These habits will make you MAGNETIC
Summary
TLDRThis video focuses on developing confidence, charisma, and becoming 'magnetic' by embracing positivity and proactive social engagement. The speaker, Denmo, highlights the importance of liking yourself, interacting with others, and creating contagious energy. He shares personal experiences and offers advice on how to build social momentum by approaching strangers, making friends, and fostering confidence. Denmo also promotes his Socializer School program, which aims to help men improve their social skills, attract relationships, and enhance their overall quality of life by becoming more confident and charismatic.
Takeaways
- 😀 Magnetic people have contagious energy, making others feel good and attracting attention.
- 💬 Being magnetic isn't just about charm—it's the ability to confidently interact with others and influence your environment.
- 🧲 Confidence, charisma, and energy are key components of becoming attractive and magnetic to others.
- 🔑 The first step in becoming magnetic is liking yourself, which reflects in how others perceive you.
- 🌟 Confidence can be built by practicing small positive interactions with strangers and embracing positive momentum.
- 👁️ Making eye contact, smiling, and engaging with people sets the tone for positive interactions and boosts confidence.
- 🎯 People often let negative experiences and self-doubt weigh them down, preventing them from building confidence.
- 🏋️ Building confidence requires action—getting out of your comfort zone, talking to strangers, and being bold.
- 🎉 Having a positive attitude, regardless of the external environment, creates opportunities for good experiences and connections.
- 💪 To grow in confidence and charisma, it's important to not only focus on oneself but also help friends and peers break out of their comfort zones.
Q & A
What does the term 'magnetic' mean in the context of the video?
-In the context of the video, 'magnetic' refers to a person's ability to attract others through charisma, confidence, and contagious positive energy.
How can someone become more 'magnetic' according to the speaker?
-Someone can become more magnetic by building confidence, engaging with others through eye contact and conversation, maintaining a positive outlook, and taking control of their social environment.
Why do people often feel the opposite of being magnetic, according to the speaker?
-People often feel the opposite of being magnetic when they don't like themselves or their current situation. This self-perception creates a mindset where they believe others don't like them either.
What role does environment play in becoming magnetic?
-The speaker emphasizes not letting the environment influence your mood or behavior. Instead, it's important to be the one influencing the environment with positive energy, regardless of external factors like weather or surroundings.
How can past experiences affect a person's confidence and charisma?
-Past experiences, whether positive or negative, shape a person's self-perception. Successful social interactions build confidence, while negative ones can create fear or reluctance to engage in new experiences.
What is 'Socializer School,' and how does it help people?
-Socializer School is a program designed to help men become more confident, attractive, and magnetic. It includes courses, coaching, and structured exercises to improve social skills, especially in approaching strangers and building relationships.
Why do many men struggle with talking to strangers, especially women?
-Many men struggle with talking to strangers, particularly women, due to fear of rejection, insecurity, and lack of experience in social situations, which the speaker aims to address in the video.
How does momentum contribute to building charisma and magnetism?
-Momentum builds charisma and magnetism by stacking small wins throughout the day, such as engaging with others positively, receiving compliments, and confidently interacting with people, which reinforces a positive self-image.
Why is it important to treat everyone, including attractive women, like normal people?
-Treating everyone, including attractive women, like normal people helps desensitize social interactions and removes the pressure of trying to impress. It allows the individual to remain confident and natural, which is more attractive.
What final advice does the speaker give about becoming magnetic?
-The speaker advises to actively engage in situations that build social confidence, maintain a positive attitude, and eventually help others develop these skills. The key is to take action, build momentum, and stay consistent in practicing these habits.
Outlines
😊 Understanding Magnetic Energy
The video begins by introducing the concept of magnetic energy, highlighting how certain individuals exude contagious energy that attracts others. The speaker uses examples from personal experiences to explain how some people, such as bartenders or outgoing friends, possess this magnetic charisma. The speaker emphasizes that this quality allows these individuals to thrive socially and professionally. He also shares how his own magnetic personality helped him build connections and go viral on social media.
😕 Why You Aren’t Confident Right Now
The second paragraph dives into the reasons why men, especially young men, may not feel confident or magnetic at the moment. The speaker suggests that the lack of confidence isn't solely due to past events but is more about self-perception. If a person believes they are disliked, they will manifest that belief. Conversely, if they act confidently and positively toward others, they will attract similar energy. The speaker asks the audience to reflect on their behaviors, such as avoiding eye contact or staying on their phones, which may indicate a lack of self-like.
