes?
-Le podcast discute des différences en termes de structure familiale, de la prise en charge des personnes âgées, du niveau d'implication parentale, des attentes en matière de mariage et des traditions liées aux anniversaires de décès.
Quelle est la différence entre une famille nucléaire et une famille étendue?
-Une famille nucléaire est composée des parents et de leurs enfants, tandis qu'une famille étendue englobe plusieurs générations vivant ensemble sous le même toit.
Comment les familles vietnamiennes prennent-elles soin des personnes âgées par rapport aux familles occidentales?
-Dans les familles vietnamiennes, les personnes âgées vivent généralement à la maison et sont prises en charge par la famille, contrairement à certaines pratiques occidentales où les personnes âgées peuvent être placées dans des maisons de retraite ou des foyers de soins.
Quel est le concept de '1,000 most common English words' mentionné dans le podcast?
-C'est un produit lancé par l'animateur du podcast qui contient une liste des mille mots les plus courants en anglais avec leur prononciation, des exemples de phrases en anglais et leurs traductions en vietnamien.
Pourquoi les越南ais(Vietnamiens) peuvent-ils appeler leurs cousins comme s'ils étaient leurs frères ou soeurs?
-En vietnamien, on appelle les cousins 'frère' ou 'soeur', ce qui peut causer de la confusion en anglais où 'brother' et 'sister' se réfèrent uniquement aux enfants de ses propres parents.
Quelle est la signification de 'maternal' et 'paternal' dans le contexte de la famille?
-'Maternal' se réfère à la mère et à sa famille, comme 'maternal grandmother' pour 'grand-mère maternelle', tandis que 'paternal' se réfère au père et à sa famille, comme 'paternal grandfather' pour 'grand-père paternel'.
Comment le podcast aborde la question de la célébration de l'anniversaire du décès en Occident et au Vietnam?
-Le podcast explique que les Vietnamiens célèbrent l'anniversaire du décès avec des prières et des offrandes, tandis qu'en Occident, il n'y a pas de telle tradition et les personnes se contentent de rendre visite aux tombes des défunts.
Outlines
🕯️ Célébration de l'anniversaire de la mort
Chaque année, selon le calendrier lunaire, la famille se réunit pour célébrer l'anniversaire de la mort d'un membre décédé. Ils font des prières, offrent de la nourriture et de l'argent en papier, et d'autres objets appréciés par le défunt pour qu'il puisse en profiter dans l'au-delà. Cette tradition fait partie intégrante de la culture familiale au Vietnam.
👨👩👧👦 Introduction et Apprentissage des Termes Familiaux
Le podcast enseigne des mots et expressions pour parler de la famille et des traditions familiales vietnamiennes. Il commence par les termes pour les membres de la famille proche et élargie, puis compare les différences culturelles entre les familles occidentales et vietnamiennes, comme l'anniversaire de la mort et le nombre de générations vivant ensemble.
📘 Présentation du Nouveau Produit Linguistique
L'orateur présente son nouveau produit, 'Les 1 000 mots les plus courants en anglais', destiné aux débutants en anglais. Le produit comprend un fichier PDF et audio, avec chaque mot accompagné de la prononciation IPA, d'une phrase exemple en anglais, d'une traduction vietnamienne, et de pauses pour répéter les mots et phrases, permettant ainsi de pratiquer la prononciation.
👨👩👦 Ma Famille Immédiate
L'orateur décrit sa famille immédiate, comprenant sa mère, son père, un frère aîné, une belle-sœur, un beau-frère et une belle-mère. Il explique les termes 'step' pour désigner les membres de la famille par mariage. Il précise également les termes 'youngest child', 'middle child', et 'oldest child' pour décrire la position des enfants dans la famille.
👨👩👧 Ma Famille Élargie
L'orateur parle de sa famille élargie, en utilisant les termes 'sister-in-law', 'niece', 'nephew', 'maternal', et 'paternal' pour décrire les relations familiales. Il donne des exemples de sa propre famille, incluant des membres vivant en Angleterre, au Canada et en Italie, et explique comment les membres adoptifs sont considérés comme des parents de sang.
