Manifesting Love? A Relationship? What You Should Know...
Summary
TLDRIn this self-care Sunday video, Mary emphasizes the importance of not solely focusing on manifesting a specific romantic relationship while neglecting other life goals. She advises viewers to manifest multiple aspirations, such as financial or professional growth, to avoid placing undue pressure on one desire. Mary shares personal anecdotes and examples from successful individuals to illustrate the power of manifestation and encourages a balanced approach to attract not only romantic partners but also overall well-being and success.
Takeaways
- 📅 Self-care Sunday is a weekly event focused on skincare, mindset, and manifestation.
- 🔔 The importance of subscribing to Mary's channel for live interaction and timely updates.
- 🤔 The necessity of manifesting multiple goals, not just a specific person or relationship.
- 🏡 Manifestation should encompass various aspects of life, such as finance, health, and career.
- 🧠 The concept that everyone is a reflection of oneself and what one projects into the universe.
- 🌟 The power of manifestation as a tool that can bring about significant life changes.
- 🎥 Examples of successful individuals using manifestation to achieve their goals.
- 💸 Stories of people manifesting large sums of money, like a $42 million lottery win.
- 🚫 Warning against putting all focus on one manifestation to the detriment of other desires.
- ⚖️ The balance needed in manifestation to avoid creating resistance and doubt.
Q & A
What is the main theme of Mary's Self-Care Sunday video?
-The main theme of Mary's Self-Care Sunday video is the discussion of self-care, skincare, soul care, mindset, and manifestation, with a focus on the importance of not solely focusing on manifesting a specific person for a relationship.
Why does Mary suggest manifesting other goals besides a specific person?
-Mary suggests manifesting other goals to avoid hyper-focusing on one aspect of life which can lead to de-prioritizing other important aspects such as financial, physical, and professional goals.
What is the potential issue with manifesting a specific person as one's only goal?
-Manifesting a specific person as the only goal can create resistance, make it harder to manifest, and lead to doubts about the effectiveness of manifestation practices if progress is not seen.
How does Mary relate the concept of manifestation to the Law of Attraction?
-Mary relates manifestation to the Law of Attraction by explaining that many successful people have used the power of visualization and positive thinking to manifest their success, wealth, and influence.
What is the significance of the story about the person who won a $42 million lottery using manifestation?
-The story illustrates the power of manifestation and the Law of Attraction, showing that it can be used to manifest specific, even rare, outcomes like a lottery win for a precise amount.
Why does Mary emphasize not putting all her focus on manifesting her specific person (SP) during her second breakup?
-Mary emphasizes not focusing solely on manifesting her SP to avoid putting all her desires and needs on hold and to maintain a balanced approach to manifestation, which she believes helped her manifest her SP faster.
What does Mary mean by 'everyone is you pushed out'?
-Mary means that everyone we encounter is a reflection of ourselves, so if we deprioritize our own wants and needs, others will likely reflect that back to us.
What advice does Mary give regarding the balance between manifesting a relationship and other life goals?
-Mary advises not to put all one's energy into manifesting a specific person but to also manifest other goals consistently to maintain a balanced approach to manifestation.
How does Mary suggest using the power of manifestation?
-Mary suggests using the power of manifestation for multiple goals simultaneously, not just for a single outcome like a specific romantic relationship.
What is Mary's personal experience with manifestation during her two breakups?
-During her first breakup, Mary was mainly manifesting her SP without focusing much on other goals. During the second breakup, she manifested multiple goals including a new job, salary, house value increase, and friendships, which she believes helped her get her SP back faster.
Outlines
🌟 Introduction to Self-Care Sunday
Mary welcomes viewers to her channel and introduces the concept of Self-Care Sunday, a weekly event focused on self-care, skincare, and soul care. She emphasizes the importance of subscribing and engaging with her content, as she goes live every Sunday at 9:00 a.m. Pacific Time to interact with her audience. The video's topic, though unrequested, is one Mary feels her viewers need to hear, particularly those interested in mindset, manifestation, and manifesting specific relationships.