🌟 Stacking Wins and Building Momentum
In this section, the speaker discusses how positive interactions throughout the day can create momentum that boosts confidence. Small wins, such as receiving compliments or making someone laugh, build up and reinforce a positive self-image. This momentum makes it easier to approach new people, including potential romantic interests, with confidence. The speaker emphasizes the importance of maintaining a positive attitude regardless of the environment, encouraging viewers to influence their surroundings rather than being influenced by them.
💪 Taking Action to Develop Magnetic Qualities
The speaker discusses the importance of actively putting oneself in social situations to develop confidence and magnetic qualities. He explains that many men avoid talking to strangers, especially women, due to fear or lack of experience. The speaker promotes his 'Socializer School' program, which helps men overcome these barriers, learn to be more confident, and build social circles. He stresses that consistent positive interactions lead to greater confidence and social magnetism, which can transform both personal and professional lives.
🎯 How Confidence Leads to Magnetic Attraction
The final paragraph outlines how confidence gained through social experience leads to being attractive and magnetic. The speaker explains that confidence comes from past successful experiences and that men need to expand their reference points beyond limited, negative encounters. He encourages viewers to take action, learn new skills, and practice social interaction. The speaker also highlights the role of accountability and support, suggesting that his 'Socializer School' offers structured guidance for personal development. Finally, he urges viewers to share their newfound confidence with friends and help them break out of their comfort zones.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Magnetic
💡Confidence
💡Momentum
💡Self-respect
💡Influence
💡Charisma
💡Social Circles
💡Rejection
💡Mindset
💡Self-improvement
Highlights
Being magnetic is about having contagious energy that draws people to you.
Magnetic people are confident, talk to everyone, and make others feel good.
Confidence comes from past experiences, like making someone laugh or making new friends.
Young men today often suffer from loneliness and lack of charisma, which affects their personal relationships.
Men should focus on improving how they view themselves in order to become more magnetic.
Walking with a smile and making eye contact can influence how others perceive you.
Not letting your environment influence your mood is key to developing a magnetic personality.
Daily positive interactions and momentum build confidence and attractiveness.
Treating others with confidence and respect, including women, is essential to forming genuine connections.
Confidence isn't about perfection but being bold and acting in situations, even if imperfect.
Learning to talk to strangers can help improve social confidence and reduce fear of rejection.
Taking action and putting yourself in new social situations leads to personal growth and charisma.
Confidence in social situations spills over into other areas of life, including business and career.
Influencing your friends positively by leading them out of bad habits can enhance your social circle.
Building charisma and magnetism can lead to better relationships, friendships, and even career opportunities.
Transcripts
if you watch this video you will feel
more confident more attractive and more
magnetic now what does that even mean
right magnetic you see this term thrown
around a lot on the internet and I'm
sure if you've had a lot of friends
throughout your life you can identify
that one person that you consider to be
magnetic right like I want you to think
right now who is that one person that
every time you're around them they just
have such contagious energy you know
they're in a great mood they're happy
they're talking to everybody they make
you feel good usually it's like a funny
guy like an Italian dude and you know
you know he has like a family of 50
people so ever since he was a kid he's
just been talking to people all the time
right I know a lot of guys that work in
the service industry such as bartenders
and servers they're also really good at
this and then there's also the classic
version of like you know the slease ball
the car salesman the guy that like you
don't really trust cuz he's full of
and he's always yapping his mouth right
but for whatever reason all of these
people are able to get through life
based on one quality alone and that is
being magnetic now I actually talk about
something similar in a lot of the videos
on this channel if this is your first
time watching me my name is denmo and I
spent years doing videos where I would
do interviews social experiments pranks
pickup lines and I noticed that a lot of
the people that watch my videos sure
they'd find them funny but one of the
main reasons they watched is because I
was able to go and talk to girls with
such confidence and I was that guy that
was magnetic I could make people laugh I
was able to make new friends meet
strangers and just make people feel good
and once I got good at this I got
addicted to it I'm like I need to do
this constantly and that's how I kept
going viral making videos and the side
effect of this in my personal life was
that I was able to build so many good
friend groups I was able to date some
amazing women and just have some really
good experiences and now I want to share
all that with you because as of 2024 and
for the last couple of years really
