How to START APPROACHING WOMEN (RESULTS GUARANTEED!!)

Summary

The video script discusses the mindset required for successful social interactions, particularly with women. It contrasts the ineffective approach of a character named Jeffrey, who views women as adversaries, with the more positive experiences of the narrator and his friend Levi. The script emphasizes the importance of overcoming approach anxiety and the need to practice and build habits, rather than overthinking or setting unrealistic expectations. It encourages viewers to focus on the act of approaching and initiating conversations, viewing each interaction as a step towards improvement, regardless of the outcome.

Takeaways

• 😀 Jeffrey has a negative view of women, which hinders his ability to approach them effectively.
• 😔 Jeffrey spends time learning about approaching women but fails to take action, remaining stuck in his comfort zone.
• 😎 The speaker and his friend Levi have had success with cold approaching women in clubs, but the speaker acknowledges the importance of having the right mindset.
• 🌞 The speaker finds day game (approaching women during the day) to be relatively successful, but notes that his past mindset was a barrier to better success.
• 🤔 Overthinking and watching too many videos can lead to inaction and missed opportunities in approaching women.
• 💪 Adonis, a character in the script, is portrayed as confident and unafraid to approach women due to his physical stature and mindset.
• 🚀 The best mindset for approaching women is to focus on the act of approaching itself, rather than overthinking the outcome.
• 🏋️‍♂️ The analogy of going to the gym is used to illustrate that initial attempts may not be perfect, but consistency and practice lead to improvement.
• 🤝 Approaching women should be seen as a habit to be built, with the initial goal being to simply initiate conversation, not necessarily to achieve a specific outcome.
• 💬 The speaker emphasizes that even if the conversation is not perfect, the act of approaching and speaking is progress and should be celebrated.

Q & A

What is the main issue Jeffrey faces when trying to approach women?

Jeffrey views women as the enemy and does not see them as human beings, which leads to him never actually taking action to approach them.

What does the speaker suggest is the wrong approach to learning how to approach women?

The speaker suggests that watching videos without taking action, as Jeffrey does, is the wrong approach to learning how to approach women.

What did the speaker and his friend Levi do when they first learned about cold approaching women?

The speaker and Levi would go to clubs, speak to girls, and often end up kissing girls or sometimes bringing a girl back to sleep with.

What is the speaker's experience with day game compared to night game?

The speaker finds day game to be relatively successful, but he admits that he had the wrong mindset and overthought the process, which affected his performance.

Why does the speaker believe that many people fail to approach women effectively?

The speaker believes that people overthink the process, set the bar for success too high, and focus on the wrong aspects like the perfect script or conversation, rather than just starting the interaction.

What mindset does the speaker recommend for approaching women?

The speaker recommends a mindset where success is defined as simply approaching and speaking to women, regardless of the outcome of the conversation.

What is the analogy the speaker uses to explain the importance of starting the habit of approaching women?

The speaker uses the analogy of going to the gym and focusing on just showing up and starting a workout, even if it's not perfect, to emphasize the importance of beginning the habit of approaching women.

What is the main reason the speaker believes people should not overthink when approaching women?

The speaker believes that overthinking leads to inaction and missed opportunities, as it creates unnecessary anxiety and prevents people from starting conversations.

According to the speaker, what is the best way to overcome approach anxiety?

The best way to overcome approach anxiety, according to the speaker, is to focus on approaching as fast as possible and to accept that the first few interactions will likely be awkward or 'trash'.

What is the speaker's view on the importance of the initial conversations when approaching women?

The speaker views the initial conversations as a necessary step to build the habit of approaching and speaking to women, emphasizing that it's more important to start the conversation than to have a perfect one.

Why does the speaker compare the process of approaching women to a 'lean startup' mindset?

The speaker compares it to a 'lean startup' mindset to illustrate the importance of taking action and making progress, even if imperfect, rather than overpreparing and potentially missing out on opportunities.