📚 Recapitulatif des Termes Familiaux
Récapitulatif des termes appris pour décrire la famille immédiate et élargie. L'orateur insiste sur la distinction entre 'cousin' et 'brother/sister' pour éviter les confusions fréquentes chez les locuteurs vietnamiens, et explique l'importance de ces termes pour une communication claire en anglais.
🏠 Différences Culturelles: Familles Élargies vs. Nucléaires
L'orateur compare les familles élargies vietnamiennes, où plusieurs générations vivent ensemble, aux familles nucléaires occidentales, généralement composées uniquement des parents et des enfants. Il mentionne également les différences dans la prise en charge des personnes âgées, avec une préférence pour les maisons de retraite en Occident par rapport aux soins familiaux au Vietnam.
👵 Prise en Charge des Personnes Âgées
Comparaison des méthodes de prise en charge des personnes âgées entre l'Occident et le Vietnam. En Occident, les aînés sont souvent placés en maisons de retraite, tandis qu'au Vietnam, ils vivent généralement avec leur famille. L'orateur souligne que chaque méthode a ses avantages et dépend des préférences personnelles.
👨👧👦 Implication Parentale et Attentes
L'orateur aborde les différences dans l'implication parentale et les attentes en matière de mariage entre les cultures occidentale et vietnamienne. Il note que les parents vietnamiens sont souvent plus stricts et que les enfants sont encouragés à envoyer de l'argent à leurs parents, ce qui est rare en Occident. Il mentionne également la pression pour se marier, plus présente au Vietnam.
🎂 Anniversaire de la Mort
Explication de la tradition vietnamienne de célébrer l'anniversaire de la mort d'un proche chaque année, par des prières et des offrandes, contrairement à l'Occident où il n'y a pas de célébration annuelle, mais seulement des funérailles et des visites occasionnelles au cimetière.
💬 Conclusion et Remerciements
L'orateur conclut le podcast en remerciant les auditeurs et en les invitant à laisser des commentaires pour corriger ou ajouter des informations. Il rappelle le produit 'Les 1 000 mots les plus courants en anglais' disponible dans la description et exprime sa gratitude pour le soutien de sa communauté.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡anniversaire de décès
💡famille étendue
💡famille nucléaire
💡vieillissement
💡implication parentale
💡mariage
💡frère de jumeau
💡beau-frère/ belle-soeur
💡nièce/neveu
💡oncle/ tante
💡1000 mots courants
Highlights
The podcast discusses Vietnamese family traditions and compares them with Western family cultures.
Introduction of a new product called '1,000 most common English words' for English learners.
Explanation of immediate family terms such as mother, father, sibling, and step-relatives.
Description of extended family including aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, and nephews.
Clarification of the difference between 'sibling' and 'cousin' in English.
Discussion on the living arrangements of extended families in Vietnam versus nuclear families in the West.
Comparison of elderly care practices between Vietnamese and Western cultures.
Insight into parental involvement and expectations in Vietnamese and Western family dynamics.
Observation of cultural differences in marriage expectations between the two cultures.
Explanation of the Vietnamese death anniversary tradition and its significance.
Contrast between the Vietnamese death anniversary and Western practices post-funeral.
The podcast provides a list of common English words with IPA, example sentences, and Vietnamese translations.
Pronunciation practice through audio files for each word in the '1,000 most common English words'.
Invitation for listeners to support the channel by purchasing the new product or engaging with the content.
Acknowledgment of the support received from the audience and an expression of gratitude.
Encouragement for listeners to share their cultural insights or corrections in the comments.
A reminder to check out the '1,000 most common words' product in the description for language learners.