young men and men of all ages have just
been suffering so much because of their
lack of Charisma their loneliness and
there's a lot of reasons that we can get
into as to why young men are lonely but
do we really need to why not just get a
solution right whether your house burned
down or you were wrongfully accused of
something you didn't do or you got fired
from your job or you went bankrupt or
you just got your heart devastated from
getting broken up with whatever it is
you probably know that feeling of like
the opposite of being magnetic you know
people kind of look away from you they
don't want to hang out with you because
you don't want to hang out with yourself
and that's kind of what we're going to
get at here right so I'll go over some
strategies but first before we talk
about how you can get back to being
confident attractive magnetic let's talk
about why you aren't right now because
obviously man you'd like to be confident
you'd like to feel good you'd like to
feel that people like you and enjoy
spending time with you but you don't
right now and one of the common reasons
for that isn't necessarily because of
you know whatever you've gone through in
the past right but it's more about like
how you look at life right now when you
don't like yourself you assume nobody
else does either right because as much
as we pretend that we don't care what
other people think we do okay if I think
nobody likes me then I'm going to
manifest that and feel that okay but if
I think that everybody does like me I'm
going to also manifest and feel that now
for example when you walk around are you
looking people in the eye smiling saying
hi to them ask them how their day is
going or are you not making eye contact
you're kind of looking down you're like
on your phone you don't really want to
say hi to a stranger I don't even know
who this person is or whatever you know
which person of those two people I just
described likes
themsel think about it yeah that's what
I'm saying man most people walk around
and carry themselves like they don't
like themselves okay whereas if you're
confident you do feel like hey I want to
talk to everybody because I want to
share this with everybody this energy I
have now remember earlier when I was
telling you hey think about that one
person you know that's just super
contagiously charismatic fun to be
around they make you laugh laugh they
make you feel good right comment down
below who they are write down their name
their like you know not their full name
or whatever but be like this is my one
friend Jimmy you know he's always
organizing Hangouts he always shows up a
little bit late and we kind of make fun
of him for it but he's always in a good
mood he's always got some funny story I
used to work with a million of these
guys in the trades okay and that's what
makes the trades fun for a lot of us
obviously we don't like you know
hammering Nails in the wood all day but
what we do enjoy is is the Baner the
jokes with the other guys and that's why
people will stay in a job for years that
they don't really care about because the
people are just so fun to be around
right and we're going to kind of focus
on those qualities here so once you
decide
okay if I don't like myself then nobody
else is going to like me too the only
solution left is to like yourself and I
know that if you're like me you're one
of those High achiever types where
you're like no no no I got to work 15
hours a day it's not perfect it's not
done you know like guys even though I
upload so frequently I used to be a
perfectionist I used to only upload
videos that I thought was perfect and
was going to do well and if the video
didn't do well I was like oh my God I'm
a failure you know that's one of the
issues with being a YouTuber guys you
upload a video it gets 100,000 views or
whatever you get like a high you're like
oh oh my god it feels good like I
remember I used to do videos when I was
doing like pranks and when stuff
was just going viral I would get
millions of views on certain videos I
would literally feel high I'd be walking
around all day confidently knowing wow
millions of people love me you know tens
of thousands of people are liking my
comments and stuff like this was a crazy
feeling but then you set such a high
standard that once you put up a video
and it only gets 30,000 views you're
like oh my God have I fallen off what's
wrong with me you know and this is kind
of how we are in real life but the
metrics are just a little different okay
okay so a good day would be like wow I
went down the street it was sunny
outside somebody complimented me on my
shirt they said that's a nice shirt I
was like Hey thank you and then I was in
a good mood and then I saw somebody that
I'm friends with and I said hi to them
and I had a short conversation I made a
joke and they laughed oh man that's two
wins so far you're just subconsciously
you're stacking up wins then you run
into a girl and you're like oh this
girl's attractive I kind of want to go
meet her and talk to her you go and say
hi hey what's up you're cool you're
making jokes about her you already
talked to some other people that day you
guys are bantering back and forth she's
in a good mood too and you know you're
just this stranger to her but you're
making her feel good because you have
this magnetic vibe to you and then the
two of you talk you're like hey we
should like go grab coffee or something
sometime you want to take my number and
then you exchange numbers now you go
home and your your phone is like burning
a hole in your pocket you're like holy
man I got this hot girls number I'm
going to text her we're going to we're
going to have babies you know
