How to make someone obsessed with you

Summary

In this video, the creator reveals psychological tactics that can make anyone like and even become obsessed with you. The focus is on identifying and exploiting people's emotional weak points, such as the need for validation, fear of failure, psychological trauma, and desire for attention. By recognizing these vulnerabilities in conversation, viewers can manipulate social dynamics to become the center of attention or fulfill their needs. The video explains how to use praise, reassurance, and indirect suggestions to trigger emotional responses, making people subconsciously crave more interactions with you.

Takeaways

• 😀 Understanding human behavior helps you detect emotional spikes and weak points in conversations.
• 😀 Weak points can make people obsessed with you, but they should be approached with care and responsibility.
• 😀 Indirect praise is more effective than direct compliments when trying to make someone feel appreciated.
• 😀 People with a thirst for validation seek admiration, and praise should focus on their intellect or achievements subtly.
• 😀 Fear of failure can be exploited by offering emotional reassurance and sharing success stories of others overcoming similar fears.
• 😀 Reassurance should not involve giving advice unless asked; it should focus on providing hope and emotional support.
• 😀 Psychological trauma, such as rejection, can leave people feeling inadequate, but reframing the situation can help them regain confidence.
• 😀 Exploiting someone's insecurities about rejection should be done with care, ensuring they come to conclusions themselves rather than being told outright.
• 😀 Some women may manipulate men through sexual attraction, keeping them in a cycle of chasing, which can be recognized and avoided.
• 😀 Building healthy, authentic connections is key, and the knowledge shared should be used responsibly without manipulating others for selfish gains.

Q & A

What is the main objective of the video?

The main objective of the video is to share psychological techniques that can make people like and become obsessed with you. The speaker explains how to become the center of attention and how to manipulate people's behavior by identifying and exploiting their weak points.

What are the four weak points mentioned in the script?

The four weak points discussed are: the thirst for validation, the fear of failure, psychological trauma (such as rejection), and the first for sex (manipulated by women to make men chase them).

How can you detect someone's weak point during a conversation?

You can detect someone's weak point by observing changes in their behavior, such as emotional spikes, repeated phrases, or signs of heightened emotional response. These are indicators that you have touched upon a sensitive topic or 'weak point' in their psyche.

How should praise be given to someone with a thirst for validation?

Praise should be indirect and subtle. Instead of directly complimenting someone, you can ask them for advice or opinions on a topic, which makes them feel intellectually superior and appreciated. Complimenting them indirectly through stories or casual remarks also reinforces their sense of validation.

What should you avoid when giving praise to someone seeking validation?

You should avoid giving direct compliments such as 'you look great' or 'your style is amazing.' This type of praise can appear insincere or like you're sucking up. Instead, offer praise that makes them feel valued without explicitly stating it.

What is the best way to handle someone’s fear of failure?

The best way to handle someone’s fear of failure is by offering emotional reassurance, not advice. Listening attentively and then providing stories of others who overcame similar challenges can help uplift their spirits and provide hope.

Why should advice only be given when asked for?

Advice should only be given when asked for because most people already know what to do about their problems. Offering unsolicited advice can seem dismissive or unhelpful. Instead, it's better to listen and offer reassurance.

How can you exploit someone's psychological trauma related to rejection?

You can exploit someone’s psychological trauma by framing the rejection in a way that absolves them of responsibility. For example, suggesting that the person who rejected them had personal issues or had previously rejected others can help them reframe their experience and feel better about themselves.

What is the first for sex, and how does it affect men?

The first for sex refers to the strong desire or need for sexual intimacy, which can be used by women to manipulate men. Since women have more control over sexual availability, they can use it as a tool to keep men pursuing them and doing things for them without giving them what they desire.

How does triggering someone's weak points create an addiction to your presence?

When you trigger someone's weak points, it's like giving them a drug. Their emotional responses will temporarily make them crave more, causing them to seek out your company repeatedly. Over time, they associate the feeling of validation, reassurance, or emotional connection with you, becoming addicted to your presence without realizing why.