💌 Manifesting a Relationship and Other Goals
Mary discusses the importance of manifesting multiple goals beyond just a specific relationship. She suggests that viewers should also focus on other desires like financial goals, physical changes, or professional aspirations. Mary argues that hyper-focusing on one goal can lead to deprioritizing other important aspects of life. She explains that manifesting only one thing can create resistance and slow down the manifestation process, as it sets a low standard for what one believes they can achieve.
🔮 The Power of Manifestation
Mary illustrates the power of manifestation by referencing successful individuals who have used it to achieve great wealth and success. She mentions 'The Secret' and its teachings on manifestation, emphasizing that it's a tool available to everyone. Mary encourages viewers to use this tool for more than just manifesting a specific person or relationship, as it has the potential to bring about significant life changes.
📈 Balancing Manifestation Goals
Mary shares her personal experience with manifestation, highlighting how focusing on multiple goals simultaneously can lead to a more balanced and successful manifestation practice. She advises against putting all one's energy into manifesting a single person (SP), as it can create resistance and slow down the process. Instead, she suggests manifesting a handful of clear goals to give direction to the universe and avoid putting too much pressure on one specific outcome.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Self-care Sunday
💡Manifestation
💡Mindset
💡Law of Attraction
💡Specific Person (SP)
💡Hyper-focused
💡Prioritizing
💡Resistance
💡Doubt
💡Multi-dimensional
💡Peddle
Highlights
Introduction to Self-Care Sunday video series focusing on self-care, skincare, and soul care.
Encouragement to subscribe for weekly live videos at 9:00 a.m. Pacific Time.
Topic discussion on manifesting a relationship with a specific person and the importance of balancing it with other life goals.
Suggestion to manifest other goals besides a specific relationship to avoid hyper-focusing on one aspect of life.
Discussion on the concept that everyone reflects you back to you and the precedent set by your actions and desires.
Explanation of how de-prioritizing other wants and needs can affect manifestation results.
The idea that manifesting only one thing can create resistance and hinder the manifestation process.
Mary's personal experience with manifesting and how it led to a faster return of her significant person.
Advice to manifest a handful of clear goals rather than just one to avoid putting too much emphasis on a single desire.
The impact of setting a low bar for manifestation due to fear of not achieving what is truly wanted.
Mary's analogy of using an atom bomb to fight with a knife to illustrate the misuse of the power of manifestation.
The concept that when you put something on a pedestal, it becomes harder to manifest due to increased resistance.
How doubting the effectiveness of manifestation can lead to a slowdown in the manifestation process.
The importance of not putting all your desires into one area of life, such as a relationship, to avoid disappointment.
Mary's recommendation to manifest multiple goals consistently to achieve a balanced approach.
Invitation for viewers to like, comment, and request topics for future Self-Care Sunday videos.
Closing thoughts and anticipation for the next Self-Care Sunday video with skincare content.
Transcripts
hi friends welcome back to my channel if
you are new my name is Mary and I'm so
happy to have you here for today's
self-care Sunday video self-care Sunday
is the one day a week that we come
together for a little self-care skincare
and soul care to talk about all things
mindset and manifestation so if you
don't want to miss out be sure to click
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today because I am here with you live
and in person every Sunday at 9:00 a.m.