and you start to think about all this
and and that's what a great day is
that's what momentum is okay but do you
see how it didn't just start with like
you talking to that girl you want to it
actually started way before then it
started with you being like you know
what I'm dope you leave your
house you're in a good mood you know
because you're reacting to your
environment it's sunny outside and
you're like yeah you know what
sunlight's awesome even if it's
rainy outside especially when it's rainy
people are walking around all mopy Dopey
I walk around with a huge smile on my
face I don't give a I'm not going
to let this environment influence me and
that's the next thing that you need to
realize don't let your environment
influence you who gives a what the
weather is like okay you still got to
work out you still got to put a smile on
your face you still got to go to work
you still got to breathe and drink water
and eat food and all day okay not
to go random there but again don't let
your environment influence you be the
one that influences the environment I'm
not saying you smiling is going to make
the sun come out and the rain stop but
what I'm saying is you are indifferent
to the environments okay and then people
pick up on this if I'm walking down the
street and I see somebody and they got a
smile on their face and they're wearing
a shirt that I think is cool I'm going
to be like congrats bro your shirt's
awesome nice shirt dude hey have a good
day but if I'm walking down the street
and I see a guy and he's got a
mopy doy look on his face and he has a
shirt I might be like well he's he's
probably not in a good mood he doesn't
want me to talk to him that's a lie
everybody wants to be talked to that's
the the thing we feel like ever since
we've been conditioned in school and by
our parents telling us to shut up that
people don't want to hear us talk right
do you know how many times I've been
told that when I was a kid jokes on them
now millions and millions of people have
listened to me talk online but like we
have this weird condition where we just
assume people are minding their own
business and they don't care let me ask
you this if you're walking down the
street and someone comes over with a
smile and it's like hey man what's up
how you doing dude your jacket looks
fire bro where'd you get that cool have
a good day man you're going to be like
hey yeah it's a nice jacket right
and often times you don't have a denmo
to walk up to you and say hi give you a
high five right so you have to be that
person and that's what I'm saying if
other people around you aren't like you
you need to be that person and then
influence them to be more like you
because I'm telling you right now
everybody would rather be
confident attractive and magnetic than
sad boring and safe okay and this is
what's going to make women attracted to
you you when you're that guy that's
going out there talking to everybody
making friends smiling laughing being
chill you're going to be desensitized to
talking to guys which means when you see
a girl and you're like wow that girl's
cute I kind of want to go talk to her
you're not going to care about the fact
she's a girl you're not going to care
about whether she's cute you're not
going to care about oh she might reject
you you're just going to be like that's
another human being it may as well be a
dude you're talking to and you're going
to car yourself that way and again women
love this energy they love when you talk
to them like a normal person because so
many guys talk to women like they're on
a pedestal all right just like
so many dudes talk to their bosses like
they're on a pedestal and this is why
you don't get promoted and you get kind
of treated like a dmat so first you need
to respect yourself then you need to
talk to strangers say hi to them bring
the good vibe okay if you want everybody
else to be happy and treat you the way
you want to be treated then you need to
start the interaction that way you need
to kick it off with a strong bold first
impression so that's the next thing
three just actively put yourself in
these situations I have a program it's
called socializer school and in this
program I teach a lot of people how to
be attractive how to be magnetic and how
to be confident especially approaching
and talking to strangers that's our
whole specialty because the number one
thing that men struggle with is they
don't want to go and talk to girls in
real life they don't want to join groups
or classes or whatever to put themselves
into a new environment where they're
around other people they don't want to
talk to a group of strangers in public
guys are just so scared of talking to
strangers and avoiding girls and because
of that I made a whole course for it and
I've helped thousands of guys get into
relationships get Social Circles and
when you have this ability in your life
to be confident to be attractive to be B
Mantic it is just lifechanging it's like
the best analogy I can give is every day
is your birthday the sun is shining and
you're just making money okay and I'm
not saying it's going to help you make
money I mean it has helped a lot of guys
make money right like in socializer
school we also have a thing called
two-hour tuber it's a course and it's
it's a lot longer than two hours long
it's called that because basically it
teaches you how to make a bunch of money
as a YouTuber talking to the camera like
this for about two hours a day of work
right and if you don't believe me like
again I've held your attention this
entire video there isn't a single edit
here I don't have a script I'm just
recording this off the Dome because I've