Transcripts
every year on the lunar calendar that
the person passed away they have the
death anniversary where the family gets
together and you know does the prayers
gives the offerings of food and the
paper money and whatever that family
member liked so they can enjoy the
afterlife what's up
everyone podcast slow and Clear G what's
up
English in today's podcast you are going
to learn a ton of words and phrases to
talk about your family but also to talk
about family
traditions and things related to family
culture in Vietnam so first you will
learn
pretty much all of the words you need to
talk about your family members of your
immediate family but also your extended
family and after that we'll talk about
the differences in culture
between Western families and Vietnamese
families for example do westerners have
a death
anniversary and how many generations
live together in one house so between
Vietnamese families and Western families
there are a few big
differences about the culture and the
traditions and so today we are going to
talk about that and you will be able to
describe and talk about those things in
English but before we get to the podcast
I want to let you know about my new
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learning English then one of the most
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common foundational words of Engish
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Thousand most common words and each word
has the IPA
pronunciation an English example
sentence and a
Vietnamese translation of that example
sentence so you can see how the word is
used it also has audio files for every
single word so first I say the word and
then a pause so you can repeat the word
to practice your
pronunciation and then I say the
sentence and then another pause so
there's time for you to repeat the
sentence if that sounds useful for you
then the link to this product is in the
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watching thank you everyone for all of
your support I really really appreciate
it thank you okay so let's start the
podcast cast first you're going to learn
the words for talking about your family
like all of the members of your family
and other words to do that I'm going to
tell you about my family all right so in
my immediate family I have a mother and
a father who are both in their 60s and I
also have a sibling a sibling just means
a brother or sister so my sibling is an
older brother he's about 3 years older
than me and I also have a stepbrother a
step sister and a stepmom in English
when we put step before sister or
brother or Dad or Mom what that means is
that person is a family member who is
not blood related to you not
biologically related to you but they are
related through marriage so when I was
young my parents divorced and then my
dad got a new wife but she already had
kids and so her kids be became my step
brother and step sister and we could say
she became my stepmom to recap in my
immediate family I have a mother a
father an older brother a step sister a
step brother and a stepmom and I am the
youngest out of all of them we don't
really have a specific word to describe
the youngest child we just say the
youngest child like we don't say or
anything like that if there are three
kids and you are in the middle that
child is called the middle child and the
oldest one is the oldest child so
there's the youngest child the middle
child or the oldest child so now let's
move on to the extended family so my
brother my biological older brother has
a wife and a daughter so his wife would
be my do you know she would be my
sisterinlaw
sisterin-law so an in-law is someone
that is also related to you by marriage
so for example if you get married
to your husband or to your wife their
parents are your mother or father in-law
right if your brother or sister gets
married their spouse is your brother or
sisterin-law all right so my brother he
has a
daughter and she is my niece my niece
now if my brother had a son he would be
my nephew so your siblings children are
your nieces and nephews and to them you
are there uncles or aunts right so now
I'll talk about my extended family on my
mom's side so in Daily English you can
talk about the family on your mom's side
or your dad's side simply by saying on
my mom's side for example my granddad or
my grandfather on my mom's side or if
they are your dad's father you can say
my grandfather on my dad's side but you
can also use the word maternal which is
an adjective that means on your mom's
side or paternal which is an adjective
that means on your dad's side so your
mom's mom would be your maternal
grandmother and your dad's mom would be
your paternal grandmother maternal
paternal so now I have one remaining
grandparent who is my grandfather and
he's on my mom's side
so I have a maternal grandfather I also
have a few aunts and uncles who are my
mom's brothers and sisters and all of
them live in England because my mom is
English she was born and raised in
England as for my father's side of the
family from what I know uh I have an
uncle um and a few cousins who live in
montre all Canada and the rest of the
extended family on my father's side live
in Italy because my father was adopted
by my grandfather who was from Italy he
has now passed away but because he came
to Canada in I think the
1940s and he adopted my father in around
1960 but all of his family is still in
Italy because he's from Italy so I could
say that my grandfather he was not my
biological grandfather but we still
consider him like a blood relative I
don't consider him as any different at
all all right so that was my family
let's recap on the words we just learned
so for for your immediate family you
have a mother a father you have siblings