Pacific Center time to hang out as the
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stuff I will look forward to seeing you
in the next selfcare
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video so today's topic is not one that
anyone has requested but I think it's
probably one that people need y'all know
that the vast majority of topics I
release video topics that are on this
channel come from you guys like you'll
ask for it in the comments and people
are like yeah do this one and then I
just do it and everyone's happy this is
one of those that this has come up
enough in my like one-on-one Zoom
coaching sessions that I provide it's
come up enough in coaching sessions
recently that I realize if I'm having to
repeat this to a lot of my clients it
means that there are probably people who
are not getting coaching with me who
could also benefit from this information
if you're someone who's manifesting a
relationship with a specific person
whether that specific person is a
specific person it's like one dude or
duet that you got your eye on and you
are affirming for and visualizing a life
with that person or if your specific
person is just like a new relationship
that you're calling forth If you're
manifesting romantic love you know maybe
you're like in a relationship but you
want to get engaged or married or
exclusive or whatever you know if you
are manifesting romantic love this is a
message that you may need to hear if
you're especially if you're someone
who's man manifesting romantic love and
you're running into issues and you're
not seeing a lot of progress or you like
take two steps forward and 10 steps
backwards it seems this is something you
might need to hear so
okay I tell people in
videos I tell y'all stuff I think will
help you but sometimes y'all aren't
ready to hear the message so I'm going
to say say this and I want you to just
be open to this
idea if you're manifesting a specific
person a relationship with a specific
person I think that you should also be
manifesting other goals whether those
other goals are Financial right whether
it's moving to a new place a nicer
apartment or a bigger house whether it
is physical changes for your body or
professional changes maybe like right
now you're working a job and it's cool I
don't hate it but gosh I wish I could
work from home full-time right there
what I'm saying is there are other
things in your life that you want
besides this relationship ship like
there must be okay I have people who are
like nope that's it that's all I want
and it's like okay so if I offered you a
a beachfront house you know in the
Hamptons you would turn it down well no
of course not so there are other things
that that you want there other things
that interest you there are other things
that could bring you Joy besides SP
specific person right but we get hyper
focused on this one goal and suddenly
everything else that matters to us goes
out the window now it no longer matters
now that's no longer important but it is
it is it's just that you are de
prioritizing your wants and your needs
in other areas of your life so you can
just focus on just hyper fixate on
manifesting your SP but here's the thing
is everyone is you pushed out that
doesn't mean that every person walking
this planet is a one forone clone of you
it means that everyone is reflecting you
back to you reflecting the rules that
you're setting for your Universe back to
you so what kind of precedent are you
setting for your subconscious mind for
your higher self for the universe right
energetically what kind of precedent are
you setting if there are other things
that matter to you other things that you
desire other things that could bring you
Joy and you're setting those aside for
this one guy or gal suddenly like that's
all that matters if that's all that
matters in your in your Universe like
let's say you're manifesting someone and
it is a specific person and they're
rejecting you right now if all you're
manifesting is this specific person if
all that matters to you is this person
they're going to reflect that back to
you if if my needs my wants my desires
don't matter they're going to feel the
same about you ah she's fine H he don't
need it h I'll text him later
because you're setting this precedent in
your universe that your wants needs and
desires are unimportant and so everyone
must reflect those back to you and you
wonder why people aren't making you a
priority you wonder why you're not
seeing movement with your manifestation
because you've placed it on a pedestal I
just realized that selfcare Sunday and
I'm not doing skin care y'all it's been
a day we've been like working out in the
yard I just wanted to mention that cuz
my regulars will be like wait a minute
it's Sunday why don't you got a bunch of
weird stuff on your face you'll see the
weird stuff next Sunday it's been a long
day I've been out in the yard I've been
working with the horses I'm just getting
this topic out because it's important
more important than skinc care for me at
this moment apparently another thing and
and another reason I think you should be
manifesting other goals if you're
manifesting a relationship is let's talk
let's like kind of scale out let's go to
high level overview of law of assumption
Law of Attraction okay I don't know if
you dear rwer are someone
who who aligns more with the belief set
in law of assumption or if you align
more with the belief set of law of
attraction or if you land somewhere kind
of in the middle you're taking lessons
