94년생 여자가 생각하는 94년생 여자 표준
Summary
TLDR在这段视频中,十位1994年出生的女性聚集在一起,探讨了她们是否符合“平均”标准。她们讨论了年龄、身高、婚姻状况、恋爱次数、教育背景、收入和储蓄等多个方面。参与者们分享了个人的经历和感受,发现每个人对“平均”的理解都有所不同。视频揭示了社会对“平均”的期望与个人实际生活之间的差异,以及人们如何根据自己周围的环境来评估自己的“平均”地位。最终,她们意识到,尽管每个人的故事都不尽相同,但每个人都有自己的标准和生活方式,而“平均”这个概念本身并没有固定的意义。
Takeaways
- 🎉 1994年出生的女性在2022年大约28岁,她们的年龄是讨论的起点。
- 📏 讨论中提到的平均身高大约是160厘米。
- 💍 大部分参与者认为自己未婚,这可能是她们认为的平均状态。
- 💔 参与者提到自己大约谈过3到6次恋爱,这反映了她们对平均恋爱次数的个人看法。
- 💼 年收入的讨论范围从2到3百万韩元到30百万韩元不等,显示出对平均收入认知的差异。
- 🏆 参与者普遍认为自己的外貌、教育背景和收入与“平均”相比较,有的认为自己高于平均,有的认为自己低于平均。
- 📈 对于教育背景,有人认为毕业于首尔的大学是高于平均的,而有人认为四年制大学毕业才是平均标准。
- 🤔 参与者对于“平均”的概念表示疑惑,意识到“平均”是非常主观的,并且受个人环境影响。
- 👰 对于结婚的看法,虽然大多数参与者认为自己未婚是平均状态,但也有少数人已婚,认为自己是早婚。
- 💼 讨论中透露了收入的不均衡性,有些人年收入远高于其他人,这引发了对平均收入的进一步思考。
- 💰 对于储蓄,有人认为无债务即是平均,而有人则认为应该有一定的储蓄额,反映出不同的财务安全感。
- 🚦 最后,参与者意识到所谓的“平均”标准是非常个人化的,不应该用来衡量个人的生活和成就。
Q & A
根据对话内容,这些女性普遍认为自己的外貌如何?
-在对话中,多数女性对自己的外貌评价不一,有的认为自己看起来普通,有的认为自己比平均水平好看,也有的认为自己在平均水平以下。这表明外貌的评价是非常主观的。
在这些女性中,有多少人认为自己结过婚?
-在讨论中,大多数女性表示她们还没有结婚,只有一位女性提到自己在26岁时已经结婚,这在群体中属于较早结婚的例子。
这些女性对于‘平均’收入的看法是什么?
-对于‘平均’收入的看法差异较大,有的女性认为2到3百万韩元是一个平均值,而有的人则认为30百万韩元是平均年收入。此外,一位在金融行业工作的女性和一位电视节目主持人的收入远高于其他人,显示出不同行业和职位对收入有显著影响。
对话中提到的女性对于教育背景的平均标准有何看法?
-她们对于教育背景的平均标准有不同的看法。一些女性认为在首尔的大学毕业是平均水平,而另一些则认为任何四年制大学毕业都是平均水平。还有女性提到,她们的教育背景在社会中并不常见,使得她们感到自己与众不同。
在对话中,有多少次恋爱经历被认为是‘平均’的?
-在对话中,有女性提到自己有3到4次恋爱经历,并认为自己是平均水平。然而,其他人对于恋爱次数的看法不一,有的人认为更多次的恋爱经历是平均水平,而有的人则感觉自己的恋爱经历少于平均水平。
根据对话内容,这些女性是否普遍感到社会压力,认为自己需要符合某种标准?
-是的,对话中的女性普遍感到社会压力,她们在不同程度上担心自己是否符合社会对‘平均’女性的期望。她们通过与他人的比较来评估自己的位置,这导致她们有时会感到自己低于或高于平均水平。
对话中提到的女性对于个人储蓄的看法是什么?
-她们对于个人储蓄的看法各异。有的女性认为没有债务就是平均水平,而有的则认为应该有一定量的储蓄,如30到50百万韩元。在金融行业工作的女性认为,她周围的人通常有更高的储蓄额,这让她反思自己的储蓄习惯。
这些女性是否普遍认为结婚是28岁女性的‘平均’情况?
-不,她们普遍认为28岁还未结婚是比较常见的情况。只有一位女性提到自己在26岁结婚,这被认为是较早的。
对话中是否有女性感到自己完全符合所有‘平均’标准?