and your siblings are your brothers and
sisters also if one of your parents
divorced and remarried then you might
have a step brother a step sister a
stepmom or a
stepdad as for your extended family you
can have a grandmother grandfather
uh Aunts
Uncles
cousins nieces
nephews and those are the main words we
use in English so one big difference and
a mistake that Vietnamese people often
make is they call their cousin their
sister or their brother because in
Vietnamese you call them your sister or
your brother right but in English your
sister and brother is only the child of
your mother and father you have the same
mother and father your cousin is a
different word and we don't call our
cousins our sisters or brothers so
that's one thing to remember because it
can cause a bit of confusion I remember
with one of my friends she said I'm
hanging out with my sister and I said
what I thought you didn't have a sister
and she was talking about her cousin and
then I realized okay yeah your cousin so
it can cause a bit of confusion in
English all right let's move on to some
differences in Tradition and culture
between the west and Vietnam
so firstly let's talk about extended
families versus nuclear families in the
west most of the households are just the
parents and children and when the
children move out then it's just the
parents but in Vietnam many extended
families live together so there are a
lot of different Generations in one
house sometimes three even four
generations can live in the same house
with the great grandparents or something
like that and in the west that is
extremely rare so that's one thing that
is different the next point is how
westerners take care of the elderly
versus how the Vietnamese take care of
the elderly so when when someone reaches
the age of not being able to take care
of themselves in the west often people
will put that family member in a
retirement home or a nursing home and
these places if it's a good one they can
be very nice because they take care of
that family member and then they get to
live in a community
with other people who are the same age
as them so they can be around friends
and of course the family will go in and
visit them but in Vietnam usually the
elders live at home and they are taken
care of by the family so I think that's
a great way of doing it but just you
know different cultures different
societies I think it depends on the
family with how they want to do it I'm
not going to say which one I think is
better or not cuz it just depends on
what that person wants if they want to
be in a home or with their family okay
so another thing that is different
between Western families and Vietnamese
families is the parental involvement so
in Vietnam it seems like the parents are
a little more strict with their children
than in the west these days I'm not so
sure because I see a lot of parents
these days not strict with their
children at all um and then some are
very strict so it just depends also in
Vietnam it's often expected for the
children to send money back to their
parents but in the west you pretty much
never hear about the kids sending money
back to their parents as for marriage
I'm not sure if this is still very
common these days I think it is but kids
are more pressured to get married than
kids in the West for example I'm not
married and my
family will just ask me are you dating
anyone and that's about it they won't
say oh you should you know you should
find someone you should get married they
don't they never say that and most
western families don't say that they ask
am I dating anyone if I am how's it
going if not then that's it we move on
to the next part of the conversation
here's one thing I want to go over
briefly not too long but one big
difference between the west and Vietnam
Nam is in the west you have a death
anniversary in the west we don't have
this death anniversary so guys I'm not
an expert on this okay if I say
anything kind of wrong or if you want to
add more information please feel free to
leave a comment I talked with a few
friends and tried to understand this
part of Vietnamese culture as much as I
could so from what I
know after someone in your family passes
away then there will be 49 days and in
that 49 days the family maybe will go to
Temples we'll pray we'll leave offerings
for that family member because after 49
days it is decided how they will
reincarnate how their next life will be
and again I'm not an expert I've heard
there are lots of different Traditions
some do it after 49 days some do it
after a 100 days and then every year on
the lunar calendar so every year on the
lunar calendar that the person passed
away they have the death anniversary
where the family gets together and you
know does the prayers gives the
offerings of food and the paper money
and whatever that family member liked so
they can enjoy the afterlife and in the
west we do not do that we simply have a
funeral when someone passes away and
then maybe some people will go to their
grave and and leave flowers or leave
something for them but it's not a big uh
celebration I'm not sure if celebration
is the right word but it's not a big
event every year for the anniversary of
their passing all right so I don't want
to make this podcast too long but I
think we are going to end with that I
hope you learned a ton of useful words
to talk about your family and again guys
please don't forget to leave a comment
if you want to correct something I said
or if you want to tell me more about
your culture because I think in
different parts of Vietnam they might do
it differently so yeah I hope you guys
enjoyed the podcast uh check out the
Thousand most common words in the
description below and I will see you
guys in the next video goodbye
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