from both and just applying it in a way
that works for you regardless I'm sure
you're probably familiar with the book
and or film The Secret so basically for
maybe those of you who are not the
secret was a movie that turned into a
book later on or maybe it was a book
that turned into movie I don't know but
the person who like published The Secret
basically they were going through and
interviewing all of these really famous
really successful really influential
people really rich freaking people and
they were interviewing them and asking
them about like what was your biggest
contributor to success what was your
biggest secret and every person was
talking about
manifestation about how they consciously
manifested all of their success and
wealth and influence all of it even the
most like successful athletes in the
world you'll hear them giving interviews
and it's like how did you get to be so
good they're like I visualized it I
pictured I'd lay there and I would just
picture myself getting the championship
oh I would just picture myself right
that's visualization that's
manifestation a lot of people don't want
to say I manifested it because then like
it sounds like you're cocky or you don't
think you had to work for it or that
like maybe you'll take off like upset
the religious people so a lot of people
don't want to say manifestation but when
you hear them describe it it's
manifestation a lot of the most famous
and successful actors actresses singer
like all these
people used the secret the secret to
their success is manifestation right
even books that are old old old like
Think and Grow Rich it's talking about
in a lot of ways manifestation right so
so you have this
tool manifestation right I'm I'm just
going to call it a tool whether you
consider it a tool or energy or just
something natural within us that occurs
it's as natural as breathing you have
this tool that you can tap into of
manifestation you viewer have this
knowledge that a lot of other people
don't okay like no one else in my family
practices this they know I do I got a
whole ass you YouTube channel about it
but none of them do it they're like oh I
don't need that that's not good that's
just Sil I mean good for you but that's
just silly meanwhile they're like up to
their eyeballs and credit card debt they
have horrible Health they're miserable
declared bankruptcy multiple times and
and yet I'm like the kooky one for
believing that aligning my thoughts with
my desires will help me to achieve them
crazy concept the vast majority of
people either don't know about this or
don't follow it and that's why the vast
majority of people don't reach the
levels of success that you see like the
dude who started the like Chicken Soup
for the whatever Soul book series it's
like multi-billion dollar book
Monopoly was interviewed for the secret
I think or maybe it was a different book
but he was interviewed for a book and he
was talking about you guys tell me which
book it was I know you know he was
talking about using the Law of
Attraction manifestation positive
thinking to Manifest this amazing life
so like these people what I'm saying is
these people are on to something these
people are tapping into this tool to
manifest
unimaginable wealth success and
influence okay you've got like the
chicken soup dude you've got these
successful athletes there's this one
story I love to reference look it up on
Google I don't know the name of the
person but there was someone who used
the law of attraction to manifest it was
like a $42 Million Lottery Win where
they said found out about Law of
Attraction and they were like I'm going
to manifest a lottery win and what do I
want to be and they were like $42
million and they wrote it on a piece of
paper and they slept with it under their
pillow every night and they would just
like affirm for it visualize it and they
were like sleeping with it under their
pillow to almost like kind of just I
don't know osmosis slink sink it into
their brain $42
million one do you know how rare it is
to win the lottery
two not only did this person win the
lottery but it was for the exact amount
that they manifested never have to work
again so I'm giving you these examples
you're like what does this have to do
with an S Mary stay on this ride with me
I'm giving you the these examples to
show you how powerful of a tool
manifestation is so you have access to
this
unimaginably powerful tool that can
manifest tens of millions of
dollars and the the only thing that
you're doing with it right now is trying
to manifest a text message are you
serious right now and some of you this
message you're going to go no I'm using
it for other things Mary why are you
yelling at me but some of y'all need to
get yelled at right now because this is
the truth you have access you have this
knowledge that most people are oblivious
to that most people could not could not
have the the intelligence
the awareness the the Deep connection to
all that is to be able to go oh [ __ ]
manifestation this is something I can do
oh my gosh and manifest all most people
could never do what you're doing right
now so I'm not saying don't manifest SP
but the reason I'm telling you to
manifest other things is you have access
to this
powerful tool and you're using it to
manifest a text message and that's
that's it you've set the bar so low for
your Universe because you're afraid if
you set it any higher you won't possibly
be able to achieve what you actually
want so you're taking this
huge
powerful concept thing energy tool