-根据对话内容,没有女性表示她们在所有方面都完全符合‘平均’标准。她们在不同的领域,如外貌、教育背景、恋爱经历、婚姻状况、收入和储蓄等方面,都有着不同的自我评估。
在对话的最后,这些女性是否得出了关于‘平均’的共同理解?
-没有,她们得出的结论是‘平均’这个概念在个人生活中是没有意义的,并且每个人的生活和标准都是独特的。她们认为应该坚持自己的目标和梦想,而不是调整自己去符合某个标准。
对话中提到的女性对于个人生活标准的反思有哪些?
-她们反思了个人生活标准与社会标准之间的差异,意识到社会媒体上展示的往往是被夸大或不真实的生活标准。她们讨论了如何根据自己的情况和目标来设定个人标准,而不是盲目追求社会所认为的‘平均’或‘标准’。
对话中是否有提到关于个人职业的信息?
-是的,提到了一些。有女性是喜剧演员,有的与体育行业相关,还有的心理顾问。这些信息表明参与讨论的女性有着不同的职业背景。
Outlines
😀 寻找1994年出生女性的平均标准
讨论了1994年出生的女性在28岁时可能的平均特征,包括年龄、身高、婚姻状况、恋爱次数、年收入等。参与者通过自我评估,尝试找出谁更接近这些平均特征。讨论涉及了外表、恋爱关系次数、婚姻状况和教育背景等方面,揭示了个人对“平均”的主观感受和实际社会标准之间的差异。
🤔 社会标准与个人认知的差异
继续探讨了教育背景和收入水平在个人和社会层面上的平均标准。讨论了首尔大学毕业是否为平均教育水平,以及不同人对于大学教育的看法。此外,还涉及了个人收入和储蓄情况,以及这些经济指标与个人感受和社会预期之间的关系。
💼 收入与储蓄:个人的经济状况
讨论了1994年出生的女性在职场上的收入水平,以及她们的储蓄情况。通过比较不同行业和职位的收入,参与者意识到所谓的“平均”收入可能远高于或低于她们的预期。讨论还涉及了个人对于理财和储蓄的态度,以及社会对经济独立性的看法。
📈 自我认知与社会比较
最后,参与者分享了她们对于自己是否达到“平均”标准的看法,以及这些标准如何影响她们的自我认知。讨论了个人生活选择、职业目标和个人价值观与社会平均标准之间的关系。参与者意识到,尽管社会比较是不可避免的,但最终每个人都应该根据自己的目标和梦想来生活。
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Keywords
💡平均
💡外貌
💡婚姻状况
💡收入
💡教育背景
💡自我评价
💡社会标准
💡个人生活
💡比较
💡焦虑
💡个人目标
💡职业
Highlights
平均身高大约160cm
大多数人认为1994年出生的女性目前未婚
恋爱次数在3到6次之间
年收入在2800万到3000万韩元之间
10位参与者都是1994年出生
通过外貌、恋爱次数、婚姻状况和教育背景等方面寻找1994年出生女性的平均水平
参与者对自己是否属于平均水平的自我认知差异很大
外貌的平均水平因个人投资和比较基准而异
恋爱次数的平均水平因个人经历和价值观而异
结婚与否反映了社会对年龄和婚姻的期望
教育背景的平均水平受地区和个人经历的影响
收入的平均水平因行业和个人职业发展而异
储蓄的平均水平反映了个人的消费习惯和财务管理
参与者对于“平均水平”的理解各不相同,且受周围环境影响
社会平均水平与个人实际生活之间存在显著差异
个人的生活标准和目标不应仅仅基于社会平均水平
参与者通过分享个人故事,意识到平均水平的相对性和主观性
最终认识到,每个人都是独特的,不应该用一个统一的标准来衡量
Transcripts
What do you think 'average woman born in 1994' would be like?
She would be around 28 years old, since she is born in 1994,
The average height would be around 160cm
I don't think they would be married
Would have had a relationship for 3~4 times.
5~6 times?
The income will be between 28 million to
30 million per year.
All 10 people here are born in 1994.
Oh wow.
Hello.
Hello.
Hi.
Then we will find the real average woman born in 1994 among you guys...
The first criterion will be appearance.
Please come into the circle
if you think you have the average appearance amongst women born in 1994.
Do I look ugly?
No.
I came out because I look like normal.
I think you can see such face commonly in the streets.
You look pretty though.
Nah, you look pretty.
You are above the average.
I often hear people saying I look like their friend so
I thought I was the average.
I came out because I look like an average.
Then why did you guys outside of the circle think that you're not the average?