been doing this for years and I've
helped so many people with it and that
is what gives me confidence to speak
about it and this is kind of the last
lesson for you here okay confidence is
essentially your past experiences that
have went well all right a good analogy
here is if you have made somebody laugh
before you know that you can make
another person laugh and if you make a
couple people laugh then you could come
to the conclusion that you are funny
okay however what tends to happen is
people make the opposite they go well
I've only ever had shitty jobs so I'm
only going to ever have shitty jobs in
the future and that weighs on you right
well last time I went and talked to a
girl she said she had a boyfriend so I
assume every other girl is going to too
again I don't want to talk to girls
anymore and then that weighs on you and
this is what I mean guys whether it's a
good experience or a bad experience it's
going to just weigh on you and hold you
down so for those of you guys that are
like well I've talked to a bunch of
girls and you know they said I have a
boyfriend I'm not interested okay but
did you talk to them the right way you
know did you go through the socializer
course that I have did you work with a
coach did you actually talk to a lot of
girls because again a lot of guys
they're like yeah I I spent one night
going out I was hammered and I just
approached girls all drunk and or I
talked to like one girl at the grocery
store in the last three months and it's
like okay so your reference point is
this small little thing that you're Now
using as an excuse as to why you're not
improving why you're not trying anymore
you know and this isn't just dating but
it's just that dating is such a
fundamental part of a human's experience
on this planet right you want girls to
like you so that you can get into a
relationship you want to have sex you
want to be able to go to concerts and
have somebody to bring with you and
dance with you you know you know
when you meet somebody and they have the
same interest in music in you instantly
you're just like hell yeah we can go to
concerts together we can go to festivals
together we can watch like the same
Netflix series or whatever humans love
doing this stuff you know same thing
with making friends oh we can go to the
gym together oh you guys watch UFC too
we could watch the fights this week
weekend or whatever right that is what
I'm saying this is something that is
such a fundamental need and guys are
willing to like work on everything else
except this because at the end of the
day what it comes down to is one you
usually have to spend some money you
know if you want to work with a coach if
you want to join socializer school and
work with our coaches go through our
programs yeah of course it's going to
cost you money right and two you're
going to have to actually take action
you're going to have to actually do
stuff because it's easy to watch these
videos and be like like well you know
what I feel confident now denmo I got
this I hope you do man I hope that you
watch this video and you're like you
know what I don't need to join
socializer school I'm just going to go
with a big smile on my face
ignore my environment regardless of how
shitty it is and be the one that brings
that energy in get addicted to momentum
and talk to people you know you could do
all that right after this video and I
hope you do but the problem is most guys
don't they have the ability to but it's
just like well who's going to hold me
accountable that's where socializer
school comes we got the courses all
labeled we got homework and assignments
so that you can literally like actually
have your progress tracked and there's
weekly calls with coaches so you can
actually get help one-on-one advice and
feedback and there's thousands of videos
of me approaching and talking to girls
in there as well so you can actually see
me do it step by step and again my point
is with this video off the cuff no
script just winging it right now is when
you talk to enough people you get these
good experiences back that's what gives
you confidence and then when you're
confident you become attractive and then
when you're confident and attractive you
become magnetic and people just
seemingly flow into your life every time
you enter a room people look over at you
you look back and it's so much easier
for you to talk to them you're able to
just make friends super easily you feel
good all the time and this momentum
often carries into your business life or
your career or even if you're watching
this right now and you're already
happily in a relationship this could
make it better and that's what I mean
you need to do the things I explained to
you in this video but if you need help
with them if you need a personalized
coach a course a system to follow you
could check out socializer School in the
description but this is how you become
confident attractive and magnetic and
please man once you do know how to do
this you need to help others with this
your friends that have bad habits they
stay in on weekends they don't want to
go out they don't want to start that
business they don't want to join that
soccer team they don't want to step out
of their comfort zone you need to be the
one that leads them out of that hole
that they're stuck in right now which
usually looks like a bedroom with a big
old computer screen watching YouTube and
just wasting away the prime years of
your life so please man watch this video
as many times as you need to but that's
how you become magnetic I believe in you
man don't let me down
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