whatever and you're manifesting this
it's like you're taking a knife to a
fight with an atom bomb okay it's this
huge thing and you're lowering this bar
and lowering your standards and because
everyone is you pushed out this th this
low value life this low value
relationship these low value standards
are all you're going to manifest because
you're not raising the bar this is why I
tell people manifest a few different
things you don't have to go crazy and go
oh my gosh Mary's right I should
manifest 50,000 things like no give some
clear directions to your Universe hey I
got this handful of things man let's get
let's get moving on this let's make it
happen manifest a few things at once
okay but don't manifest just one thing
cuz when you're manifesting just one
thing you're putting that one thing on
the pedestal and then the more time that
goes where you're not seeing movement on
the one and only thing you're
manifesting the more that you start
start to stop believing okay that was a
weird way to say the more that you start
doubting there we go whether or not
manifestation is real because you're not
giving yourself anything else to go on
so as you're going forward you have this
on a pedestal so you're just manifesting
one thing by manifesting only one thing
even though there are other things you
want you put this thing on a pedestal
when you put something on a pedestal it
becomes harder to manifest because
you're creating resistance because it's
on a [ __ ] pedestal okay sorry I
cussed it was necessary so it becomes
harder to manifest because you have it
on this pedestal and everyone is you
pushed out so if your wants needs and
desires come last in your life then
suddenly they come last to this person
up here on the pedestal as well and now
you're seeing resistance in your
manifestation now it's taking longer to
manifest now you're not seeing a lot of
movement then you go wait a minute is
manifestation even real and you start to
doubt it you start planting those seeds
of doubt in your mind guess what those
will manifest so now your manifestation
slowing down even more and then you
start desperately going how is this
happening oh my God so you start
doubling down maybe I'm not affirming
enough maybe I'm not vising enough maybe
I need to try harder maybe I need to do
more and up up up up up the pedestal
goes meanwhile you hate your job your
apartment sucks your sister's mad at you
your breath stinks your your booty looks
like a pancake and you want it to be a
bubble I don't know like you have other
things that matter to you that you want
to manifest but you're setting all those
aside and you're just thrusting this
person up higher higher higher higher
higher on the
pedestal where they become harder harder
harder harder harder for you to actually
reach in the 3D y'all let me know if
this is making sense okay so I don't
like I don't want to take up a lot of
your time I want to give you this little
nugget I want to give you the one two
and then leave you to like really think
about this if you are manifesting a
relationship with a specific person are
you a manifesting other things other
goals and be doing it consistently or
are you spending 90 95% of your time
manifesting SP well Mary said I have to
manifest multiple goals so okay I'm
going to have 20 affirmations for ESP
and two for me and that's balance baby
like no that is not a balanced approach
to manifestation you are short changing
yourself in the other areas of your life
when I was manifesting my SP we went
through two breakups the first breakup I
was like manifesting him I don't
remember how much I manifest other
things I don't think it was much the
second time around second breakup I was
like okay I'm manifesting a new job I
want this kind of salary I want this
kind of stuff I want this this this I I
want my house to go up this much in
value and I want to have you know these
kind of friends and you know whatever
and I got those things right and my SP
and it and I I feel like I got my SP a
hell of a lot faster than I would have
if I wasn't manifesting those other
things because I got him back and then
we were engaged within like 6 months and
then we were married a couple months
later because I didn't have him I didn't
have our relationship our happily Ever
After on a pedestal I had it kind of
level set with everything else like I'm
a multi-dimensional human and so are you
I'm I'm not I'm not onedimensional I'm
not just like the person who's with this
person right I there's so much more to
me than just my marriage and and that's
like the biggest part of my life it's
not the only part of my life so to to
remove your SP from that pedestal
manifest other goals okay I hope this
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this is like back in the 90s when I was
a kid and you could call into a radio
station and be like I want to hear
Mariah Carey Vision of Love is that a no
is is that a Mariah Carey song am I
making that up anyway we're going to go
there I want hear Mari Carey visional
love and sometimes they wouldn't play it
and you're like well damn I really
wanted to hear that but sometimes they
did and you're like wellow I requested
that right that's how I get videos out
y'all I told you it was a long day I
spent all day in the sun I'm getting
Delirious at this point so I'm going to
go I will look forward to seeing you in
the next video next self-care Sunday
I'll have some stuff on my face I
promise all right bye friends
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