Well, I think I invest a lot in my appearance,
So I think I am slightly
above the average, hopefully?
When I saw the one next to me I thought I was the average but
I do feel like I have some pretty aspects
so I am standing here, thinking I am above the line.
Is this, the line above the average?
I thought I was below the average so...
You are pretty, though.
Nah. There are so many pretty people.
There are so many fancy people,
and there are so many pretty people on Instagram so
I thought I was below the average.
Well... I didn't think about it as above or below
I didn't meet that many people who are taller than me.
I am not that short but the one next to me is so tall, so...
I am 174cm.
Wow, I'm jealous.
When it comes to height, our family members are small,
and I'm the average.
That's why I came out...
Does anyone want to change the position?
Help.
I guess I need to...
I feel much better.
I was a bit surprised that many people think they're on the average
although they were so pretty.
I thought they would think like
they are above the average as they're pretty but
Well, when it comes to appearance
it's so subjective so
I think it is not that meaningful to find the average of it...
If you think you had the average times of relationship amongst women born in 1994
please come into the circle.
- How many times were you in a relationship? - 3 times?
4 times for me so...
I think I'm the average.
I'm similar to her...
Do you all agree?
I think it's more.
If you have a relationship per year then...
From what age?
Hold on! Why are you laughing?
- Once a year... really? - Because I'm jealous. x2
Maybe 8 times then? Starting 20?
Right.
But when it comes to me I thought having a relationship
isn't really my thing.
Yeah, it wasn't my priority either.
But I had far less experience than the average,
and as I'm in mid to late 20s
I feel like I need to have a relationship.
I started to feel anxious from last year when I was 27.
I was like, I need to meet all kinds of guys
before I turn 30.
You know what I mean, right?
I wish I could meet one guy.
But is this about... the actual relationship?
Or does this include the vibe of it?
I'm not sure about how to define it.
Then instead of number of relationships,
do you think you're the average when it comes to marriage?
What does that mean?
So regardless of whether you got married or not
you think you're the average for those born in 1994.
- You all haven't got married, right? - I bet you haven't.
When thinking the average
I guess it's because there aren't many friends who got married...
I guess it is the average for those who are 28 years old to be not married yet
but I am married so
I'm here.
When did you get married?
When I was 26 years old.
That's so early.
- But, there are some who just did it early. - Right.
I think it's not that special or weird.
This time, if you think your educational background is the standard for those born in 1994,
please stand inside the circle.
What.
Oh my.
I don't know exactly about the social standard, but
I think I have an average educational background by myself.
Just because there are many graduates from the universities in Seoul,
so I thought that is an average.
I thought what she said was the average.
But I'm not in that category, so I thought that I'm not average…
I think her standard is high.
Because, didn't you say you graduated from a university in Seoul?
Well, there is a small number of universities in Seoul.
How many universities nationally...
So I think the person in the circle is above average.
Because I simply thought about my surroundings...
Before, I also thought that graduating university in Seoul is the average.
After I came out to society, people were surprised when I talked about my educational background
- I am curious. - I am curious.
Just above the SKY
Until the early 20s, since I have a lot of people like that around me,
I thought that I was ordinary.
But I felt a lot that going to university in Seoul is really above average.
As I listen to others, it's not the university in Seoul, but 4-year university is the average.
Because if you look at job-hunting sites,
they mostly require you to graduate from a 4-year university.
That's the qualification for even an interview.
That's what I think often.
As you mention, I always thought that 4-year university is the standard.
For me, after entering university, I dropped out.
Same here.
Met a dropped-out friend out of expectation…
Whether it's 2 years or 4 years courses,
graduating a college is
my history that I achieved for the first time as an adult, right?
First, I think it's a big deal.
Among the questions so far,
the average shown in the numbers
and social perception, the difference between them seems to be big for this one.
So, 'you should study in Seoul', the mid-ranking universities in Seoul
are considered to be the standard.
But, when you see the actual data, it's totally not true.
Just like when I was preparing to enter university, I felt like I was trapped.
I met highly educated person for the first time...
Maybe I'm below average?
When you think about the standard, you keep comparing yourself to someone.
When this person sees me, I'll be below average.
I'll be above average, like this, I think the comparison happened.
After always being with people who are similar to me,
talking with people who have various opinions,
I got surprised a little bit.
The next standard, if you think your income is the average of women born in 1994
please come inside the circle.
I don't know the salaries of common working people...
I think about 2 to 3 million won is average.
I think so too, about 30 million won annually.
I think this much would be average.
I'll go back in.
I think I'm not the average.
Actually, between friends, 'How much is your salary?',
we do not ask such thing
No matter how much million won you earn, if you spend as much as you need to spend
and save what you can, that's the standard I thought...
People back there, 'I'm not the standard.'.
What is the reason for it?
Born in 1994 means you're probably in the company for 2~3 years
I also heard about 30 million won.
In my case, because the position requires a master's degree,
I'm getting a salary of a total newbie so
I thought that I'm below standard.
Actually, I'm taking a break now and
preparing something else.
So, I'm totally below average now, when it comes to salary.
The average salary of 10 people is
about 50 million won annually.
50 million won annually?
- 50 million won? - Everybody makes a good living, don't they?
It's quite high, right?
50 million won...
I guess someone is really making a lot.
It's possible if someone is making a lot.
I think back there...
No.
Really?
Or these two?
Right.
(Awkward.)
I'm so curious about this person.
- Me? - Yes.
Actually, I'm standing outside because I think I'm above average...
Now, I'm working in the financial field…
- Of course, the financial field. - Wow.
I am a show host for a living.
Yes, so!
It's so embarrassing.
- Yes, so... - Envy her.
I'm a little bit discouraged, but I really respect it.
She makes a lot more than expected.
Because I'm a freelancer, my income for the next month
can be zero.
So the one who works in the financial field, I envied her a little bit actually.
Is the amount of money you saved up till now a standard amount for a woman born in 1994?
What's your standard?
My standard is, if you don't have debt.
It's not about how much you saved up, but with no debt and just enough for me to spend?
I thought that was the average.
I started a start-up in junior year of university
so I thought around 10-20 million won was the average.
28 is a pretty young age, though right?
I think we should spend a lot.
- Good, good. - Don't save.
I think you should have about 30 million won
That would be safe haven.
I work in finance,
so a lot of my friends ask about personal financing
And I think people around my age had more than 30-40 million won.
People around me had saved up to 40-50 million won.
they really work hard to save up.
There were people whom I thought had more than what I thought was average.
After seeing them, I thought, "Did I think wrong?"
"Is my standard too low?"
Since I am surrounded by people who are interested in saving,
recently I think, "Am I falling behind?"
"Did I not save up as much?"
I thought a lot to myself, "Am I not interested in financing enough?"
From what I have heard so far
First of all, the amount of the money sounds too remote to me.
I don't think it comes naturally to me.
When I meet up with my friends, they would talk a lot about stocks.
I can't even invest in stocks.
Because I have much more to spend on a daily basis
So when I hear friends saying, stocks start from this price and such,
"Am I not earning a lot of money?"
"How much more do I have to earn from here?"
I have those concerns.
I think the average is around there,
but I think it's hard to be on that average.
Because most people get student loans.
So if you don't have debt, it feels like you are over average.
Money that needs to be saved, or values related to assets,
It was all different for everyone.
Someone can start working in their 30s
And some can start working as a teenager,
so I think the standard is meaningless.
If you think you are the "average", as a woman born in 1994, please move forward.
One two three!
After today, I thought I'm just average.
I also thought that I'm living like an average 28-year old.
I am not insufficient, but I also don't stand out
and I'm just living a good life.
After listening to everyone,
all 10 people had different opinions.
Honestly, I have thought a lot till now
that I am below the standard
But after listening to everyone's stories, that may not be true
But this is my life, and these are my standards.
So I came to this circle because I thought it would be better
for me to live thinking that I'm the average.
First of all, I thought I was average.
But that average was just from my standpoint.
Some stories made me feel incompetent
And some stories made me feel like I am above average.
There's no set standard,
but I do want to be one of
the average people around my age.
I tend to think that
I don't want to fall behind..
I think I felt that everyone seemed to
want to check where they stand
and check if it's okay to live in the way that they are living right now
I think that was common.
Honestly, that "average" is meaningless
among individuals' lives.
And I don't think I should adjust
my thoughts to the standard.
But should maintain my goals
or dreams that I initially had.
Until now, we haven't introduced ourselves, right?
Can the three of you introduce yourself, by saying "I was born in 1994, and I'm a __."
I'm a Comedy Big League comedian,
I'm a newbie comedian.
It's been 3 years since my debut..
Comedy Big League?
I went to watch the show 2 years ago..
My occupation is related to sports.
I'm working as a psychological counsellor.
Cool.
Can I ask what your MBTI personality type is?
- I'm curious about MBTI type. - I'm so curious.
- What's your MBTI? - I'm ESFJ.
ESFJ's have great personalities.
How do you guys know right away?
Am I the only one who doesn't know?
I don't know why we are talking here right now..
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